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LiterallyShaking brit/bong TER, drop the F  11mo ago (reddit.com) Edited 11mo ago 3,053 thread views #173244

MensLib discover that respecting women results in a dry peepee, spill red pills all over the place

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jl6ecvw?sort=controversial

This is who calls you an incel on the internet:

Yeah, some boys/men will go too far into other direction and be terrified of interacting with women in any romantic or sexual context. It is understandable, but boy did I miss some opportunities because of that mindset.

I'm a grown-butt man, considered friendly, trustworthy and outgoing but I'm still struggling with this. Do you have any advice on how to reach a good balance?

I'm nearing 30. I've internalized the "leave women alone at all times" and "men are trash" rhetoric so hard that I almost consider myself a burden to them simply by existing. I've gone out of my way to minimize interactions with women because I've catastrophized that my mere presence is bothersome.

Just wanted to say this article pretty neatly describes my teenage years, and that behavior hasn’t really left. Sure makes thing difficult… it’s hard to explain when people say things like “just ask them out” or “you need to get….” You can imagine the words, but in any case, there’s no real guide to getting out of this space.

Just the idea of asking someone out in real life makes me cringe.

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Good morning gas all male redditors

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Good morning gas all male redditors

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we havent had a menslib thread in too long :daydream:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1707881499271494.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17101210991135056.webp

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I've changed my mind, they're kinda gross. Mostly because of the autism though.

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menslib is entirely composed of three groups

  • men pretending to be "male feminists" who just want to get in girls' pants

  • incels who think they're the "good ones"

  • women

!moidmoment

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And FtMs.

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And the latter make up most of it, just in the form of men(womyn).

Also denying the existance of self hating moids is a !foidmoment.

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!enemiesofjan new fluffy groyper comment :marseysoypoint:

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:marse!yfluffy:

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:!#marseysoypoint: :space: :space:

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TheOverGroyper

:marseysmug2:

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women kitties

I really doubt any women would purposefully drink from that well of soy cope

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:#marseysurejan:

check the subreddit overlaps

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You're forgetting about pooners trying to browbest strags into eating the boyc*nt.

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>women

learn to read neighbor

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An article on menslib that says "don't listen to what women say they want"? :marseypearlclutch:

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Men as a gender don't know a lot about women but I would hope that this piece of generational wisdom eventually finds its way to every man: never, ever take a woman at her word.

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It's even in a song I like about some sisters owning like 40 forest incels with their boyfriend, do you know its true

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Reading menslib threads always follow this path:

:#marseylaugh: :#to: :#marseydespair: :#to: :#marseydarkxd:

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its almost depressing when these people say, with earnest, that religiously following the Good-Boy-Rules for years hasnt paid off for them, and they still cant understand why women don't fall into their laps

:#marseyblops2chadcel2:

then you see [M,40] in the post and realise they're freaks of their own making

:#marseysmug3:

i think when you understand that these are incels that have gone full swing into the other extreme, "I'll be a doormat so i can maybe get s*x", they're a lot less sympathetic

:#marseymoidmoment:

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Christ moids are pitiable.

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My theory is that the older ones were already incels and just fell back in the "respect women" mindset because they're so unfrickable that they have no other choice anyways

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I can only imagine that bitterness loses its novelty after a few months and they'd go back to treating strangers with cautious dignity while not really expecting anything of them.

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A lot unironically become soycucks picking up a single mom in a sexless marriage and raising someone else's kids. A horrific fate worse than inceldom.

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Horrific, but completely self-inflicted so :marseyshrug:

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I got booted off reddit a long time ago for asking this question:

How many male friends do you have, and who in your friend group partakes in regular exercise?

The answer was just silence and an eventual shadowban.

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Over socialization and it’s consequences….

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Rules of society are made for the barely-not-monkey majority of the populous and are overly strict because it's understood they will be broken. You can imagine what this does to an obsessively rule-based autist.

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Goe I hate straggots so much. Reading this sort of shit just makes my skin crawl. Why does it always have to be "unsafe" this and "creepy" that with these r-slurs? Like why can't you freaks just be normal and have piss orgies like the rest off us?

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I’m hot enough that I can respect women and I still have to shoo them off and remind them that I’m monogamous. I’d respect women a lot less if they didn’t treat me so nicely. I’d be a worse person if I was ugly.

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:#marseypony2:

Snapshots:

Yeah, some boys/men will go too far into other direction and be terrified of interacting with women in any romantic or sexual context. It is understandable, but boy did I miss some opportunities because of that mindset.:

I'm a grown-butt man, considered friendly, trustworthy and outgoing but I'm still struggling with this. Do you have any advice on how to reach a good balance?:

I'm nearing 30. I've internalized the "leave women alone at all times" and "men are trash" rhetoric so hard that I almost consider myself a burden to them simply by existing. I've gone out of my way to minimize interactions with women because I've catastrophized that my mere presence is bothersome.:

Just wanted to say this article pretty neatly describes my teenage years, and that behavior hasn’t really left. Sure makes thing difficult… it’s hard to explain when people say things like “just ask them out” or “you need to get….” You can imagine the words, but in any case, there’s no real guide to getting out of this space.:

Just the idea of asking someone out in real life makes me cringe.:
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You're right Snappy, going gay is the only solution for these..."men".

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Gay? Frick, all this time I thought @Snappy was proposing being a horse fricker

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Good thing these people have moved on from internalizing misandry and joined positive spaces which celebrate masculinity. These people talk like extreme closet cases and the fact their actually straggots is astounding. Even straggots don't deserve this level of emotional torture.

>I ran in some far lefty circles in college, and this article hits home.

>When all the people close to you do nothing but talk about how straight, white, men are the problem... It's hard not to internalize that.

>I, to this day, struggle with my self image in public. I always feel like I'm some looming, intimidating, inherently off-putting presence to everyone, but especially women.

>As a result, it's hard for me to be anything but withdrawn, which makes me act more cold and stiff, which end up making me seem more like all the things I'm afraid of being.

>It's a vicious cycle, and I've only been able to break out of it by being with friends when I'm out in public.

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jlbpk0t/?sort=controversial

>Great article that isn’t talked about much.

>Boys born ~1998 and onwards have been subjected to endless amounts of messaging telling them they are scary, they are predators, they shouldn’t do this and can’t do that…

>As much as it sucks, I truly think young people, but especially boys, need to be given much more grace to make mistakes and learn how to go about meeting, approaching, and asking girls out. It is not some innate thing we should just understand, rather it’s an incredibly complex and ever changing social dance that will be difficult to learn.

>Nowadays, I think boys are being intimidated into not trying, leaving a huge number of boys like you described as the “polite horny teen” that have never and would never do anything to deliberately harm a woman, but they have no fricking clue how to go about it to begin with.

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jl6b7qs/?sort=controversial

>I feel like I can relate to a lot, having a lot of feelings like that, but being terrified of them. I was around a lot of radfems/gender essentialists as a kid who taught me a lot of this stuff, and it's really hard to un-internalize. I fell into the right-wing pipeline as a teenager because I thought it would help me "get back" at all the women who viewed me as a predator as a kid, but I ultimately realized how harmful that stuff was, not just to other people but to myself, and now I feel... isolated. I am still ashamed of myself for having perfectly normal urges, and never harming anyone with them.

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/13ov3wh/spare_a_kind_thought_for_the_polite_horny_teen_boy/jle8cvo/?sort=controversial
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This is a really long way of saying you don't frick.

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The best argument against respecting wahmen is a 5 minute conversation with the average foid

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Any man who uses any variation of the word “internalize” unironically needs to undergo forced feminization. :marseymaid:

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You're going to internalize my rolling pin, ma'am.

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Young men need to understand that they are not required to respect any particular norm or neuroticism. You are your own agent and you will drive yourself in the interests of yourself and those you care about. Aka: piss people off, apologize if you feel you should, and then do it again.

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So true bestie :marseyfluffy:

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I learned this way too late. Also to apologize and grovel less.

Life feels so much more fulfilling this way.

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I'm starting to realize that you guys have this kind of blueprint for success because it IS the best way to be and is the least pathetic way to exist- while being an incel. None of my perspectives or lifestyle advice meaningfully touches on the needs or available resources of an incel, and so when I suggest something or just exist the way I do, our arguments just don't meaningfully interact; passing by eachother like ships in the night.

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I actually got way more gussy with the "incel" blueprint for success

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That frickin' rocks, if you're into that. That sounds aloof and dismissive but I feel like I'm reaching for some weird abstract idea here, about what one's wants are and how that shapes what success is/the best ways to get it.

To be honest, I think moids that struggle, the majority of them, should prioritize and think like this, for their own self-interest in this not-ideal social set up. And then, when they are secure, established socially, or just ready for something else, they can try something more "high minded" or other ideas of success. Feels like things are bass-ackwards with how the socially inept turn to other ideas as a cope instead of treating it like a finishing touch or varnish for their self-actualization.

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Qhat os the incel blueprint for success

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Thank god these moids self-select out of my kitty pool.

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Just wanted to say this article pretty neatly describes my teenage years, and that behavior hasn’t really left. Sure makes thing difficult… it’s hard to explain when people say things like “just ask them out” or “you need to get….” You can imagine the words, but in any case, there’s no real guide to getting out of this space

Falling for the Andrew Tate grift would unironically help this dude

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I imagine for as much as they hate him, his r-slurred advice would actually be an improvement to whatever single mother raised amabs in menslib

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That's mostly why they hate him. Because his advice "shouldn't" work according to the metrics they use to definite their identity

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Most grievances these types of dudes have can be solved by getting off the fricking internet and going outside.

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Nice post, bro! I posted it to twitter.

MensLib discovers that respecting #women results in a dry peepee, spill red pills all over the place https://rdrama.net/post/173244/menslib-discovers-that-respecting-women-results #WhiteMenCantJump #men #foid

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