How to get a guy to go on a date with you???

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My dad isn't balding

This doesn't mean shit, the baldness gene comes from your mother. If your mom's dad is bald, you're fricked

You ask him on a date and make clear use of the word DATE in the conversation. And baldness is hereditary from your mother's father, not your father.

They love their own, not those of other scrotes.

Are you trying to tell me that turning your peepee inside out and stuffing it back up into your pelvis causes issues?

if i'm not wrong gee still lurks

sweet @BansheeAbortion was just trying to coax xer back 3 days ago lol

For him to see me as a woman.

Listen neighbor, I'm very sorry that I have to say this but it's better you hear it from a stranger on the Internet than in person. There are nearly zero people who will truly, actually see you as a woman. No matter what you do or how well you pass, you will be seen (at best) as a man who is imitating a woman, or an inherently defective woman. Even if they say they do, they're almost certainly playing along out of political correctness or to spare your feelings. If this is what you're expecting, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Sorry if this is personal but are you actually attracted to him or do you see him dating/being attracted to you as gender validation? If that's the case then even if he does reciprocate it'll likely be a short fling that'll fizzle out as there won't be a mutual desire for a long relationship and I don't think that's worth losing a friend. Just my two cents. A friend is worth more than a lover in the long run imo. Trying to date friends is risky business and I try to treat all my friends as romantically off limits, it makes things easier and avoids heartbreak. It's best to pursue relationships with everyone being on the same page to start.

For him to see me as a woman.

are there any signals that he's open to that? i mean most people in the "trans lives matter" side of the issue might not feel the same way when it comes to dating

I don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin the friendship.

if you two have some shared interests or hobbies, why not? and even if not, someone has to take the initiative or the whole thing will be stuck in a limbo, which in the long-term would suck a lot more for you if your feelings for him are strong isn't it? more often than not it's not a male actually taking initiative from the get go and instead picking up on subtle hints and all that nonsense before going for it anyway, if we're talking about a long-term relationship and not a hookup or something like that

good luck!

I guess I just want him to give me a chance. I don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin the friendship.

I don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin the friendship.

Tough shit but the door swings both ways hun. Look, you miss 100% of the peepees you don't take, at the same time you're expecting someone else to take the risk of ruining the friendship while keeping all of these hard feelings you have tucked firmly in the backside in your mind.

Nothing in life is without risk, and if you don't take the risk and explore those feelings, they may very well just keep growing until you can't contain them anymore, at which point you'll be awkwardly flopping those feelings around during casual activities like tuesday boardgame nights or naked twister thursdays etc.

The point I'm getting at here is you need to stop acting like a big b-word about everything and start acting like lil queen and jump on that peepee( or vice versa.)

Does he know you're trans?

Is he close enough that you could invite him to do something without it being a date?

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