I heard from a reliable source (who would like to remain anonymous) that carp never actually left, he only switched accounts.

It may be one or several accounts of various ages. Be wary of verbose posters, gimmick posters and posts written in reddit cadence

don't go back home to the totalitarian regime after you graduate +4

I'm living in one +1

looking at their post history, they are a self proclaimed "communist"... who posts on wallstreet bets??????? ok.

You should quit. +6

There is no reason to cope , just change your major to Communications . There is no need for people like you in the industry +1

You're soft . Go into a different field. Every major aerospace company is funded by war in some way. +2

one does have to wonder, how do you empty your pockets for a 4 year aerospace degree without it ever occuring to you that it's like the defense industry?

The key is not caring to begin with, not coping after caring +2

not doing aerospace specifically to design weapons of war

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So... like most women?  (29)

I think you meant to say “a small subset of women who unfortunately all men pant after” (-28)

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You can not be interested in them or date them, but the thing that will get you some skepticism is publicly making a fuss about how much you don't like them or complaining about them existing in public/trying to interact with you. You can just say you're not attracted to the person and be done with it, you don't even really need to say why.ETA: Please don't lead people on, fat or not, if you don't really like them. It may be forgettable for you, but much less so for them. (69)

Are fat people really worth consideration though? Their feelings I mean. All they think about is food after all, I'm sure she'll think of her next delivery order and forget about being led on (-32)

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She chose to be overweight, you choose to not be attracted to her. (17)

You do realize there are several medical conditions that make people gain weight that they can't control, right? (-21)

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Wow. Practice?!?! Don't. You'll be doing her a favor.Listen man, I'm gonna be real: what you're not attracted to is the social stigma. I frick. Alot. All sorts of body types. And guess what? It's all pretty great! But our culture is so oppressivly and ubiquitously fat shameful that both men and women have internalized this shame and perpetuate it. What you're not attracted to is the normalized abuse that fat people recieve, and a fear of having that abuse directed towards you. It's so bad it doesn't even have to be directed at you: you take splash damage just by being near the target of the abuse.So I get it, not everyone has the resilience to deal with that. So imagine what it's like when you can't escape it, when you're the target. There are some strong-butt motherfricking souls that come out the other end of that shit. Just sayin'In the past, the idealized body type for women was more curvy, becasue it signified wealth and class: you had enough to eat and you didn't have to work in ... (12)

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Wow. Practice?!?! Don't. You'll be doing her a favor.Listen man, I'm gonna be real: what you're not attracted to is the social stigma. I frick. Alot. All sorts of body types. And guess what? It's all pretty great! But our culture is so oppressivly and ubiquitously fat shameful that both men and women have internalized this shame and perpetuate it. What you're not attracted to is the normalized abuse that fat people recieve, and a fear of having that abuse directed towards you. It's so bad it doesn't even have to be directed at you: you take splash damage just by being near the target of the abuse.So I get it, not everyone has the resilience to deal with that. So imagine what it's like when you can't escape it, when you're the target. There are some strong-butt motherfricking souls that come out the other end of that shit. Just sayin'In the past, the idealized body type for women was more curvy, becasue it signified wealth and class: you had enough to eat and you didn't have to work in ... (12)

I mean, really, you come down hard and judgemental when all OP says is he's not attracted to big women. He doesn't say why, but you think he's weak willed and sees women as an object on his arm? There are many reasons to not be attracted, not just the worry about social stigma.For instance, I'm not attracted to fat men. For me, it's because I'm very physical and active, and I want a partner who can keep up and wants to do some of the same adventures I want to do. Also, I have negative associations from my own life experience. As an example...my ex-husband wasn't fat, just broad and overweight, and he was kicked off a ride we were trying to go on because the safety harness couldn't fit properly. He was angry and huffy about it, created a scene, was rude to people just doing their job. That created a further bad association for me (one of many). (And no, his size was not the reason we finally divorced.)So you don't truly know why someone has a visceral reaction to a certain trait. It'... (1)

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Fatphobic? OK, a phobia is an unreasonable fear or hatred of something. For instance, arachnophobia, spiders. It is perfectly reasonable for you to fear a Black Widow spider, but it is unreasonable for you to fear, much less hate the Daddy Long Legs you found on your floor. Do you hate or fear fat girls? I doubt it. Therefore you are not phobic about them. And a phobia is beyond your control, not something you can easily overcome. Are the people who accuse you of being fatphobic looking to help you overcome, or are they just looking to shame you?OP, you talk about how big women come up to you. OK, this could be because they are willing to make the first move. Fat women complain that they don't get hit on. Therefore if they want some loving, they have to make the first move. Those fit women don't have this problem, as they expect, correctly, that the guys will approach them. But you are not doing any of the approaching, right? And that's your problem.And at 6'4" and slim, you should ... (1)

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Would love to do this to my husband and see where it goes.

wow so i really need to return to therapy. what started out as a friendly conversation with my coworker turned into me telling him my trauma, that i want him to hit me, that i used to do s*x work, i don't even know.

he was really nice and told me he basically has thought about me since the day we met and really likes me, said he wants to take me out, etc. but then i was like “it's not like that”

i'm not worried about him but i'm scared other people heard me. i haven't done this in 4 months but now i feel truly awful… any words of advice?

: "I want you to hit me."

: "So can I take you out to dinner sometime or..."

Imagine being in a relationship. With a foid. Who gets mad at you for using insta or youtube.

Why would a bro be so low?

In which a clinically obese woman (in her 30s if she's really been working on her health for over a decade?) /u/ganja_n decides to break up with a man because he doesn't mind the fact that she's fat:

Boyfriend told me multiple times how he is okay with the fact that I am overweight, completely out of the blue.

So, this is the third time he brought this up with me in 7 months. He would start with how his expectations in a relationship were set due to movies/porn. And the type of women he would find attractive would be something similar.

I am short 5'2” and chubby 165lbs or 75 kgs. I also have hypothyroidism that makes losing weight difficult. It is genetics and I recently started on a treatment plan. I carry myself well and seem to get more attention from men and women than I can deal with. I am happy with my looks.

Over the last decade, I have slowly progressed to accepting the fact that I need to love myself for who I am and not what I look like. I would love to be healthy and eat better. But to lose the weight just for aesthetics hasn't crossed my mind in years. I love that for myself.

Boyfriend and I started dating 7-8 months ago. From what I can tell, things have been lovely with arguments few and far between. The issues were never about my weight or looks. He has always mentioned how attractive he finds me. But this is the third time he has brought up the fact that he is really okay with my weight and fat. That he thought he was influenced by media to like a certain type of woman but he finds me attractive. And he is happy with us. All this was said out of the blue and was unprompted. When he said this the first time, I was a little taken aback but didn't mind. The second time I had other things on my mind and let it go. Today was the third time. And for some reason it left me feeling so uneasy. It felt like he was trying to convince himself rather than tell me this. I want to communicate my feelings with him but I am not fully aware myself.

I would love some insights.

Thank you!

Edit: wow I wasn't expecting so many responses.

I am still reading through them. He and I spoke today. And what I can understand is that he doesn't understand why it was problematic to say that to me. I just need to be sure on my end that this behavior was unacceptable. He said he doesn't know why he was repeating this. I told him maybe he will understand one day. But until then, I do not have the patience or energy to make him understand what to say or what not to say. We had a long conversation and I ended things. I wished him well, cried a bit and thanked him for all the happy memories.

A selection of comments:

Ask him.

There can be different reasons. Maybe he convincing himself, maybe it's a response to some media him or you have been watching, maybe he's unpacking some societal bullshit and realizes that society's initial message was shit.

Ask him. :)

I think you might be right. It feels like it should be coming from a positive point of view but for the longest time, i've had some reservations when it comes to fully trusting him.

Trust your gut, girl. You don't need an intellectual explanation for why you don't trust him. I know you're saying there are no red flags, but there's a massive one—you don't feel like you can trust him. Your gut always knows.

A red flag has graduated/degenerated from "something someone does that could reveal they're crazy" to "I have a bad feeling about someone because I am crazy"

Nowhere near as drastic, but it's giving the same energy as my ex that would insist, out of the blue, that he'd never hit a woman. (Guess who punched a wall right next to me before I ended it). As others said, it doesn't have to feel like a confrontation, but sit him down and ask him why he feels the need to do so unprompted and include that it makes you feel uneasy.

(Well /u/jazzinbuns he didn't hit you did he?)

"He would start with how his expectations in a relationship were set due to movies/porn. "

Oh no, no, no. Porn is kabuki s*x. His expectations will not be healthy for you (or him, but he's not asking the question).

You've only been seeing him a short amount of time and he's already negging you.

Time to go - without a discussion because he'll try to convince you to stay, and that would be a bad thing. He's not a nice guy.

I'm 5'3" and weigh about the same and never really thought of myself as anything more than slightly chubby. 🙃 if you're considered large that's pretty discouraging to hear. I've never had a problem getting a date based on my weight except for maybe one guy rejecting me for it, and I've been in a relationship for 5 yrs with a man who loves my belly.

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