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:marseyradfem: writes:marseylongpost:about how patriarchy has made men lonely:marseydoomer:and that hurts birth-having persons:taylorlorenzcrying:the most bc theyll feel expected to do more "emotional labour" :marseymentalgymnastics2:for the hypothetical scrote:soyjakhipster:that they choose to date

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Men are by far the main emotionally codependent people I've met, who seek support from someone out side of their lived experience, but expect empathy and self abandonment for support instead of just looking for people with shared healing journeys to heal together. Why is it women's responsibility to solve male mental healthy? Why can't they take responsibility of their own healing?

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>why can't men take responsibility?

Lmao

>My responsibility is to my life, not anyone else's.

Most empathetic redditor

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I have s*x with men who wanna worship me and show up for me and also yeah sometimes I do have to do the emotional labor of reminding them they're awesome and beautiful and deserve to not overwork themselves and maybe should eat a meal and I'll cook for us.

saying nice things and maybe cooking sometimes is the unfair emotional labour that she wrote a novel abput

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Worshipping your foid is just part of doing the bare minimum for her, scrote. Don't you dare think that it entitles you to reciprocity.

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Peter pan syndrome

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It's easy to read shit like this and think women are the problem. But it's because they are redditors. Average reddit moid is just as pathetic.

I've never met any foid as insane as these irl, because they don't leave the house.

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Yeah. Reddit has become bastion for narsistic people. Moids and foids. Foids just happen to hang around in women subs. So its easy to pinpoint them.

If you go anti natalist. Petfree. Childfree. Its everyone there.

What is it with reddit format that made it popular with narsistic people. You would think facebook or twiter would have been more to them.

Is it becouse reddit will accept everything and cheer for you most of time. Or is it narsistic people who have to do it anomously becouse people would call them out otherwise.

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You would think facebook or twiter would have been more to them.

They have to put their actual identity online that way and they hate mirrors enough as is. Deep down they know they're pathetic, so they have to hide it behind anonymity.

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Because there's two layers to reddit engagement - the clickbot shit and then the actual discussion shit. For clickbots, it's just reposts of a cat falling over to get the maximum number of upmarseys.

For discussion, you need people chiming in and people prefer to b-word more than they want to praise anything so discussion tends to skew negative. Then when negativity is the preferred content of comments, it's the people that can appeal to the sensibilities of others that rise to the top. Narcissists are good at playing to other people otherwise they would have knocked that shit off a long time ago.

Twitter and FB is almost all clickbait garbage which is why the comments aren't actual discussions - people just wanna scroll, see, and move on.

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Last wedding I went to was full of foids like this

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:#turtoisemindblown:

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Mean :marseyannoyed:

I was just trying to spell it out for some of the misanthropes on here

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tbh bb i just like having an excuse to turtoisepost

:#turtoisesmile:

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/1736279580HIElawzpvd4MNQ.webp

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Emotional labour used to refer to employers asking you to put on a cheery demeanour in a shitty job not having empathy for human beings

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empathy for scrotes is a patriarchal concept :marseyindignantwoman:

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R*pe culture was originally used specifically for men's prisons. Foids stole it and made it fake and straight.

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I would run so far and so fast from any woman who started babbling about shared healing journeys

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"You know my desire to befriend you is everlasting, that I will never cease, while I know how to do any thing."

-- Lincoln to his friend Joshua Speed

"Cold in my professions, warm in [my] friendships, I wish, my Dear Laurens, it m[ight] be in my power, by action rather than words, [to] convince you that I love you. I shall only tell you that 'till you bade us Adieu, I hardly knew the value you had taught my heart to set upon you. Indeed, my friend, it was not well done. You know the opinion I entertain of mankind, and how much it is my desire to preserve myself free from particular attachments, and to keep my happiness independent on the caprice of others. You sh[ould] not have taken advantage of my sensibility to ste[al] into my affections without my consent. But as you have done it and as we are generally indulgent to those we love, I shall not scruple to pardon the fraud you have committed, on condition that for my sake, if not for your own, you will always continue to merit the partiality, which you have so artfully instilled into [me]."

-- Hamilton to John Laurens

Male friendship before womans rights

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:#gay:

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If men want emotional support, I think they ought to turn to each other.

is this not literally :andrewtate:

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Edit: Guys this post made it to some weird site where men are talking about crushing our skulls because of this post.

Sigh "not all men"

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