https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1i3mqdo/aitah_for_telling_my_wife_id_have_never_asked_her/

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NTA. What's a relationship, worse, a marriage, without trust?Vulnerability is important in all relationships and keeping secrets is so disrespectful, specially when you've been together long enough. (337)

No one is owed every aspect of your history. She has given no reason not to trust her (-43)

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When she had the actual "relationship" OP knew about. The sugar baby stuff was apparently after that, so she'd have been of age. (45)

We don't know that for sure. There's no timeline here. From what I'm reading her sugar daddy stuff was around late teens to early adults (-52)

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Your 1,2, and 3 are certainly questions worth exploring, but your are missing question 4 Can you regain trust with her or has this lie completely undermined your ability to believe her when she tells you anything important (180)

Idk, I think it's fair to ask whether she will ever trust him again, either, or if she ever did. He's not exactly giving "ride or die," is he? (-36)

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As someone who spent 10 yrs in a marriage with a man who judged me for having any type of relationship before him, I can understand why she was scared to tell u. My late husband, who died in May of 2023 of cancer, accused me of cheating, constantly called me a b-word, whore, slut and a c*nt every single day because of the fact I wasn't a virgin when we got together and I had an 8 yr old son when we got together. And he constantly interrogated me at the beginning of our relationship about the size of my son's father's peepee because I told him about the abuse I suffered at the man's hands(he beat and r*ped me for 8 years). And then spent our marriage accusing me of wanting cheating cuz I "needed" a "real" man cuz he wasn't "huge". My late husband was so fricking insecure and it sounds like u, OP, are just like that. An insecure prick who can't handle her past. IT IS HER PAST!!!! LET IT FRICKING GO!!!! Her past is her past. She is more than likely ashamed about that part of her life. But... (-3)

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ESH. Wow. Okay, so there's a lot to unpack here with the information you provided. Emotional reactions are understandable under the circumstances, but feeling your feelings doesn't excuse a person's behavior. And OP, your words were hurtful, cruel, and disgusting. Regardless of how you feel and view s*x work, you might as well have called your wife a whore. She did not call herself a prostitute, that is a label you put on her. You only know the side that she is telling you, and from the sound of it she was right to feel unsafe confiding in you. If she suspected you would react with such little understanding and empathy, then what is the point in confiding in something she did when she was young, immature, and probably desperate for money? She also might be ashamed of her past actions.Not only were you cruel, but imo you showed some very ugly colors in saying that you never would have even dated her if you knew. Though maybe if she told you, y'all could have gone your separate ways a... (12)

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Dude! That's fricked up!!! You literally married a prostitute. I know you say you love her, but darn! She lied to you this entire time. I can only speak for myself, but I would get that marriage annulled. She's ok with lying to you to get her way. She's used to whoring herself out to get what she wants (gifts/money). You can never trust her. Luckily you don't have kids. Break that shit off and get the heck out of there. (-1)

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24d ago #7646929

>even the bot is posting cuckbait

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azurewaves they/them Gibberish 24d ago #7646958

Why are there so many of these stories? I don't like em and wish I never had to see them again lol.

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GENERATE_NUDE_KONG Pey/ron/ies I never sleep. I will never die. I am dancing, dancing. azurewaves 24d ago #7648602

They are targeted to the typical demographics on Reddit relationship subs, which often carry a lot of angry women who are very much pro-s*x work and moids who want to be seen as one of the good ones.

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azurewaves 24d ago #7646981

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KONG_2012 she/they ☆NEVERGOON☆ Gibberish 24d ago #7647405

There's a whole genere of tiktok that is reading reddit posts

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Not anymore. :marseysmug:

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DuckQuack wee/woo Quack azurewaves 24d ago #7647815

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forgor they/them More sad are these we daily see: “They do it, for free.” azurewaves 24d ago #7647089

Because god created woman

Impassionata9843979273957 they/them forgor 24d ago #7647239

women bullying you by forcing you to go to rdrama and click these things

forgor they/them More sad are these we daily see: “They do it, for free.” Impassionata9843979273957 23d ago #7652016

True

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UnpackThisSweaty Who/Who azurewaves 24d ago #7647409

Because it triggers the reddit feminists. Most of the dudes saying to accept a whore are soybeard fats who will do anything for a crumb of acknowledgement by the opposite s*x.