47F. My career doesn't matter to guys? : dating_advice

Women who go to Reddit for dating advice are pathetic since Reddit isn't designed to give truthful advice to stuff like this, only emotional validation. If your problem is that you need to quit Onlyfans and get some makeup advice, nobody on Reddit will tell you this (or if they do, it'll be heavily downmarseyd). Instead, their advice will be more like how hecking valid you are and how you just have to be yourself and the right person will eventually come along. And to be honest, it's such a darning critique of the foid condition that most of them would rather have this kind of useless narcissistic affirmation rather than actual useful advice that could help them become their best selves.

I'm sure all Drama foids are already smart enough to know this, but if you're on a dating site, you need to at least be hot enough to bang before men start giving even the tiniest shit about the details of your personal life. You could be a great friend with many professional accomplishments and a hilarious personality, but I don't care, because I'm not really looking for friends on a dating site. That's what social events like Meetup are for. On a dating site I'm looking for people I would be willing to stick my peepee into. Once people meet that bare minimum requirement then I start filtering by personality and accomplishments, but I'm not gonna like suddenly find Madonna attractive just because she's a very talented career woman.

But Drama foids are a different breed from Reddit foids because you're fine with the truth, even when it's unpleasant. The typical Reddit foid's relationship to truth is like a fire department's relationship to fire.