sneedman he/him OCD 1mo ago (text post) 659 thread views #261574

I'm done trying or hoping to find a gf

It never :marseyitsover: began and that's the long and short :marseyprincesszeldatotk: of it.

I am 5 foot 1 ugly poorcel with 0 social :marseyblm: skills, completely introverted, and there's no amount of going :marseysal3: to clubs, joining societies, or trying online :marseyidio3: dating :marseyitsrigged: that's going to change that. It's over. I will die with an unmet need and I have to come to terms with that. I got rejected :marseyabandoned: by my fricking :marseytom: best friend, the one person :marseypennyboo: who saw the best in me. If she finds me undateable then it's pretty :marseyglam: much universal. I don't want to deal with rejection :marseyno: over and over again when I know what the outcome is going :marseysal3: to be every time.

Frick, it's so sad. I didn't want things to go this way. I wanted the normie life with the wife and children :marseychildclutch: but its NEVER :marseyitsover: going :marseysal3: to happen. This is so depressing :marseydoomer: but I have to find the will to live regardless. Any others who have come to the realisation that nothing they try will work?

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JimieWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess 1mo ago #6265546

This is sad. I think I've said this before, but compared to 90% of other terminally online incels (sorry, almost literally everyone else on this hole), you have a really winning personality. You are clearly intelligent and introspective, you are not a violent misogynist (or if you are, you're self-aware enough to hide it effectively in your writing), you're curious about yourself and the world around you. At one point you managed to get into grad school, right? So you're not a total total frickup.

Without meeting you in person, it's hard to say exactly what your defect is. Being a manlet is a major handicap for sure, but it's not a terminal deficit. Have you ever talked to like, a life coach or a dating coach? I imagine you're crazy introverted and just freeze up without even talking to a girl, but there actually are exposure therapies that can help with that sort of social anxiety.

This is so depressing but I have to find the will to live regardless.

Get on that stoicism grind? Finding a decent combo of meds that work for you without addiction issues would probably be a good start, too.

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Thirtythirst4sissies FICKE/JEDEN :marseymacholegs:

JimieWhales 1mo ago #6266057

Whenever I drink :marseysipping: and become violent :marseyitbegins: and misogynistic is the only time women :marseyextinction: are attracted to me. !incels whores are gaslighting us into becoming unfrickable again

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TR res/pect :marseyitsjoever:

Thirtythirst4sissies 1mo ago #6266112

The only question is whether they do it deliberately or it's some hidden foid brain function

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J_K_Rool i/me I am biologically incapable of getting off unless carp is crying Thirtythirst4sissies 1mo ago #6266064

you might be nichemaxxing there

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STEMCel69420 dey/dem Thirtythirst4sissies 1mo ago #6266807

This only works if you're tall or facemaxxed. Just looking like you're capable of violence is all it takes

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DeepKeepShill deep/sea/poster :marseysubmarine:

JimieWhales 1mo ago #6265721

>you have a really winning personality

:marseyrofl: I like him but he doesn't have a sexy personality in the slightest

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JimieWhales she/bitch An educated, strictly organic, ortho molecular aware patriotic princess DeepKeepShill 1mo ago #6265840

Ok, so that's kind of true, but tbh some of his neurodivergent special interests (true crime, for example) are exciting to foids and if you squint a little bit you can see how he could package his spergotry in a way that would be, if not drop-dead sexy, at least kind of charming and interesting.