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[๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜๐Ÿ”˜] How do you deal with the never ending list of "rules" that men are expected to obey?

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Wait until you hear about the change of rules of who walks ahead in Afghanistan ... (75)

TELL ME! (6)

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I mean that one is pretty universal and understood in my circles. Opening doors, pulling out chairs, following behind if you're driving separately somewhere, it's all basic stuff to me. But here is the deal, most women I've dated don't care about it because most don't do it. (133)

It seems like the list is growing and there is no limit to the list... I mean we could convene a group of women and come up with 200 new rules for you to follow as well if you want to be classified as a gentlemen... (-27)

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I dated a girl like that for a while, expected me to open her door, slide in her chair, walk on the roadside, flowers etc.At first i was a little thrown off, figured she was gonna be one of the typical "trophy wife" kinda girl that would expect the world from male traditional roles, without reciprocating, but i found out pretty quick that she really wasnt, she was rather traditional herself.Made me food everytime i came over, wouldnt allow me to help with the dishes. Stood up before me to start with breakfast. She really knew how to make me feel like her man. Darn, didnt even know i missed her as much until i wrote this (57)

Oh well you got lucky on that one... we dont get that these days we get the modern feminist who expects the traditional male chivlary but nothing of the sorts you mentioned from her end. (-28)

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Not only is chivalry dead. Basic social awareness is dead. Giving even a modicum of a shit about your neighbor, or in fact anyone, is dead.It's possible the girl was just playfully making conversation.If she was serious, then she confirmed her own mental illness. Eject.PS. There's a huge "Etiquette" manual by an author named Emily Post. Basic manners and shit. Pointing out a breach of etiquette is in fact, itself a breach of etiquette. E.g. taking someone to task for not holding a door for you is probably a worse violation of etiquette for not holding the door. Since it's more uncomfortable. Obviously post-pandemic, every man, woman and child for himself culture, 2025 US frick everyone get stacks culture - worrying about "etiquette" in this post apocalyptic dystopian nightmare is comical. Have your own values and live by them. Let the crazies do what they will. (1)

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I mean ya if there are puddles where you live I guessโ€ฆ I live in a city that has drainage so there are no puddlesโ€ฆโ€ฆ. And the real threat does not come from bicyclist or little puddles either. Like I said it's the murders in the alleys so why do you want to expose someone you love to murders? Makes no sense. I still be that must incidents in nyc come from the alley side whether it be abandoned building, hangout spot or whatever. (-1)

I have already said this in another reply, but we can all see that you learned that alley/murder argument from someone else in this thread, so you reusing it like it's your own epiphany that spurred your own philosophy on this scenario is kind of laughable/sad.Many cities which have drains still get puddles, no? What utopian city that you live in has perfect drains, no puddles, but apparently also violent murderers hiding in alleys? You sound like you are just making things up, sentence-by-sentence.Yes, some incidents come from the building side, but if there is no immediate traffic and shit (aka deep night), I also walk slightly behind my date/wife, so I can see her and people approaching at all times. However, during most hours, there are many more bikes, people, and cars splashing shit on the street side of things. Bikes crash often, especially in crowded cities, so I am not sure why you think that is some weird scenario. Much more likely, I can block a crashed bike than a car. (3)

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No I literally did. Hard fact. It's because the girl I was with demanded that I get her flowers every week. I swear on my life she told me she literally wanted to always have flowers in her apartment at all times. She was extremely abusive though and definitely a freak case. I did it for a while but it was quite taxing and expensive and that's how I came up with my own request about the lobsters to try and bring some equality to it. (1)

Man I've been in SEVERAL abusive relationships. SEVERAL. I get being mad and hurt, but at some point broGO TO THERAPY QUIT BEING AN R-SLURED LADYGARDEN. (1)

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>Be a man

>Give a frick about stupid shit rules

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>Sir you can't just go around raping women

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You just have to move to the UK first :marseybong:

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and be brown

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When they bring stuff up like this (they always do, I had a girlfriend tell me the exact same thing about walking on the car side) you chuckle like you think they're joking, then you watch how they react and if you think they're serious (because they don't laugh back but rather just stare into your eyes) you walk on the roadside next time. There's no sense getting frustrated about these things, literally every interaction with a foid, even one you love very much, is learning what arbitrary, weird things they are extremely sincere about and then weighing whether complying is worth the effort or not. Walking on the roadside is zero effort, so you just do that one.

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The only women I have ever known who didn't really care for gender roles were fat women, which makes sense accounting for the fact that gender roles are just rules for them without any benefits because nobody will give a fat foid the benefits of gender roles.

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nobody will give a fat foid the benefits of gender roles.

You severely underestimate scrotes

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Nobody that the foid desires will give the benefits of gender roles to a fat foid. A fat foid's ego is determined by what chad thinks of her. Not what the men willing to frick her think of her.

I stand corrected.

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Desperation will make anyone throw all the rules out the window, and that applies to both genders if you ask me.

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What?

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I'm saying the fat women you're describing are desperate and therefore not subject to normal relationship dynamics, I was agreeing with you if anything, just saying all pathetic people are also outside the norm in the same way.

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Based and truth nuke pilled.

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Disagree, if you want to tolerate a foid for the rest of your life, you gotta let her know her r-slurred rules are r-slurred. What difference does standing closer to the road make? If it moves slightly more to the left or right it hits both of you anyway. Why not have both of you stand farther from the road? It just makes no sense.

Women are this way because modern men are too whipped to hold firm on any of their beliefs or push back on the foids'.

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Cuck mentality

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Big time agree

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Only white women

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fr, if people give you shit as a moid just whip your peepee out and start peeing on them and if they try to attack you just run backwards while still peeing on them. It works everytime, just make sure you keep a full bladder in case you need an ace in the hole

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I mean we could convene a group of women and come up with 200 new rules for you to follow as well if you want to be classified as a gentlemen...

You could convene a whole parliament of them.

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we dont get that these days we get the modern feminist who expects the traditional male chivlary but nothing of the sorts you mentioned from her end. (-28)

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There is only one rule: power. If you hide behind the weak you will be contemptible

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If a truck jumps the curb I don't think either me or her has the power in that situation

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This is you admitting to being a loser. I would quickly jump and fly over the wind shield, perhaps maybe breaking an arm at worst

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Proper technique shown here for dealing with cars.

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ick

:#marseytippinghandtalking:

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real house edgy take there bro

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speaking the truth is not enough. you must also take yourself very seriously

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If this isn't ironic it's hilarious

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it's hilarious either way

:#platyfuckyou:

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i was on a date and the foid tells me about a rule where dudes need to be near the road in case a driver runs people over on the sidewalk

You tell her to quit being a schizo and if she seriously sees an issue with it you dodged a bullet

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>"quit being a schizo"

>"ehm thats ableist"

>push her into the street

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Literally yes tho

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There's no point honoring male gender roles, because you will still have to do all the cooking, load the dishwasher, put the washing on, etc because most women don't know how to do any of that stuff anymore.

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I would say "I will do all of those things if we marry and you bear my children but until then modern western women are trash, YOU are trash, I hope the car hits you first and you fricking die"

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Last of the Great Romantics......

Trans lives matter

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Based. She'll learn her place when she hears that

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Start eating people

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>how do you deal

reject 3D

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isnt that how people that cant jump/fly look at things? :marseyhmm:

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All of these "rules" sound fricking r-slurred. What, a neighbor is supposed to get hit by a fricking car just because he's the male? I could see the argument for anything where physical strength is a factor (mugging maybe) but most of this is just full rarted.

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why are there so many incels in here? it should be the instinct of every man to want to walk closer to the road than his female companion. How come you all value women so little yet expect men to behave like foids?

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I'm literally a chick.

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that has nothing to do with it, chuds are the people most involved in discussions on the female womb

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giving asmongold

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This is literally getting me worked up again

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It seems like the list is growing and there is no limit to the list... I mean we could convene a group of women and come up with 200 new rules for you to follow as well if you want to be classified as a gentlemen...:

Oh well you got lucky on that one... we dont get that these days we get the modern feminist who expects the traditional male chivlary but nothing of the sorts you mentioned from her end.:

Not only is chivalry dead. Basic social awareness is dead. Giving even a modicum of a shit about your neighbor, or in fact anyone, is dead.It's possible the girl was just playfully making conversation.If she was serious, then she confirmed her own mental illness. Eject.PS. There's a huge "Etiquette" manual by an author named Emily Post. Basic manners and shit. Pointing out a breach of etiquette is in fact, itself a breach of etiquette. E.g. taking someone to task for not holding a door for you is probably a worse violation of etiquette for not holding the door. Since it's more uncomfortable. Obviously post-pandemic, every man, woman and child for himself culture, 2025 US frick everyone get stacks culture - worrying about "etiquette" in this post apocalyptic dystopian nightmare is comical. Have your own values and live by them. Let the crazies do what they will.:

I have already said this in another reply, but we can all see that you learned that alley/murder argument from someone else in this thread, so you reusing it like it's your own epiphany that spurred your own philosophy on this scenario is kind of laughable/sad.Many cities which have drains still get puddles, no? What utopian city that you live in has perfect drains, no puddles, but apparently also violent murderers hiding in alleys? You sound like you are just making things up, sentence-by-sentence.Yes, some incidents come from the building side, but if there is no immediate traffic and shit (aka deep night), I also walk slightly behind my date/wife, so I can see her and people approaching at all times. However, during most hours, there are many more bikes, people, and cars splashing shit on the street side of things. Bikes crash often, especially in crowded cities, so I am not sure why you think that is some weird scenario. Much more likely, I can block a crashed bike than a car.:

Man I've been in SEVERAL abusive relationships. SEVERAL. I get being mad and hurt, but at some point broGO TO THERAPY QUIT BEING AN R-SLURED LADYGARDEN.:

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by not giving a frick and being attractive?

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