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/r/benzorecovery/

/r/BenzoWithdrawal/

What are the chances they are in this together, but he fried his brain for real?

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Probably. He probably got schizophrenia from abusing benzos too much.

He seems to lose track of time. He blacks out during work. Is in autopilot. Vacant. She has to guide him through simple tasks. And his behaviour seems nonsensical.

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Probably still taking them without telling her seems way more likely

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He's prob fine and she just won't ever shut the frick up when he's in the middle of something

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Also. He's 5'8" and slender. I'm 6'1" and spent 10 years studying various martial arts, used to hang glide, and swim long distance. I have thighs that could break a bank vault. So um... No one's scared here.

The comment about her thighs makes me wonder how fat she is

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1735634037HlpEawZvWXFdUw.webp

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1735634040XYOjYzct0-aT1Q.webp

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They are full sized carrots btw.

It was so obvious, "spent 10 years" (a long time ago), "used to" (see above), "various martial arts" and "hang glide" are fat people activities, then the thigh comment. OP is a fatty larping as a fitness fanatic.

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Dont think ive ever seen a chonker hang glide.

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It's something that people associate with being athletic that doesn't actually require any athletic ability (assuming you're a beginner who's flying with someone else)

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They mostly hang.

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Granma phenotype.

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Her fingers have indications of clubbing, an indication of heart disease due to obesity.

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Oh she FAT fat

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And 6'1! She has the measurements of an NFL player.

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Fat hands :marseychonkerfoid:

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Another comment she made:

THANK YOU for understanding.

He just said in the car he hasn't been using his CPAP machine and he thinks it's affecting him.... A tiny light bulb went off in my head.

It's far more likely he's got cognitive stuff going on that he's just a lazy piece of shit and an butthole.

Maybe the sleep thing is the whole reason why OR at least part of it. Maybe he has something cognitively going on and lack of sleep exacerbates it. Who knows.

Making this post and sifting thru all of the comments was totally worth it to read your response. It means a lot to have a nurse's response. 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟

lol he's a fatty as well. Would someone who's "5'8 and slender" be using a CPAP machine? Highly unlikely.

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Okey. Op is former benzo addict. Cruising on multiple depresion meds or something. Probably self centered as frick. Thats why she dosent notice health crisis her husband is going through.

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Surely a subreddit filled with The More Compassionate Gender is going to point this out to her and help her realize what could be going on with her husband, right? :marseyclueless:

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Health crisis is ick

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>health crisis

:#marseyno:

>earth crisis

:#marseyrasta:

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Hemp crisis was right there

:marseygiveup:

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Hemp crisis isn't the name of a classic reggae album

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It should be then

:marseyjamming:

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They always b-word and moan about how men leave their wives during cancer treatment or whatever (fake made-up VJ nonsense btw)

And then the upmarseyd comments on here are like "he's going through a health crisis, understandable if you leave him though."

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He most of the time doesn't really implement what the councilor suggests, but we do communicate better and understand each other better than we used to.

Could just be omission from the story, but she may be ignoring the councilor, too, if she thinks the therapist is only making suggestions for him.

He does sound genuinely checked-out.

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Dear /u/catbamhel

Here are people giving genuine thoughts you might not otherwise see. Please check comments on this thread.

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Husband is genuinely sick? Sounds Catatonia. If she has to guide him through everything.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1735633498c3AIgQuTnsf4MQ.webp

Dude is suffering from schizophrenia and she is just talking about crushing his skull with her tights. More compasionate gender my butt

It might also be frontotemporal dementia. If this is new devlopment. But if thats the case. Dude is dead in 2 years. She has to deal with him only little longer until he is unfit to clothe himself.

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>More compasionate gender my butt

When women only do 50x the emotional labor that men do instead of 100x

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Emotional labor isn't real

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It is real, but mostly in the original sense of "employed in a role that expects emotional regulation to appear happy," like while working as a flight attendant.

The original meaning was never "any emotional work, including with a partner."

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I mean it's either that or he's so sick of her it takes 100% of his brainpower to not kill her on the spot

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Dude is suffering from schizophrenia

Catatonia and schizophrenia used to be part of the same diagnosis, but I believe they're separate now.

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If you are catacomic. schizophrenia is most common cause. Dude is former drug addict. Wife is too. schizophrenia is safe bet

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Also. He's 5'8" and slender. I'm 6'1" and spent 10 years studying various martial arts, used to hang glide, and swim long distance. I have thighs that could break a bank vault. So um... No one's scared here.

Strength is the only thing close to value men provide. What's the point of a manlet?

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Nothing but she still married him anyways, I wonder why

:marseythinkorino: :marseynoooticer:

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Abuse at the hands of men, no doubt

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Either way I wouldn't blame you if you left. This is a handful to deal with whether it's medical or not

Redditors have 0 loyalty. "You should leave your husband if they ever have a medical issue that inconveniences you"

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TwoXers would in the same breath reference the fake "husbands are leaving their wives with cancer :soycry:" article.

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Vax status? :#nooticer:

No trans lives matter

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That poor dude is checked out because his wife is 100% a condescending over-controlling nag, lmao

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My husband is a total flake too. I think he has adhd, he thinks he has adhd, wont get any sort of diagnosis or treatment though. We are separated for over 2 years, still live together though, together twenty years in a few months.

The thread is full of gems from other people.

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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.

Sigh "not all men"

Snapshots:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1hpyejh/oblivious_husband_dunno_what_to_do/:

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