So, I've been divorced for a number of years and have been on numerous dates. What I've noticed is that many men who have hit their 50's and are were in long marriages/relationships seem to be very open about their fetishes. I'm wondering if they have got to a certain age whereby, they feel they no longer want to suppress these feelings?

I'm met the following:

A man with a foot fetish

A man with a wee fetish

A man who likes cross dressing

A man how likes 'Daddydom' (I had to look that one up!)

A man who is obsessed by writing erotica

... and a lastly.... and man who wanted to be a wizard!!!

Is it wrong to just want someone who likes changing the oil on his car or who is happy to do the weekly shop?!!!!!

Change the oil? Not until we've finished the roleplay, go fetch my robe and wizard hat

Not sure if it's about them not suppressing those feelings anymore. More like they are single or not in a longterm relationship because of their fetishes. If it's a proper relationship, their main sexual relationship in life is not with the woman they're with, it's with their fetish. Its a sort of devotion or sexual obsession in some. You are simply a prop to enact it

>he either likes me or likes s*x not both

curious trait of foid reasoning

Anything to remind themselves that they are different, relevant and not that old. I suspect.

Nothing like developing a piss fetish to show everyone how cool you are

I heard a sexologist talking about this in relation to cross dressing. He said that libido drops as men get older so whereas they used to be able to get turned on by regular s*x without indulging in their fetish, as their libido drops they need their fetish to get turned on or conversely they don't want to waste what libido they do have on s*x that's not the most satisfying for them. So the fetish becomes more important.

Interesting, but probably nah. People just get more confident to be themselves as they get older, and this is what being yourself looks like if you're a scrote

This is a very funny thread. All people have fetishes. All of us do. The most common kink fetish is actually female feet (Also called The Gateway Drug).

wtf no one calls it that

Kink, fetishes, are cool. Can be lots of fun IF we practise Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) AND Safe Sane Consensual (SSC).

s*x autists are always fun though, they have more acronyms and special terminology than your lamest corporate middle manager

I expect one of them is my ex H. Divorced him because he insisted on wearing rubber all the time and wanted to go swinging.

Yuck. That certainly isn't my life plan.

Someone else is welcome to him.

I do feel kind of sorry for foids sometimes though, they think they've found someone nice for a cosy fulfilling relationship and he pulls her to the side one day and starts to explain how he won't be happy unless he's getting fricked up the arse in a gimp mask and leather corset

hi. posting this because a lot of people are questioning me for posting the loli god requiem video after i, admittedly, did attack a creator for liking that kind of stuff 2 years ago.

when i first started vtubing, i did not understand the culture in the slightest. i was mostly a… https://t.co/xjE94kgdpq

— camila 🃏 🍥 (@cumilq) May 2, 2024

66.6k followers... What did Satan mean by this?

camila

@cumilq

hi. posting this because a lot of people are questioning me for posting the loli god requiem video after i, admittedly, did attack a creator for liking that kind of stuff 2 years ago.

when i first started vtubing, i did not understand the culture in the slightest. i was mostly a cringe stan twitter user. so, coming into vtubing and anime culture, someone who had zero clue as to what anything was, i didn't understand anything and when i saw loli stuff i immediately assumed it was p-do shit.

(keep this part in mind as you're reading the rest. when i first started streaming, i had a bigger content creator convince me that drama = content so i should “farm that shit”)

so, me, still slowly coming out my woke stan twitter phase and entering the vtubing phase, i saw what a bunch of people were posting about a streamer on twitter and i immediately jumped the hate bandwagon because i wanted to take my friend's advice .. which lead me to call out the girl LIVE on MY stream where her name had NO business being there.

looking back at it, i wasn't even trying to criticize. i was just straight up bullying her and trying to de-platform her when i didn't even know who she truly is as a person. we have so many mutual friends in common and any time her name was brought up in idle chit chat, i started feeling really bad. because everyone had said nothing but nice things about her. and it became more clear and clear to me that she didn't deserve that.

as for apologizing to her, ive reached to a mutual friend of ours back in february (because her dms are closed) in attempt to send my apology to her. said friend told me that she wasn't answering dms because it was clear she was going through something at the time.

after i started gaining experience in streaming over the year, ive learned so many things. you'd actually have to be mentally inept to do what i did over a year ago. it's just rude, unnecessary, and disrespectful. i know that now.

and if somehow this message gets to you, i am very sorry for what i did. i didn't know you and yet i attacked you without even educating myself with who you truly are. my behavior was unacceptable. i will continue to learn how to be a better person. side note, i hope u feel better with what ur dealing with atm. it sounds rough, so pls take all the time u need to heal. u have so many people who love and appreciate u that will be waiting for u with open arms.

and sorry to those who i upset with my previous post. as i've delved deeper into the world of vtubing, i've gained a better understanding of anime culture. i've come to understand that characters with youthful appearances are common across media forms. i've come to appreciate their innocence without any negative implications. ive pretty much adopted an entirely new outlook on this subject.

in conclusion, not the same person who i was two years ago. i hate her too. i hope u can give present me a chance. if not, that's okay too. have nice day.

IDK who this person is, I just know now that the V tuber community strongly stands with Drake!

Why do they never show you clips like these? pic.twitter.com/H5V5xduKRS

— Lucas Gage (@Lucas_Gage_) April 30, 2024

Lmao why are clips of a women's exercise class supposed to be some big gotcha?

In other news, The Democratic People's Republic of Korea recently released this song and music video promoting Kim Jong Un's fabulous leadership. I hope kkkapitalists and fascists such as this whiteoid stop slandering him, look at how happy everyone looks!!

Grooming with Adults

it's come to my attention that this place is nothing but an echo chamber for some negative opinions. i've seen fellow members defend blatant child abuse and predatory behavior. the most recent example of this type of thing is on a post of a 24 year old asking if she was being groomed. people kept insulting her and anyone who said that it's possible. they made the claims that “adults can't be groomed” and “once you turn 20, it becomes a personal decision.”

so let me explain what grooming is…

grooming can happen when there is a power differential within a relationship, which the abuser exploits for their own gratification. this is most commonly recognised as a tactic used by perpetrators of child sexual abuse, both on children and parents. however, adults can also be groomed.

if you believe that just because someone is an adult, that they are “allowing themselves” to be put through this, maybe it's time to look inward and find out what's causing you to be so ignorant. grooming doesn't magically stop when you turn 18, 25, or even 50.

i already know what the comments are going to look like and i'm prepared to handle all of it like an adult. if you're going to create a strawman argument, at least be original or unique about it.

ad hominem all you like, but insulting someone for speaking the truth just makes you look like an butt.

{{ it's very important to note that the mods have lives and cannot always be here to pick out every rotten apple from the bunch. }}

source: https://www.survivorsuk.org/resource_articles/grooming/#:~:text=Grooming%20can%20happen%20when%20there,adults%20can%20also%20be%20groomed.

Not many people realise but you can't cross a solid white line to pass a cyclist if they're traveling over 10mph. Rule 129 if you want to check. pic.twitter.com/eeefxdC5G8

— twisted fish (@mouldie099) May 1, 2024

He takes his fricking kids on the highway in this shit. R-slur. I hope he gets hit by a bus.

I'm gonna go watch some YouTube videos of cyclists getting door-checked to wash the taste out.

The claims⁠, which were mainly shared on X (formerly Twitter) but also popped up across Reddit and Facebook, range from Vanguard preventing startup programs from firing correctly to other programs crashing when the anti-cheat software loads, and some have even suggested Riot's kernel program has been “tampering with unrelated files.” Others simply dubbed it “malware” and declared they would be quitting League until the program stopped breaking PCs.

One high-profile example came from famed League creator LS, who reported both his computers breaking after Vanguard was installed on May 1. He said he fixed one by taking out the CMOS battery and forcing BIOS access, but suggested his other computer is “still bricked.”

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Several user posts on the purported Vanguard issues have also been shared to the main League subreddit but they have since been deleted.

While Riot has yet to address any of the early backlash directly, tech staff have been active in the “Patch 14.9 Bug Megathread” on /r/LeagueOfLegends. One Riot reply suggested some of today's alleged issues “wouldn't be related to Vanguard” and offered up a simpler solution⁠—restart impacted devices and run PC troubleshooting.

The same Riot staffer also suggested any aggrieved players could upload Riot Vanguard logs to the League support page to help “isolate what the issue is.” All the Reddit comments from that Rioter have since been removed.

GET READY FOR CHAZ 2: CHAZ HARDER

Will we see the mysterious lynchings that we've come to expect whenever rich yts declare a cop-free autonomous zone? Only time will tell!

Asking the right questions doesn't always work…

Hello all- I was excited when I landed j3 because I was at my goal total salary.

I asked all the right questions in my interview, an doing this has worked so for every single job I have gotten so far. Until this one.

This job though, has lied about everything. I asked the policy around meetings and they said most meetings are optional or can be moved. “We are super flexible” lie.

We don't required you to be on video (lie).

We don't have a lot of meetings per day (lie, see photo)

It's a salary job and you are treated as such (hours are flexible and not tracked-lie)

I'm riding it out/doing bare minimum until I secure another J3 (this one is meaningless to me) but wanted to share why it is so horrible.

9:30 “huddle” every morning where the manager adds meetings for the day.

So I can't plan ahead with anything because every morning she changes our schedule up for meetings. I've mentioned that this is not conducive to how I work and she said something like “well this is what's expected, and the meetings are a priority”.

Most of the time in these meetings, we are just sitting there and she's asking the same fricking questions and talking about the same topics. We just talked about in the bullshit huddle we had at 9:30 in the morning.

To make matters worse, I have to be online precisely at 8 and until 5pm or else she sends me a TEXT on my PERSONAL PHONE asking me where I am.

I can't wait to drop this j.

It's called Misinformation Superspreader.

!badgemaxxers !r-slurs Upvote this for the awareness of other dramatards

Aboriginal kid named Keegan won $1 million in prize money after winning a fishing competition

Gets interviewed by Sky News, the right-wing rag of Australia, and the host Pete Stefanovic asks the important questions:

>“There is a claim online that you stole a Polaris Ranger and Polaris quad that you and your friends stole and damaged from a business a few years back. First of all, is that true?” Stefanovic asked.

>A shocked Payne, who was sitting in the Darwin Sky News studio, quietly said “yes”.

>Pushed to explain himself, Payne said he and his mates “weren't thinking at the time”, were “still young” and that he regretted it “big time”.

They started a petition to get him to apologise

He bows to public pressure

Further seething on r/australia:

He's from Jalisco New Generation, the main rival of the Sinaloa Cartel that controls the president.

Yes, we have a marsey for literally everything.