Op is late 40s
As a female engineer who is close to 50
kids are 15 and 17 and she regularly has outbursts of anger and probably violence toward them. Then she blames it to her adhd.
9 years ago she posted this to breakingmoms
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/3y69nm/im_over_everyones_pictures_of_their_perfect/
Christmas is over. Everyone is in bed. They weren't complete little shits, possibly because letters were written to Santa saying that if they weren't appreciative of gifts (which weren't the computer or real magic wand that were requested), then this should be the last time Santa comes because he should give his presents to other kids who would appreciate them.
Toys were played with then kids whinged when they couldn't do something first time (I don't know how Rubik's cubes were handled before youtube videos). There was no way they were eating the delicious lunch at the Grandparents - they would hardly come to the table let alone stay at it. The Grandparents had a great backup plan of sausage rolls (which are always eaten), but because they'd been cut in quarters, they weren't good enough.
There was fighting in the car on the way home (that 15 minute drive was just too long for them today), and then there was no relaxing at home (they'd read all the books they were given for christmas while not eating lunch at the grandparents'), but they needed someone to play the games they'd gotten for christmas, and playing with each other wasn't feasible.
Then all I can see on Facebook is all these perfect pictures of perfect families on their perfect christmas day.
Maybe we'll cancel christmas next year.
These kids were rised by breakingmom poster. Will cycle continue and will they become /r/risedbynarsistic posters.
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Rejection sensitive dysphoria is another one of those fake diagnoses people come up with to avoid admitting they have BPD btw, like CPTSD
Neither of them are in the DSM, anyone with RSD and CPTSD will tell you they don't have BPD because they "direct the pain inward" while not doing that at all and making it everyone else's problem lol
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I'm gonna start telling clients I have rejection sensitive dysphoria so they need to give me their money or I will kill myself.
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Are you a prostitute?
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Aren't we all?
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No some of us are pimps
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Get 'em, pimp daddy.
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when people tell you they are a whore, believe them
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You should believe everything I say on here. It's what intelligent men do. Keep on keepin on!
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Rejection sensitive dysphoria is hilarious to me because it's very "~I'm not like other girls~"
Most people feel bad when they're rejected, Sharon. Your emotions aren't bigger or more important than anyone elses.
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How is feeling sad when being rejected an illness especially in foids who have never had to grow a thick skin by spending all night poorly flirting with whatever foid is within speaking distance at a club.
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Where is dad?
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what the hecckin heccerino the teenager learned new words and is using them willy nilly, guess they're correct!!
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He's using her own bs against her lmao
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This moid will be dating BPD foids but will have developed defenses against their manipulative behavior.
And the cycle will continue.
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God gives His most BPD foids to His strongest moids.
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Wow she's right she shouldn't have had kids.
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Breaking mom users gotta be the most miserable of Redditors and that's saying something
No dad in the picture, it goes without saying
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TwoXX or breaking mom posters? I know there is overlap but my got TwoX posters are absolutely miserable c*nts.
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Lol, but no.
These women are married. Maybe husbando is a bum, but often they just pretend their husband doesnt exist. Because, if you start asking questions, you'll quickly discover lots of parttime housewives who are full time Karens.
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If you only work part time you have no excuse to b-word moan or complain about parenting. Thats parenting on easy mode
Reminds me of that b-word comic artist who disparaged her full time lawyer husband constantly .
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If you wanna see dammnest thing. Look stay home parenting posts foids vs moids.
Foids are always miserable. Moids say its easiest and most amazing thing ever
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One of my friends is the stay at home parent, he says it's the best thing ever
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It's true up to a point, depends on how long you've been doing it and how well your wife stays the frick out of things.
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Got myself in trouble yesterday at friends house. A few of them grew up with BPD b-word that is kinda hot, very hot for a mom of 3, all the girls loved BPD girl cause she is fun and artsy. I took one look at her years ago and knew she was radioactive but she was always around our circle so I played nice for a decade. She was/is a fashion designer but everything is terrible and no one has the balls to tell her.
BPD girl went to a good college on the East coast and married into family of billionaires. Didn't sign a pre-nup, gets all the kids school paid for and 12k a month in their pre-divorce settlement. All while constantly posting selfies in ridiculous outfits, gets day drunk then post his flight tracker for his family's private jet like "I am good mom look at me with the kids while he is in the Caribbean" and constantly excuses him of being gay. If you look up things not to do on social media during a divorce, she is doing the exact opposite. She's been sleeping around town, I know of at least 3 guys she's banged pre-divorce.
They asked me what I thought and I just said "sounds like good work if you can get it. I'd love 12k + 60k in school tuition to be a terrible dad"
"Jamal you don't understand she got in a bad car accident a year or two, that's what changed her"
They sit around talking shit about her but when I said she was crazy it was a bridge too far. They don't want to admit they enabled her for 30 years and now that she is creating three more BPD personalities, they don't want to accept any responsibility for their role in her being bat shit
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Don't stick your peepee in crazy is a Reddit tier cliche but it's still true as ever
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But how can you fix her if you don't peepee her
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When you look in the mirror, can you tell that you're stupid?
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Usually its husband who is doing most of stuff. If husband is bum. They would have actually have divorce them. Or foid is broken enough to actually stick with bum. But then they wouldn't smugly post to reddit how great and selfless they are.
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the stepparents sub is worse
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lollies
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Isn't lollies slang for cash in bongland or am I getting my wires crossed
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I took it to mean loli anime
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no, it doesnt mean that
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what the frick are "lollies"??
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I took it to mean loli anime.
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Love the mental image of a 17 y/o playing mtg and gooning to loli hentai, but
"lollies" is Bong for candy.
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ooooh that's funny. MTG is still cringe but that's hilarious.
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/u/cheepiebudgie if you think you couldn't have don't better parenting your kids why dont you take a look at your old posts for a refresher
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Editors should be involuntarily sterilized
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With the kid, ironing boards are hard to close. When I stay at hotels I'm very tidy, but I will never put away the ironing board.
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They are counter inutive design. Either you let people to play with them and figure it out. Or you teach them.
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The first time I wrestled an ironing board was when I went to my post boot camp Navy school.
I probably spent 30 mins before I finally figured it out.
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wtf was your ASVAB negative
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Good enough for the radio room.
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Lmao what? I am so glad I am married to someone who has none of this bullshit.
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ADHD (which is barely real to begin with) doesn't mean you can't control your emotions, with or without meds. Maybe she should lay off the adderall
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This absolute headcase accused her 17-year-old of "malicious incompetence" for not knowing how to close an ironing board.
IDK about abusive but she's absolutely a fricking nightmare person. "Noooo it's my ADHD I just HAVE to sperg out and scream at my kids about literally nothing on a regular basis!!!" I'm sure literally nothing she does is her fault, ever, in her mind.
She's 100% right that she should not have had children.
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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.
Sigh "not all men"
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