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— Jackson Hinkle 🇺🇸 (@jacksonhinklle) January 18, 2025

As a 29yo incel I still have hope that things can hopefully turn around this year but I know I'm asking for a lot and the chances are slim that 29 years of rejection from women will suddenly change in year 30. But yeah, here's hoping I don't become a 30yo incel in June.

Do you have hope you will escape inceldom?

My boy, my oldest child, was so good when he was little, but something broke inside of him when he was a teenager.

My wife and I always accepted, loved, and encouraged him. We pushed him to work hard and treat people with respect. I don't know where exactly we failed him but as a father I feel responsible for the thing he's turned into.

It started when he was 14. He had began to become withdrawn and emotional. We chalked it up to teenaged mood swings. For some reason he was just so angsty and bitter all the time. We were worried about his lack of social life and his over-reliance on his computer. He kind of hid himself in the online world so my wife and I began to limit his computer time, but he simply became more aggressive and confrontational.

His hygiene was bad, and he was always confrontational when we told him to shower or do laundry. His room stank horribly and we eventually had a huge fight over it where he physically shoved my wife and called her a b-word, and eventually we got him to at least clean and air out his room regularly on the grounds that it was our house and if he couldn't maintain his space he wouldn't be entitled to it - essentially we got to the point where we told him he wouldn't be allowed his worldly possessions or privacy unless he took care of the space we all shared. the room still smelled and he was still rude about cleaning it but we could tell him to get it clean and he would do it after that.

We ended up getting a call from his school saying that a female student felt harassed by him. We were shown messages where he continually badgered her to have s*x with him, threatened to "punish" her for stringing him along, sending her unsolicited nudes, telling her some violent fantasies of his, and eventually just descending into some horrid rage-filled rant about how she is just another "whore" and other things.

We were shocked. We explained to him why this behaviour was unacceptable, and I explained to him that it was ok to be sexually active but his actions were toxic and abusive.

I tried mentoring him man-to-man, taking him on camping trips and whatnot and talking to him about women and girls and trying to give him advice. I suggested he try showering, changing up his hair and facial hair styles, trying out different fashion styles, maybe going to the gym.

I told him some hard truths - that he doesn't want a gross woman so he shouldn't be a gross man. By gross I mean hygiene and looks. I explained to him that good looks are more hygiene and self care than genetics but he refused to accept what I said to him.

After that I caught him sniffing his sister's panties in the laundry room - she was 12 at the time and he was 17. He assured me it had nothing to do with his sister, he said he just had a panty sniffing fetish and he pretended they belonged to girls from porno videos, but still I gave him heck for it, and he was grounded and lost his computer for 6 months. I went through his computer and I was disgusted by the kinds of hateful, racist, incel forums he frequented, the horrid things he said about women, and his save file was full of cartoon porn with girls of questionable ages. I wiped the hard drive completely and began strictly monitoring his online activity. I used parental filters to block incel sites and and porn sites that hosted cartoon porn.

The next big issue was something he did to my daughter's friend. My daughter is 5 years his junior, and one day after a sleepover, my daughter came to me and said her friend wanted to tell me something but was afraid of what I would say.

My son cornered this 13 year old girl and physically blocked her path and touched her hair and face while making very inappropriate comments about her body and asking her if she liked to sleep naked and what kind of underwear she wore.

I tore into my son for that, my wife and I both shouted at him, and told him his behaviour was horrible and I told him then that if his actions got him arrested I would not defend him. He accused us of not loving him, but I told him the reason I was so passionately angry in that situation is because I do love him, and I want to help him become a good man so he can stop being so predatory and bitter and miserable. I told him some hard truths. That he did this all to himself and that he is the only one he can blame for how bitter he is.

I suggested he look to women his own age and he went on a rant about how it was a waste of time because women were already whores (and his definition of a whore is a woman who has had s*x even just once) by 17. I called him out on his bullshit and expressed clearly that if he harassed young girls anymore I would personally turn him in.

I invited my daughters friend over after and I personally apologized to her for her experiences, I cried in shame for my son's behaviour and begged her forgiveness for allowing her to feel unsafe in my home and promised her that if she ever felt uncomfortable she could come to my wife and I and we would always believe and help her. Luckily, my daughter didn't lose this friend, but for safety I installed a lock on my daughter's door.

We got my son therapy but he refused to engage with the therapist, calling him a "sand BIPOC" and "pajeet" and "terrorist". His next therapist was a "chad", so he didn't relate to that either.

We fought about him not trying, not getting a job, and he said he couldn't get one because of the immigrants, to which I pointed out that he was struggling because he got fired from his high school jobs for being lazy.

After those fights, my wife tried to empathize with him and understand what made him so bitter but he flipped out at her, and called her a peepee-gargling whore and said that she fricked her way through dozens of men until she found a "beta-strag" who was willing to shelter her for missionary s*x.

My wife, who works and contributes to the family income, who is an independent, professional woman.

Honestly, I lost it more than ever before. I had never been so angry when I heard what he said. That may be his mom, he may be my son, but the woman he was abusively tearing into is my god darn wife. No one can treat my wife like that.

I am ashamed to say in my anger, he shoved me and I physically retaliated, shoving him back, and pinning him against the wall. I felt ashamed of myself, I have never been an angry or violent person, but I couldn't control myself. I've never put my hands on either of my children in such a way in my life, I hate child abusers... but this boy was no child. He was a grown man.

He was intimidated and backed down, and for a while he was peaceful.

The last straw was this week.

My daughter has dated 3 people her whole life. A boy, a girl, and now another boy. We were as open about s*x with my daughter as we were with my son. We asked if she would like to have a question-free steady supply of condoms left in her bathroom drawer, and if she wanted to get on birth control. She said no to both questions with her first boyfriend. She never really brought him home but we met him at one of her recitals. When she had a girlfriend she went over to her house all the time, and didn't want to bring her to the same house her brother lived in, a sentiment I understood.

But her most recent boyfriend has a lot going on behind the scenes in his family. He's a nice boy but his mom is a single mom of 4 and they struggle.

This boy started coming around a month after they got together. I like him. My daughter is happy with him. He treats her with respect. He is an intelligent boy. He's an absolute gentleman. He's respectful and polite in our home. He calls me sir, calls my wife Ma'am, he offers to help with the cooking or dishes or cleaning while he's visiting, he talks to us, he's a bit of an amateur cook himself and brings us food all the time to say thank you for taking care of him, when we go out for dinner he always offers to pay for himself and my daughter (though I know he doesn't have much money so I always pay). When getting out of the car he opens the door for my wife and offers her his hand (he sits behind her for leg room). He holds the doors, when we leave somewhere he helps my daughter put her jacket on like those sweet old fashioned couples.

This young man works hard, and gives what little he has to his mom and siblings. Like I said, I really respect the boy. I offered him money once for groceries for his family but he turns me down and says he would feel guilty accepting my money like that. He's appreciative of things - in the winter, it was -20 and he had only a hoodie, so I draped my jacket over his arms, and I said "take it son, it's cold." He had tears in his eyes as he said thank you, and I made some excuse about wanting to get rid of the jacket and told him he could keep it if he brought cookies for us next time he visited.

When Christmas came along, I invited him over for supper, and when I went to pick him up I delivered some presents for his family, and on the ride back to my house we had a moment. He was crying because he didn't have much to give us - he got everyone in our house a present but he cried anyways because he felt it wasn't enough to make up for what we gave him. I pulled over, and I just hugged him, and I said to him that it wasn't the value of what he got, it was that he got us anything at all. I thanked him for treating my daughter so well, and I told him he would always be welcome in my home.

My own son didn't get us anything for christmas, not even a card bought with the money we give him. This boy got my wife and I matching wine glasses since we like to share a bottle every now and then.

My son didn't eat with us. He pillaged the food table and ran away to his room alone while my daughter's boyfriend met my sister and her family and my parents and my uncle. They all told me how charming he was and how polite he was. Meanwhile after dinner my son told my 5 year old nephew "frick off Cute twink" for asking to play a game with him. A man over 20 years old.

Last week, my wife and I went out for an evening to ourselves. We went to dinner, then we went to an upscale bar to play some pool, then we went home.

When I walked in the door, the kids were screaming at each other. I came in to see my son and my daughter's boyfriend fighting. The boyfriend was just pushing my son back and trying to redirect him, my son was throwing punches and charging him. My daughter was crying and sitting against the wall clutching her face. I got between them and pushed them apart, and demanded to know what was happening.

My son went on a tirade about how he found birth control pills and heard "whore" sounds from her room, so he kicked open her door and discovered them having s*x, he said he couldn't believe his own sister would "be a BIPOC's whore" and called the poor boy a monkey and other things.

My wife got my daughter and her boyfriend out of there and I yelled at my son for how he was acting. Eventually I got nowhere with him so I made him wait in his room. I went to talk to my daughter. I apologized to her boyfriend, crying as I did, telling him that I hope he could forgive me for letting this happen. He said he was sorry for getting violent but that he only did it because my son hit her. My daughter cried and said he was a psycho and threatened to r*pe her, and that he admitted to ejaculating on her toothbrush and hair brush.

I charged into his room, and I said firmly that he should pack his bags and leave. I told him I would pay to have his things sent to him, wherever he went, but that he was leaving tomorrow.

My wife stayed at my sisters, and my daughter and her boyfriend spent the next few nights at his place.

The next day I practically threw my son out of the house kicking and screaming.

I took his key back and changed the alarm codes and garage door code. A day later I had a message requesting some of this things - mostly his gaming stuff - be delivered to some strange apartment block I didn't recognize a couple of towns over. A college aged man buzzed me in and I delivered the stuff. I didn't see my son.

My wife and I then went through his room. My daughter's boyfriend came over and helped me move his furniture to the garage. We threw out his mattress and some other more gross and smelly things, and we took out the carpet to be replaced.

Hidden in the closet was a treasure trove of my daughter's underwear, so saturated with old, moldy semen that they were as hard as bricks. The unnerving part was that there were a few pairs my daughter was adamant didn't belong to her. And they were too small for my wife. It was possible he stole them from my nieces.

There was a sketchbook containing graphic drawings of my son violently raping different women and keeping little girls chained up in some kind of s*x dungeon. I went through his old phone that was still working, and all his photos were screenshots of my nieces and their friends in their bikinis, lots of cartoon porn, lots of red pill and incel and Trump memes. He still had messenger, so I checked his messages, most of them were just him trying to harass women and underaged girls.

I checked his Email and... much to my disgust, he stole private photos of my wife from her phone, and he was selling them.

Today, I went to the police with everything and told them everything.

I gave my baby boy everything... I don't know why he went down this road. But I'm just so sorry I failed him. I don't know what the police will do... but I hope they stop him before he hurts someone else.

The sad thing is... yesterday, once it was all over and settled, yesterday we had a wonderful day. One of the happiest we have ever had.

Edit: there is a lot to sort through, it's impossible to reply to everyone so let me hit the big points.

• all the incels this post attracted can frick off back to their holes.

• how do I know the lingo? From my son.

• "why didn't I take his computer time away" I specifically said I did. His laptop was forbidden to be used in private, and I banned most of the sites he was using with the parental locks. He bought or stole another laptop behind our backs though and used his phone data. My wife and I don't use our phone internet much so we didn't think of it.

• "it wasn't Christmas last week" ??? I know? It's.... November. The young man visited us on Christmas 2017. We had this fight last week. I don't know how I have to clarify that there was a passage of time between the fight and Christmas, since it's pretty clearly not Christmas right now, but.... alright.

• "why wasn't he in therapy" again this is a common comment from people who must have skimmed because we did put him in therapy. He was abusive towards several therapists, so we gave up on therapy.

• "why not have him institutionalized" because that is MY SON. to have him locked away is not an easy decision. I love him. We wanted to believe he could still change. But he couldn't.

• I have no idea who he moved in with. I don't care. Maybe an Airbnb?

• "why didn't you help him sooner/was he bad as a child" as a kid he was introverted but not especially bad. He misbehaved sometimes but it wasn't troubling. He had a few friends but they all had a falling out the first year of grade school. Prior to harassing that first girl he had some red flags. He seemed depressed, and his hygiene was spiralling. We tried to help him but he was stubborn. He didn't want help. He wanted to be miserable. I listened to his problems and he complained about how his dream girl went after some other guy and how he stole her from him, and I tried to guide him and help him understand she wasn't stolen because she isn't property, she's a person who made her own choice. He didn't like that answer.

• all the things you say we should have tried, we mostly did. We gave him lots of attention and love before all this and after. We still tried to be a family.

• my daughter and her boyfriend helped me clear his room since I cannot carry certain heavy things myself. My daughter was therefore present when I found her underwear. She singled out a couple of pairs as not hers and was scared of where he got them from. She suggested keeping them for evidence.

• there was a teacher who did get through to him somewhat, for a time. But he transferred to a different school district.

• he wasn't horrible all the time. Sometimes he could be good to be around. He could be really funny and clever. He was really good with animals. He was good with his games too. He got really passionate and excited about them and it made me happy seeing him having fun with a hobby. Seeing him smile could almost make me forget the things he'd done.

• telling me to kill myself says a lot about yourself.

• I've seen what toxic ideologies do to families. I'm not interested in joining your red pill, Jordan Peterson, or child beating cults.

• advocating child abuse as a 20-something brat shows your immaturity. Advocating murder does too.

• toxic masculinity is considering men weak for having the strength to express their emotions.

• many complaints about "allowing" my daughter to be intimate with her boyfriend all stem from the same racist incel rhetoric my son used. There is literally nothing wrong with interracial couples. I couldn't be happier that my daughter is with someone who loves and treats her with dignity.

• incels struggle with reading, evidently. My daughter had her first boyfriend at 15, and I doubt there was anything going on between them. She is currently 18. So yes, she probably has s*x. As an adult woman. Not really anyone's business. My son is 22, soon to be 23.

edit 2

With new replies coming in by the truckload and 3 new pm's for every one I reply to, I am getting slightly overwhelmed by the response here. I can't really keep up, even just reading I have begun skipping comments to keep up. I have things to do today but I'll try to catch up every so often.

edit 3

Mods locked the thread. I am not sure why but there are almost 10,000 replies and maybe 500 pm's to sort through.

African-Americans earn a median household income of 48,000 USD.

Sub-Saharan African families in the US earn a median household income of 58,000 USD.

There is not a single group in the US that earns a lower household median income than the African-American than the Native American.

Human sub-species are obviously real. It is just politically incorrect to mention them or be aware of them.

Medicine has different impact on Africans and White people but they are exactly the same.

https://www.amacad.org/publication/daedalus/unequal-nature-geneticists-perspective-human-differences

My primary argument is that sub-Saharan Africans and Native Americans are separate sub-species from the rest of humanity, and that either the Sub-Saharan Africans will win the interspecies evolutionary conflict, or the rest of the human populations will.

The Native Americans lost the species struggle, and are nearly extinct now. Today, Native American alone makes up 1.1% of the US population and more worryingly, is rising in number.

Today, 12.4% of the US population identifies as black alone. This population is in decline suggesting that the Black sub-species is not successful in developed economies.

We see the fastest rise in the Asian sub-species in developed economies, which shows that the Asian sub-species is the most successful and adaptable sub-group when it comes to being part of the developed world.

As of now, the greatest conflict exists between the Sub-Saharan African subspecies and the rest of the world, because the Sub-Saharan populations are not able to intermix with the rest of the world's population successfully, and are thus left isolated and in a position where either their overrun a new territory with numbers, or are blocked off from the rest of the world.

The Sub-Saharan human also has a very fast reproductive rate, which makes his population grow far faster than the land can support him. He is also too dumb to build civilization by himself which places him in a position where the Sub-Saharan human can only ever succeed by spreading across Africa and beyond, but never by successfully growing his own land.

The moving to the rest of the world plan doesn't work however, as Sub-Saharan Africans are too divergent a sub-species group to be able to assimilate with the rest of the world. They have an extremely difficult time assimilating in North Africa, Europe, Asia, Oceania, North America, and even South America. To the point that they remain the least desired type of immigrant, besides middle easterners.

As of now, Sub-Saharan africa population doubles every 27 years, meanwhile their IQ remains around 66 in current year. Their current population density is around 40 people per sq km and would be 80 per sq km in 27 years from now.

With an IQ of 66, your economy GDP per capita would continue to decline as your population rises, as can already be seen in the case of countries like Nigeria, which have an iq 15+ higher than the average Sub-Saharan person.

At a 66 IQ, the people of the land are no longer compatible with developed economies. It is not just an issue of cultural differences, but the simple fact that they aren't smart enough to be able to process the rules that a developed economy is telling them to follow.

At 66 IQ immigrating your people to other places is a guaranteed net negative. It is an average IQ bad enough that only the top 1.1% of the population would be compatible with the developed world.

If you thought trying to assimilate Syrian refugees was bad, imagine how much worse trying to assimilate people with an IQ 10 points lower than that would be. That's how low it is.

In conclusion, Sub-Saharan African sub-species of humans are not compatible with any other society on Earth, and could at best have the top 1% of their populations assimilate with other populations. This leaves a 99% populaiton that will never become rich enough to stop reproducing. That will overpopulate their region and would either suffer constant famines or genocides perpetuated upon them by themselves in a bid to survive the overpopulation issue.

In Rwanda the genocides already occurred because of this, and in the future we can expect more similar genocides to occur across Africa, as their domestic populations overpopulate without having the intelligence to create systems advanced enough to administer such large and densely packed populations.

Rwanda's population is expected to double once again in 30 years. With a current population density of 535 per sq km, it all but guarantees another Rwandan genocide/ war breaking out within the next 30 years.

Another similar example can be found in Bangladesh. Where with a population density of 1165, they end up in a position where they have to begin attacking minority populations in the country to get anywhere further.

Africa will eat itself alive. Until only one single African sub-species dominates. After that Africa will fight the rest of human civilization, and only one will come out on top.

Who is most likely to win?

It appears that Africans might end up being the future of humanity as they are the only sub-species of humans with a consistently high fertility rate, while the rest of humanity is falling below replacement levels. It this trend holds, then the Africans will have replaced the rest of humanity similarly to how we replaced the Neanderthals.

Unless we kill them all first.

Conclusion:

Humanity is going to genocide Africa. Zero question about it. As it cannot win the replacement game, it will simply genocide Africa instead to win. China isn't going to repeat the west's mistake of going but they are just like us its okay if our streets are filled with brown people with zero relation to us in 60 years. China isn't going to do that. Genetics is your inheritance. The west throws it away. They lost.

The final race war will be between Asians and Black people. Asians will win because they have a 35 IQ advantage with a higher or at worst equal population. That 35 IQ difference is the equivalent of modern day Chinese fighting against 1850s white people. You know the 1850s white people aren't winning that one.

The Chinese are going to end up mass sterilizing the African population. Bottom 50% every single generation. They will keep doing this until the African population reaches a comparatively ideal size and IQ. Then the Chinese will write history books in Africa about how the Chinese uplifted their populations and saved them.

There's a substance in women's tears that literally lowers men's testostereone. pic.twitter.com/SLNeIr0LkK

— RAW EGG NATIONALIST (@Babygravy9) January 13, 2025

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMenAdvice/comments/1hel0yn/how_can_i_get_my_girlfriend_to_sleep_in_a/

!dramatards 4000 comments

!titsorgtfo !fakecels !truecels

A guy tell a girl that money and looks is not most important in life.

She voice tells him: think logically who would even want you without money and of course without good looks, in facts nobody would ever want you

"The worst she can say is no"

H8 Vtubers btw, I wish we got more Vtuber drama here. Anyone know of any Kino anime foid meltdowns? !incels

Weirdly enough soychads stay away from her while conservacucks line up to raise some abusive neighbor's child

Chud replies with facts and logic and gets downmarseyd into oblivion

https://old.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/1hxarvc/genuinely_curious_why_this_even_needed_to_be_asked/

>watch it on my vr headset

>tfw being fully immersed in the video made my brain turn off and now I feel addictedto it

>starting to catch myself think and do things now I wouldn't have before

Frick this stuff isn't permament is it?

!chastity

this is the number one pro-incel political position I have, do something about these fricks.

>dating this black "leftist not liberal girl"

>despite being a literal Redditor, she's actually really sweet

>makes me cake, super nice, etc

>but also very political

>like thanked me for not voting trump out of nowhere the first time I talked to her

>was literally telling me today about how south Africans love white people

>told her about the "kill the boer" stuff and the farm killings

>still doesn't believe me

I really like her and appreciate her as a person, but wtf do I do about this shit? I'm a complete chud politically so it's like we live in different worlds. I want to make it work, but I don't know how to make her see things my way or how to find a middle ground.

I had to work today despite it being a holiday in my state cause I work the state over. Had to stand in a yuge fricking traffick jam back home too cause everyone from my state was shopping where I work since everything back home is closed. Nicest start to the week ever brocels, how are you doing? !incels

https://old.reddit.com/r/infp/comments/1hrzf09/its_incredibly_frustrating_to_see_how_many_male/

!fellas !straggots

If you continue to flirt with a woman who doesn't immediately drop her pants for you it's LITERALLY forcing her to have s*x with you. Educate yourselves sweaty.