Twin flame told me I was creepy, how do I even get over that humiliation?
My TF and I are in a one month no contact separation (due to university shutting down for winter), we normally work together in a lab. I said goodbye to him about 10 days ago on our last day, and when I said goodbye, he wouldn't even turn around to talk to me, so I had said bye to the back of his head.
I wasn't expecting to see him again for a month but last night I went to a local restaurant with a friend. I looked over and realized my TF was at this same restaurant with a group. Not unexpected as we both live in town. He was far enough away and I ignored him and thought he hadn't seen me and so I carried on talking. Usually he ignores me in university social settings. (I could however, feel him, like I can when he's physically near me.)
However, this time he came over to my table and I thought he was going to say “hi”. But the words out of his mouth was: “what are you doing here? I don't understand what you're doing here. I didn't think you could afford to eat here.” I motioned over to my friend who was going to be paying. At this point I'm still thinking my TF was going to eventually say “hi” (we used to be great friends). Then he said: “the fact that you're eating at the my favorite restaurant tells me you're creepy.” Then he walks away.
I didn't know this was his favorite and his hangout. I had been interested for months in eating there and my friend had agreed.
I hadn't said anything in reply but had just stared in shock. After he walked away my friend said “what an egotistical jerk”. I didn't finish my meal and we left soon after.
I feel humiliated, this was basically my TF accusing me of stalking, and I'm so embarrassed that I haven't been able to talk to my friend who witnessed this, nor anyone. I have to go back to work with this guy next month.
Will she get the hint and move on?
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what the frick is a twin flame
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Honestly I'm not 100% sure but i think it's essentially a very toxic relationship with ups and downs, with one “chaser” and one “runner”.
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Sounds like a romanticized stalker relationship like all of these other terms
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So basically this Marsey
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so essentially a feeder fetish for the fit fanatics?
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It's ‘creeping' but put through the filter of post-LGBT culture.
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mo joke was a wordplay, chubby chasers are feeders
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I feel like I've heard a dozen different words foids made up to describe their infatuations without using the word "stalking"
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The word "stalking" is just so un-vibes, you know?
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It's a term used exclusively by a horrifying intersection of severe cluster B (usually female APD but sometimes high-octane BPD or NPD), vvitch occultism (as opposed to real occultism, which can't be found reading Teen Vogue or Cosmopolitan), and femcel touch-starvation. If a woman ever says that phrase, run - even if you're not dating or even into women
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Twinflame
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is fricking your twinflame masturbation
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It's twincest and twincest is hot!
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narcissism
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Ah, so it's Aristophanes' speech in Plato's Symposium, but r-slurred. It's Alexander and Hephaestion, but for straggot foids. It's soulmates, but for people that "aren't religious, but are spiritual".
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Total zoomer death
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Basically a schizo, main character syndrome, occult crush.
But this is really special cause you're meaning to be tougher holistically and you'll end up together so everything will be forgotten.
So you can do literally anything it doesn't matter you are meant to end ip together.
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Basically an excuse for being a fricking psycho with foid delusions. Check this one out.
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sidebar: "the struggle of a 31 year age gap relationship"
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It's like a new age cult/relationship thing
one of many things like that that pop up over th years
like NXIUM or whatever it was
theres a doc about it on netflix
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desperately_Seeking_Soulmate:_Escaping_Twin_Flames_Universe
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Foid nonsense.
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essentially oneitus but for hippy normies
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Fascinating subreddit.
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it's ted simp
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I know we like to hate here, but If your twin flame was sirpingsalot, youd be a crazy bird lady too
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yayyyy
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Birds on the hunt for that fishy stank puss.
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B-WORD. CLOSE YOUR BLINDS DURING MIGRATION SEASON. YOU ARE ENDANGERING ENTIRE SPECIES.
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Because of the strength of her connection with her DF?
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Weren't you paying attention? She's the DF, it's her DM she's dependent on. Understandable, Dungeon Masters are a pretty important role.
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Is twin flames a subreddit where women go to tell each other they aren't crazy?
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that's called "the internet"
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Most likely white women.
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Oh my god yay another delusional lonely people subreddit.
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Men are nice enough to just put us and themselves out of all our misery by efficiently killing themselves; women will post this sad catlady bullshit for 50 years before cirrhosis finally snuffs them out.
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/r/Twinflames are great, they're like the even-more-delusional version of /r/limerence
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always remember that the word "coworker" contains both the words "cow" and "ork"
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Orcs are more behaved than some of my coworkers
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i can physically feel my twin flame through the internet
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m-me too
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I mean, Carp is famous for hurting people through the internet.
#Justice4Spiderman @Spiderman #neverforget
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lore?
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Spiderman is a loveable schizo. Carp spergs at him and keeps banning him.
It's all very sad :-(
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I can feel my twin flame too!
Or I left the stove on!
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She posts in menopause but also is in college? Wtf?
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She's in her 40s as is he (I read the other posts)
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Fricking crazies
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So the text itself says this lady is poor, and the paratext says either she's fat/ugly or he's gay.
At the very least, she has at least one friend (or did), so we're not seeing her at her deepest valley yet!
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He apparently has a hot gf lol
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If there's one thing a guy with a hot gf is liable to do, it's cheat on her with some fat uggo.
This girl is probably too mid and crazy to even be his Mildred Baena.
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her ex refused to bang her for years, how rough is this broad
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@FearOfBees I could never quite put into words our singular affinity for each other but now I know! You're my twin flame @FearOfBees my twin flame!
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Love to see it
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We should have a twinflame badge
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Such a good idea.
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@CARPMASflorist let's have a feature where if you become twinflames with another user you get a badge and then you can each post as the other user: two accounts, one heart.
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we finna turn rdrama into an mmorpg within the next 8 years
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not a recognized clinical term?
anyway, women have been going on about "soulmates" since forever; doesn't seem too "new" age
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It's panel one of the “Hello, human resources?” comic
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This fat frick is unhinged.
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Where the frick do I get one of these.
I would turn in my foidhating card this very second and cut off most of my limbs for a stalker gf.
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Your assuming that she's but in reality she's almost certainly .
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You have to be hot first
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God at least the moid version of this community recognizes they're mentally ill creeps
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"GRINCHES could be here" he thought, "I've never been down this chimney before. There could be GRINCHES anywhere." The fetch wind felt good against his bare chest. "I HATE GRINCHES" he thought. Santa Claus is Comin' to Town reverberated his entire sleigh, making it pulsate even as the $9 eggnog circulated through his powerful thick veins and washed away his (merited) fear of grinches after Thanksgiving. "With magic reindeer, you can go anywhere you want" he said to himself, out loud.
Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
ghostarchive.org
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
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