my bad, and i like just figured you had cleaned up today.
back story, and short story form
so my husband had a heart attack last year, and he quit work to recover, and he was really proactive in the first few months but eventually fell totally into a deep depression, and and along i stumbled with him
my heart is telling me his days consisted of beinge watching youtube, movies ect, and mine revolved around the kids, and like just taking care of them, and my depression got worse and along with it, the house, and clutter and disorganization now rule here
well my husband has started working again, light work, with a buddy of his but go off i guess
With today being his third day of work. Afterwards his buddy and his wife are dropping my husband off at home. To which my husband calls me, while out front and proceeds to say, "Hey they want to come in and say hi to the kids."
I immediately begin calmly freaking out saying "What the frick, what the frick your not serious are you?"
he says, yeah, whats wrong?
by this point i am near tears saying why??? what the frick is wrong with you??? why are you doing this to me??? are you serious??? no, and no they cant come in right now, and im sorry but no.
so i am mortally embarrassed, and ashamed and sick with my husband right now, and sick with myself over the state of my house
um when he finally gets inside (after telling them god knows what of why they couldnt come in) i ask him what the frick is going on and his reply is simply
my bad, and i like just figured you had clean up today.
He just figured in the 4 hours he's been gone that I was able to clean up 8 months* of depression clutter.
and these arent like just regular ole buddys, and no no no, and these are his our maids have maids wealthy buddys
i am still crying
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also like man has heart attack, woman most affected
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Sweaty, this man is so toxic that having to spend more time with him while he recovered made the stay at home wife depressed.
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heart attack =
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There should be a codecel award that transforms your text to codecel speak
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This but unironically. Equality is lie. I feel there is a midwit meme somewhere in there
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Man is unaffected by hearth attack
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I mean she should clean out of general hygiene but its wild that no one has noticed that he literally neeted around for months?
He has two hands and can move around. He should deffo clean if it bothers him that much
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The clutter doesnโt bother him tho, she is clearly ashamed of it however.
Heart attacks can make someone depressed but her depression is just foid neuroticism
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I mean it clearly bothers him as he expected it to be clean by the time he came back from work and wanted to invite his friends to the house
Either that or he is shameless and would be okay with presenting a dirty house to guests
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u been presley a fricking while now bb
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Straggots still don't understand the average foid is a misandrist.
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So wait, her husband nearly dies from a heart attack and had to take time off to recover, so because of this SHE falls into a depression and lets the house go to shit?
Then she freaks out when he tries to be friendly and invite his coworker in, because the house is such a mess, but she's perfectly fine with her and her family living in such conditions?
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I like how she framed it.
He's binge watching YouTube and she heroically takes care of the kids
Like he can do much more while recovering from a heart attack
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Recovering from a serious near-death health issue is no fricking joke. Having to quit your job is pretty messed up for a man.
I'm guessing him no longer being the uber-provider set off some shit in her brain. House busy work is always the first what-are-you-doing-for-me thing
buuut he was probably out of shape already which is what caused the attack, no one likes a fat slob
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Yup. Witnessed it with my dad. Dude was a shadow of his former self for months before he could sloooowly start rebuilding some of his fitness. Take care of your hearts, kids
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I saw it on my dad as well. He had been working monday through monday for decades, when he had to take a year off to take care of his heart issues he went deep into depression
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His body gave up. He showed weakness. Even if he still had money. She would still get ick. Becouse his man is weak
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He literally has permanent damage to his heart and scar tissue on his heart.
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skill issue
no pity for moids
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my heart is telling me least egotistical woman
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H8s heart was tellinimg him ัะถะพะฒัะบะธะฝะพะดะธะฟะฐะทัะฟัะทะพะฟะธะดะถะฒัะฝะธะฟะตะดะถะฟะตะผะฐัะธะฒัะทะถะฟะฐะฟััะผะนะฒัะฟjajdhe
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Yes. What is it so hard to get
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I guess the part where everyone is saying they're sorry for her, and her husband is a piece of shit?
I didn't know if I was missing something obvious that actually made her sympathetic
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World ended. Woman most affected
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This is unironically child abuse.
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She is suffering, chud
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Oh, she has a job?
Lmao.
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Women using child support for the childโs needs? Never!
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means she is not paying her own bills
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Darnit, breakingmoms is my get free DC because itโs nothing but moms causing drama and circlejerking themselves for being shitty parents
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like just clean up your house sis
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Seriously, babies donโt take that much time. Just throw shit in garbage bags and nobody is going to care if the house is a little messy
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The internet was unironically a mistake. We have allowed people to collectivise into online communities with nothing but affirming each other's shitty to insane options and screed. So much that it bounces into real life enmasse.
The problem is, when you go so long in a community without your shitty ideas or opinions being challenged, you turn into a fricking r-slur. How many people irl do you know that can actually understand nuance? You could count them on your hand.
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Imagine having a heart attack and instead of supporting you/helping you recover, your wife lounges around and makes things worse. Then when you finally are able to stand and have some friends over she has a meltdown because the house is too messy. Like who do you think is gonna clean it? He literally had a heart attack
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Maybe if he had a real disease like fibromyalgia or long COVID he'd have an excuse. But a heart attack? Like, get over it
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ok but it's one thing and I can kinda empathize if she had a bunch of toddlers (well not really you should still clean more than once a year ffs
) but her oldest is almost 18
even a 5 year old can be made to clean. just make your kids clean up after themselves or they get the back of a shoe wtf no reason why one person should clean up after an entire family other than spinelessness
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Yeah anyone with kids can see through this bullshit. Once mine got to 6 and 10 they were like totally autonomous and actually helped. Young kids are a huge drain but once they can fend for themselves it becomes infinitely easier. Of course this assumes a hysterical twox redditor who lets trash pile up has kids who are mentally stable (unlikely).
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My younger siblings in the 6-10 age range have an insatiable desire to destroy things and are embodiments of entropy.
The house constantly looks like a tornado went through it and my parents have dealt with it by working long hours so they spend the minimum amount of time home.
The youngest had its birthday recently and the others celebrated by breaking all of its toys the very next day.
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That just sounds lile your parents didnt raise the kids lmao
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You should let them watch anime with you so they'll have a distraction to prevent them from breaking shit.
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Stop grooming kids into a porn addiction/transitioning
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I don't watch anime.
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You know who you are.
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Keep yourself safe
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You first
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I wonder if the absent parents could have something to do with the kids being feral
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You have bad parents and they should feel bad
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18??? What the frick??
My mother wouldโve killed me if I didnโt help clean at like 8
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She better mean 18 months
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most stable reddit mom
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I hope the government takes their kids away
8 months of not cleaning is fricking disgusting
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https://old.reddit.com/r/kratom/comments/ye0q36/does_traditional_urine_lab_testing_test_for_kratom/itvea1p/
Poor kids.
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tbf, kratom is about the best possible thing u could hope a junkie is on.
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If I were him I would pray for the next heart attack to be fatal. What a c*nt. And of course the other c*nts of Reddit are kissing her butt.
Are you feeling better today? How are your hands?
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thanks for asking, and iโm a bit better but taking day off from work ๐ค chewy is keeping me company but go off
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there's a fricking serial killer in ur closet
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Should have shopped it a little lol
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I dated a girl like this for a month. I was over at her place one night and went to take a shower in the morning. The I stepped in, then looked down and saw the filthiest bathtub I've ever seen. The whole drain was clogged up with hair, brown stains everywhere, it was horrific.
I was giving her the benefit of the doubt, and assumed her landlord was shit. Turns out, she owned the place, and just hadn't fixed it.
Guys get a lot of shit for setups like this
and rightly so, but most of the mess in super-bachelor apartments is usually clothes and dishes and shit in my experience.
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an hvm wouldโve gotten out the scrubbing bubbles and gotten to work ๐ ๐ป you didnโt deserve her
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As a kid my room looked like that, until my mother had my brothers fill it with furniture (wardrobes, dressers, stands whole shebang). I hated it and refused to use them for years. I'd literally take my clean cloths and stack then on a chair in front of my wardrobe.
Same thing happened with a bed, but I actually used that.
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I like open spaces!
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Opinions on weighted blankets and strict routines?
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Love em both.
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99% of modern single women live like absolute pigs
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At least that place looks vacuumed and there's not shit/clothes/dishes everywhere.
I'll take that any day over a place that looks like a bomb went off in it.
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also like woman try not to make literally every excuse not to work and then be surprised by the consequences challenge (impossible)
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โMy ex partner took his own life 5 years ago andโ
Iโd kill myself too if my wife was a redditor
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Never understood why women try to hide how pathetically sloven they actually are.
"No you cant come inside the house." Now his friends know their house is dirty AND he looks like a b-word.
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This is how my foid described my appointment, which is really shocking since I hae cleaned it up a day before
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Hmm, let's have a quick dig and see what we can find. Surely she must be strung out dealing with a clutch of babies and a useless husband
Oh so her oldest is basically an adult. Do they do no chores around the house? Let's keep looking:
Also old enough to help out. There is zero reason this
house should be in a state besides her own terrible parenting.
Before you read this next post, I would advise putting on this soundtrack:
All of this is just a fantastic trainwreck.
To put the cherry on top, she can't commit to anything and keeps overspending on hobbies.
Also can someone please explain to me how getting a piercing equates to buying loads of piercing gear
Having a piercing and doing piercings is not at all the same.
She sounds like a treat.
Oh and the number of her kids keeps changing:
But she also has a 17 year old somewhere in the mix, so it's actually 5.
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Shocker, wouldn't have seen that coming at all.
Yfw foids say child support "is their own income" lmbo.
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8 months worth of nasty skank lebensraum
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This part's actually kinda fricked up. Like at that moment the thing he really needed from his wife was some stability to help him. She completely, totally fails him in this regard. Definitely one of the few times in their marriage that he really needed her and she's nowhere to be found.
Side note what's with people and not cleaning? I was visiting some friends a little bit ago and they had somewhat recently moved to a new house, like a few months ago. Yet they still had some stuff that they hadn't unpacked. And while giving us a tour of their new house they skipped the master bedroom bc they said it was a mess in there. I'm obviously not gonna snoop in on their stuff but at one point the door was open and you could clearly see a ton of suitcases and luggage and shit with clothes just strewn around randomly, as if they never bothered to actually fold shit and put it away in a dresser or closet. Just baffling behavior tbh.
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fatherless behavior tbqh
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livin' he dream!
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You should understand that there are 8.3582221e+48 (83,582,221,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000) (83 million billion billion billion billion) possible subreddit names in the standard subreddit URL namespace; roughly 1.2 million of those have been claimed. That's less than one billionth-billionth-billionth-billionth of one percent. Statistically speaking, Reddit is cosmically empty. It's wide-open!
But at least 1 of those subreddits -- /r/AgainstHateSubreddits -- isn't wide open.
There's a topic.
Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
archive.org
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archive.ph (click to archive)
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