writesabout how patriarchy has made men lonelyand that hurts birth-having personsthe most bc theyll feel expected to do more "emotional labour" for the hypothetical scrotethat they choose to date

"You know my desire to befriend you is everlasting, that I will never cease, while I know how to do any thing."

-- Lincoln to his friend Joshua Speed

"Cold in my professions, warm in [my] friendships, I wish, my Dear Laurens, it m[ight] be in my power, by action rather than words, [to] convince you that I love you. I shall only tell you that 'till you bade us Adieu, I hardly knew the value you had taught my heart to set upon you. Indeed, my friend, it was not well done. You know the opinion I entertain of mankind, and how much it is my desire to preserve myself free from particular attachments, and to keep my happiness independent on the caprice of others. You sh[ould] not have taken advantage of my sensibility to ste[al] into my affections without my consent. But as you have done it and as we are generally indulgent to those we love, I shall not scruple to pardon the fraud you have committed, on condition that for my sake, if not for your own, you will always continue to merit the partiality, which you have so artfully instilled into [me]."

-- Hamilton to John Laurens

Male friendship before womans rights