!foidmoment !r-slurs

https://old.reddit.com/r/doordash/comments/1ipsxbs/caught_my_long_distance_boyfriend_cheating/

Summary in her own words

Going to try to summarize the comments post so far,

I believe he is cheating because he is a serial cheater and we've had many issues with cheating in the past. We will break up for a few months, get back together, and kinda repeat.

We've been doing this for 8 years in April. He originally told me he would be here Thursday night, but told me he had a morning meeting at 6am Friday and didn't think he could make the 6hr drive to come see me and preform in this meeting. I was upset, but we talked not out and he was supposed to come Friday night/valentines day night, he was distant Valentine's Day, but said work was ready busy, I didn't think much of it, then this interaction happened:

Confirming he was at home alone, but also he has Brie for dinner which seemed… off?

Anyways, he was acting depressed, and wanting to be nice I ordered him roses and his favorite candy to his house. I told him to expect a delivery within the hour. He left this message read but did not answer. Which was … super bizarre? So I at that moment had the idea to message the door dasher asking about a second car in the drive way.

She asked if I still wanted her to complete the delivery, and I was like, uh, yes, and I'll send an extra 10$ if you loudly say " this is a gift from your girlfriend " dasher agreed, but even though she rang the door bell and knock repeatedly, the dude would not answer.

While talking to the driver, I said something like " what the heck, I've been dating this man for almost 8 years" which triggered the chat to close, I about screamed in frustration, but I did leave the dasher 20$ as a tip for her detective work.

Currently, laying in bed obsessing over this with my cats while pretending that I'm driving the 6 hours to my soon to be exs house and confronting him. If he doesn't answer by the end of this count down I'm just going message something like. " I saw what I need to see, I'm driving home" and actually have some leverage for his stupid lies when he does come around to answering me.

Shes textboming this guy and hes not replying

Currently, I'm in my bed with my cats, but texting him every 30 min to 1 hr saying I'm making the 6 hour drive to his place.

I'm going to pretend I drove up, saw the car, and drove home, and if he tries to fact check me im going to use the door dashers photo 😭😂

Justification

!foidmoment and !moidmoment too I guess?

Guy in question

anyway Thanks @Vegeta for the idea to sub to /r/doordash, its a gold mine

I was banned once from this sub for saying that most men are libertarians. But that's just the way it is

lmao, gay guys know how to have fun. Literally this is ehy the fertitlity rate keeps dropping in western society

@butthole's comment reminded me of this gem I read today !foidmoment

ofcourse they say its a !moidmoment and a mans fault

Women be crying

I posted about this too... I hated him being abusive and now this "he died" gaslamping stuff is giving me serious panic

!foidmoment

Rory Feek’s daughter rips country singer for shaming her mom after discovering he’s not biological father https://t.co/niXl5OMhiR

— Fox News (@FoxNews) February 13, 2025

Rory Feek’s daughter rips country singer for shaming her mom after discovering he’s not biological father https://t.co/niXl5OMhiR

— Fox News (@FoxNews) February 13, 2025

since im turning 21 next month (gotta leave this community lol) i had to share my story. i got pregnant when i was 17. my boyfriend (19) asked me to do it without protection. initially i resisted, but due to constant questioning and fear of breaking up and being alone, i gave in. got to know after 2 months. he ran away. worked my butt off to pay the bills for abortion (around 15k). don't throw away your life for a guy. love isn't uncomfortable :)

>worked my butt off to pay the bills for abortion (around 15k)

she clarifies later down that he didn't actually say he loved her, just "things that felt like I love you"

Very amusing foid moment on the TL today.

My wife(F42)(Emily) and I(M42) have been together since freshman year, [...]

Last night when I arrived home from an exhausting shift, Emily sat me down and told me we had to talk, she proceeded to tell me how she's a lesbian, that she's known since college, and that she's gone with multiple dates with many women over our entire marriage.

She justified herself, saying that her family would've never accepted her and that she never actually cheated on me because she was being her true self with the women she slept with

> It wasn't cheating because I've been lying to you for 20 years(?)

and to end it all she wanted us to have a lavender marriage so she cold be herself while her parents thought she was a straight woman

> anyway can you continue to financially support me please otherwise I'd have to take accountability

I'm not happy for her, or proud or anything like that, if anything I feel pure rage towards her.

you know what to do

By the way, this is the moid's fault but you're not ready for that conversation

More sad than anything, assuming it's not bait.

Your baby will be fine. Please touch grass, the world isn't ending no matter what the media says.

!moidmoment

!poll_voters

Also women:

—clickable links for gay fascist 1984 rule—

murderers being allowed to become minor right wing celebrities is the type of thing that could only happen in a deeply, deeply diseased society. https://t.co/4h2wwtiUdd

— barbarism critic 🙂‍↔️🇵🇸✨ (@SxarletRed) February 9, 2025

The ruling class are hellbent on granting Luigi Mangione sainthood. https://t.co/KeifaPyrzI

— barbarism critic 🙂‍↔️🇵🇸✨ (@SxarletRed) December 19, 2024

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This is a great idea. Maybe we can form a network, coordinating across multiple blue states. With housing and transition support. Even basic insulated buildings can be filled with bunk beds. Would mostly need enough food, water and cooking capacity.

I love it how can we set this up?

I'm short on resources myself , so have mentioned it before but did not get traction:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXPreppers/comments/1gvwotb/comment/ly55zpj/?context=8

But keep going, once you have people living there, it will take on a force of its own!

Excellent idea. Would you take an older woman who has lots of gardening experience? I'm looking to move to a blue state and do something like this.

oh yea sister, I'm 63!

This is a great idea. I'm not in the area but interested if you get it off the ground.

Finding people with enough varied skills may be a bit difficult. You'd need to cover all your bases to get something sustainable going. For instance, I'm a (slightly) above average gardener with a tiny seed bank, but I don't have any carpentry experience.

Clarification on the goal: Would this be a commune?

Girl, you are so young- too young to be living such a miserable life.

Get all your ducks in a row and LEAVE HIM.