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someone good at economy, what are zoomers supposed to do.

!zoomers

I've been at my current job for over a year now and it's got solid pay ~$60k/yr. I've still been bumming it at my parents with the goal moving out by buying my own place - likely with a friend who'd pay me rent.

However, with the housing market as it is with 8% interest rates and low supply it seems I'm stuck kicking back with my parents again.

At the same time, I feel like I'm stunting my development as I'd held off any serious relationships until I have my own place.

Renting doesn't seem ideal unless my parents kick me out (unlikely, we all get along and I pull my weight) as I just see it as lighting money on fire I could be saving for an actual house.

ATM I'm thinking of bitting the bullet for inflated interest rates as I'm in a good place financially (I have zero debt) but it does make me concerned that the “you will own nothing” seems less and less like a conspiracy theory for the Zoomer generation.

Is this r-slurred? What is the best move here?

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You have no COL lmao you can just save for a year and you have a down payment on a very nice house in this area


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you don't think another year in my 20s living at home is cucked / stunting?

I've been increasing my community involvement to open opportunities but I'm worried I'll lose out on relationships if I'm Bardfinning it.

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>you don't think another year in my 20s living at home is cucked / stunting?

If you leave now, will you be living paycheck to paycheck with a large mortgage and high interest rates? Because that's going to be more miserable for a longer period of time than living with your parents for a few more months

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Yeah that's pretty much what I'm thinking.

The other alternative is inflated rent like I mentioned - not exactly fun.

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you don't think another year in my 20s living at home is cucked / stunting?

Frick no. I used to think exactly like this and moved out of my parents' place early because I thought it was the only way to be an adult. My first three years with an entry level job were miserable as a result.

As long as your parents aren't abusive/controlling it won't stunt you staying with them. Try doing more independent cooking and cleaning around the house if you want to contribute more and feel less stunted because these will increase tenfold when living without them.

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Try doing more independent cooking

>tfw mom eats more of what I cook than vice-versa

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Thanks for the encouragement.

My parents are great people and I do help around the house a lot :marseythumbsup:

I've always been expected to contribute to the house and my parents have never accused me of freeloading, atm I've been increasing my time with charitable work outside the house.

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Also, try to keep in mind that your parents won't be around forever. Enjoy having low stress and having a good relationship with your parents as an adult while they are healthy and able to spend quality time with you. You have a long time to be on your own

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The biggest rift right now is my father's drinking is out of control and it seems to be effecting his job performance.

Doing my best to encourage him to take some better steps but it's been an uphill battle. Al-Anon is useful for me personally though.

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Try to get him into some hobbies. Even just walking around for an hour or 2 after work to cut down on his drinking a little.

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He's actually got a couple hobbies it just seems like his depression / alcoholism makes he sleep 16-18hrs a day (not an exaggeration).

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He's depressed because he knows he an alcoholic and hes a alcoholic because hes depressed. Becomes a viscous circle.

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Who gives a shit just save every dime you can lol.

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thanks for commenting on my thread pizzashill :marseywave:

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who cares, you parents don't hate you and you're saving money. Unless you have an immediate need to move out keep saving. It costs nothing for your parents to keep housing you, feeding you costs 100-200 a week depending on how much you eat and if you're family is that hard up for cash just get your own food. Either option is cheaper than 1-2k rent for a studio in the ghetto sans utilities.

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Agreed, thanks neko :marseywave:

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I moved out at like 20 while still in college, and the only reasons for me doing so was that most my social life was there and all the jobs were there.

If I had the opportunity to have a good social life and live with my parents while I saved, I would have done so. It's not cucked if you are actually working towards your own goals/place to live. You aren't some deadbeat.

And no need to put dating on hold either, as you are far from the only zoomer to have this problem. This is the time to actually find a good woman to spend your life with, and those are harder to find than a house. You might still be looking for one by the time you have your home, even if you start now.

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Great tips, yeah that seems to be the consensus of the thread.

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Frick no. The best thing I ever did was live with my parents and save. The money you save in your 20s is worth twice what you save in your 30s, 4-6x what you save in your 40s, and 8-12x what you save at 50+

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God I wish my parents loved me. As soon as I got a job my mom basically took my check :marseyelonpaypig: with threat of kicking me out for a year and a half, then I just frickin left

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Don't be hard on her, she needed the money to pay for my services

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Fricking :marseytom: b-word :marseyarthoe6: 😡😡😡

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Record is 1 days 13 hours 09 minutes and 59 seconds by TheDunceonFlorist

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I dont even want to buy a house. The fricking hoa fees in oregon are absurd.

I was gonna put a down payment on one and every house I found legit had like an 1100 dollar hoa fee. Might as well rent at that point.

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Don't buy a house unless you can put down at least 20%. If you don't meet that minimum, you get less favorable terms.

The interest rate isn't too big a deal in the long run because you can refinance once interest rates drop again. There are overhead costs associated with that, as well as a lot of time and effortz but it's doable.

Getting a roommate to help pay it down is not a bad idea, but be aware that if you get a shitty roommate it is very difficult to evict early. A lawyer recommended to me doing six month leases. That is the lowest term that you can reasonably go without the courts effectively considering it a month to month lease.

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I can very likely get the 20% a $150k mortgage, especially if I spend another year, year and a half here.

Roommate wise it would be with a friend Ive known since elementary school. I'm pretty sure I can manage him fine.

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Then you should do it. Good luck!

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Wait one year and save up another increment of a down payment and see where the market goes.

However, while owning a house builds equity, you're going to own it for more of a long term situation. You're going to need to consider WHERE you buy it in relation to distance to work. Not just your work, but also where a future relationship would work. If you're planning to have kids, high school ratings will immediately remove 1/2 to 3/4 of houses where you're looking.

Plus, foids love the idea of picking out a house together, but that's more of a marriage situation. If yorue going to be a bachelor who owns his own place and has an eventual gf move in, I didn't go in that route so I don't have the best advice in that direction.

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Im very comfortable about staying with the area I'm in and have no qualms with building a future family here.

The location I was looking in has OK schools but the primo schools are far away at all and would be a very doable move with a future Mrs lain.

Work wise, I'm a remote IT cel but I can optimize for legacy work very easily too. It would take a significant pay raise for me to ditch remote entirely though.

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Kick butt. You don't need a primo private school or whatever, you just need one that doesnt have a record of violence. I avoided an area that had a school that had 40 expulsions in a single year due to violent kids. Then again that's the fricking ghetto and I wouldn't live there for other reasons as well. Those school ratings tend to help define safer areas in general.

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Yeah, it's more of a “how big is the schools pool” question in the area so perfectly safe.

Thanks for helping me organize my thoughts more!

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Take the Tedpill and move to ruralcel area

Depending on state 60k should still qualify u for 502 loan

https://www.rd.usda.gov/programs-services/single-family-housing-programs/single-family-housing-direct-home-loans

4.25% interest rate, 0% down and no PMI required

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Darn that actually looks pretty helpful! Thanks.

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@ticktocktrain why did u upmarsey lain's comment thanking me and not my comment that was being thanked

Profound schizomisia, I have added u to my schizolist

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:#chadnpxueentransparentcapy:

I'm finna do the same

My credit was shit, 475 a year or two ago lol lmao, carp gave me some advice last year and as of yesterday it is 645, in a few months I will have a year of work history at the shoe testing facility and finna use that program to buy schizohouse

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:#marseykingcrown:


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Heck yeah schizofren, that rules.

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Wife and I just bought a home doing this, it's been awesome, just took a shit ton of time and effort. We lucked out by finding a place in a township attached to a big city so we get both benefits of being rural while also having amenities. Good luck schizo :taypray:

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:#chadthankskingcapypat: and congrats

Luckily for me basically all of vermont qualifies as rural

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Oh nice, we :marseyheart: Vermont, very pretty place. Was high on my list of places to move, my sister loves it there.

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shoe testing facility

Please explain? Do you try on shoes and walk around all day?

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@S still waiting for an explanation.

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Start OF

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America is fricked man I mean interest here is bad too but I can get my own place in the huzzle starting at 80k

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There was a house nearby for $125k and it was very clear it was a hoarders house and had decades of grime lol.

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Sad. Im really lucky with the prices here. Ludwigshafen might be a shithole but you have 2 of the largest European companies in commuting distance. BASF in walking distance depending on your location and SAP 30 minute drive away. Smaller builds are on the market between 100 and 200k.

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Darn, I can't say I like SAP but they're definitely rolling in money - that's a sick area.

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@lain

For only 90k this beautiful house in walking distance to the largest wine festival on the planet could be yours.

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!germs Lass zusammenlegen und Swingerhütte im Pälzerwald kaufen.

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I'm a remotecel but I can't work outside the USA :marseygiveup:

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just marry one of us

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:marseyflirt#:

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Lass zusammenlegen und Swingerhütte im Pälzerwald kaufen.

>brags about cheap prices

>still can't afford it by themselves

But yeah I mean I'm in

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Neger das ist ne Swingerhütte. Dü würdest ja ah net in ner Schwulensaune leben. Für Weinsuff und Arschfick net Familie und Hund. Aiaiaiaiai.

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(!)germs Lass zusammenlegen und Swingerhütte im Pälzerwald kaufen.

Bin dabei! Ich mein mit nem Nachbarort "Gönnheim".

Schützenverein auch in der Nähe, dh wir können sogar gun happy :marseyburger: dramanauten einladen und sie fühlen sich wie zu Hause.

Und wenn keiner von uns sie nutzen will einfach AirBnB draus machen.

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I can buy a closet in Berlin for that price.

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brb moving to germland

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German real estate is split into two groups:

Group 1: dirt cheap houses that may or may not need extreme repairs, not even in the middle of nowhere just in a town with 99,9% old people and a chain bakery

Group 2: a house in a place you'd want to live: 12k/sqm

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Depending on where you live you could get a USDA single family direct loan like I did, interest rate at 4% and nothing down. If you live somewhere with more then 30k people it probably won't work though.

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Yeah this definitely looks like solid advice schizo mentioned too- thanks for the tip!

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Tbh buying a first house with these interest rates wouldn't be ideal. You could get an adjustable rate mortgage with a plan to refinance to a (hopefully) lower fixed rate in a few years but that has some risks. Savemaxxing at home kinda sucks too if you want to be social but it's either that or get an apartment.

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Yeah I can't really get a handle on how dire 8% is and how I should approach that.

Do you think it would be misguided to use an IRA I have to help with the down payment?

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Yeah I can't really get a handle on how dire 8% is and how I should approach that.

It's really dire. Rates haven't been this high in like 20 years. Most people with outstanding mortgages right now have interest rates at like 3-4% (or possibly lower if they financed during covid).

Do you think it would be misguided to use an IRA I have to help with the down payment?

Can you take it out as a loan that you pay back to yourself with interest? That's pretty common, I did that with my 401k when I bought my first house. You lose out on some potential gains but it's basically "free money" if the only interest you're paying is to yourself.

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My understanding is it's penalty free if it's used for a mortgage but I'm still learning financial rules and such.

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:#marseychudegg:

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my chud egg broke when I worked retail and interacted with black ppl

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The idea that you're "lighting money on fire" by renting is a boomer meme. That's like saying you light money on fire by paying property taxes, paying interest on a mortgage loan or performing maintenance on the house. Buying a house has an element of both consumption and investment, but you can rent and invest in something else. So why do you feel that renting and using the money you save by investing in something else is a worse idea than buying land?

There's more risk to investing in land than a diverse portfolio, and more costs like property tax or expenses of selling. Especially if you'd be depending on a tenant for the house to be affordable, renting a cheap place is probably a more straightforward option. The rental and purchase markets aren't the same, so in some areas there can be a clear winner, but you have to actually make the comparison. The New York Times calculator walks you through different factors and assumptions to consider.

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You're only the second comment to support renting.

If you read my response to the other one I think that explains my feelings on the idea of renting ATM - tl;dr, I don't really need/want flexibility and while the independence thing is important I think I can re-asses that as it's not as dire as I was initially feeling.

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Sure, you shouldn't feel obligated to move out if you're making a fair contribution to the household. In ye olde days, people often didn't move out until they got married.

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In Ireland you need proven residency in counties in order to buy property here. The county I was looking at wanted 10 YEARS of residency within 10km of the plot to apply for planning permission and purchase of land. :marseyraging: I literally can't move to the countryside without paying rent for years just to apply. :marseyseethe:

Totally not seething blogpost here:

https://rdrama.net/h/random/post/197532/blogpost-marsey-irish-nonsense-marseyflagireland-i

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Renting doesn't seem ideal unless my parents kick me out (unlikely, we all get along and I pull my weight) as I just see it as lighting money on fire

I know we meme about it here and other parts of the internet but this is seriously an r-slured way to view renting.

If you own your own home you'll need to pay property taxes, usually more bills (around here water for example is nearly always covered by the landlord), and interest payments on the mortgage, which for a 30-year mortgage is gonna start at somewhere between 2/3rds and 3/4 of your monthly mortgage payment. All that money is being "burned" just as rent would be, the only money that isn't is the principal portion of your mortgage payment, which isn't gonna be high in a 30-year mortgage at the start anyways.

The difference (since landlords aren't in the business of losing money) is what you pay for the flexibility of being able to move at will, without having to pay insanely high transaction costs (total transaction cost of a home is as much as 10% including origination fees on loans, agent fees, etc., across both buy and sell sides), plus without the capital outlay needed to purchase a home (down payment).

So stop being r-slurred and just rent a place. You'll gain an understanding of what it's like to live on your own and take care of yourself - actually take care of yourself, not what you're doing now.

As a side note, stepping away from the financial aspects, there's a huge amount of independence that comes from not living with your parents. None of my friends who have moved into their own homes/apartments have ever complained, the response is universally "darn why did I wait so long?", especially if you want to start dating.

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Seems to one of the few dissenting view here.

I fully agree renting is great for flexibility but I frankly don't need any flexibility atm and wish to stay in the area I'm in :marseyshrug:

ATM the independence thing is the only pro I can see for myself and it's not really that huge of a sacrifice like a lot of people here are saying - if I'm still stuck in two years I think I'll re-assess but talking with people here it's not nearly as dire as I was making it.

Does that all make sense.

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I'm not saying you should definitely move out. I'm just saying that if your reasoning for waiting until you can buy a house is "renting is throwing money away" you're being dumb. There's other reasons to stick around and live at home for another year or two, but "paying money to a landlord is setting it on fire" is stupid.

Keep in mind that if you go straight into homeownership, you'll be making two very large changes at the same time (living on your own + owning your own home). That's not inherently terrible or anything but it'll be more of a shock than taking it one at a time.

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Yeah I think we're in agreement then.

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see https://rdrama.net/h/peakpoors/post/199620/someone-good-at-economy-what-are/4865887

20% down is important, less than that you'll get a higher interest rate + PMI fees. A good lender will analyze different scenarios and they'll tell you what the difference is in your monthly payment. You can calculate it yourself too if you know how to do it.

What really matters on affording a mortgage is what % of your income it comprises. If the payment fits your budget, don't worry about 8% interest. A house is a long term thing and you'll most likely see interest rates drop eventually. Rule of thumb on refinancing is that a 1% drop in interest rates usually pays for itself over the lifetime of the loan (but do the math to get an exact answer first, it depends on the rate, principal, and term remaining). At 8% you can reasonably hope to see drops of 2% or more in the future if you are patient enough.

Don't rely on a roommate, be prepared to pay the mortgage on your own. A roommate isn't a bad idea if you want to use the rent money to pay down extra mortgage principal or improve the house, but that income shouldn't be taken as a given. Also beware bad tenants and be prepared to deal with local laws wrt rental contracts.

Check your credit score and optimize it if you can.

If you're not doing it already, stuff your savings into a money market fund, most of them are earning 5% interest now.

Make sure you have a cash buffer left over to fix anything that might be broken or will break in the first couple months of owning the house.

Take your time. You can afford to wait and save more money. You're already saving an unbelievable amount of opportunity cost by not paying rent + utilities.

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That degree finally paying off

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Aren't you saving? Even with the interest rate hikes the fact that you're bumming off your parents (sensible) should be enough to put you over any down payment minimum within 2 or 3 years easy, especially at 60000.

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Yes I'm putting away 30% of my paycheck directly into savings along with 4% pretax to 401k and 3% to stock purchase plan.

It's very fosstard / zoomer but I also buy BTC weekly for a long shot investment.

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Sorry yeah, I read the rest of the thread. If the issue isn't your saving but whether to take another year out to save then I'd say do so tbh. Not sure what rent is like in your area/the area you'd plan to buy in eventually but if it's in decent demand you can take any mortgaged house and rent it out on a room basis to get you anywhere from 1.5x - 2x the mortgage cost from the tenants and use that to do anything like funding another mortgage on top of that (the building equity meme) to other more risky investments. Could even use it to move to the center of the hustle and bustle for where you live and catch up on anything you fear you're missing out on right now.

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that is a good tip. I could see doing that in my house especially if my friend and I get along well with the roommate situation.

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If buying a house really is a priority for you it should be above buying BTC on your personal finance agenda. Pause it for now and redirect that money into your savings. You can resume it after you're settled into your comfy house.

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We're talking $2.5K over the last year or so, not nothing but I'm also comfortable with that for an investment.

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Mind you I'm not saying this to criticize what you're buying or investing in, I'm just saying that taxable investment should be one of the lowest items on your priority ladder right now.

Just my personal approach though. I'm a minmaxxer when it comes to saving and I either pause or minimize the lowest priority, nonessential stuff to feed more cash flow into savings when I have a major savings goal.

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That is certainty a good point and I'll agree it's not 100% rational and is more based in putting my money where my mouth is w/r/t FOSS software.

What I need to do currently w/r/t bad cash flow choices is figure out how I'm planning some vaycays with my buddy who lives paycheck to paycheck on six figures.

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Don't cuck yourself for other people. Save money, invest, advance the career. It's far better to be a 30 year old who spent their 20s living simply with a quarter mil in the bank than be the 30 year old who did the "cool" stuff but can't rub 2 nickels together. Ignore the haters with big loans and build the finances and habits that will let you be comfortable and healthy in the future

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I posted about it before but there's already a bit of a rift forming in my friend group as some of us advance in our career and others continue working the same dead-end job they have for years or blowing money on weed. :marseygiveup:

Definitely doing my best to look forward.

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It's sad tbh. Half my friends are well into their careers and moving forward in life, the other half are 18 year olds in 29 year old bodies. It's sad to see your old friends just stagnate and stop being relatable

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Yeah exactly, that's a good way to put it.

Marriages are on the horizon for some in the group with GFs which I'm sure will accelerate the "stop being relatable" feeling - God forbid children start coming into play.

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Is the rift because they're not good friends :marseymeangirls: or because they're poor?

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No I'd say we're all pretty close. :marseyhugretard:

We see each other every 2-3 months minimum and are constantly talking online. :marseypartyzoom:

Yes the money stuff comes into play but it's mainly because a lot of my friends won't apply themselves to get a better job. :marseyantiwork2:

Everyone advancing in their careers has offered not only encouragement or advice but I've written a bunch of resumes for friends now only for them to not bother applying anywhere :marseyindignant:

It's kind of come to a head where I'm working to optimize those trips around the people who are making $20k/yr and it's getting awkward if the more accomplished people would like to do something a little more outgoing. :marseybeach:

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Bruh moment :marseycringe2: fr fr. If they're good friends :marseyross: and truly content :marseybeanrelieved: being broke they won't get butthurt over you and your more well off friends :marseytherachel: going :marseysal3: on expensive trips. I've never :marseyitsover: seen a good reason to lose friends :marseysnoohug: if you still enjoy their company. Don't conflate their lack progress :marseymicrosoftpride: as some sort of shortcoming on your end. Just accept :marseyokay: it for what it is and hope they aren't strags when the rich Bois wanna go to a 500$ admission event

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I highly doubt there'd be any schism from it, it's just kind of a bummer to see your bros not doing there best - ya know?

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But that's the crux, should :marseynorm: you not enjoy seeing your bros content :marseyregular: vs monetarily successful? Ignore :marseyerasure: this if they're constantly complaining about not being able to pay bills.

While I don't t believe :marseyparappa: in antiwork :marseywolfwalker: I do believe :marseyparappa: there :marseycheerup: is more to happiness :marseybikecuck: than making money. If they have no productive/growth hobbies ignore :marseyerasure: this too (gardening, sports, music, art, etc. Things that grow a person :marseypussyhat: internally)

Basically, do you feel they aren't doing their best by your standards or are they genuinely doing nothing :marseynothingburger: but work weed and vidya?

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constantly complaining about not being able to pay bills.

They do be doing that lol. No contentment to be seen.

work weed and vidya?

Yes, a few are unemployed lol

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Bruuuuh okay nvm I am fully on your side now

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I didnt move out until i was like 26??

Stay at home, it's not the same stigma as it was before imo

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I'm a bit younger than that so it's getting up there.

You are correct though. Plenty of my friends are living at home or rely on their parents significantly.

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I work in trades and there's guys in their late 20s still at home and no one gives them any grief. Used to be in a job like that you could afford your own place no problem.

I started my first serious relationship while we both still lived at our parents. No one really cares anymore imo

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Do you still enjoy working trades? I've had some buddies with trades skills I've encouraged to apply more but they seem content with basic manual labor :marseyshrug:

Hm, I guess I should give relationship more of a shot for sure.

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More pros than cons. The days can be long and there isn't always a definite start/end time. Hard work and odd hours sometimes.

The pros are that i don't really work around people, get a company car with a gas card and skilled tradespeople are hard to find and retain so the bosses arent huge peepees.

I can't handle jobs with heavy social components like office work or retail and i can't ever see myself transitioning to an office/supervisor role so it suits me fine.

Hm, I guess I should give relationship more of a shot for sure.

What's the worst that could happen?? :marseyclueless:

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>his state :marseycoonass: won't give a 0 interest loan for the down payment :marseycoin: after a few classes

Lmao

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At the same time, I feel like I'm stunting my development as I'd held off any serious relationships until I have my own place.

As a 30 year old boomer, I would recommend not self-imposing inflexibility when in reality you have all the flexibility in the world.

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as usual my own autism seems to be my own worst enemy

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I lived at home for a while while working my first job out of school. Idk how zoomer girls feel about it but you could just go back to their place

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Mortgages and interest rates blah blah blah. Just a buy a ticket to Colombia and have s*x with whores.

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:#marseyropeyourself:

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Roping? I thought I was just going to eat bugs in the pod :marseygiveup:

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sit still and save, become a large-downpayment cel

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Simple :marseysmug4: as this, if you want some kitty, you can't be at home.

You do the math

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That's what I thought but it appears to be a meme

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Move to Romania :marseycool:

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I've been at my current job for over a year now and it's got solid pay ~$60k/yr

What's your position and skillsets? Education? How old are you?

Staying at your parents isn't a bad thing. I was with my parents even though I was working most of my 20s until I moved out when I was 26 with no college debt and with my first "after college" job starting at 60k back in 2016.

ATM I'm thinking of bitting the bullet for inflated interest rates as I'm in a good place financially (I have zero debt) but it does make me concerned that the “you will own nothing” seems less and less like a conspiracy theory for the Zoomer generation.

This would be the most unideal time to buy a house while the market is being really stupid expensive right now. Like I'm seeing homes that haven't been remodeled in 40+ years looking for 300k. It's stupid.

while most mortgages suck there are alternatives that schizo listed, depending also on which banks you hit up too credit unions can be helpful too.

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skills, age

Jr Sysadmin of sorts, mid 20.

No degree but certified linux-autism

buying

Yup seems like the consensus is to stay at home and quit worrying about stunting growth.

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Yeah stay home, and if you want to make more money having no degree is a weak point with some if not most companies still so either an online thing or keep chasing certs. If your company offers education reimbursement I highly recommend you take advantage of it. Sys admin stuff is sys admin stuff, you either stick around to be the head admin of password reset monkies or branch out into development and make more $$$.

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I'm significantly less worried about the degree now that I've had this job for a year, but will be pursuing certs. I can probably get Red Hat and generic Linux ones with minimum effort.

I kind of like being reset monkey guy if i can continue earning more :marseymonke:

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If you don't want hardcore computer science there is always the computer science and information or just computer information degree. but go for comp sci and info since that looks better.

I kind of like being reset monkey guy if i can continue earning more

The max you'll prob ever earn is like 80k doing that before you get replaced by a sexy Indian dude or a robot. Dont waste your 20s just kicking back and relaxing if you want to earn more.

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I just absolutely hate formal education.

I'm okay with working below market rate if I don't have to suffer through proper schooling or taking on debt.

100% on board with certifications though, no disagreement there.

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I hear ya but trust me getting through those pain points will be done easier now than later when you're older and more would already be expected of you.

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