foids big mad when men are straightforward

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/sep/24/some-men-tend-to-jump-straight-to-innuendoes-dating-app-users-on-why-they-quit

step 1 be attractive etc

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NotoriousNIG GER/MAN :marseyflagfinland:

2mo ago #7103408

I've been single for about 12 years, and was on the apps since they arrived.

I have found the men in London in particular to be flaky, chronically busy or emotionally unavailable. Most will match but never message, and those who do tend to jump straight to innuendoes and try to sway the conversation in a direction I don't want it to go.

I quit the apps on Valentine's Day. I definitely felt better emotionally, and have attended several speed datings events which I prefer. It's a much more organic way to meet someone. But I admit I recently returned to the apps, and I'm already at a loss with it. Claire, 38, London

>Claire, 38, London

She's doomed

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toasthawaii cheese/ananas NotoriousNIG 2mo ago #7103608

imagine playing this game for 12 years and never figuring it out, just one pump and dump after another, and every year the guys get less attractive, and put in less effort... "but surely this one isn't just telling me whatever I need to hear to let him smash!"