https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1gql0sh/i_think_i_know_why_some_men_hate_single_moms_so/
I'm not a mother, just a woman who's chronically online
These men want purity in a woman. They subconsciously (or consciously) want a woman who's never had s*x with a man before.
It's why they don't have any nuance in their criticisms. Like, what if a woman is a single mother because her husband died and the children are all his?
What if a man lies about who he is to a woman and doesn't become abusive until several years and several children into their relationship?
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I'd have no problem dating a widowed mother. At least not for the reasons I'd avoid touching an unwed mother with a ten foot pole and a hazmat suit. The former did nothing wrong.
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Most men have no problems with widows, even if they have kids. Its not their fault their moid died.
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I wouldn't start dating any single mother, regardless of if she's a widow or not.
I agree it's not her fault, but I'm still not gonna play second fiddle to some kid, nor do I want to raise a child that's not mine.
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I think attempting to fill the father role of a kid(s) who lost their dad is probably not great for them if I'm doing it
No issues beyond that though
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You don't have to do a good job. You just have to not molest them. The bar is on the floor.
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I just don't think already existent children with established personalities and their own unique conception of what a father is would, in a vacuum at least, be well-served by having that role filled to some extent by a guy who finds moderating a gossip forum for years to be an acceptable use of time.
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It's ok, he's getting a lot of practice as a "Dad"-Janny on this website!
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zozzle
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how are they going to become experienced then ?
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When they become 18 and go to college and join frats/sororities silly.
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That's a relatively recent thing though. Widows used to be pretty much cast out of scoiety
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If she was such a good wife then how come her husband died?
White extinction is long overdue
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Dudes be dyin'
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Dudes Rock!
But sometimes, they rock too hard
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He boozed cruised too hard
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You never know for sure whether or not she killed her moid and got away with it tho
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