Are women really shaming men for opening up to them? : TwoXChromosomes

Women unironically believe men complain about pain more than they do, our biggest mistake was ever taking them seriously

This but inironically, losers who whine about their 'trauma' aren't men. Or human

Woman is the Turk of the world

This

>emotional labor

That means she's doing all the complaining

It's odd how everything women talk about that's supposedly bad is something they were taught, and somebody needs to do something. The lack of autonomy is just stunning.

The thing women who complain about this stuff don't get is men and women are emotionally wired different. The ones that "do all the emotional labor" are actually just prioritizing what they believe are emotionally important, regardless of how the man feels about it.

Anecdotally I've been in relationship fights with many women over the years and where I'm ready to just drop it and deem it not important, she wants it to keep going because there's some closure to the situation she feels hasn't been reached. I'm not going to say she was wrong or i was wrong, but we just had differing opinions on the importance of shit. Good relationships find a compromise in there somewhere.

The foid will never understand. Emotions aren't bad because women have them, they're bad cause they don't mix well with testosterone. “Boys don't cry” is just shorthand for “dudes are violent and need to control their emotions”

Do I really have to repeat from above? Not All Women and not all progressive women.

Do they get to just unironically Not All Women us??? I mean, I know these people are supposed to have female brains, but there must be a limit to how much hypocrisy a person can engage in.

Trauma-dumping would turn me off. Actual vulnerability, crying, and opening up would make me feel closer to my partner.

Is “trauma dumping” some new lingo for emotional venting (desabafo, I might be mind translating it literally)?

In other words TwoXers don't give a frick about men's problems, they want submissiveness and meekness. I particularly hate the obsession with “vulnerability”, no one in their sane minds wants to feel vulnerable, predatory narcissists like to appear vulnerable to gain social points and attention.

!nooticers

Men don't respect other men crying

lol this is such bullshit

men are somehow infinitely more respectful and comforting of other men crying. maybe because usually men don't cry over every little thing so perhaps they see it as "if he's crying openly then it must be something very serious"

but yes, sometimes men will tell you to man up and stop crying, because sometimes that's what you need to hear

I hate women so much it's unreal

"Trauma dumping" is Foid for overdoing it, basically. It's not exclusively about moids either, foids accuse each other of it all the time. You're "trauma dumping" if you're excessively whiny and sobby about everything and wanting someone to drop everything to comfort you, not if you're just crying bc your dog died or something.

I'm sure neighbors misuse the frick out of the term but that's what it's supposed to mean.

Oh good. I was afraid you would make fun of me for knowing more about Vulcan mating rituals than human ones.

A man has to cultivate his trauma like a bonsai tree

Yeah there are times it's okay to be sad as a man. When your pet dies. When your football club gets relegated. Things like that.

"Trauma dumping" joins "emotional labour" in the "terms that used to mean something but are now just an excuse to be an butthole" bucket

Yes. People who control others through social shame contradict themselves constantly.

a free therapy session

Why have a person who loves and understands you give you advice when you can pay a random stranger to support your opinion?

I am not your therapist….well anyway my god darn boss what stop scheduling lunch meetings yada yada yada

U wanna see my taint?

Isn't /r/GuyCry 90% FtMs?

Jesus christ the amount of typos and grammar mistakes in this reply to that post is absurd

Hello, i believe you are creating problems in your head yhat are not real, of you love her and She loves you then do not leave her, no matter how many step behind.

Now the hard part: you are very insecure, and i swear to you, this Will destroy your relationship. An insecure person puts top much pressure ok the partner, making the relationship work instead of enjoyment.

My advice? Stop believing there Is something wrong in your lack of esperience, tell her that yoy are worried She does not feel Happy with you. If She Is Happy, then please, stop Being so insecure, or you Will never be satisfied/believe what She says.

I have some esperience and i swear to God a relationship explodes like a baloon if One of the parta Simply does not believe things can be good

'stop being a kitty'

More twoxchromosomes userbase should use this advice too

#everyoneisakittyinthecurrentyear

I will r*pe you in the kitty