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I wore some leggings and a big grey hoodie, with no makeup and a ponytail. I got there first so just sat down and started scrolling on my phone, and I was looking forward to getting to know my date better.
Personally, I wouldn't go to a date in gym clothes unless it's a gym date! If a guy did that I would assume he doesn't put effort in his appearance and therefore would probably not go on a second date. This might be cultural but here gym clothes aren't really appropriate outside of the gym.
Even OneX is dunking on her 
Her post history is even better. 100% JAQing off about porn addiction and prostitution.
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Of course I don't look like any of my pictures - I look good in them.
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She's 100% fatter now than in her photos
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GOOD point.
I sometimes forget that lying for women is as natural as breathing.
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She said she's 25 and in tech guarantee she's gained a bunch of weight since graduating college and sitting 24/7. Also posts in fitness asking about when she should try to squat the bar
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But she paid for her coffee!
From my heart in ink still bleeding: have this comment. Thanks for reading.
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Someone needs to gat that foid a medal ASAP
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a woman paying for something on a date makes her basically Ghandi
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You should split on later dates when you actually know the guy, but if a girl pays on a first date there is no chance she's not hideously ugly
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Butbutbut women are STRONG and INDEPENDENT and DON'T NEED NO MAN! Any suggestion otherwise is insulting, unless it involves paying them money for the (possibility of) s*x!
Current year western dating norms make me want to kill myself
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Or the guy ain't chad
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This is why I stopped taking foids to coffee shops. Date version of “meeting that could've been an email.”
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Easiest place to just bail really fast if you need to though, besides a bar.
Bar dates aren't great because you need to do them at bars you never go to, and you probably don't go there for a reason
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I'll take them on walks/hikes or to a climbing gym or something for a first date. Everyone gets looser when they have to move around a bit. I'll do bar dates if we're intending to hop around an area on foot.
I like coffee shop dates when there's already a spark but it's too easy to just miss a connection altogether.
If I need to bail on a date, I'm some degree of honest depending on their personality. Earnest but ugly? Something came up. Boring and ugly? I thought they were hotter from their pics.
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How on earth do people do dates without alcohol?
The only time I'm willing to have a total conversation with a stranger is when I have a drink. 
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I get too honest when I'm drunk and I don't like drinking unless I'm getting intoxicated.
I like dating/meeting new people because I get to put on a show and I'm a flaming cute twink at heart.
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You might have a touch of the 'tism. Or not enough, I get them confused.
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i'm sure if a guy showed up for a date wearing gym shorts and a ratty cut off tshirt with arm holes down to his waist they would see nothing wrong with it
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If you're ripped enough and it was appropriate for the venue this could actually work
I am not, however, ripped enough
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Get on that fricking grind and start pumpmaxxing before a date in a cut off with bulletholes in it
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Yeah no shit, that's usually the reason you go on a date, why do foids always need to clarify these completely irrelevant things in their posts?
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She was probably does that thing that never happens and goes on dates just because she doesn't have anything going on that night.
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Have you ever listened to a woman tell a story?
They truly believe every little detail is important for some fricking reason.
Iv had to tell foids in the past if they want to tell me a story start with the ending first.
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Proceeds to post online about it
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The moid made the mistake of getting to 45 minutes and having the foid end it.
If he'd have said “oh shit my boy just got his sailboat waxed ciao” and split after 15 minutes to cycle through the next thot, she'd be seething and too horny to even work out after.
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The first time you do this it's really hard but once it's over it's soooppp easy to just eye down a girl your meeting and then say 'hey I'm sorry some stuff came up but nice meeting you'
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Breaking things off is a skill in and off itself. I know a guy who married a woman he doesn't really like just because he didn't want to make her sad.
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In my earlier and more optimistic days I'd still go on dates with chicks that seemed dtf but didn't have full-body pics. Felt horrible the first time I ended a date because she was a lot more unattractive in-person. Eventually I learned how to interpret deceptive angles but I've had no problem in the meantime getting there, seeing the chick and then texting her something came up as I'd hang out at a nearby bar instead.
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idndo it face to face and say "I showed up to not be rude but blablabla" and then bounce and then stop responding. If I change my mind later on I could just pretend I was r-slurred and forgot, helps that I'm actually r-slurred
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You weren't kidding. Dude dodged a bullet if this actually happened.
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Does anyone have a tool that just summarizes what subs a person posts and comments in?
Comments from this user:
Lol
Hundreds of comments on how porn is le bad and whining about objectification, then
Holy frick this b-word is OBSESSED with porn
I mean I can't really blame.them, you sound annoying as frick
Dumb Skank Take Hot Creamy Loads From Entire Party Bus While Her Friend Rims Her Butthole 6 is actually about men being afraid of woemn
Men don't wanna date only fans hoes and they don't wanna date pornstars. They wanna FRICK both of them but that's different. Dudes don't dislike only fans chicks because they view it as exploitation, they just don't wanna date a skank.
Why is she yucking someone's yum?
Yeah it's a massive conspiracy in one of the most exploitative businesses out there and not because there's no money in it.
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Women consume plenty of porn. It's just written instead of visual.
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It's bizarre to me how women don't understand that their actions can affect how they're perceived and treated. "I'm a giant slut who can't shut my mouth, why don't men want me?"
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She has a post talking about how she noticed men getting better treatment when she was 4 and her mom gave her brother more ice cream than her, and then she whined about it and her mom gave her bro another scoop everytime she whined.
Like genuinely posted that. never thought "maybe when I was 4 I was a bit of a brat" but that it's patriarchy lol
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She sounds insufferable (female)
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https://chromewebstore.google.com/detail/moderator-toolbox-for-red/jhjpjhhkcbkmgdkahnckfboefnkgghpo
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Honestly if a women avoids dressing up fancy and doing her makeup on her first date, isn't that the opposite of a catfish? Like now you know what she's gonna look like when she wakes up next to you in bed, so there are zero surprises. And yeah, it's only a coffee date so why make a big commitment? Honestly I'm team foid here. Let people go goblin mode on their first date so you can see what you'd be getting for the rest of your life if you shacked up with them
That post history though... oof
B-word is absolutely obsessed with porn
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Did Ted wear makeup when you first met her or what was your first irl impression?
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Snapshots:
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ghostarchive.org
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archive.ph (click to archive)
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