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Are women really shaming men for opening up to them? : TwoXChromosomes

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>women dont do that. Its male lie
>but lot of men dont know how to talk about feelings
>they trauma dump and that's ick
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Men don't respect other men crying, and they're projecting that onto women. I've never heard a woman run away from a man opening up to them. But what I have noticed is that a lot of men confused trauma-dumping with being vulnerable. Trauma-dumping would turn me off. Actual vulnerability, crying, and opening up would make me feel closer to my partner.
Women are such a fricking meme.
“I'm not turned off by emotional men, but there's a difference between being emotional and trauma dumping. I'm just turned off by trauma dumpers and a lot of men are trauma dumpers”
“I don't hate black people, but there's a difference between being black and being a BIPOC. I just hate BIPOCs and a lot of those people are BIPOCs.”
They don't even care about the implicit meanings or logic behind anything they say or do, they just try to find the most pseudoeloquent therapy speak way to express their feelings as justified and then act like it's a proven, indisputable scientific fact that their feelings are justified by virtue of having been expressed in pseudoeloquent therapy speak.































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Men don't respect other men crying
lol this is such bullshit
men are somehow infinitely more respectful and comforting of other men crying. maybe because usually men don't cry over every little thing so perhaps they see it as "if he's crying openly then it must be something very serious"
but yes, sometimes men will tell you to man up and stop crying, because sometimes that's what you need to hear
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sometimes men will tell you to man up and stop crying, because sometimes that's what you need to hear
Brutal truth is that a lot of times bro's just got to get his shit together before he goes home to his girl or before his girl's bestie shows up to the bar and sees him crying over his dead dog. There are a few chicks who legit don't mind that shit and who will hold strong against the social pressure of the other foids they know who do, but I ain't going to let one of my buddies find out the hard way if his girl isn't one of them if I can help it.
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Yeah strag foids aren't a monolith on this. Some want a strong macho guy and others want to be their man's caretaker.































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I never move my face muscles but I shed a lot of tears at cute endings. My last gf actually liked it but I was really good at being a complex tortured soul.































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Trauma-dumping would turn me off. Actual vulnerability, crying, and opening up would make me feel closer to my partner.
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Is “trauma dumping” some new lingo for emotional venting (desabafo, I might be mind translating it literally)?
In other words TwoXers don't give a frick about men's problems, they want submissiveness and meekness. I particularly hate the obsession with “vulnerability”, no one in their sane minds wants to feel vulnerable, predatory narcissists like to appear vulnerable to gain social points and attention.
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Trauma dumping is the therapy speak way to justify why men being vulnerable gives them the ick and is unacceptable while still being able to call men toxic for staying guarded and stoic.
It gives them a way to say it's all men's fault they're emotionally repressed and bottle up their feelings while also letting them weasel out of the accountability of the fact that the never ending guarded stoicism is a mating strategy developed to appeal to foids. They don't even want their men to actually be vulnerable or meek or anything like that, they just want to have the social capital of being accepting of vulnerable men while also having a perfectly valid social excuse to why they're unaccepting of men who actually show that vulnerability. Think of like when they do those street interviews and ask the foids if they'd take a refugee into their home and they gleefully say “of course!” and then start coming up with ten thousand excuses why they can't when the interviewer introduces them to Muhammed.
There's a reason why the majority of men who feel comfortable showing vulnerability are queers or virgins.































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they want submissiveness and meekness.
They think they want that, but they don't.































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I think earlier in the episode one of Don's staff (Sal lol) gave a similar response and Don chewed him out as useless.
People say it's a foidshow but it reveals women's inferiority complex with respect to men and shows how much they idolize us. The whole show is a love letter to daddy issues.































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They will try like crazy to get it, but if they succeed, they will friendzone or run a mile.
It seems to be biologically programmed. ‘Shit test' is actually a useful concept































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It's emotional venting outside of the scheduled (schedule TBD) emotional vent time.
>In other words TwoXers don't give a frick about men's problems,
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No. They want men who r*pes them every day and is cold but dependable.
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"Trauma dumping" is Foid for overdoing it, basically. It's not exclusively about moids either, foids accuse each other of it all the time. You're "trauma dumping" if you're excessively whiny and sobby about everything and wanting someone to drop everything to comfort you, not if you're just crying bc your dog died or something.
I'm sure neighbors misuse the frick out of the term but that's what it's supposed to mean.































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I be trauma dumping to foids sometimes. It's pretty much always me working through my own shit out loud. I don't want their emotions or any of their input and would be having the same conversation with myself if they weren't there































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then why don't you just do it when they aren't there? :marseythinkorino:































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Cause they gave me cocaine and it's impossible to not say whatever I'm thinking about































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Reasonable!































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