She's 40. 
I wouldn't date a transphobe personally. If you're being quite generous with your partner, you could talk to him about why he feels so insecure about you having s*x with trans folks.
Does he feel similarly about you hooking up with other men? Is this some weird way of trying to have a "one peepee policy" without calling it that?
I don't really want to meet other men! I just want to meet queer women, and trans women and men. I think he doesn't get it because, in his mind, he thinks about their biological s*x. I find it so wrong, and it's really hard because I've been in a long-term relationship with him, but I've grown so much as a person and in understanding my queerness. I find it so unfair that he thinks this way about my beautiful trans people.
Trans men are men, dude. That's kind of the whole point.
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"I don't want to meet other men! just want to meet queer women, and trans women and men."
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5'cels simply can not exist to the female brain.
They're neither male nor female; they simply aren't considered at all.
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Probably doesn't want her getting AIDS
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Yeah, I got AIDS from my wife's boyfriend Damarqus, but when I think about all the fun they have together, it makes the crippling disease worth it, ya know?
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I think it's important to ignore transvestites and keep distance from the rest of the freaks after LGB
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Ugh, trans problems were SO 2023, sweaty.
Try to keep up with the program.
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Smart lad
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So smart that he'll let his wife cheat just not with
s....
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Is it worse to have your wife cheat on you with a man or a
? 
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For straight couples I'd say it's worse if it's a man than a
, but is it worse to take Arsenic or Cyanide?
Usually it's the guy chasing
s on the side though.
Once this girl tried to cheat with me
I was too much of a wholesome chungus to do anything, but it still mindbroke her partner 
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It's called having standards even if you might be r-slurred
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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.
Sigh "not all men"
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