https://old.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/comments/1i2reka/bumble_match_asked_me_what_i_did_for_the_weekend/
I'd only been talking to this girl for like a day, she asked me about my weekend. For context, my week before had been super busy so I wasn't looking to do a ton of social activities last weekend just a nice, chill couple of days. I clearly cracked a joke about the fact that it was kind of a boring weekend, but I never expected her to reply like this
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Reddit is split on whether she is being ironically edgy or whether she really wants him to end his own life.
Suicidal Redditor tells OP to chill out
It's clearly misogyny at play
I'm not even sure why OP cares,
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It never even began
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OP is a little b-word for getting his knickers in a twist over it but only leddit can spin that into hating womyn in general.
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mfw i see an opportunity to be misogynistic
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All these casual misogynists be real quiet when a ranked competitive misogynist step into the room
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Reddit when a woman gets her jaw punched off: equal rights equal fights heh heh heh
Reddit when a guy criticizes a woman: erm misogyny much?
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Tbqh im not sure if the first is true anymore. theres so many foids on reddit now, and even a few bio ones, that i wouldnt be surprised if they sneed about shaquanda or brittaney catching some backhands
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She's not hot enough to be making jokes like that tbh her eyes don't even work right.
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Yeah but OP is a redditor so she's still out of his league
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I think the lady is the r-slur here. If he was describing some super unpleasant thing, like having to clean a Walmart bathroom, or a scenario that is particularly bad because of his personality, like being at at event with 1,000 people when he's an introvert, then her comment would make sense as hyperbole. But just saying you had a boring weekend where you did some errands and some chores is not at all meriting saying you would keep yourself safe.
Maybe she's just neurodivergent or some shit, but it comes across as insulting ("Really, that's all you do? You're lame.") rather than empathetic ("Sorry you had to deal with that!"). And, as if it needed to be said, Redditors are only defending her because vag. Now, it doesn't mean that he needs to cry himself to sleep over it either, but I don't think that he is necessarily. He's just showing people a weird interaction he had.
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She was absolutely calling him a boring loser, and I'm baffled anyone thinks otherwise. I suspect people not interpreting it that way are lying foids and straggot moids. As always, only !gay men see and speak the truth.
That said, /u/FinFaninChicago is a whiny little b-word for running to Reddit to cry about it. Should've just unmatched and immediately forgotten her existence.
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That was definitely not a joke and I'm guessing people are tricking themselves into thinking surely nobody would be delusional enough to call someone boring after saying they brought a store bought pie to a potluck.
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It's definitely a joke. The confusing thing is that's it's funny so possibly a train
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Look I'm a boring loser but how can anyone get a vibe on a person from one low key weekend lmao.
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I'm to
to be in the dating scene but from what I understand everyone is boring but they all demand non-boring partners. If you're not out literally every weekend at parties or doing some super cool hobby then you're "boring"
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Yea she had an autism !foidmoment. It can stun even the most neurodivergent moids.
I know this because I encountered one years back where I went on a date and I was telling a story where my sister was being slightly annoying and when I'm done she just immediately goes, "wow your sister sounds like a total b-word," and I was actually taken aback. We went back to my place later and then she got mad at me when I told her to stop trying to open every drawer in my studio apt and left after moping about that for a few minutes.
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You should just keep yourself safe
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Exactly. Maybe she didn't mean it that way, but there's no need for OP to stick around and figure out if she's stupid vs. BPD vs. just plan mean, either one is a red flag.
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People in general like to talk to and be around people that do a lot of different shit every week. There is a reason women gravitate towards criminals and bums disproportionately. If your week consists of a 9-5, chores and TV/internet/video games you should probably keep yourself safe.
It's like how when someone has a kid and suddenly stop being a person, nothing to talk about, no energy for riffing, nothing.
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Was with you until the "riffing" part, only giant cute twinks who look up to comedians say that.
What, do you do "bits" with the boys? Yeah bro we're just out here riffing with each other haha.
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Doing some pre-prepared bit and riffing are like opposites, wdym? Riffing and adding on to whatever the conversation is currently is the default state of male relationships. This is something you learn at like 8 if you aren't neurodivergent
What do you do when someone goes to talk about something that happened in the news or something that happened to them? Just stare at them and go "mhm yeah" or even worse "No, I disagree because yap yap yap"
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No. He is fricking boring and should kill himself if he has nothing worthwhile to do
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They both seem to be b-words
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@FormerLurKONG like this one
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This guy played himself
I could totally see myself making the same mistake tho
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Honestly it looks like a
situation I think she thought she was being funny and it backfired and he's a little b-word
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I can definitely see myself in her shoes saying something like that because I already have, several times. When it hits its pretty cool though.
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I would smear feces on my face if I was a crazed neurotic like /u/finfaninchicago
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OP is a fricking huge fricking soy for crying so hard about a fricking flippant comment. That being said, I like going to Home Depot because that means I've got a fricking little project to work on and I can pretend to be useful and cool while using power cowtools. It's nice to make things and have them just work
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I installed a smart dimmer switch today and only zapped myself with mains once
!homeowners
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Good work brother, motherlover! At some point someone needs to make a fricking Hulk Hogan marsey so I can brother-post properly
Until then
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I hate going to home depot because I always forget one of the things I needed until I get home and have to go back like 2 more times
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You need to make a list
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I'm a man! I don't need a list!
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Santa Clause has a list.
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Understandable/relatable. Measure twice and cut once or something
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taking any excuse you can to rant about women is based though.
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....how r-slurred must this person be that they cant bake a darn pie?
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Premade crust is the move and then using whatever fruit is in season.
I'm not a huge baker though, I'd opt for deviled eggs.
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Factory-made crusts are very mid, but homemade is such a hassle.
Wish they made crusts in supermarket delis. Do I just not shop bougie enough?
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My mom would always make a homemade crust until everyone complimented her pie when she used a store bought one
Granted, she never used lard which I think makes the best homemade, but it still wasn't worth the effort when everyone complimented the pre-made every time lol
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If it ain't broke...
Never tried lard. I usually use more butter and oven time than the recipe calls for, but using too much butter will make it chewy instead of crisp.
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some bougie bakeries will make one for you. Mine does!
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Neat! I'll look around
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Pie crust is a bit tricky.
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Thats like saying first grade is trickier than kindergarten
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Socially r-slurred to say that within 10 minutes of meeting someone.
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she filtered a fricking redditor. I'd call that a fricking success
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moids are too stupid to know when they're being negged
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lmao dipshit was supposed to say yeah it's awful but we could go do something to break up the boredom
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no you should be outraged at her having standards
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imagine if the roles were reversed
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Well that's fricking rude
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Christ. I thought rDrama users were ironically virgins, but fricking heck.
When I was deep into dating I would say outlandish shit to rule out unfunny/not fun people. It's normal. You know what you want and you know what to say to rule those people out. Conversations have to be fun for me at least.
At some point you get tired of building connections with randos and getting invested- only to realize that person is an unfunny strag who wouldn't get where ur coming from.
If you can't keep up with your normal banter you do with the boyz (diet banter with foids bit still fun) without getting offended frick off. It's a good filter.
After all, she did manage to get a redditor who would post this out of the picture.
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I think she was serious though. She's clearly turned off and being a b-word about it for no reason just to piss him off.
Pretty based tbh.
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I've talked with these kinda foids before and thought it was light banter, like you said. Turned out they were just mean as shit.
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Got dunked on by fem lawlz
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She's the only one I respect here. The point of conversation is to make statements that surprise the other person and gets a good reaction.
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Do you just scream the n word at your coworkers when they say good morning? They either enjoy it or they don't right? 50/50!
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That's when you go, "Maybe you should keep me company next weekend so I don't"
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She was turned off by his admittance to being a renter
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I'd hit her with the 'ikr i'm just waiting for my parents to die first'
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NiceGirls is for "I'm a nice girl, but guys only go for whores", so op is triple r-slurred.
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There's not even a direct "niceguy" counterpart for foids.
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The closest approximation is pickmes. The only foids who would be "nice girls" are ugly but raised by old souls who think being polite will compensate.
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Even pickmes are picked by men, both "niceguys" and "pickmeishas" are terms from foids.
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God, redditors (including the OP) are such r-slurred strags (derogatory).
She sounds like a c*nt, with that reply to someone she hasnt even met. I wouldnt be surprised if she intentionally did it to get the OP to frick off. I'd definitely tell her to frick off if a foid replied to me like that, especially if she's a weasel and im not on a pinning trip.
But crying about "muh suicide"
also betrays how much of a cute twink (derogatory) OP is, so if the foid really tried to get him to frick off im on her side.
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Hold the frick up, she went to a potluck and thought that was better than doing a project at home?
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I absolutely refuse to watch this film on principal. All it does is glorify the "lone wolf white male" archetype. It gives incels and and nazis a hero figure for them to look up to. It is absolutely disgusting and is NOT the movie that we need right now. Who the frick thought this would be a good idea in our current political climate? The number one terrorist threat in the US right now is a white male.
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