Why do so many liberal women date conservative men

Long time lurker of this sub but thought to make this post. For preface I am a liberal guy but am bisexual. Currently in a great relationship with a guy and not interested in dating women. So this isn't a "why don't women date me" post.

So I've been pretty involved in liberal politics in my adult life. Been to plenty of protests, rallies and even worked for a democrat running for local office. Due to this my social circle is filled with like minded people including plenty of women.

Over the years it seems that every single one of my female friends has brought around a conservative boyfriend at some point. Some of them have held their views secret but all of us could tell through comments and obvious discomfort with our political views. Others have been outwardly conservative both in person and on social media.

Recently a female friend started dating a die hard MAGA guy. The type of dude who wears a MAGA hat to the grocery store. Lets just say I was shocked. This was the same girl who went to protests and was outwardly anti MAGA. I asked her and her response was "oh he's only MAGA because he cares about the economy" when his social media is filled with posts that were everything she hated.

I understand that people's views can change but it seems like a really abrupt 180. Going from "I'd never date a conservative guy" to "oh he just cares about the economy" within days.

I've done some internet lurking about it and lots of posts say its a masculinity thing. Conservative men tend to fall into traditional masculinity a lot more (financial provider, family values and such). I'm wondering if any Gen Z women can shed some light on this?

For preface I am a liberal guy but am bisexual.

"Why don't women see a guy who gets fricked in the butt by other guys as a good long-term mate?"

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So many white knights in here perpetuating princess behaviour.Reason already flew out the door when she decided to pack irresponsibly, and now some people are saying she shouldn't be held accountable for her actions and the man has to pick up after her because she's sulking.Giving in is how you make the rest of your life with her miserable FOR YOU. (56)

Exactly, on the part of OP:Shut up and stop being a petulant child. (-25)

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Oh look, another one.A gentleman would help a lady carry her bags.She'd have to be a lady to deserve it. (22)

If you think "saying 'partners should help each other'" is white-knighting and "getting a 'win' over your wife/girlfriend because reddit thinks it's cool" is the correct approach, you deserve all of the unhappiness which ever comes your way. (-11)

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No.You told her not to overpack, and she ignored you. And because her suitcase is heavy, it suddenly becomes your problem.Naturally, her solution is to sulk like a petulant child.Women demand equality until it's inconvenient for them. (48)

Some* women. Not all of us! (-17)

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I'm sorry for your pain, but anger doesn't seem like the right response. In the end, in this equation, the common denominator seems to be you. Maybe change your attitude, so people are comfortable around you. You scare the shit out of me and I don't even know what you are like in person. I wouldn't want to know. (2)

Exactly he scared me too. He seems to have an extreme hate against women. And his reasoning is that women hate him or use him or won't choose him. Hmm I wonder why they won't choose him?I'm single too. I can admit I have my own faults. I haven't found the right person yet and I'm 28. But I've learned from every relationship & I've never taken my hurt out on 50% of the population simply because they share the same chromosomes as someone who hurt me. He is very, very angry and that level of anger is terrifying. He reminds me of this guy I went on a date with who was really pressuring me into s*x and getting incredibly angry with me that I wouldn't and started calling me absolutley vile shit. Like just so incredibly full of anger towards women not giving them what they want. (2)

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Just this week a post from askwomenover40 showed up on my feed.The woman was asking why a man she dated 20yrs ago would contact her. She said she checked his fb account and he was recently divorced. The lovely ladies of Reddit, in their infinite wisdom, said it's because he wants to frick her. I didn't read all the comments but the top rated comments said just that. Me, being a man over forty, having real, actual insight as to what a man over 40 might think commented. My comment was basically this, "I don't know the circumstances of your break up 20yrs ago, but it's possible he liked you then and figures he might like you now. Now that he's single he might be interested in a relationship with you. Or, he might want to frick you. There is only one way to find out."My comment was removed and I was banned. I received a message from the mods that it was a women only sub and "males"(that's right "males") are not allowed to participate. I had no idea that was a thing. Women constantly comme... (1)

That's pretty shitty. I'm not in that sub. I actually don't know why this one showed up on my feed, but I was initially enjoying the fact that everyone was nice, for the most part, and gave me hope that the awful hatefulness on both sides over the past several months was possibly easing off. The problem is that on both sides, the hateful, angry people are the loudest. So, people automatically expect the worst and assume disrespect or whatever from every statement. Then you get folks using these sweeping generalizations about "all women" or "all men," which just make people even more defensive, and the spiral continues. The thing about that is that it only punishes the angry person because they just have all this angst building up and nothing to do with it besides throw it at other people. That makes them less personable and more likely to encounter people calling them names, further perpetuating the spiral. I'm purposely using spiral rather than cycle because it's bringing us as h... (0)

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YTA. I'm not huge on gender roles, but the one thing you do as a man is carry heavy shit. Y also TA for trying to tell her how to pack. This is her vacation too. It's insane to ruin your vacation over this, and of all the things to concern yourself over in a relationship, this is not it.I've seen a lot of bad advice in this sub, and all the people in here saying NTA might be the worst advice I've seen yet. Carrying heavy shit is the easiest brownie points you can get in a relationship. Just do it. (7)

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South Africa is a constitutional democracy that is deeply rooted in the rule of law, justice and equality. The South African government has not confiscated any land.

The recently adopted Expropriation Act is not a confiscation instrument, but a constitutionally mandated legal…

— Cyril Ramaphosa 🇿🇦 (@CyrilRamaphosa) February 3, 2025

Frick off, were full, but leave enough behind to run the 7/11s, sushi stalls and korean bbq restaurants.

… and never any serious discussion about the long term demographic, economic or environmental scenarios and implications.

My favourite bit is when new arrivals bring their conflicts over with them.

Like Brits bringing over their racism, killing indigenous people by the thousands, setting up apartheid systems and stealing their babies?

Oh and the slave labour as well. Our train network wasn't built by freemen.

I wonder if anyone ever asked them for permission before doing all of that

It's okay because they're white /s

The issue isn't the population. It's the fact that we don't build good infrastructure. We should have a good high speed rail line along the east coast at least. Instead, we subsidise Qantas, and the Melbourne-Sydney is the busiest air route in the world. Also, super expensive.

We're in a population Ponzi scheme, and only digging down further

You know something's up when even left leaning people are agreeing with the "Frick off, we're full!" people of ~10+ years ago

The ground has shifted but the political class haven't realised it yet. Labor, LNP, Greens - they're all for it. The last 4 years or so has radicalised me so much I'd vote for any party who will take a stance on this

It's surprising to see the tonal shift in /r/australia. It's not a dramatic thread, sadly.

/r/Australian Politics - Australia's population lifts to 272 million

Soft migration compared to what? Its obvious that so many of Australias problems are from rampant immigration

So, not from a decade of wage suppression?

Corporate malfeance?

Public service deterioration?

High level corruption?

Nah, it's all dem migratiants!!

Stand by and cheer on as Australia is destroyed if you must. I escaped Australia. Im sorry for the people who still have to live there. Goodluck buddy. Your going to need it as it will only get worse from here on.

You immigated because you dont like immigration. Curious.

Hard for you to understand but some people are retired.

What do you think the word immigrate means?

You escaped to Vietnam. I'll stick with Australia, any day of the week.

Can't it be from all the above?

No? People are linking things that are not related. What about getting mad at local councils for previously being so darn restrictive with their zoning for example? We're in this mess because of them after all.

Now you're just showing your bias. I agree with all your points but you're quite naive if you don't think importing 400k people isn't having any effect on house prices and rent for example.

No it is now for sure but what I'm sick of is people not blaming the root causes. Just so much easier to go after immigrants.

Having worked in different levels of government it's a lot easier to reduce migration levels than to redo zoning and build more housing. I'm sure I don't hold the same sentiment.

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Wage suppression is related to population growth. Women caused wage suppression when they joined the work force en mass in the last century. Now that working women are normal and we're below replacement rate, immigrants are literally the only reason our working population goes up.

Wage suppression is today caused by immigration. So yes, immigration is still the problem.

No. Wage suppression is structured in to maxmise profits. Profits suppress wages, except management, their wages keep going up and up and up.

What you just said means literal nothing. snip

And yet the upmarseys roll in soy boy

I stand corrected. It's the migratiants AND the womens! 🤦‍♀️

1.4 million migrants is 'soft' now? Good luck getting a house.

And yet house prices are currently falling and when we blocked migration house prices ballooned.

Great, the cheapest one is only $650k

I didn't say it was cheap. People just love to hate on immigrants when the far bigger issue is investors.

No, it is immigrants.

And this is why we're fricked.

Our betters have decided this is happening, what we want doesn't matter.

Don't they realize it'll bite them on the arse eventually too

/r/australian - ABS reports 446,000 new overseas migrants in 2023-24 financial year

Australia has no official language. At any moment we could fracture our english speaking nation and descend into prime multi-racial territory. But hey every one is equal and the same when you bring them in.

Do you think if we had a official language that couldn't happen? Having a official language doesn't mean people are forced to speak it's just what the law is wrote in

Pauline Hanson speed running the vindication arc

We might not have homes to live in, but we get a great tikka masala.

Can we? I worry about hygiene standards.

Ahh casual racism. Can't wait till you YT trash become the minority in this country

The proracist enters the chat..

Shut up pinkoid 🐷

Absurd numbers. We seriously need to hit the pause button for a while on this.

We need to hit the reverse button

That's a big part of the reason why Trump won the US election, when he pledged to deport illegal immigrants. We can do our part to deport temporary visitors who wouldn't leave and are resorting to claiming asylum as a last resort to drag out their stay as long as possible.

Hit the rewind button. Several times

/r/AusEcon - Latest ABS population data shows growth despite declining birthrate

/r/AusFinance - Latest ABS population data shows growth despite declining birthrate

Linking these two for economics nerds.

It's interesting seeing the lefty-leaning subs starting to move to the anti-mass-immigration camp. Only a few years ago one would get jumped in the comments for daring to suggest it.

!strayans

Ya girl sexy mexy (thicc) released a vid of hersef crying about deportationarinooooos:

Selena Gomez just posted a video crying about deportations, but deleted it after outrage from fans…. pic.twitter.com/xRTO8x4ND5

— End Wokeness (@EndWokeness) January 27, 2025

Then xhe deleted it aka deported it to nowheresville:

Selena Gomez deleted her story crying over the deportation of Mexicans:

“Apparently it’s not ok to show empathy for people” pic.twitter.com/Z8VbUbRQ18

— Selena Gomez Charts (@selenagchart) January 27, 2025

Drumpler dont care about your tears b-word stfu:

Edit fake tweet.

Hahahahahahaha

“Selena Gomez, best known as the third amigo on that Murder Mystery Show that Chevy Chase wouldn’t touch…” pic.twitter.com/OBbJVvWr8z

— Liz Churchill (@liz_churchill10) January 28, 2025

Pretty funny he knows what Spring Breakers is lol.

Now folx are noticing that b-word is only half latinx:

Selena Gomez picked illegals over America b/c she's the 3rd gen descendent of Mexican illegals who received citizenship in the '87 Amnesty. She has an entitlement attitude toward America, like her illegal g'parents. Maybe Selena should be deported, too?pic.twitter.com/yTXlwtckwH pic.twitter.com/2UR6FY8d5i

— Sam Parker 🇺🇸🧯 (@BasedSamParker) January 27, 2025

Selena Gomez is American.
Her mom is American. Her Mexican father abandoned them. She went from living in this small Texas home to this $5M palace in LA.
She's a billionaire because of America
Yet she does not consider us "her people"
We are over ungrateful woke victim brain rot pic.twitter.com/LEGmorbYjo

— Benny Johnson (@bennyjohnson) January 27, 2025

Look what the nazis did to our skinny queen:

“Keep eating Selena…keep eating…just a few more and I’ll let your abuela stay…” pic.twitter.com/7T0b04IfKL

— Dago Supremacy (@DagoSupremacy) January 28, 2025

If you prefer skinny Selena over thicc Selena you are probs a libertarian:

!tmz

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The patriots love talking about sending people to gitmo. Usually also involving military tribunals and firing squads.

Mayorkas should be the first in line, send that traitor back to his homeland.

Now we gotta invade Mexico and anyone we pick up who might be involved with a cartel is going to gitmo.

I think this ties in to the EO designating the cartels as terrorists as well. You wouldn't just pick up narcos in Houston or Phoenix and dump them back in Northern Mexico to keep operating. They're part of a terrorist network now. Especially any the USSF have to kidnap in Mexico. Lol You take them straight to Guantanamo.

People arguing for a Stalin purge (even the doctors), many such examples

Now time for the politicians.

Fauci first. he isn't immune from deportation

And generals and doctors

Mass flights to gitmo means plenty of cover to also yoink some of the usual suspects and toss them there too hiding it under the stream of flights.

And jews!

Someone notices

Sounds more like a cultural revolution than progress at that point comrade.

Yes, this is a coup. We're taking our country back.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cjev24184vjo

I'll find as it shows up.

>FOX NEWS: Obama, in 1st remarks since election, says 'a line has been crossed' if 'one side' makes certain moves

Former President Obama declared that if "one side" attempts to cement "a permanent grip on power" through "suppressing votes," "politicizing" the military or weaponizing the judiciary and criminal justice system to target opponents, "a line has been crossed."

https://www.foxnews.com/politics/obama-first-remarks-since-election-says-a-line-has-been-crossed-one-side-makes-certain-moves

Bring it butthole. What's he going to do overthrow the government? Sounds like an insurrection to me.

I hate him so much.

He is responsible for this division. I've never seen the country this divided in my life.

"this country has never been this divided in human history"

"It's (D)emocracy when we do it. It's Fascist when you do it." Obama and the Democrats.

Former President Barack Obama declared that if "one side" attempts to cement "a permanent grip on power" through "suppressing votes," "politicizing" the military or weaponizing the judiciary and criminal justice system to target opponents, "a line has been crossed."

Wow! He just described the last four plus years of the Democrats under his influence.

Don't make me tap the sign, chuds....

Jesus it really is projection at this point. They're worse than my ex...

LISTEN UP LIBTARDS.....MY WIFE LEFT ME.

You're too late. Many lines have already been crossed under your and Biden's administrations.

Heh.....you're too late, Barry. Tooooooooo fricking late.....we just wanted to be left alone.....and now...NOW.....THERE'S NO TURNING BACK!!!!!

Sorry to disagree. The Dear Leader's regime was simply Comrade Obama's third term working, as Comrade Pelosi said, as quickly as possible to finish implementing his agenda to fundamentally change America and ensure that the Democrat Socialist Party would remain in power for the foreseeable future.

People calling Obama communist? Brings me back to the good ol' days....I miss 2011....

Remember when their personal chef who couldn't swim somehow decided to go paddle boarding and drowned?

That vanished from the headlines didn't it?

Wishes he was still relevant.

Him and Michael need to go away.

THEY'RE STILL DOING THE MICHELLE OBAMA IS A SHIT IN THE CURRENT YEAR OF OUR LORD 2024 AAAAHAHAHAH

FU Obama

The line that was crossed was Obummer not stayin in the shadows.

still using the phrase "Obummer"

!nonchuds Impressive how Obamna caused this much of a shitflinging in 2024 after his legacy got BTFO'd by Dangerous Donald.

@X blink once if your okay, twice if under duress

!g*mers !chuds

How is this possible!?!

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INDEED, HOW IS IT POSSIBLE?!

!illuminati !chuds !nonchuds

Reminder, this is the average type of individual these jannies seek to lord over

Yooo, that is so relaxing and satisfying to see Jenna get her beautiful hair brushed 😍😍😍. Her hair is so brushable, I wanna brush that beautiful hair of hers 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Okay. Now the jannies

The OG Celeb Jannies

The OG celebrity power jannies were a group who made it their life's work to collect every single female celebrity subreddit over the last 10-12 years. Here's most of them

Wait what mod list is that from?

https://web.archive.org/web/20170313191431/https://www.reddit.com/r/starlets/

That sub was originally created by the /r/Jailbait janny

I wasn't able to figure out exactly when, but I guess after he was suspended, it was passed to the rest of the cabal. Many of whom still mod big subs.

You see, these jannies were so obsessed with consooming every female celeb name subreddit that sometimes they'ed grab the subs before the girls turned 18. Because otherwise someone else would grab it before them and that was very triggering for them.

Their ranks have diminished in recent years as this guy seems to have died of aids or cancer or something 9 months ago

Some of our rightoids might recall he used to regularly make comments like this

But he was always immune to the reportmaxx. Even last year, I caught him sperging about supreme court justices or something, but nothing ever happened. And he'd say these things in /r/news, but his comment would just be removed whereas anyone else would at least be permed from the sub. Power janny privalege

Then this guy was suspended (maybe during the API protests last year? Not sure)

And I think at least one other died (actually died). But still, you'll find a group of them carrying on if you visit any female celeb sub name. Seriously, any sub

etc.

They are obsessive and controlling. Another group of celeb jannies was tired of being banned by the OG's and having to deal with their rules so over the last 2 years they built their own group.

My lungs taste the air of autism, blown past fallen jannies. /r/RisingTideNetwork

You're thinking, surely the new faction can't be worse then the OG's, half of whom used to mod a literal jailbait subreddit

You know how bardfinn or merari will make a super serious comment as if they're the ceo of a fortune 500 company? These RisingTideNetwork jannies are like that, except they'll be talking about a subreddit called "PicsOfTheMoleOnSydneySweeneysAss or "JennaOrtegasEarlobes.

They take it very seriously.

Helm Emeritus

It was started by /u/NotAMod2112, who is apparently a lesbian woman. That account was suspended so now she's under /u/NowAMod. I know, janny...coomer...lesbian? But I couldn't find any trans posting in her accounts. They usually let you know they're trans after all. So maybe it's really a bio lesbian

Here's a post she made to /r/RisingTideNetwork last year reminding them of their purpose after she was banned from the cabal controlled /r/AlisonBrie subreddit

Evil Empire - reminder of RTN purpose

The OG cabal on the AlisonBrie janny list

In the comments she mentions a man named Topher, who apparently was the original brains behind RisingTideNetwork

https://old.reddit.com/r/RisingTideNetwork/comments/166cqok/evil_empire_reminder_of_rtn_purpose/jylbjwc/?context=8

Introducing Topher /u/TimingGod

https://old.reddit.com/r/RisingTideNetwork/comments/vq59ok/topher_sort_of/

Here's the two of them flirting

https://old.reddit.com/r/CelebsWithPetiteTits/comments/xt22uq/75000_members/iqoajqk/?context=8

Cute , but it's kind of giving me Bardfinn flirting on bluesky vibes Topher has a little sub called /r/TopherB where he's posted.... ....his ex wives...

https://old.reddit.com/r/TopherB/comments/12hni6s/topher/

His first two wives were white. Third was Asian @BWC discuss

"My windows to the world"

This is kind of just sad. But why did he post these to his random sub. Boomer moment.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TopherB/comments/14sd4pk/ana_ai_altering_hair_color/

So anyway, it's a strange group of people because they'll be posting super seriously about janny matters, then the next post will be

Hostile take over of KoreanCelebrityFap? or Celebrity Butt centric subs? or CelebsBikiniUndies needs an approval mod but they take all those goofy subs seriously too.

They've changed leadership a couple times when someone gets too tired. Jannying is tough work, okay I think there's at least 2 or 3 sexy Indian dudes in their network. Jeets have really taken over reddit in the last couple years.

And they have a wiki where they lay out their master plan and all their requirements to join the network

https://old.reddit.com/r/RisingTideNetwork/wiki/index

They actually seem pretty free speech. They're obviously not as bad as the ex celeb jailbait jannies, they're just a little odd and very cringe.

First one to say @Holly_Jolly_Kong sucks peepee gets 300 coins. I know nobody reads this shit

So who's team are you on

including Formerlurkong - 86 votes

Dude bussy lmbo

!chuds !nooticers