women discuss the "bad boys" they dated and their fates

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Personally, I went through this phase at 19, at the beginning of my career as a classical ballet dancer. I was living alone in Paris (I'm french), and I think I craved excitement and novelty. Classical dance is an art that demands rigor and discipline, so outwardly, I was the cliché of the well-behaved girl. But I had gone through a rough adolescence, wanting to break free from that image, so I did some foolish things (teenage foolishness, of course). I think my dance teachers still remember that rebellious phase of my life, haha.

I found out he was involved in a horrific case of gang r*pe. I also learned that he had had a girlfriend throughout our entire relationship. I was horrified.

this is so French it feels fake

I had a chronic infatuation with bad boys when I was in my late teens and early 20s. There were two I had long (and messy) relationships with, and I thank them sincerely for curing that fetish.

One was a 28 year old bouncer who would let me in despite me being under-age (I was 19, you had to be 21 to get in). He had a motorbike, a bad attitude, foul mouth, was very well known in my town, and he was notorious for playing women. The cliche "I can change him" was like my lame motto. Spoiler: I could not.

He is still a womaniser and a cheat, no clue how many kids he has but it seems like I hear about a new one every time I go back, and through his last 20 years of relationships he still randomly hits on me when our paths cross (which isn't often). He has been to prison at least 3 times that I know of.

The other was 30 when I had just turned 18 and he was much worse. Really, really hot, charismatic, and spoiled me with stuff, but also short tempered, violent, and a drug dealer. And quite high up in the ranks of a gang, which I didn't know going in.

I thought I was cool in my dumb teenaged mind because I was with him, and all my friends (plus grown butt women around town) were into him. He would call me "bubby" and "little one" and "sweet girl" and I thought it was romantic. He didn't like it when I dressed up or wore makeup, which I thought meant he liked me "just as I am". He once beat a guy up so bad his teeth came out, and only stopped because his friend tried to comfort me by giving me a hug. So this guy started in on him instead. I eventually broke up with him because he hurt my cat, if that gives you some idea of the level of psychopath I was seeing.

Anyway, he's in prison now. He has been for a long time and will be for a lot longer. When I heard what he did I looked back at so many NSFW things he was into and can't believe how many red flags I missed.

didnt break up with him for being a drug dealer or a high level gang member (where you are liable to be killed for being associated with him) but do break up for hurting the petarino

Classic human mating strategies in action:

Male engages in high risk taking activities and impregnates women, lives fast and dies young (usually this means becoming a deadbeat or getting imprisoned but this one literally lived fast and died young). Impregnated women then find stable males they would not have been attracted to when they were in ther early-mid 20s to invest resources in existing children in exchange for sexual access and possibly children of their own - an investment she did not demand of her previous partners.

I just feel sorry for the men who are genuinely kind and good people who gat their kindness taken advantage of by cynical women who win the "game" twice.

Foids and finding male feminists attractive name a more common duo

Dude this is kinda making me think good looking moid male feminists have it made in the shade

As we got closer, we opened up about our childhoods (things we hadn't shared with anyone else). His father had been cheating on his mother for years with prostitutes, and I grew up in a family without a father and with an abusive mother.

Young brained foid love of sharing trauma always feels incredibly performative, and they're absolute shit at seeing moids being extra performative.

islam is right about women

Is it really necessary to take it out on bald dudes just because they dated shit men

Rich people who shoplift are kitties. If you need the thrill of "getting away with it" that bad make some enemies and wax their family

You know for as often as women talk about how we could crush their skulls with our bare hands, they sure seem to forget sometimes that we could crush their skulls with our bare hands.

Snapshots:

https://old.reddit.com/r/self/comments/1ht4y5j/what_happened_to_the_bad_boy_you_dated/:

• undelete.pullpush.io

• ghostarchive.org

• archive.org

• archive.ph (click to archive)

All this just to ask other women what happened to the chads they used to frick…