https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/19cuj4s/whats_wrong_with_dressing_casually_for_a_casual
I wore some leggings and a big grey hoodie, with no makeup and a ponytail. I got there first so just sat down and started scrolling on my phone, and I was looking forward to getting to know my date better.
Personally, I wouldn't go to a date in gym clothes unless it's a gym date! If a guy did that I would assume he doesn't put effort in his appearance and therefore would probably not go on a second date. This might be cultural but here gym clothes aren't really appropriate outside of the gym.
Even OneX is dunking on her 
Her post history is even better. 100% JAQing off about porn addiction and prostitution.
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But she paid for her coffee!
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a woman paying for something on a date makes her basically Ghandi
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You should split on later dates when you actually know the guy, but if a girl pays on a first date there is no chance she's not hideously ugly
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Or the guy ain't chad
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Butbutbut women are STRONG and INDEPENDENT and DON'T NEED NO MAN! Any suggestion otherwise is insulting, unless it involves paying them money for the (possibility of) s*x!
Current year western dating norms make me want to kill myself
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Someone needs to gat that foid a medal ASAP
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This is why I stopped taking foids to coffee shops. Date version of “meeting that could've been an email.”
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Easiest place to just bail really fast if you need to though, besides a bar.
Bar dates aren't great because you need to do them at bars you never go to, and you probably don't go there for a reason
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I'll take them on walks/hikes or to a climbing gym or something for a first date. Everyone gets looser when they have to move around a bit. I'll do bar dates if we're intending to hop around an area on foot.
I like coffee shop dates when there's already a spark but it's too easy to just miss a connection altogether.
If I need to bail on a date, I'm some degree of honest depending on their personality. Earnest but ugly? Something came up. Boring and ugly? I thought they were hotter from their pics.
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How on earth do people do dates without alcohol?
The only time I'm willing to have a total conversation with a stranger is when I have a drink. 
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I get too honest when I'm drunk and I don't like drinking unless I'm getting intoxicated.
I like dating/meeting new people because I get to put on a show and I'm a flaming cute twink at heart.
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You might have a touch of the 'tism. Or not enough, I get them confused.
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