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Girl stalks coworker (“twin flame”), he gives her every indication he's not interested in her, calls her creepy in front of her friend

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Twin flame told me I was creepy, how do I even get over that humiliation?

My TF and I are in a one month no contact separation (due to university shutting down for winter), we normally work together in a lab. I said goodbye to him about 10 days ago on our last day, and when I said goodbye, he wouldn't even turn around to talk to me, so I had said bye to the back of his head.

I wasn't expecting to see him again for a month but last night I went to a local restaurant with a friend. I looked over and realized my TF was at this same restaurant with a group. Not unexpected as we both live in town. He was far enough away and I ignored him and thought he hadn't seen me and so I carried on talking. Usually he ignores me in university social settings. (I could however, feel him, like I can when he's physically near me.)

However, this time he came over to my table and I thought he was going to say “hi”. But the words out of his mouth was: “what are you doing here? I don't understand what you're doing here. I didn't think you could afford to eat here.” I motioned over to my friend who was going to be paying. At this point I'm still thinking my TF was going to eventually say “hi” (we used to be great friends). Then he said: “the fact that you're eating at the my favorite restaurant tells me you're creepy.” Then he walks away.

I didn't know this was his favorite and his hangout. I had been interested for months in eating there and my friend had agreed.

I hadn't said anything in reply but had just stared in shock. After he walked away my friend said “what an egotistical jerk”. I didn't finish my meal and we left soon after.

I feel humiliated, this was basically my TF accusing me of stalking, and I'm so embarrassed that I haven't been able to talk to my friend who witnessed this, nor anyone. I have to go back to work with this guy next month.

Will she get the hint and move on?

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what the frick is a twin flame

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Honestly I'm not 100% sure but i think it's essentially a very toxic relationship with ups and downs, with one “chaser” and one “runner”.

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Sounds like a romanticized stalker relationship like all of these other terms

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So basically this Marsey

:#marseychaser:

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with one “chaser” and one “runner”.

so essentially a feeder fetish for the fit fanatics?

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It's ‘creeping' but put through the filter of post-LGBT culture.

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Its time for you and me to rise up and strike back

Don't stop until we dominate

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mo joke was a wordplay, chubby chasers are feeders

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I feel like I've heard a dozen different words foids made up to describe their infatuations without using the word "stalking"

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Honestly I'm not 100% sure but i think it's essentially a very toxic relationship with ups and downs, with one “chaser” and one “runner”.


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The word "stalking" is just so un-vibes, you know?

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It's a term used exclusively by a horrifying intersection of severe cluster B (usually female APD but sometimes high-octane BPD or NPD), vvitch occultism (as opposed to real occultism, which can't be found reading Teen Vogue or Cosmopolitan), and femcel touch-starvation. If a woman ever says that phrase, run - even if you're not dating or even into women

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they are us in another body

is fricking your twinflame masturbation

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It's twincest and twincest is hot!

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Loving our twinflame sometimes feels as if we are loving "ourself"... because technically, we are. They truly are our other half.

narcissism

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https://media.giphy.com/media/XukORs5yMW0Ao/giphy.webp

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Ah, so it's Aristophanes' speech in Plato's Symposium, but r-slurred. It's Alexander and Hephaestion, but for straggot foids. It's soulmates, but for people that "aren't religious, but are spiritual". :marseywomanmoment2:

:#marseyextinction: :#marseyextinction: :#marseyextinction:

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Total zoomer death

:pepezoomerhair::pepezoomerhair::ma#rseyshooting:

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Basically a schizo, main character syndrome, occult crush.

But this is really special cause you're meaning to be tougher holistically and you'll end up together so everything will be forgotten.

So you can do literally anything it doesn't matter you are meant to end ip together.

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Basically an excuse for being a fricking psycho with foid delusions. Check this one out.

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sidebar: "the struggle of a 31 year age gap relationship" :marseygroomer:

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It's like a new age cult/relationship thing

one of many things like that that pop up over th years

like NXIUM or whatever it was

theres a doc about it on netflix

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desperately_Seeking_Soulmate:_Escaping_Twin_Flames_Universe

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Foid nonsense.

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>A “twin flame” is a New Age concept that describes a certain intense connection between two individuals who are supposedly “two halves of one whole.” “Twin flame” is not a recognized clinical term, although so-called twin flame relationships can often be described using modern relationship terms

essentially oneitus but for hippy normies

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Fascinating subreddit.

For background, my twin (DM) and I (DF) are in a separation (3 months) that I initiated due to constant pain from triggers of us both being unhealed and knowing that the work we needed had to be separate. Hardest decision ever but I'm proud of myself. This has been a 8 year journey.

A week or so after the start of the separation, a bird flew into my window and my phone lit up. It was 5:33. I started googling it's meaning and before I could finish, the suggested website/answer said that my twin flame was thinking about me. I've had some weird bird incidents since then. Again today, another bird just flew into my window a half hour ago. I noted the time was 11:38. I've been back in a weird obsessive state thinking about him and wondering what his feelings are. I'm working to get out of it. Idk if it has to do with that? I just want to get out of my head and back into a balanced mindset.

Has anyone had incidents with birds/animals along their journey? What do you take it to mean?

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>crazy bird lady

it's ted simp

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I know we like to hate here, but If your twin flame was sirpingsalot, youd be a crazy bird lady too

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yayyyy

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Birds on the hunt for that fishy stank puss.

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I've had some weird bird incidents since then

B-WORD. CLOSE YOUR BLINDS DURING MIGRATION SEASON. YOU ARE ENDANGERING ENTIRE SPECIES.

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Because of the strength of her connection with her DF?

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Weren't you paying attention? She's the DF, it's her DM she's dependent on. Understandable, Dungeon Masters are a pretty important role.

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Is twin flames a subreddit where women go to tell each other they aren't crazy?

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where women go to tell each other they aren't crazy?

that's called "the internet"

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Most likely white women.

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Oh my god yay another delusional lonely people subreddit.

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Men are nice enough to just put us and themselves out of all our misery by efficiently killing themselves; women will post this sad catlady bullshit for 50 years before cirrhosis finally snuffs them out.


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/r/Twinflames are great, they're like the even-more-delusional version of /r/limerence

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always remember that the word "coworker" contains both the words "cow" and "ork"

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Orcs are more behaved than some of my coworkers :marseysigh:

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i can physically feel my twin flame through the internet

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:blush: m-me too

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I mean, Carp is famous for hurting people through the internet.

#Justice4Spiderman @Spiderman #neverforget


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lore?

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Spiderman is a loveable schizo. Carp spergs at him and keeps banning him.

It's all very sad :-(


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I can feel my twin flame too!

Or I left the stove on!

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A few weeks ago, I had my TF meet my karmic (that I'm no longer interested in having a sexual relationship with but stayed friends with). I guess me meeting her(his gf) was my payback.

What's hilarious is that my TF still communicates with me telepathically, it's ridiculous. He even did it yesterday. I can't stand it anymore.

>karmic :marseyhmmm:

>They're believed to be relationships with people connected to you from past lives who've remerged to resolve unfinished issues or teach life lessons

:#marseymeds:

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She posts in menopause but also is in college? Wtf?

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She's in her 40s as is he (I read the other posts)

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Fricking crazies

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So the text itself says this lady is poor, and the paratext says either she's fat/ugly or he's gay.

At the very least, she has at least one friend (or did), so we're not seeing her at her deepest valley yet!


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He apparently has a hot gf lol

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If there's one thing a guy with a hot gf is liable to do, it's cheat on her with some fat uggo.

This girl is probably too mid and crazy to even be his Mildred Baena.


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I probably won't be having s*x ever again which is a shame. My karmic refused to sleep with me for years before he left me for someone else so I went without for 3 years, and I now, since meeting my TF feel creeped out at the idea of sleeping with someone who isn't the TF, I just can't do it.

her ex refused to bang her for years, how rough is this broad :marseywtf2:

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:marseychonkerfoidpuke:

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@FearOfBees :soycry: I could never quite put into words our singular affinity for each other but now I know! You're my twin flame @FearOfBees :soycry: my twin flame! :soycry:

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:marseyclapping:

Love to see it

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We should have a twinflame badge

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Such a good idea. :carpexcited:

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@CARPMASflorist let's have a feature where if you become twinflames with another user you get a badge and then you can each post as the other user: two accounts, one heart. :heartbeat:

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we finna turn rdrama into an mmorpg within the next 8 years

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not a recognized clinical term? :youdontsay:

anyway, women have been going on about "soulmates" since forever; doesn't seem too "new" age

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:#wishthatwereme:

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It's panel one of the “Hello, human resources?” comic

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With my pudgy belly that looks out of proportion to the rest of me, I'd be too embarrassed

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I had no idea about twin flames until about a year ago. I've known him for 3 years. Before I met him, and just saw his department photo on our website, I knew he would become very special to me, it was bizarre. We have telepathy and he's aware of it too. When we are physically separated I go into limbo.

He's struggling with feelings, depression right now. He's the runner. We see each other 4 days a week at our university, but are in separation (no more texting, we work together but now keep things very business like), however lately he's been teasing me a lot. He won't look me in the eyes anymore. We used to do the twin flame gaze. He'll refer to both of us as “us”. He says he's my mirror. Sometimes I hear his voice in my head telling me he loves me or misses me. I have intense vivid dreams about him regularly. I've been seeing black feathers everywhere for about a month. There's been some very strange synchronicities happen over this past summer. Both of our first teenage cars (when we were both age 16. were the same make, model. We're both divorced. Both have trauma stemming from our marriages. Both have gender identity issues/ identify as queer, though he identifies a cis male and I'm a cis female. We both are feisty but complete each other (our expertise is different and complements each other). He's both very different to me yet similar. He's probably what I'm trying to become. He's successful and has a lot of friends, and I'm just starting out in our field. His energy is identical to mine. I've been called a “mini-him (his name)”. Others can see our connection and have commented on it, some are jealous, and some find us amusing.

This fat frick is unhinged.

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Where the frick do I get one of these.

I would turn in my foidhating card this very second and cut off most of my limbs for a stalker gf.

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Your assuming that she's :#marseycatgirl5: but in reality she's almost certainly :#marseyradfem:.

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You have to be hot first

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God at least the moid version of this community recognizes they're mentally ill creeps

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:#marseywomanmoment:

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"GRINCHES could be here" he thought, "I've never been down this chimney before. There could be GRINCHES anywhere." The fetch wind felt good against his bare chest. "I HATE GRINCHES" he thought. Santa Claus is Comin' to Town reverberated his entire sleigh, making it pulsate even as the $9 eggnog circulated through his powerful thick veins and washed away his (merited) fear of grinches after Thanksgiving. "With magic reindeer, you can go anywhere you want" he said to himself, out loud.

Snapshots:

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