Are foida themselves happy how things turned out for them in modern world?

!foidmoment

I'm aware of the irony, with me posting on Blind. Anyways.

It's a once-a-year event or so. Whatever our ugliest fight is she'll write up an essay with all the details that make her look like an angel and me a manipulative POS and then engage with a forum all week long who are doing nothing but attack me and saying divorce me.

I've told her it makes me feel like shit + is unproductive since 1. It's Reddit, which is full of teenagers and 2. It's not helpful having a bird in your ear validating every single thing you say

There is normally some set of comments at the bottom getting downmarseyd asking for more context or how certain parts don't add up but no one wants to listen because #GirlPower.

Anyways.

Divorce incoming.

$280k

Im crashing so hard, and It happened Saturday, and He wrecked his motorcycle and they had to life flight him to hospital, and I thought he was fricking going to die, and He was fricking in ICU until Monday, and This caused so much anxiety, crying, drama with our grown children and through it literally all I was fricking kinda ok but woke up today in biggest crash ever, motherlover!!! Im fricked, and Then he will be fricking home and how the fricking heck am I gonna deal, and He has 5 broken ribs and he bit his lip off and they sewed it back on, and One of our daughters lives with us but she a fricking handful of emotional issues, and Will I make it through this without getting severe is fricking causing me a fricking lot of worry

The idea that multiple women, none of whom know each other, are all saying the same things about him being a coincidence is about a billion to one.

OOP gives an entire thesis on how he's been wronged. Why the need to defend himself so much if he's such a saint?

>trying to defend yourself proves your guilt

8 beers and 2 margaritas in 2 hours?? Bullshit. With that much liquid she'd be in the bathroom peeing the whole time and far too busy to be doing anything else

>some minor detail about your story may be hyperbolic, checkmate!

I wanna meet the 8 beers 2 margs lady in person. That is IMPRESSIVE.

OP IN COMMENTS:

Kids: Lie of omission. Never referenced in her profile so I assumed she didn't have any

Weight: pics in profile was skinnier than what she looked like in person. About 30 pounds. Even through text she sent me pics that did not match her in person body.

He never clarified the kid situation and just assumed her weight, unless the photo was very old or it was edited then she didn't lie

He calls them all "girls". Gross.

What makes a man feel unsafe with a woman? What does that mean?

I know if a woman feels unsafe, it can mean a number of things. Maybe she is afraid she will be sexually assaulted or maybe she is afraid she will be drugged or maybe she thinks she will be physically harmed or even murdered.

Is that how he felt unsafe with the woman he thought drank too much? He talked about her drinking and introducing him to her family but nothing that would indicate he wasn't "safe."

>only men ever do bad things! just because they ended up stalking and slandering you doesn't mean you were allowed to reject them! men are afraid that women will laugh at them, women are afraid that men will kill them, bigot!

One guy said they needed one of these types of Facebook groups for guys to ask about women they're dating, and someone replied:

“The few “are we dating the same woman” groups I've seen pop up (and get shut down) the posts were completely different than the “are we dating the same guy” groups. Men were body shaming, calling women whores, blasting personal info, threatening to leak nudes etc. It's pretty gross. There is usually none of that in the women groups.”

The bar is truly in heck.

>NOOOOO ONLY I AM ALLOWED TO E-STALK PEOPLE!!

OP: They're saying I'm a ghoster, whaaaaaaaah

Also OP: I ghost women I'm uncomfortable with

>i'm entitled to s*x with you, moid!

I just don't have time to read all that

Leave him now. What he did is indistinguishable from sexual assault through use of drugs or alcohol. The pattern will repeat itself in other ways. Don't waste your time, move on and teach him a lesson about respect.

Would we not fly first class? pic.twitter.com/XtSTw26Zgs

— Sean O'Neill (@SeanOhhhh) December 12, 2023

from the comments it appears that the movie doesn't end with them living happily ever after, but the seethe is still there.

btw Martin Freeman is 52yo and Jenna Ortega is 21yo 🤢

they don't actually have s*x, you know.

A woman said she felt "betrayed by feminism" after deciding she wanted to settle down, have a family and a husband as she approached 39th birthday.

At one point during the interview with Fox News Digital, she broke down crying describing how she feared she would end up alone and childless.

Melissa Persling recently wrote an essay for Business Insider titled, "I'm 38 and single, and I recently realised I want a child. I'm terrified I've missed my opportunity." She said after it went viral in November, hate began to pour in from men telling her that she's lived a selfish life. Persling has a much different account of her story.

When Persling was 22, she married a traditional man and moved to a rural community in Idaho, where she grew up.

"He wanted a simple life with children and home-cooked meals," she said. However, Persling -- despite coming from a religious Christian background -- made it clear to her husband-to-be that she did not want children.

"At that time I felt very strongly I did not want children, that I wasn't going to be like the traditional housewife. I knew I did want to pursue a career," she told Fox News Digital in an interview. "And I felt very strongly that that would never change. And I guess I was wrong."

Persling said both her and her ex thought that love could conquer everything, but after 10 years, it was clear their differences in life goals were irreconcilable. Persling said she became resentful when he would ask for dinner or for his laundry to be done.

"I did little to hide my disdain for our small-town life. He was a good and hardworking man, but I don't think I made him feel that way," she said.

At 30, Persling and her ex divorced; she swore off the idea of marriage.

"I told my friends and family I'd never get married again. I needed independence, a fulfilling career, and space to chart my own course, and I didn't think marriage fit into that vision. I was content to look toward a future without a husband, children, or the trappings of a 'traditional' life,'" she wrote.

As she grew older, however, the fun, carefree lifestyle -- being wined and dined, going to parties -- began to get old. The pursuit of comfort and self became dull, she said.

When she turned 38, terror began to take over.

"I was panic-stricken. I really thought I'm going to be alone forever. It really scared me. I almost wrote [the article] as sort of a warning to other women. I don't want people to miss out on the important things in life because they're just enjoying themselves because I don't think that that's ever going to really make you happy," she said.

She wrote in the article how she felt "urgency" to find a stable relationship and was rethinking about wanting marriage and children.

"I hardly recognised myself," she wrote in the article. "I also began to feel selfish for spending so much time focusing solely on myself ... My very existence started to feel shallow and hollow."

In retrospect, Persling believed she had some self-discovery and work for herself to do, and it took time to sort through previous trauma. Her parents' divorce, which she described as coming from "a broken home," took time to heal and sort through to find out what she really wanted.

"I grew up in a fairly traditional family, but my parents were divorced. And I would say that probably had some effect on my feelings about having a family coming from a broken home certainly has its hardships," she told Fox News Digital.

At one point, she recalled a man coming over to her in a coffee store who randomly told her not to lose hope -- that God had a plan for her.

And then a happy turn to Persling's story arrived, which she describes as the exception and not the rule for women in her age group. Shortly after penning the article, she dated a man who she previously befriended. They're already talking about marriage and a future.

She dished on the details: "So it's a guy that I've been friends with, and we've always just sort of stayed in touch. And we did go on one date about a year ago, and I told him, 'I just want to be friends with you.'"

After her epiphany that she wanted a traditional life -- the realisation that he was "the one" hit her like "a ton of bricks."

"This guy is the one that God's been preparing for me," she said.

"I've had these relationships since where there were so many butterflies and so many like, 'Oh my gosh, checking my phone. Did he text?' And I realised, that's not love. That's anxiety. I never knew where I stood with those people. I could never envision a future with those people."

Persling said she is looking forward to a modest, meaningful and happy future.

“Moving into my future, I'm not going to be travelling. I'm not going to have a lot of extra money. I'm not going to be going out for fancy dinners and I'm OK with that,” she said. “I'm ready for that. I think that's what's really going to make me happy. Like I'm so done just making myself happy.”

“You think you're happy when you're doing all these things [when you're single] to make yourself happy. I don't think you really are. It's the relationships that make you happy. It's building something with another person. It's creating a life with another person, having goals and plans with another person. It's making other people happy. Making people you love happy. That's happiness. I really don't think I will know true happiness until I'm in that place.”

While Persling doesn't consider herself a feminist, she attributed feminism – in part – as the reason she had thought negatively about marriage.

"I feel unbelievably betrayed by feminism, and I don't want to put it on the movement [entirely] because I believe you make your own choices ... But I was constantly fed this idea that women can do everything. We don't really need men ... I kind of want to go back to some of those teachers and coaches and say, 'What did you mean by that? Because we can't do it all.'"

"I feel like I'm in such a different place now. And I'm so ready for that now. I understand what the sacrifice of marriage is and what the beauty of marriage is now, and I don't think I appreciated what family means for a long time. I don't think I truly understood," she said during the interview. "I don't care if I ever put on heels and go to a fancy dinner again. That stuff does not matter. I promise you young women it will never make you happy."

The thing is, realistically, most women want variations of the same thing. We want a guy with a job, whose nice, and decent looking (some wiggle room here as we all find different things attractive) and who we also have feelings for and things in common with. Someone we enjoy spending time around. Kind of like a friend we also want to have s*x with. It's my opinion it shouldn't be that hard to find this. It's not asking for too much. If you're a semi functioning adult you will check most of these boxes.

Yet, most men don't want serious relationships that is why the dating scene is fricked up.

Finally reveals her lived truth and that's that men dont want to commit(to her). Which is odd...until you look into her post history and you discover that she trully cannot even...drive a car properly

https://old.reddit.com/r/driving/comments/17nm1ch/failed_road_test_immediately_because_of_incorrect

Can't take advice on how to drive

https://old.reddit.com/r/driving/comments/16jrfmd/annoyed_with_how_much_im_getting_corrected_when

Posts a bunch in /r/datingover30

Of course she's a teacher who unaabashedly lies to her students(about being single)

https://old.reddit.com/r/SingleAndHappy/comments/18fzpdg/i_lied_and_told_my_students_i_had_a_boyfriend

This is what she brings to the table, and wonders why the average man wont commit.

What sign do you think I am?

Still trying to process the wild conversation I just had with my boyfriend, we have been dating for a month now after I got out from a horrible relationship. This relationship has been far superior for my mental health and he treats me far better in many ways. but today while fooling around while watching a documentary we were talking about how someone married this guy for money and planned to have him killed by an assassin. My boyfriend talked about how this lady never found her husband attractive and it was all a ploy to get money and then he suddenly goes, '' I would never do this to you, I love being with you , even though you are like a 6/10, but I love you, so it doesn't matter''

I was shocked, to me if I am with someone they are endlessly beautiful and attractive to me. I don't rate every inch of them like its a science project, I love them for everything they are, yet for him I am some object that is barely beautiful but I am pleasant to be around for other reasons. I realized this relationship is completely hollow and he will just move on when he tires of me.

In any event, it is obvious that plaintiff and the deceased had not been concerned with the legality of their actions and that plaintiff was merely shedding one husand and annexing another with only token propriety. Her views were well illustrated in one of her answers to the judge; "Well, I am afraid, your Honor, you get my husbands mixed up. I've got so many of them."

!lawyers

It's women reacting to a Vox article ft Roe v. Wade. I don't need context quotes.