Men are far behind in building good friendships and being a good enough person that people would even want to be friends with them in the first place.
This runs exactly counter to my own experiences. I think male relationships are actually vastly more stable than female relationships. Men seem far more likely to be willing to forgive grievances and leave them in the past than women. I also know quite a few women who often assume the worst intentions for something someone says whereas most men I know are more likely to give the benefit of the doubt and try to view someone's statement through a positive lens if possible.
It's shocking to me how many women I know who hate each other for literally no grievance at all. Like literally "oh frick Megan she was rude to me" but then Megan will be like "yeah Charlotte is always really cold to me so I don't like her" and at no point did they even do anything to each other to warrant the hatred. It just spirals out of control as they become colder and ruder towards each other until they're like mortal fricking enemies, all because maybe one time Megan was drunk and misinterpreted something Charlotte said, which nobody can even remember at this point, not even the two women involved.
One of the huge reasons for this, imo, is that men have no patience for spending time with people we dislike unless absolutely necessary. These 2 foids not talking would likely cause drama to branch out into their whole social group, I cant picture guys having that issue. Most ive seen from guys is icing someone out of a group when no one else in the group likes them, but that makes perfect sense
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Women definitely have besties or whatever, friends that are as close as family. However I think men are better at maintaining a multitude of genuine friends (on avg) but I'm drinking so. Trying to go against the rampant hatred of women on /r/subredditdrama a bit with some nuance. Women will shit talk their friends behind their backs more openly in my experience tho but Not All Women
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Yeah but they're incels who never go outside so thats a fricking skill issue.
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this is true though, zoomers were raised to expect app hookups as the default and can't adjust to life without a bachelor pad. you could just be a teenager emeritus and take girls on cute dates and have a relationship before you have s*x rather than the other way around and suddenly living with your parents is not that big an obstacle if your life is otherwise on track, but they literally cannot fathom this.
idk i dont think housing has all that much to do with it. I got laid far more when i lived with my parents/didnt have my own place and a stable job. I think society is just falling apart these days and the dating scene sucking has more nuanced causes behind it.
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I would invest into starting a fricking chain of love hotels in the fricking US but I know the fricking poors would frick up my novelty rooms and steal everything that isn't nailed down so hard that it would put me into the fricking red.
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Who says I would call the fricking police, b-word? I'll kill them and hire Guangzhou cooks to turn them in to blood sausages.
I got laid a lot when I lived with the folks, I'd just drive to them. Or if we couldnt find a place to go, a dark spot deep in the woods, true story. I'm not sure how i never got accused of something, 90% of my dates had to do with the outdoors and away from other people. Camping, fishing, canoeing. You've never seen a b-word swoon until you got her in a canoe and shes watching you paddle.
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This runs exactly counter to my own experiences. I think male relationships are actually vastly more stable than female relationships. Men seem far more likely to be willing to forgive grievances and leave them in the past than women. I also know quite a few women who often assume the worst intentions for something someone says whereas most men I know are more likely to give the benefit of the doubt and try to view someone's statement through a positive lens if possible.
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It's shocking to me how many women I know who hate each other for literally no grievance at all. Like literally "oh frick Megan she was rude to me" but then Megan will be like "yeah Charlotte is always really cold to me so I don't like her" and at no point did they even do anything to each other to warrant the hatred. It just spirals out of control as they become colder and ruder towards each other until they're like mortal fricking enemies, all because maybe one time Megan was drunk and misinterpreted something Charlotte said, which nobody can even remember at this point, not even the two women involved.
I have never seen that happen between men.
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One of the huge reasons for this, imo, is that men have no patience for spending time with people we dislike unless absolutely necessary. These 2 foids not talking would likely cause drama to branch out into their whole social group, I cant picture guys having that issue. Most ive seen from guys is icing someone out of a group when no one else in the group likes them, but that makes perfect sense
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Shit like this is why having a harem would be terrible. Just imagine the endless caterwauling about nothing
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That's why you have the eunuchs manage them.
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Women definitely have besties or whatever, friends that are as close as family. However I think men are better at maintaining a multitude of genuine friends (on avg) but I'm drinking so. Trying to go against the rampant hatred of women on /r/subredditdrama a bit with some nuance. Women will shit talk their friends behind their backs more openly in my experience tho but Not All Women
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Don't like 1 in 5 young men have literally no friends lmao
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Yeah but they're incels who never go outside so thats a fricking skill issue.
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this is true though, zoomers were raised to expect app hookups as the default and can't adjust to life without a bachelor pad. you could just be a teenager emeritus and take girls on cute dates and have a relationship before you have s*x rather than the other way around and suddenly living with your parents is not that big an obstacle if your life is otherwise on track, but they literally cannot fathom this.
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idk i dont think housing has all that much to do with it. I got laid far more when i lived with my parents/didnt have my own place and a stable job. I think society is just falling apart these days and the dating scene sucking has more nuanced causes behind it.
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I would invest into starting a fricking chain of love hotels in the fricking US but I know the fricking poors would frick up my novelty rooms and steal everything that isn't nailed down so hard that it would put me into the fricking red.
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And homeless would get a room for an hour, refuse to leave and make you call the cops to extract them every single night
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Who says I would call the fricking police, b-word? I'll kill them and hire Guangzhou cooks to turn them in to blood sausages.
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I got laid a lot when I lived with the folks, I'd just drive to them. Or if we couldnt find a place to go, a dark spot deep in the woods, true story. I'm not sure how i never got accused of something, 90% of my dates had to do with the outdoors and away from other people. Camping, fishing, canoeing. You've never seen a b-word swoon until you got her in a canoe and shes watching you paddle.
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Lmao how can they not afford to move out? Get a job losers; get room mates. The Taco Bell by my house starts at $17.50/hour, that's like $3k/month.
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litwrally slave wages. My fri3nds wife makes $2000 a week with her only fans
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God i want to be American. I make almost 16 an hour landscaping
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They were saying the exact same shit about millennials in 2008-2013.
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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.
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