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My (M21) Gf (F23) keeps getting r*ped at parties. I don't know what to do... : relationship_advice

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Throwaway, because I am ashamed to even ask for help.
My (M21) Gf (F23) has gotten r*ped 3 times over the course of her life. 2 before she met me and one during. We have been dating for about a year. All of them have been at parties and have been caused by a stranger taking advantage of her.
Obviously she is a victim and doesn’t deserve anything that has happened to her, but she will not stop going to parties and getting drunk and high to the point where she isn’t fully aware of her surroundings. She says if she stops going then the male feminists win, because she’s loves to have fun with her friends and listen to music. I usually do not go to these parties as I despise party culture and have a tight circle of friends who I will only celebrate their birthdays with. I have gone to some of these parties that she goes to and she is very popular and friendly.
I worry that she is being taken advantage of to the point where she doesn’t consider that a huge trust factor is being broken with me. I really do not like her going to these parties and have been going with her ever since the last one happened. I feel that I ruin the mood she has, by being worried and feel that she doesn’t want me there. She tells me she loves me and appreciates me going because she knows I hate it. So I'm not worried about her lying or anything of the sort just confused.
She tells me that people grope her in public and kiss her when they pass by too. I am deeply disturbed that something might be wrong with her as I care about her very much. I don't know if it is caused by dissociating or some other mental illness but I will never let anything happen to this woman again. I have considered marrying her in a couple years but I don’t know if I can trust someone that puts no effort in trying to stop this from happening. I feel like an butthole for even thinking that but I want to protect her. Please anybody let me know if you have been a in a similar situation or any ideas to help her. Thank you.


									
								

							

							

								
									
								
							

							

								
	

							

						

						
						

							

								
							

						

					

					
						

							
							
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I’m pretty sure her definition of “r*pe” is “I regretted it the next morning.”
R*pe in the original sense is repulsive, but somehow these five-times r*pe survivors rarely support punishments for all male feminists that fit the crime.
Edit: physical castration followed by life without parole is too harsh — but maybe life without parole alone would do it. Something to keep them from reoffending… something that would feel silly if it’s a punishment for something more or less consensual.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I think it's not next morning regret, but rather just blacking out, not remembering all the shit you said yes to, and thinking "im a good person i wouldn't have cheated"

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Just posted the comment but a friend of mine was actually arguing with her boyfriend that she couldn't control her behaviour when she was blackout drunk so there was nothing she could do if she started getting it on with someone else at a party. At no point was "not getting blackout drunk" a part of the conversation

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Realistically, not getting blackout drunk will not help the fact that shes a slut, wants to bang other dudes, and is just pretending not to be when shes sober.
Even if she promised never to drink again I don't think it would help the underlying issue

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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That makes more sense than my theory, especially because it’s even more :marseybangfast:…

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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The thing to keep in mind is that any amount of malice or harm coming from the actions of women should be attributed entirely to how r-slurred they are and is not done knowingly. They are programmed to genuinely believe the first half-assed excuse that pops into their head with the faith of the pope himself.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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:marseysigh:
Maybe Islam is right about women after all.

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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That's just because society allows them to get away with excuses.  Take away forgiveness, replace it with revenge, and watch how quickly their brains will reconfigure themselves to gain some self-awareness

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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Bro they INTENTIONALLY don't give life sentences to male feminists to stop them from just murdering their chief witness

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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I hadn’t thought of that…

						


						
							

							

								
									
								
							


							

								
	

							


							

								

									

										
										

									


								
						

					
				


				

				
					
	

	
		

			
		


		

			

				
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