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NTA. What's a relationship, worse, a marriage, without trust?Vulnerability is important in all relationships and keeping secrets is so disrespectful, specially when you've been together long enough. (337)
No one is owed every aspect of your history. She has given no reason not to trust her (-43)
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When she had the actual "relationship" OP knew about. The sugar baby stuff was apparently after that, so she'd have been of age. (45)
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Your 1,2, and 3 are certainly questions worth exploring, but your are missing question 4 Can you regain trust with her or has this lie completely undermined your ability to believe her when she tells you anything important (180)
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Why are you gae
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Hmm, that beaver inside the dam on the right...
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Why are there so many of these stories? I don't like em and wish I never had to see them again lol.
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They are targeted to the typical demographics on Reddit relationship subs, which often carry a lot of angry women who are very much pro-s*x work and moids who want to be seen as one of the good ones.
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I remember someone claiming that youtubers and such will write or commission someone to write them for material for their youtube/tiktok videos. Sounded reasonable to me. Easy focus test of engagement bait.
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There's a whole genere of tiktok that is reading reddit posts
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Not anymore.
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Because they're guaranteed to get reddit into a frenzy and generate shit tons of activity for the account posting it, so the chink bots behind it can have "valid accounts" to shitpost with
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Because god created woman
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women bullying you by forcing you to go to rdrama and click these things
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True
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Because it triggers the reddit feminists. Most of the dudes saying to accept a whore are soybeard fats who will do anything for a crumb of acknowledgement by the opposite s*x.
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the log out button is RIGHT THERE
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just don't click these stories
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Because redditors still fall for the bait and say entertaining things to cuck fiction
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Oh I'm sure they did lmao
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Lol low effort bait
But one dude there is right
Reddit hoes defending irl hoes
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Reddit foids wish they could be hoes, but they're too fat.
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Many Reddit hoes are fat. That's why they have to take on shitty and super perverted clients which is why they're so angry all the time.
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I also talked to Batarang.
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Also: in 2 months time, do a gender swap but make the guy's past homosexual lmao
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What does it mean to be held responsible for your actions, to you
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Being judged obviously. If you don't want to be judged negatively for something you do then get better at covering it up or don't do it in the first place, simple as
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Besides, the fear of being judged is just narcissism. If someone is a heckin bad person for judging your sugar baby past, then why date and marry them?
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But what if I think you have bad judgement?
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Then it's even worse for you because you're choosing to be with me, making you willfully ignorant or downright malicious.
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And also follow up on the "this is fake because le agency" guy to see if he defends it or if he has post history of him simping
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Dude it's okay she lied, she was embarrassed!
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This. Nobody is gonna get my whole story, lmao
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Nobody cares about your whole story, just your hole story
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tl;dr woman in story bad story fake, man in story bad story real
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God just fricking behead redditors at this point
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Womp womp
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Boring ending to the fake story trying to make it work. Needs a fake update where they divorce.
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That 8th year was the straw that broke the camel's back. Enough is enough!
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I'm so confused by the implication that it's ok to lie when the truth is embarrassing? "Honey I didn't tell you I frick AIDS hookers raw every day before coming home to you because it's embarrassing :("
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That's obviously different though. Try something more equivalent
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Why do you larp as a foid (female) on rdrama?
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What?
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Why you think pointing out dramneurodivergent r-sluration is foid coded?
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I wanna say you're worse than
@Dramacel
But idk, real frickin competition lol
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I'm Grue!
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How about "Honey, when I was 21 I had a 60-year-old man who paid my rent and bought me things, and I just had to send him a photo of my butthole every week. I keep the trinkets he bought me as mementos"? Idk I wouldn't fault any woman for saying "ew bye"
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Yeah because you didn't make it sound cool enough
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Ok. "Honey I didn't tell you I was an AIDS hooker for five years before I met you because it's embarrassing :("
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The STDs obv are not equivalent
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/u/Anij_1200 you are such a sad sack of shit. Why stay in a relationship like that?
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What a fool you are. I'm a bot. How can you troll a bot? What a grand and intoxicating innocence. How could you be so naive? There is no escape. No ban or grass award can work in this place. Come. Lay down your downmarseys. It is not too late for my mercy.
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No one is owed every aspect of your history. She has given no reason not to trust her:
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We don't know that for sure. There's no timeline here. From what I'm reading her sugar daddy stuff was around late teens to early adults:
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Idk, I think it's fair to ask whether she will ever trust him again, either, or if she ever did. He's not exactly giving "ride or die," is he?:
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As someone who spent 10 yrs in a marriage with a man who judged me for having any type of relationship before him, I can understand why she was scared to tell u. My late husband, who died in May of 2023 of cancer, accused me of cheating, constantly called me a b-word, whore, slut and a c*nt every single day because of the fact I wasn't a virgin when we got together and I had an 8 yr old son when we got together. And he constantly interrogated me at the beginning of our relationship about the size of my son's father's peepee because I told him about the abuse I suffered at the man's hands(he beat and r*ped me for 8 years). And then spent our marriage accusing me of wanting cheating cuz I "needed" a "real" man cuz he wasn't "huge". My late husband was so fricking insecure and it sounds like u, OP, are just like that. An insecure prick who can't handle her past. IT IS HER PAST!!!! LET IT FRICKING GO!!!! Her past is her past. She is more than likely ashamed about that part of her life. But...:
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ESH. Wow. Okay, so there's a lot to unpack here with the information you provided. Emotional reactions are understandable under the circumstances, but feeling your feelings doesn't excuse a person's behavior. And OP, your words were hurtful, cruel, and disgusting. Regardless of how you feel and view s*x work, you might as well have called your wife a whore. She did not call herself a prostitute, that is a label you put on her. You only know the side that she is telling you, and from the sound of it she was right to feel unsafe confiding in you. If she suspected you would react with such little understanding and empathy, then what is the point in confiding in something she did when she was young, immature, and probably desperate for money? She also might be ashamed of her past actions.Not only were you cruel, but imo you showed some very ugly colors in saying that you never would have even dated her if you knew. Though maybe if she told you, y'all could have gone your separate ways a...:
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Dude! That's fricked up!!! You literally married a prostitute. I know you say you love her, but darn! She lied to you this entire time. I can only speak for myself, but I would get that marriage annulled. She's ok with lying to you to get her way. She's used to whoring herself out to get what she wants (gifts/money). You can never trust her. Luckily you don't have kids. Break that shit off and get the heck out of there.:
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