i say this dead serious. my phantom kitty issues have gotten a lot worse recently. what the heck do i do? this is really deranged but it's like I know what it feels like to get peepeeed down and I absolutely need that rn. i started crying while making out with my fwb because i could feel her peepee rubbing up against my crotch and i just really wanted to put it into a hole that i dont have. im just wayyy to close to ending my life over this shit.
the horny is getting overwhelming. i'm nervous that all of the men in my life are going to notice that ive been checking them out. wtf do i do !cuteandvalid
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This honestly seems more like a logistics issue than a trans dilemma. Albiet I'm not trans but there are many things from which an extrapolation can be transposed unto various predicaments.
This is gonna sound weird but have you tried eating a peanut butter and jelly sandwich before meeting with your fwb?
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I dont get it what does PB&J have to do with any of this
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It ties in. You'd perhaps be quite surprised how extraordinary of an influence immediate dietary factors play into the mind while in a sexual context.
In my observations, empirically done mind you, I'd at this point be able to argue that certain dietary needs have direct correlations to certain sexual desires (or even entire fetishes). In an attempt to transpose my experience to yours, and combining elements of what I have observed, I suspect that peanut butter and bread will drastically reduce the feeling that you described.
It's trivial to test this yourself. Buy a pack of strawberry uncrustables. Buy some good orange juice.
Test the theory for several of the encounters. The risk of a placebo would not be relevant/significant for you here (I think).
The only thing to keep in mind is to not be full prior to hanging out. Allow for your natural hunger to prompt you to eat, and simply choose the uncrustables/orange juice as your choice of meal. And do not share this with your partner. (I mean u can share the uncrustables but not what neurodivergent thing you're trying that you read about on the gay cat website lol)
I highly suspect that the feeling you described will either be nonexistent or so low that you'd only perceive it because you're testing for it.
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What dietary needs are associated with an extremely strong kink for being tied up and left for long periods of time? As a sort of captive or prisoner or hostage, not a bdsm s*x dungeon slave.
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idk if that's dietary.. sounds like abandonment issues or something
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Does this look like abandonment issues to you?
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yeah it does, I'm even more confident about my guess now that I see this image
what is that a camera just scanning her face?
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If you're referring to the red marks, those are just guide lines. I haven't finished this.
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What camera? I'm sure there's security cameras everywhere, but no one is staring at me.
I'm very picky about these situations. If it were merely "abandonment issues" there's no reason to put me in that restrictive of a position. Look at me, I can barely move. Merely locking me in a room would be enough to deal with "abandonment issues".
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so abandonment issues, and, whatever compells a person to feel restrained
kinda goes hand-in-hand regardless but maybe the lewd nature of the bondage reaffirms that the captor plans to return.
Idk I'm not a psychologist tho lol
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