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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] Lots of men are now saying dating isn't worth it anymore. Why the heck are we still trying to work hard enough to raise a family?

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Men have always had a choice on when and if they married. Women were the ones who were sold and traded as property (106)

Nonsense. Women provided protection, dowrys, and largely married & procreated. They passed on their DNA. Men much more disposable, and many did not. With female empowerment, hypergamy on full display. (-23)

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"They won't give me a wife to frick so why should I work" is soft af (56)

Most men work hard for their wives and kids Soft or hard it just how most men are wired When that deal is broken men don't need incentive to work hard anymore (-26)

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Not because of financials. Not every man or woman needs to breed.There is more to life than procreation. (49)

Women want feminized sperms donors that coparent. (-22)

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You work hard because the struggle is the reward. Do you remember that part of LOTR The Two Towers where Legolas complains (in elvish) that everyone in Helm's Deep was going to die? Because of the enormous orc army waiting to kill them? And Aragorn says, "Then I will die with them!", really showing Legolas up for being a whiny b-word? And then later Legolas seeks forgiveness, saying, "I was wrong to despair". Aragorn shows him that the fight is all there is. Legolas was wrong to despair then, and you are wrong to do so now. Don't despair! Life is challenge. Life is struggle. The climb is all there is. Climb, pilgrim. Do not give in to bitterness and resentment. Climb! (2)

Angriness: ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก

No it's all worthless. There is no happiness without people. Humans are tribal creatures. There's no joy it's just misery. Am I supposed to care about being productive for a society that doesn't want me and has outcast me? Again I've to slave away for no benefit to myself why? (4)

If you're poor you're more miserable. If you can't afford food, can't afford heat, can't afford the things you like, can't afford a car, and depend on society to sustain you, that's misery. Being rich and alone isn't a great life either, but being poor and alone is worse. There's a reason they have the term "poor and lonely" as being a really bad pathetic thing. (2)

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No, not all. But they do make up a strong base, to be fair. (4)

No they don't. I'd hazard to guess that most incels are democrat voters. Conservatives believe in working hard and following traditional morals and norms. Whether or not they adhere well to that is something else, but they certainly aren't attracted to sitting in their mothers basements complaining about how bad they have it, that's what leftists do. In fact, the entire ideology is antithetical to incels. Heck, one of the things that made Jordan Peterson famous was the notion that men need to get their shit together and clean their room. It was to stop blaming everyone around them and instead work to better their lives, something that the left widely rejects. I would be shocked to hear this person voted for Trump. They would want more hand outs because apparently the world is impossible to survive in while eating regularly. This post was a monologue of a loser. And incel losers are usually whiny, spoiled, entitled, leftists. (-11)

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Real talk, where am I supposed to even encounter a woman where it's appropriate to hit on her? Can't do it at work, can't do it at school, can't do it at a meeting... :marseyshrug:

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Just meet them where they are most of the time (at their house). I've broken into 20 different houses in just the past week to ask women out. They always say yes (because of the implication).

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Just do Door Dash, but make it clear you just do that between performing surgeries. Women who pay for McDonald's delivery deserve nothing but the best.

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You must be very attractive

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yeah but the gun helps a lot as well

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Do your friends not host parties or what? I've been to multiple marriages where they met at a mutual friend's bday dinner or whatever.

I've had one gf who I met on a group camping trip a guy from work invited me to

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>Guy from work

:#marseysquint:

Is work office adjacent?

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Yeah white collar people tend to have more healthy stable activities in their lives whoops

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I don't know how to break this to you, but you got trickle down kitty.

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Oh that's what you mean lol

I'll be honest I made up my whole comment anyways just to try and make an incel feel inadequate. All my recent relationships have been off bumble (arguably worse)

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My experiences on the internet tell me bumble is pretty alright

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Internet dating is sort of like job hunting where all the complaints you see are from people totally unequipped to handle it

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It was obvious from the idea of coworkers bringing friends to work parties

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My coworkers do invite me to parties with their friends I'm just in a relationship so I don't reply to the women that message me afterwards

I do ski trips with old coworkers and their friends like every year. I am genuine when I say I'm shocked that more people don't have events with mixed social circles

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All my friends are on rdrama.net

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Groomercord

:#marseyxd:

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be careful with this, while it is effective you can end up with a real character.

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Oh yeah pizza POj was talking about taking bbc in college again

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Do it at work. It's usually a bad idea, but there's basically no other options and half your coworkers are fricking eachother already anyway, so you might as well get in on that action.

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Got it. I'll hit on the next hot customer whom I meet.

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If you're hot, this will promote sales, so it'd actually be unprofessional not to.

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Online, tinder is a free kitty machine if you're not hideous

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I don't want kitty, I want a gf :marseysad:

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That's even easier

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Not if you're 2 feet tall like me :marseysulk:

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Whats the difference?

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Fat doe

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You can meet them at work or at school, it just has different rules than a bar or dating app. It takes more time but overall it's better for long term relationships.

It's like, if you're able to socialize competently you'll find yourself in more situations where you meet people.

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refer to my username bub

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The real trick is to very light heartedly hit on every single woman that you see and then try to match intensity with them.

Obviously only pursue the ones that are particularly receptive and attractive to you, but generally women are way more open to flirting and being flirted with if they start off thinking that you're just naturally flirty and playful with everyone rather than some rando trying to get into her pants. Also the more practice, the better you'll get. Eventually, even when you frick up, any new foid who starts complaining about you will have all the foids who like you being playful stick up for you rather than do their "men ain't shit" shtick.

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Hes right. Just be happy, friendly, and conversational. Its simultaneously "flirty"(if they want to interpret it that way) and plausibly just friendly.

Its what women do 24/7

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People forget that there's a huge chunk of moids out there who would be perfectly happy their entire lives in a one bedroom with a mattress on the floor and a tv with a games console. If you don't force these people to do more then they'll just stay that way. Getting a girlfriend used to be the carrot to make these sorts of men take a shower and buy a couch, but if they start thinking there's no point then they'll all just neetmax forever

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>People forget that there's a huge chunk of moids out there who would be perfectly happy their entire lives in a one bedroom with a mattress on the floor and a tv with a games console.

:#marseyhesright:

There's entire subcommunities of men that are all about this life: the man cave. Most vidya now are more entertaining than any foid; why bother with them?

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can't put peepee in video games

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VR vehemently disagrees.

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Dusties, dusties...

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strags on suicide watch

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"Jesse we have to cook" just took on another meaning

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She (???) even has a Heisenberg tattoo

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I don't understand dudes like that. I think I'd rather be alone then settle for that thing.

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unironically a looksmatch :marseythumbsup2:

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This makes me sad on multiple levels.

But hey at least he bought a brand new, still-creased button-down (two sizes too large) to wear, unbuttoned, over a red tshirt for the pregnancy photoshoot.

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What does "bootlicker" even mean at this point?

According to redditors, you're a bootlicker if... :marseyinvestigate:... you have a real job? :marseyladybugconfused:

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I think it's sort of like "you're grinding and working and being a 'good citizen' for a society where the social contract has fallen apart and they give you back nothing in return" which is then cuck/bootlicker behaviour. The implication is that if society doesn't care about you then you should just be grifting and hedonistmaxxing

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So it's just a synonym for cuck. :marseythumbsup2:

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It means absolutely nothing in 2025.

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You work hard because the struggle is the reward. Do you remember that part of LOTR The Two Towers where...

!sd Marsey with a perfectly expressionless face, no emotion, as she stares into the void

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@Salvadore_Ally_Chud love sucking peepee but not mutilated circumcised peepee.

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Marsey with a perfectly expressionless face, no emotion, as she stares into the void
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Those are all perfectly emotional, dumb bot

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I CAN'T BREED!! REEEEEEEEEEEEE

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I CAN'T BREED by Linkin Park

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Thats why I only date girls from crystal.cafe

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>crystal.cafe

>girls

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You work hard because it gives you money. Money is nice because you can use it for things like living or food. So you should maximize getting money since it gets those.

It's really simple

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welfare, food banks, homelessmaxxing

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I told this guy to kill himself several times. He's Canadian so he doesn't have an excuse.

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But mens mental health awareness week exists so shut up moids and zoomers!

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I was first inline at a shop counter and two indigenous people behind me. The shop assistant looked at us and asked "ok who is first". I said, "they are of course, they have been here for more than 60,000 years". The two idigenous people smiled and thanked me as I stood aside.

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Nonsense. Women provided protection, dowrys, and largely married & procreated. They passed on their DNA. Men much more disposable, and many did not. With female empowerment, hypergamy on full display.:

Most men work hard for their wives and kids Soft or hard it just how most men are wired When that deal is broken men don't need incentive to work hard anymore:

Women want feminized sperms donors that coparent.:

You work hard because the struggle is the reward. Do you remember that part of LOTR The Two Towers where Legolas complains (in elvish) that everyone in Helm's Deep was going to die? Because of the enormous orc army waiting to kill them? And Aragorn says, "Then I will die with them!", really showing Legolas up for being a whiny b-word? And then later Legolas seeks forgiveness, saying, "I was wrong to despair". Aragorn shows him that the fight is all there is. Legolas was wrong to despair then, and you are wrong to do so now. Don't despair! Life is challenge. Life is struggle. The climb is all there is. Climb, pilgrim. Do not give in to bitterness and resentment. Climb!:

If you're poor you're more miserable. If you can't afford food, can't afford heat, can't afford the things you like, can't afford a car, and depend on society to sustain you, that's misery. Being rich and alone isn't a great life either, but being poor and alone is worse. There's a reason they have the term "poor and lonely" as being a really bad pathetic thing.:

No they don't. I'd hazard to guess that most incels are democrat voters. Conservatives believe in working hard and following traditional morals and norms. Whether or not they adhere well to that is something else, but they certainly aren't attracted to sitting in their mothers basements complaining about how bad they have it, that's what leftists do. In fact, the entire ideology is antithetical to incels. Heck, one of the things that made Jordan Peterson famous was the notion that men need to get their shit together and clean their room. It was to stop blaming everyone around them and instead work to better their lives, something that the left widely rejects. I would be shocked to hear this person voted for Trump. They would want more hand outs because apparently the world is impossible to survive in while eating regularly. This post was a monologue of a loser. And incel losers are usually whiny, spoiled, entitled, leftists.:

/u/weesiwel:

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The problem is young people are unhinged and older people don't care because they're shits fricked up and r-slurred.

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