Redditor

Wow. Small world. I actually swiped right on you a few weeks ago.

Her

Who you?

I'm in school right now so I can be a contributing partner to my relationship/marriage. You are right, I won't bat an eye on people who are not stable financially at this age, because altho I'm not atm, I'm certain I will be once I finish my degree.

Chad onry

Noticer

I've never had so much trouble diagnosing a profile.

First of all, I'm curious as to what you're asking for because theres no way you don't have lots of options. Is there something particular you're looking for?

My first deep impression is that these pics are spread out over a long time, like a decade. I then realized that small changes in styling, and prep resulted in what looked like large age changes. You might drop the oversized tshirt pic and make the one where your hair frames your pic your main one.

Lastly, and really importantly, you are going to have to realize that what you are looking for in these comments is not something you are likely going to find. I commend your school, but after 25, no one with self respect is going to date someone for 2 months and have them go off to school for 9. What am I supposed to do, just wait and hope you don't change your mind or get a job offer elsewhere? If you only want to date for marriage, it's probably best to do that post grad.

Were all photos taken recently (within the last 6 months)? The only reason why I ask is because there's a slight difference between body shape and hairstyles / colour. Some guys may wonder which version of yourself will show up if they ask you out.

>You're very cute and look healthy so your pictures are not a problem. Prompts show your personality and the things you like, which are things a ton of guys like. Really there aren't any issues with any of that.

These pics are not decades apart from each other, that I'm sure of!

It's an odd scenario to be in. If you are looking for a financially stable above average looking guy, similar age as you, then it's going to take a lot of luck without having very similar hobbies and not being super attractive. Now sure a lot of redditors will say you are super cute and they will swipe right but it's not hard to picture the quintessential redditors and I don't think they are your target pool. Like most women, you will get lots of likes and even if the guys are serious, most will quit after a certain time so it will really all come down to luck unless you are dating guys with poor options.

You can say pretty much the same thing to any female's profile review post in here, which makes your comment kind of rude and a downer. Idk what hurt you but I sincerely hope you will find peace within yourself. Take care.

Also here the full texts in case she decides to delete it and we at /r/drama co are all about perseverance:

My updated profile. I got rid of 1 and added 2 new photos : https://i.imgur.com/gallery/2jgQlRM

https://i.imgur.com/gallery/OjgRDof

Edited: I have seen quite a few questions asking why I don't date/look for a relationship where I go to school/ that me leaving for school again is an issue, that my situation might be a problem for well-established men with a set lifestyle (which is one of my criteria).

To give you all a brief answer, the school I go to is in a rural area where there is very little diversity. I have tried dating men who are local there but most of them have little exposure to people outside of their culture. It's even harder when their mindsets are of a country one, whereas I'm more of a city/ suburban person.

Since I'm an undergrad, most of my classmates are 10 years younger than me, and I'm there for my study, so the thought of dating any of them is even more ludicrous. How about older students or grad students, you say? I want to date to get marriage. But I don't plan to live where I go to school. Therefore I don't see the point of dating someone and getting involved emotionally to finally break things off when I move back to my home state.

I feel more comfortable dating where I know I can build a family eventually. And it is in this home state where my parents are at, with a more diverse culture, a big Vietnamese community, and the people are less xenophobic. Especially with my current age, I don't want to wait for 2 more years to permanently move back here and start dating. I'll be too old by that time to have kids with the husband. So, I will take any chance I've got when I'm back home this time, to mindfully date and only date for marriage. I'm pretty set on this path, and if someone is just as serious, they will agree with my thinking and try to make things work for both of us. End of the edit.

Idk why I bothered covering my location, you can clearly see it from my post history lol. Anyways, after taking a break from Reddit to refocus on myself and my mental health, I'm finally at a better place in terms of health and mindset. Seeing that I'm leaving this godforsaken college town to go back home for summer in a few days, I'm ready to meet new people and build some connections along the way. Therefore I need your honest opinions on what impression my profile gives off. What can I do to improve it? Should I change anything?

There is a prompt about the biggest risk you've taken and I wrote: leaving the comfort of home to study for my bachelor's out of state at the age of 30. I have plan to move back home after my graduation, and I'm only home now for summer. I forgot to take a screenshot of it. The prompt is to let the local guys know I'll be back once I'm done with my education, so anyone who's got a long term plan won't feel too deterred that I'll be leaving in 2 months.

I'm very excited about my dating prospect this time! Probably because I've been loving myself more, treating myself with care, patience and compassion. It's true you really need to love yourself before anyone can love you. I have more than enough love for myself now, it's time to share the love with others (or just one more person xD)

#fightfor29

What are they complaining about now? pic.twitter.com/cOOHcjt7BB

— Hussein E (@therealhebrahim) May 12, 2024

PEI changed its policies on work permits for foreign students back in 2023, so that less of them would be able to receive permanent residence after getting their useless diplomas. Indians are really mad about it because they have a God-given right to live in YOUR country, chud.

This article talks more about the situation:

Foreign workers in Canada's Prince Edward Island will hold a day-long protest on May 13 against changes in the province's immigration policy that would reduce the intake of permanent residents by 25 per cent. A demonstration was held in Charlottetown on Friday over the issue.

A large number of students from Punjab living in the province are likely to be affected by the policy changes, announced by the province in February, as many of them work either on work permits or as international students. The burden on the healthcare and housing sectors were cited as the reason to reduce the intake. The focus would now be on nominating workers in the healthcare, childcare and construction trades.

“This has left the hundreds of foreign workers working in the retail and services sector hopeless as they are unlikely to get their work permit renewed once it expires. Even if they shift to the healthcare, childcare and construction trades now, they won't get any benefit as work permits in these sectors will be extended only to those who have prior experience,” said Manpreet Kaur Longowal, a volunteer of the Montreal Youth Students Organisation (MYSO).

They also have the commies on their side. It might be over for us, chudbros...

For those who missed it: Metro put out this article with the racist headline "Sorry straight white men, Doctor Who was never made for you". Shockingly, this didn't go over well with the fans, and the backlash was so severe it appears Metro has ended up deleting their entire Twitter/X account in response.

Edit: oh, and the writer of that dog-shit article protected her account, because of course she did. I'm begging you, Elon, get rid of protected tweets.

OP helpfully made a summary for me

The UK has been conquered from within. It is a trojan horse operation. Large parts of London and other places in the UK has been de-Westernized. It is sad to see a great and proud nation, one that has contributed so much to humanity is infested with self-hatred.

Hahahah. The frick Is this revisionist shit? The British empire invaded half the fricking world and ravaged half the fricking world destroying other civilizations contributions and culture.

If London is super diverse it's because that's one of the effects of colonization, the ex colonies that you left in economically weak states end up having a lot of migration your way. It's very easy to see in many European >> countries. See France, Netherlands, Spain...

UK is classist af and keeps fricking over their mid/low citizens and it's perfectly in line with their history.

Now I agree that there's a lot of woke bullshit distracting, but that's for most of Europe and the USA and not exclusive to the UK.

Maybe revise the superiority complex and we can talk nuance about financial interests using migration to lower wages, wokeness, ghettoisation, etc.

As it stands... Your post about "the mighty western contributor to humanity" is laughable. Ask Ireland.

Slapfight over le based/cringe Bongland continues after this

Yep, people have had enough. I'm hoping we're coming towards the end of all this woke shit now but I doubt these c*nts are going to go quietly.

God I hope it ends. It has caused so much damage to peace and freedom movements all over the world.

It damaged rights of customers to protest abusive corporate actions, all because it is wrong to investigate or criticize “woke” corporations.

It damaged rights of a fair trial and people in court, with court of public opinion and the shift to “guilty until proven innocent”. Now even intelligence agencies are allowed to investigate and attack you if you are cancelled for wrongthink or say controversial things.

It damaged the rights of voters, because now only “approved” people can run for office. If not approved SJWs have rights to attack even the voters and supporters without needing evidence of actual crimes. And they have the right to use any punishment they like.

Can't even criticize government or war, because it is “offensive”.

All these dare to call themselves men

Amusingly enough, Doctor Who was EXPLICITLY made for Straight White Men when it debuted back in the 60s.

According to the 1961 Census of England and Wales, Britain was 99% White at the time. It wasn't until the 1981 Census that there was an appreciable number of non-White residents in the country.

That doesn't mean it was explicitly made for white people tho At lest use words correctly if you emphasize them like that

Why are ppl allowed to invite rage than protect their account all the time on that platform? I don't understand why they are not subject to reap what they sow ? They constantly say things to anger the masses than go protected till they do it again. Letting them hide from the truth only furthers their misguided ideas and doesn't allow them to experience the truth of reality and what the world really thinks. This needs to stop and like you I agree how much longer is he going to allow this? Has anyone asked him?

Why are righoids such strags?

Ah, 2024. Where:

White men liking something (Stellar Blade) is bad.

White men not liking something (new Doctor Who) is bad.

White men being apathetic about something (feminism/BLM) is bad.

White men being involved in something (Bernie Bros) is bad.

White men moving out of a ghetto (white flight) is bad.

White men moving into a ghetto (gentrification) is bad.

White men expressing themselves (mansplaining) is bad.

White men not expressing themselves (toxic masculinity) is bad.

I think I finally get it.

White men

bad

I mean, shit, they should just say that in the first place imho.

This guy has been living under a rock or what?

Mother's Day is not for:

Women who own plants

Women who have pets

Women who aborted their babies

Women who have never been pregnant nor adopted children

Women who are aunts, but have no relationship with their nieces/nephews

Men who pretend to be women

— Alyse ♥️🏠♥️ (@mrs_alyse) May 12, 2024

Why are you excluding furries from your sexist celebration tho:

Won't someone think of all the people of goodness. They deserve respect too:

Pet people truly are weird folk:

KKKHRISTIANS ARE THE REAL NAZIS:

Hating people of no-womb usage is now a form of racism:

!biofoids

Someone doxxing in the comments smh:

The guy who wrote that Medium article is an avowed neo-Nazi, just so you know.

Not saying that makes what Steve said better or defensible at all, even, but I'd be very wary of people's intentions when it comes to stuff like that.

Leopard thought he could eat a baboon in front of his whole troop 😳 pic.twitter.com/Khz5OLn5jc

— Nature is Amazing ☘️ (@AMAZlNGNATURE) May 12, 2024

Try it

I protect you

List of wars Pakistan has fought defensively: