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Cw: discussion about weight

I am so tired of these dudes who have a complete meltdown if their partner gains some weight.

They will fall all over themselves to say how wonderful and amazing and great personality and whatever that their significant other has but magically they are not attracted to them anymore because they got a tiny bit heavier? Reading stories like this about them trying to force the woman to diet, exercise with them, etc. The sad thing is the sheer number of people that will agree with this guy and guys like him, other women included.

Example: Dude told his girlfriend that she was too fat and that's why he won't sleep with her, causing her to have a complete breakdown and crying for days. People thought this was somehow acceptable behavior because it was "honest". Kept saying stuff like "required for my attraction" when talking about weight. Kept saying how weight like this "isn't acceptable" in his country. He wants a family (?) with this girl too. Where does he think get weight will go then? (ETA he said she was already overweight when they met btw)

I'm just flabbergasted. People even compared it to being trans and transitioning. The fatphobic comments were terrible.

ETA: the men trolling this post is hilarious. Even got some DMs. Get a life please lol

ETA2: I live for the men's comments on this thread, you're also trash fyi 😚


the post she's talking about is this one. i made a post about it here. please upmarsey :marseybegging:


Had an ex beg me to go on birth control because ew condoms, and when it made me gain weight and break out (which I told him it would), he started making snide comments. Meanwhile, he was laying there with a jelly belly and nearing flabby arms. 🤢

>body shaming is bad, you fat scrote

:#marseynails:

I found the post and he says that she's been overweight for their entire relationships, and that he's always found thinner women attractive. So, why did he start dating her?

Because he's probably ugly, stupid, toxic and broke and nobody else fell for his bullshit

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I read that post, too. It was pretty terrible. I hope she dumps him and finds someone who genuinely appreciates her.

These guys always pretend it's about bEiNG hEALthY when it's really about what they find frickable. They never complain about anorectic celebs or models.

Yeah there's no way they'd care as much if they were dating or screwing someone who was so ill they couldn't eat or so ill from not eating. It's fine for women to be weak or small or barely exist. Anything else is intimidating or gross to some of these creeps

In the thread she even offered to go work out but because their schedules are different he won't change his schedule to go work out with her at all. He wants everything but puts in nothing

>he wants everything

everything means her not being 20kg(44 pounds for :marseymutt2:) overweight

:#marseyobesescale: :#marseylaugh:

A lot of men date women to have a body not a partner. It's why I've sidelined dating them. I'd rather have my own life and own things going for me than be at the mercy of someone so…flippant

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I don't know why, but I've seen some men who say these things and I always think “what do you think you look like?” I remember seeing on TV a man saying his ideal is Jennifer Aniston but he himself looks below average at best.

Having a preference is fine but their lies about “health” is so stupid. Just admit you want eye candy and let the woman go so she can stop wasting her time. In the mean time, maybe these men should go to the gym themselves and achieve the physique they think they deserve.

The dude said in his thread that he grew up being overweight and so because of that he spent his adulthood getting in shape. So to me it seems really weird that he would date a girl that is not to his level of fitness? Just don't lead this girl on ffs. If you really want to date someone who's going to be as fit as you go find that person. Also makes me think he's probably not as fit as he claims to be anyway.

she put on 20 kilograms. if anything she lead him on :#marseywomanmoment2:

Ya, I've seen many of them and most do not live up to their own standards even lol. It's why I wonder wtf they see in the mirror. Maybe he thought he could change her - her personality and everything else is up to standard so now he just has to fix weight by getting her to lose it so physically she'll meet his ideal too. Either way, she can find someone who'll treat her better and I hope she leaves.

yes, dump the boyfriend that actually cares for her well being. this will surely be a good move in the long term :#marseyagreefast:

These are just the guys not to take too seriously, nothing long term and certainly no pregnancy. They won't be able to handle it.

He was talking about having kids with her and I'm like bro what do you think is going to happen?

Men really don't understand how much pregnancy changes a woman's body and that it isn't just eat less and you can keep the weight off. They really don't understand how hormones work.

They totally think they're going to marry the unicorn woman who's going to bounce right back after each and every kid. Omg it makes me so sad when I read about a husband who is no longer attracted to his wife after she birthed all his stupid kids.

and when a woman loses her pregnancy weight they'll blame genetics or some other bullshit reason.

:#marseyradfem: :#marseycope:

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From the post in question:

we are talking over 20kg

From this post:

magically they are not attracted to them anymore because they got a tiny bit heavier?

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>tiny bit heavier

!biofoids why are you like this?


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It's too frame her opponent as a ridiculous person worthy of ridicule. 4lbs would make HIM the jerk, but 40 would make it clear she's got some blame in the matter, so he couldnt be all that bad.

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44 lbs is the weight of six babies.

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44lbs is ~25% of my weight as a 6'2” man

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imagine walking around with six babies tied to your belly, butt and thighs -- "it's just a tiny bit of weight" :marseyxd:

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imagine walking around with six babies tied to your belly, butt and thighs

IDK that sounds pretty based

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If you aren't ok with the person you love slowly killing themselves and destroying their body through a slow and painful accumulation of health conditions then you hate women.

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idc about that i just think fat is nasty


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Asking amerikkkans to lay off the mcdorbalds for a month

:marseysaluteusa: :marseywagie:

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McDonalds is one thing but Dunkin and KrispyKreme should be BURNED DOWN in minecraft

some people think a pile of that shit is a normal snack

"Imma buy a bag of donut holes"

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I am not OK with what you have just said but I really hate women.

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Maybe she's 7 feet tall?

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maybe shes 4 ft tall :marseyderp:

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https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/183qlro/men_really_do_think_theyre_flawless/kaqgr60

Yeah well it's Reddit - fat women bad.

Not that I've observed. I've observed “heavy women= normal and REAL” Underweight (or even just petite women = shallow, vain, drugs, ED, men who are attracted are libertarians because thin women don't have REAL women's bodies…it's fricking sick and I'm done with this thread.

:#marseychonkerfoid: got her comment removed lmao

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How dare women weigh what they evolved to weigh or look like 23 year olds, men who like healthy women are fricking libertarians :pepereeeeee:

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ALL heterosexual s*x is R*PE but it's not because they look like kids (slant kitty isn't human so it doesn't count)

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fat women bad.

And :marseysteer: good. Simple as

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Oh nice, is that a Reddit archive that isn't broken?

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Because so many men see heavier women as easier. They think women who are bigger are more desperate and will go out with anyone so these men are less likely to be rejected. It's sick and twisted.

Judging by my skinny friends tinder matches this is absolutely true. It's 10:1 fat chicks

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:marseyskinny::!marseychonkerfoid: Your friends need to up their standards jfc. Scrotes gassing up fat b-words will only lead to worse outcomes for both parties. Fat b-words aren't as incentivized to lose weight, and in-shape moids have to fight over women with inflated egos


Speaking from experience, thin women with less than ideal photos turn out better in person than a fat hiding behind creative angles and a cute-ish face

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Agreed. He's had super hot exs but he also has insane codependency and he just got out of a relationship a few months ago so he's down bad. He thinks he'll never be in a relationship again so he's a little swipe happy atm

I've tried to talk him out of that stupid thinking but codependency is a heck of a drug

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Lol, it's guys with low self esteem, or the occasional BBW fetish Chad

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Man agrees to forgo any other possible s*x partner and commits to a single female promising her reliability and dependability for her life.... she immediately get super fat trapping the man with something he'd never agree to. Complains that he's the problem.

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because they got a tiny bit heavier?

A tiny bit heavier you say?

:#marseychonker:


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It's always the “tiny bit” that carries an elephantine amount of weight.

The only retort that these foidplanets actually have is that their moids are usually also fat fricks.

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dependapotamus

story as old as time

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Least foid entitlement on display :marseyxd:

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Yeah, I assume it's because we don't want to insult someone we claim to love? Idk how men do it.

Men are socialized to treat women with kid's gloves. If men actually treated women like men they would be fired from their job or dumped in a week lol.

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you can walk into a room of white collar professionals and it's still funny to open the door with "sup frickers?"

once you let in the skirts, it becomes sensitivity training

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>women neg on men all the time

>society negs on men

>society also encourages men to neg on each other and isolate

Men unironically perish or prove themselves in these stupid trials of the spirit. Meanwhile foids just fold in any sort of minor obstacle

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I found the post and he says that she's been overweight for their entire relationships, and that he's always found thinner women attractive. So, why did he start dating her?

Because he's probably ugly, stupid, toxic and broke and nobody else fell for his bullshit

So only women who are overweight would fall for an ugly scrote?

What did she mean by this?

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I laughed at that part too. What an obvious backhanded comment lol.

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Women try to support women without taking random shots challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)

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I get that "I know I'm not attractive, so I'm asking you out because I think you're in my league" is a massive, implicit insult, but what else are ugly moids to do?

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for any remotely sane woman, the whole comment section should be a wake-up call. "is this what I have become?"

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Poorly thought out If/then logic. Foids that trash their friends' partners and other friends usually get trashed even harder by everyone else because they say shit like this.

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where “Putting on a little extra weight” = 30kg in burgerese

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They just want a body!

They want eye candy!

They pretend it's about health!

Bitchx it makes you smell gross, nobody wants that in a partner not even a blind man

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I love the sound of a fatty struggling to breathe. I want a girl who "needs a minute" after merely standing up. I want her stomach to jiggle more than her boobs in bed.

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They sound like incels when they realize women like handsome men

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Why do women always assume men want anorexic models? There's a vast chasm between that and being obese, you don't have to choose one lmao

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Notice how both options totally ignore fitness. gaining 44lbs of fat is going to seriously impact lifestyle, maybe the dude just wants someone who can walk for 20min without getting winded.

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Its not if she was gaining it from a weight in healthy range, whole thing is cos she was overweight but actually overweight not overweight=obese, stacks of woman look fine in that range if they have a nice face, dress well and generally look after themselves, putting on the 20kg ontop of that and its not. Agree with the women though if someone gets you going putting on the weight wont matter that much short term, long term will.

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>be massively obese

>wear stringy tank tops and gstrings

>single mother waddling around walmart

Why wont men change?

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Nah dude if its someone you have the real hots for it really wont matter at least for a bit, its the face and personality that you love, problem is when the fat hits the face

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People who think emotionally or want to manipulate people who do reduce everything to pairs of polar opposites. The opposite of obese is emaciated, and you're bad for wanting women to be emaciated.

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Consider that 40-60lbs is just a little extra to them

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If you can get turned on by a woman who is 5 lbs overweight, you should be able to get turned on by a woman who is 500lbs overweight. It's simple body positivity :marseyindignant:

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I've noticed that if you imagine billions of individuals who don't know each other as a single hive mind, they are really hypocritical

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Yes, bees suck don't they? ::marseyannoyed: :marseybee:

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Don't we do that to women doeever

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Don't care bromo

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um i am flawless!!! :marseyexciteddance:

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The self unawareness of a woman saying men think theyre perfect briefly stunned me

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Mental flash bang right?

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Write down questions and answers involving having a relationship and what kind of relationship you'd like to have then ask them questions and watch as their answers either align or defo do not. Ez. Spoiler alert, they'll almost never align and if they align too well they're mirroring you and they're monstrous narcs so get out of there asap.

This is activating my PTSD from being interrogated every time I meet a pumpkin spice b-word from a dating app.

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>if his values align with yours, get out of there asap sweetie

I love foids so much bros :marseyxd:

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I can't change him if we agree to much, he has to be a little broken :marseyindignantwoman:

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This but unironically. I need that emotionally avoidant sensitive damaged boy energy. If he doesn't get sad and ignore my calls one weekend a month how will I go into a frantic spiral trying to figure out if he still likes me!

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Here's a healthy :marseygrapes: (heh) reminder that American :marseyscooter: perceptions of what being fat means are ridiculously skewed. I seen morbidly obese :marseychonker2: women :marseyhearnoevil: get called "chubby" all the time, and regular :marseyregular: obese :marseycertifiedangus: women :marseyblops2chadcel2: get called normal :marseyregular: all the time

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Fastinating :marseyinvestigate:

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Duh, we're not a meme gender

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what her opinion of manlets

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Governments around the world should just implement all female incel hunting squads. If a male is suspected of being an incel he will be hunted down and r*ped by these incel hunters at gunpoint. Once the incel has been properly fricked by roaming gestapo slut police, he will no longer be incel. This is the de facto solution to the incel catastrophe that has been growing across the planet. The only true way to destroy all incels, is to destroy all inceldom at the root, by forcing them to have s*x.

Snapshots:

this one:

Had an ex beg me to go on birth control because ew condoms, and when it made me gain weight and break out (which I told him it would), he started making snide comments. Meanwhile, he was laying there with a jelly belly and nearing flabby arms. 🤢:

I found the post and he says that she's been overweight for their entire relationships, and that he's always found thinner women attractive. So, why did he start dating her?:

I read that post, too. It was pretty terrible. I hope she dumps him and finds someone who genuinely appreciates her.

These guys always pretend it's about bEiNG hEALthY when it's really about what they find frickable. They never complain about anorectic celebs or models.
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A lot of men date women to have a body not a partner. It's why I've sidelined dating them. I'd rather have my own life and own things going for me than be at the mercy of someone so…flippant:

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/183qlro/men_really_do_think_theyre_flawless/kaqugvo?context=8:

These are just the guys not to take too seriously, nothing long term and certainly no pregnancy. They won't be able to handle it.:

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snappy no

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You can always tell a woman posted something if she adds 3 edits talking about how angry she isn't, that's how you know at least 2-3 comments cut deeply into their soul

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:#marseyglancing:

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>Foids cynically weaponizing empathy and politics to try to control men and accumulate attention

I pray that Chad alpha widows all of them, destroying their ability to have meaningful relations with men for the rest of their lives

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Jokes on you, scrotes, my parents already destroyed my ability to have meaningful relationships. :marseyitsover: for abusive moids.

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I hope Chad fixes you

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I hope so too. :marseypraying:

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dudes rock

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Good morning

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:marseyclown: :marseyminer:

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You are not entitled to physical attraction, you fat cow.

Also, that thread/twox reeks of female incel energy, unironically.

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We don't think it, we know it

:ta#ycrown: :tay#hairflip: :tay#silly: :tay#wink: :tay#flex:

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It's all CICO, anything else is :#marseycope:

Scientists studying female hormones to discover the secret to perpetual motion/free energy

:#marseyscientist: :#!marseyfreud: :#marseychudnotes: :!#marseychonkerfoid:

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Fat people are gross, simple as


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zoz

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zle

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zozzle

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Had an ex beg me to go on birth control because ew condoms, and when it made me gain weight and break out

Lol any excuse at all

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