I know it's likely not a belief in this group but⦠To those that believe this lie, I ask how?
My father and 3 of my siblings when to college/uni, 1 works in a related field.
If you went into the situation with the wrong idea about what college is for, then yes, I can see how you'd think it was a scam.
"Oh you thought this was about improving your life? No it's about securing your membership in the elite you peasant"
Or if you're someone who didn't attend and are one if the few who are "doing fine" and only have the lies of grifters, then yes, I can see how you'd think it's a scam.
Keep yourself safe cute twink. People like you give education, not even higher education but the very concept of it a bad name.
But college or higher education is not about getting a job, its about acquiring skills, learning how to learn, and how to process it all when you no longer have a teacher.
!r-slurs come get your boy!
What possible point is there to acquiring skills if it doesn't improve my life? What is college a fricking hobby (tbh it is at this point and that's why it's a scam)?
And "learning how to learn"? Oh shut the frick up I've heard that same sorry excuse for why schooling is a waste of time since I was little boy. I learned how to learn in grade school, then again in high school, there's no point in taking a 3rd swing at it.
If you went and only focused on grades in order to get a degree in order to get a job, then you screwed up!
!nooticers these people treat higher ed like a ritual, a passage into adulthood.
You the individual focused on the wrong thing and now want to play the blame game. Its like playing basketball but only focusing on dribbling, of course you won't get the outcome you want your focus was on the wrong thing.
The out come I want is access to jobs I've already done, been trained to do by professionals but have been locked away from me by some insurance adjuster or bitter HR ladygarden.
To those that did not attend but are doing well, congratulations!! You are a prime example of survivor bias. Good for you in pulling 6- figues but the vast majority of people don't or would even get close without some level of higher education.
God they hate the poor. The only people in my family who make 100,000 a year or more are oil field workers. Literally it. And none of them have what an American would consider a college or uni education.
And in what world is 100k "doing alright"? It's fricking rich! I was raised on less than 2k a month in household income.
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I just liked college because it was prime social atmosphere plus close to the gym plus I got to mess around with stuff like NMR machines, primary historical materials, rare books... I also got to regularly interact with people smarter than me. Now I just do the same job every day working with r-slurs and shitpost.
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Darn @PeepeeButtKiss kinda miss college now, @PeepeeButtKiss's lifes been boring as shit lately
Trans lives matter
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I get why people say college is the best years of your life. On average, it's when you're going to have the highest rate of individuality to responsibility. And everyone around you has the same freedom more or less so there's nothing to do except party, frick, and study.
But when you get later in life, the partying dies down but you (ideally) have more money so you can do even cooler shit.
But people who didn't plan right or otherwise got financially fricked are just stuck in this limbo where they can't do cool shit and no one's free to do nothing with them anymore. Can see how that'd be a bummer
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The adult world is pretty lonely tbh
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By default yeah, but a lot of the times i think it's because people aren't joining social clubs. Go play a sport, join a charity organization, or get involved in local government.
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I had to work full time and take out loans to foot my college/life bill. This is what happens when you're raised by trailer trash. College sucked.
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I don't even know what to spend the money on at this point.
It could come in handy to pay for the kids' college educations, but if they don't get good enough test scores to get full rides, then I'm forcing them to work in the oil fields.
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