There's a foid in one of my classes who's very cute and girly (extraordinarily uncommon in my field). Despite knowing that she has a bf and would never look me in the eye otherwise, I've still been helping her with homework as an attempt to spend time with her.
How do I stop falling for this obvious ploy? I did this time after time in undergrad in an attempt to make friends/meet girls and it never worked.
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Start thinking of them as humans and not a means/obstacle to s*x
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That's the opposite of how to sleep with women.
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shut up nerd
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For some significantly less gay advice: frick dudes
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Why?
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she's manipulating you. Launch
a preemptive attack 
of some kind before 
she can do hers.
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Slash
her tires or something. She hates 
you and would 
do worse
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The trick is to make it obvious that tutoring her is a pretext to hang out. Do as little actual work as possible and just have fun being with her
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I was horrified to even talk to pretty women
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Either hate or fear women so much you genuinely hate interacting with them.
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It's hard to give meaningful advice without knowing how ugly is you
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I have a very poor understanding of how [un]attractive I am, mainly because I don't speak with others very often, especially about romance or appearances, but when I do they generally have had good things to say. I don't have a lot of the typical incel traits (not a manlet/chinlet), but those all seem necessary but not sufficient conditions for attractiveness. I think if I weren't one of the !neurodivergents I'dve had a gf before.
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TOTAL MENTALCEL DEATH WHEN? !incels
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Look up any statics about autism
or schizophrenia 
and virginity and you'll realize mentalcels are the truest truecels.
Data supports this
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well i just ran the data and it supports concentration camps for mentalcels
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Pretty bois should be graped by us netorare antagonist cels.
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i tried to gaymax with tiktok femboys like a year ago but i guess my spiritual development is not far along enough to transcend my straggotry
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https://fantasticanachronism.com/2025/03/20/how-to-be-good-at-dating/
https://fantasticanachronism.com/2025/02/25/the-harem-of-an-neurodivergent/
idk if this will save you but it looked interesting to me as a possible successful guide.
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Well then if you're not a horrorshow you could have a long shot with her or one of her friends. Do ze homework.
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i mean never say never, but the vibes i get here is there being 0% chance this will happen. foids can smell desperation miles a way...
r u still a virgin?
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you're taking postgrad classes and doing this? jesus christ dude.
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She probably has hot friends, just play it cool and try to meet some of them.
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People like this never introduce me to friends: they're happy to take my help then leave.
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Wait for uni to finish and find someone outside of your field. Help her if you want, but don't expect any vagene. You could have each other to help network with later when you're working.
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