so i am 23 years old. I recently achieved financial independence, I also have a pretty good job at a reputable multinational company. I love working here, but it has become commonplace and repetitive.
at the same time, things seem as empty as if nothing would make me happy anymore. i don't feel satisfied and i don't feel happy.
in the past, travel and worldview made me happy, I felt something, and it gave me something I could hardly wait for every month.
so i don't know .. i'm stuck and i feel empty. as if something is seriously missing that I can’t satisfy
i feel like i'm good at things but i'm never the best .. for example i got to the second best rank in the video game i play but i could never get the best. it's a repetitive pattern in several things I do in life, I feel like I can never be the "best" in something it's keeping me up a lot at nights
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Get a girlfriend.
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I was fricking a mentally ill egirl earlier this month it gave me like 3 days of happiness.
We went to IKEA together and all that
She lost her virginity to me and then we never talked again. Really odd encounter
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Alright, now try that again with a foid who's not mentally ill. The whole "relationship thing" can be very rewarding, if you find the right person.
Also, if you want to be the best at something, it has to be something you're deeply passionate about. You won't ever be the best at something unless you truly love it.
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They seem to be looking for the best, at times, but deep parts of their cognitive process is increasingly looking for someone who will settle.
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Stop posting this fricking garbage you fricking degenerate. I wish the Zionist conspiracy was real so we could fricking shoot your worthless half breed butt into the Sun.
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I really think the key to not killing yourself as an adult is constantly restructuring your life in a way so that you always have something to look forward to. If you are in a rut, then it's best to schedule something out for the future, like seeing an old friend or going on a trip. In the meantime, while you wait for these larger events, pick up a new hobby / exercise / etc., anything that gives you continual positive feedback from improvement or completion.
If you're constantly learning, there isn't really a pressure to be "the best" at something, because you're really just focused on getting better than your baseline. It's better to be frustrated than bored. I like video games but I also think that these kinds of hobbies can't be anything using a screen; our monkey brains aren't wired to get the desired response from them.
It's not really possible to achieve true satisfaction I think, but if you make sure you're working towards the concept of it you'll keep the sad away and that's what matters more.
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Get a pet.
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Grow something; I personally like roses. Putting your hands in the dirt is good for you.
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You could also try growing some kids
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We do have a pretty large house with like 100's of plants already. We have stuff like cherry trees apple trees and such as well
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Find some chick and pump her full of kids
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That's what work is, man. Most of the time. Pursue your passion in your hobbies. Pursue money in your job.
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have you contacted amazon fulfillment services
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Try drugs if you havent.
Amphetamines will get you that top spot. I got super high on the leaderboards of hotline miami because i challenged myself to complete every level in one combo while binging them, and like all of the top scores are hackers so i don't even know what my actual spots were
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i hate druggies so much. Especially when you proselytize your shitty and dangerous habits to other (vulnerable) people.
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Seem kinda angry man, you should try MDMA
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go on an easy grade hike and blow bubbles
it's more fun if you blow bubbles into the wind
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