!neolibs

Context: Rupi Kaur is a "poet" that generates mountains of seethe by doing the absolute least amount of work possible to pass herself off as an artist. She's the one with the shitty sketch drawings of shock content and incredibly lazy poems that dont mean anything.

Her entire career is based firmly in farming sneed off of people who say she isnt a poet.

I see a LOT of you guys embarrassed for reading Rupi or outraged at her for her writing, seriously just don't send her hate, I don't want a mob, I am just not a fan of her writing, and as for the people who keep saying my opinion/stance is irrelevant, I know that already but I put it out there anyway (like how writers are allowed to have a voice so am I), and this is my opinion, she does not deserve ANY hate but I am not a fan, nothing more, nothing less.

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my entire post history is what

i post

and bait

i am a curry leaf in wind

This one is for the boys pic.twitter.com/YrVSH4naaQ

— Shadow Cringelord (@ShadowxTwilight) September 17, 2023

The future is female! You never see scrotes giving back like this!

Just say "you also seems to have gained some weight since last time we met". It works and they won't disturb you again lol

no u

"Did you mean to say that outloud? How embarrassing."

someone caring about your health is emabarrassing

While I like the idea of a comeback, I usually can't come up with one in the moment. I've found a slight raise of the eyebrows and walking away to be most effective response that I can be happy with afterwards.

pathetic

put the fork down, fatties

an isolated incident

!foidmoment

OP

Boyfriend(22M) couldn't stop liking half naked pictures of other women so I(21F) posted one of myself.

Alright my (22M) boyfriend has started following a lot of instagram women. Not regular ones I don't mind those but particularly the ones in lingerie, and with their butt out. Even was watching their OF. I(21F) told him it made me uncomfortable and to stop but his response was “it's just Instagram”.. “you're doin too much”.. “it's not that serious” and he kept doing it.. well I posted some pictures of me in a g string bikini.. butt out and all, he saw it and started freakin out. Slamming doors and yelling.. He was like “ew you don't respect yourself, gurls who do that are hoes.. that's embarrassing I don't want my gf doing that bro that's weird..” and he is mad like really mad. I He told me to take it down and I said “no isn't this wat you like to see” and his response again was “you're in a relationship why would you do that..” and I said “im only postin wat you like” after i said that he started ignoring me it's been hours and honestly idc. I don't feel bad at all.. for months I was uncomfortable and asked him to stop and he couldn't so yea. Now he's a victim of a crime he participates in ☺️

Could be a bait account but

Her other posts https://old.reddit.com/user/Ok_Computer2422/submitted

My (21F) boyfriend (22M)wants a threesome.. but I feel that he wants to just frick other women. : r/relationships

I'm mentally and physically drained. : r/NarcissisticAbuse

Trying to escape the poverty cycle.. : r/internetparents

Normally I would say that's childish, but yeah no. You gave him a different perspective. I'd dig it even further, and say now other men like him can follow you, and like your pics.

This is great way to keep a man around

That's the definition of double standard in a nutshell. It's all fine and dandy (in his mind) when it's someone across the screen but as soon as it's HIS girl, it's a moral outrage.

Now these foids get it Will they learn anything from it?

Please keep us updated! I'm hoping your next BF is much more understanding!

Both of you seem insufferable.

Realest comment there.

omg, this is disgusting. where?

"I'm pregnant!!" 🥳🎉🥳🎉

"Make sure to get it sliced out. I want that vag to stay nice n tight." #cueburp

Please say you'll abort this mongrel's semen droppings. 🙏🏻

#cueburp

I read your post history. Seems like you should go with the natural birth so you won't be laid up from abdominal surgery while you're working your two jobs, paying most of the bills, doing all the manual labor, doing all the shopping, driving him around like you're an Uber, cleaning the house, and now raising the baby too.

Throwing the baby in there seems like a great idea, given that you're already short on sleep and whatnot.

Oh, and don't forget to stay tight for your husband. He's very busy doing something or other.

I don't know how she even has time (or the desire) to have s*x with this man after all of that.

i know how.

I swear I need to delete Reddit. This shit gets worse every darn day. I'm so sorry he feels that way, you deserve much better.

no bait is too obvious for these morons

real - 25 votes

bait - 199 votes

A lotta dudes are aware by now that there's way more women going to college than men (!incels how many of you are uneducatedcels?) but dudes seek to be lacking an explanation. I've got it. Do you know what sucks? Being a Ms. Mr. and Mrs. are pretty cool, but Ms. just makes you seem like a bitter, lonely spinstress. Women aren't getting married anymore because men are trash and/or the Jews have deceived them so they're getting stuck with the title Ms. To avoid this terrible fate, they go into academia in order to get a doctorate so they can be Dr. instead of Ms. I think this is entirely relatable and understandable; when I die alone and have my corpse eaten by my various cats, I'd rather have my obituary say Dr. than Ms.

A while ago I asked advice about a guy I had been on a few dates with. On the third date, he said he'd been convicted of two murders and said that was in the past and he didn't want to talk about it. Until that point, we clicked very well and I was head over heels. I came here to ask for advice.

I got A TON of advice and I am VERY VERY GRATEFUL for all of it! Thank you all so very much! A lot of people called me stupid etcetera but that was okay too because I think it was a valid perspective they said out of fear for my safety. That's how I took it at least. lol Lots of people mentioned Theodore/Ted Bundy, who I hadn't heard of before but I thought it was funny that apparently it's such a famous person and everyone kept mentioning him.

There were so many messages and I gave up on trying to reply to them and eventually even reading them. The next days I came back to read more, but I didn't reply anymore because I was exhausted from just the reading. I apologize to the people I didn't answer, but I am really very grateful you took the time to write and share your thoughts, whatever they were! Thank you!

It seemed most people either said to run and wondering whether I was stupid, but a good chunk also said he would have to be completely open about the murders and see from there. I was close to just telling him I couldn't do it after all those messages, but I ended up sending him a text to ask for a few more days. He replied that was fine. Eventually I asked him to get together somewhere public so we could get coffee and talk.

We made some smalltalk and then I told him what many of you said here: it's fine if he doesn't want to talk about his past, but then I can't continue seeing him. If he wants a chance at a relationship (or even friendship), then I needed to know about it. I understand it makes him uncomfortable, but it makes ME uncomfortable to know about him being in prison and then not explaining. He was quiet for a long time and asked whether he could talk to his therapist first. He said he had been seeing a therapist since he was in prison. When he moved across the country, he decided to keep seeing one because it helped him. I agreed. We made some more smalltalk and we left. He told me it would be over a week before his next appointment. During that time, we sent a few messages back and forth but nothing big. Just little things.

Two weeks later he said he wanted to talk so we met up somewhere public again. He looked very uncomfortable, but he said what had happened. I tried not to interrupt him and only asked questions at the end. Here is the summary of what happened:

He was part of this gang because “that's just what you did” where he lived (poor and criminal part of the city that was known for having lots of crime in general). He didn't want to do anything, but joined out of “safety”. He got into a fight with someone from another gang. He punched him and he hit his head on the sidewalk that knocked him unconscious. He thought that was the end of it. Then weeks later he was arrested because the other guy had a seizure from the knock to the ground and died and his parents sued him.

In the meantime another thing had happened too: he was out with a friend (a member of the gang too) driving at night. He was drunk and in the passenger seat. His friend was driving and he was drunk and also high. I'll give fake names here to make it easier to understand: “Stefan” is the one I talk to and “Filip” is his friend. They were driving on a piece of road that had no real sidewalk but just some stripes to indicate the bit for bikes. Filip was laughing and driving into that part to scare bikers but never hitting them. Then he hit one and he was also speeding, so it was a big hit. Filip panicked and left the car and ran away. Stefan stayed and called an ambulance. The police showed up too. The biker was dead. Stefan was drunk but he tried to explain to the police what happened without naming Filip because he didn't want to betray him. The police arrested him anyway. While he was in jail (before trial), the other man had the seizure and died. In the trial he still didn't name Filip. They knew the car belonged to Filip, but Filip said he'd loaned the car to Stefan. Stefan didn't correct them. He said it was really stupid of him afterwards, but he kept quiet because he just wanted to die and was very depressed because of what had happened. The victim was also someone in a gang so they said it was intentional because of “gang warfare”.

I asked why he was so sure about not telling me anything, but now he told me everything. Especially because the circumstances weren't really evil. He didn't go out and kill those people on purpose. He said he'd talked to his therapist who basically agreed with me and who had already been pushing him to be more open with people. If he really regretted what he'd done, he should act like it and be honest. He was very ashamed of what he had done and just hoped he could forget it if he never had to talk about it again. He figured I would find out about his conviction anyway so he tried to admit to it first and then hope I would either not ask questions about it or break things off with him. As long as he didn't have to talk about it again. In therapy he had been working on that for a long time but it was difficult to break through that barrier, but he started to realize he had to change if he wanted have friends or even a girlfriend.

I had taken notes from people who replied in the thread with questions to ask because in the end it was still just his own version of the story that he might be trying to clean up and look nicer. He showed proof he worked as a delivery driver and as part-time electrician for emergency situations and weekends. (The company has a website with a “meet our team” page and his name and picture is on it.) He said he had documentation from his trials and prison time, but obviously not with him. He could show it to me on our next meeting if I wanted. I said I would like that. He was released early from prison because he had taken classes in prison to become an electrician and good behavior and overpopulation in prisons. He still had a police officer he had to see every once in a while at the police station and asked whether I would want to go with him next time. If I had more questions, he could ask them from the third person who I could definitely trust. This surprised me but I said I think I would like that but I wasn't sure yet.

We made some smalltalk after and left and we started texting each other more again without any mention of prison or such. That's where we are now. He will meet the police officer in a few weeks and I will probably go with him. I think he was open now about his experiences and it surprised me so I don't know whether it was TOO quick and TOO open? lol I don't know anymore, especially after reading everyone's comments on here. Any more input would be great, especially for questions to ask the police when I go with him.

Thanks again for all your comments, good and bad, and I wish you happiness, good health and kindness!

I snooped and found his pros and cons list a few hours after we made up. It broke my heart to find out that he thinks so little of me.

The list:

Pros 1. Love her a lot 2. Someone to spend time with 3. S*x 4. Someone to party with

Cons 1. Childish 2. No ambition 3. Smokes 4. Disregards my feelings 5. Selfish 6. Doesn't eat certain meats 7. Full of shit 8. S*x 9. Takes my focus off from work 10. Takes more than she gives 11. Bipolar 12. Don't see a future with her 13. Don't have the same values 14. Cannot be the mother of my children 15. Eats like shit 16. Doesn't exercise 17. Sleeps all day 18. Doesn't do anything

For some context, I am his first. He had planned to wait until he was married, however after a few months he wanted to do it. I repeatedly asked him if he was sure, and he confirmed. He was also always the one to initiate. We are both university students. I used to smoke cigarettes but gradually stopped. His main issue is that I occasionally smoke weed, which he did not communicate during the fight that led to the breakup. He is extremely focused on his work since he is studying a very difficult degree.

I was not aware that he felt this way about me. I thought he understood that I stuggle to follow a sleep routine and that I hate getting up early. My classes allow me to sleep in, whereas he is up at 5am everyday, regardless of classes. I do not exercise, yet he tells me how pretty I am and that I'm skinny and jokes that he needs to fatten me up. I am lucky to be thin without having to exercise and I hate working out anyway. My "horrible eating" is skipping meals and eating McDonald's whenever I can.

I have asked him in the past if there are any places where I can approve, and he said no. I even asked if he thought I was bipolar, and he said that I was just going through a hard time and having mood swings.

He did not communicate any of these with me, except for the smoking, which felt irrelevant to me since I had basically stopped without even trying to. I did not know that he felt like I took more than I gave. I thought I was giving my all. In terms of physical things, I give less since I hardly have money to do groceries most months. However emotionally I feel like I give more than enough.

During the fight, he said that he felt guilty everytime we had s*x and that he threw all his values away, only to turn around and say that he is still in shock that it actually happened and not feeling guilty. We slept together the same night we made up, and I asked him multiple times if he was sure, because I obviously never want him to feel guilty or pressured.

He has always been extremely supportive, so this took me by surprise. He has never said any of these things to me. And now I'm wondering why he even wanted to try again if he feels this way about me.

Writing about our boobs from an aesthetic perspective. The only time I think about mine are when it's too hot out or my shoulders are aching from my bra straps.

I just read the most incredible novel, Moonglow by Micheal Chabon. It was thoughtful, moving, had something to say about people and relationships and society— and stopped almost every time we saw a woman character, no matter how small, to describe her boobs.

There's a moment where the main character sees his wife (who is otherwise a well developed character) for the first time after her being in inpatient, him being in prison, the suspense built up to be about longing and marriage and obligation, and the first thing we hear is about the shape of her boobs! It's shockingly common and a bizzare tic of male writers, even good ones.

>guy that didn't see his wife for a long time is horny

if shes the protagonist shes always "different" from other girls usally at the cost of making every other woman suck. if shes supporting character her story is completely focused on the men in her life. if shes the antagonist shes either a seductress or an old witch.

>story is more focused on the main character

It's usually the big obvious effort to try to figure out what it's like inside a woman's head. I think, as a lit major who's therefore read enough men to feel like I can state this with some confidence, it's actually pretty similar to being in a man's head. There's a reason a lot of us women on reddit get accidentally called "bro" every so often; it's because generally our thoughts and feelings are not very different. I honestly would guess that if someone took a transcript of a day's worth of my thoughts, they wouldn't be 100% sure of my gender.

Some men, when they write women, just overthink the whole thing. A character's other personality traits are going to come through a lot stronger than their gender in most cases. A Type A dude and a Type A lady have a lot more in common with each other than that lady has with me.

>as a lit major

stopped reading right there

They never fail to emphasize the importance of beauty no matter what.

“In spite of the silver hair framing her face, and the deep creases around her eyes, I couldn't help but be bewitched by her beauty.” Or some corny shit like that.

These characters could literally be fighting for their lives during the dust bowl and male authors often just can't resist emphasizing how gorgeous she is because obviously she has to be in order to make the book interesting /s

This is the one that always gets me. It is actually, counterintuitively, why I have started to like cultivation fantasy stuff so much. 75% of them are written by total incels, so you have to filter all that out, but the stuff that remains is based on the Chinese fantasy ideal, which makes men SUPER pretty. ( Here is an example of what I am talking about. No idea who the character is, this is just how all the men are described.)

So instead of just a constant barrage of random hot women, you also get a constant barrage of random hot men. When everyone is crazy gorgeous it stops being the focus, so in the good ones it is usually only mentioned as part of their "advancement" away from mortality.

The bad ones are all harem psycopath protagonists though, so avoid that.

uggos seething

My pet peeve is when a woman's death is used as a power to move the plot forward. It's such a popular trope that we barely register that!

I did a term paper on this! Like a decade ago—but I still remember that this trope is called Women in Refrigerators Syndrome. It's exactly as fricked up as it sounds.

!foidmoment

Other threads

https://old.reddit.com/r/news/comments/16gpl4n/candidate_in_highstakes_virginia_election/?context=8

https://old.reddit.com/r/politics/comments/16gs70r/virginia_election_candidate_responds_after_leak/?context=8

https://old.reddit.com/r/rva/comments/16g7ged/va_democratic_house_candidate_performed_sex_acts/?context=8

https://old.reddit.com/r/moderatepolitics/comments/16ggsrs/candidate_in_highstakes_virginia_election/?context=8

https://old.reddit.com/r/Conservative/comments/16gqnsc/democratic_virginia_house_candidate_performed_sex/?context=8

https://old.reddit.com/r/Conservative/comments/16gdiyd/virginia_democrat_candidate_posted_sex_acts_with/?context=8

https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1701388579765637408 thanks @BimothyX2

Virginia election candidate responds after leak of tapes showing her performing s*x acts with husband: "It won't silence me"

A candidate in a high-stakes legislative contest in Virginia had s*x with her husband in live videos posted on a pornographic website and asked viewers to pay them money in return for carrying out specific s*x acts.

Screenshots of Susanna Gibson on the website were shared with The Associated Press. The campaign for Gibson, a Democrat running for a seat in the Virginia House of Delegates in a district just outside Richmond, issued a statement Monday in which it denounced the sharing of the videos as a violation of the law and her privacy. Gibson called the exposure of the videos "the worst gutter politics."

"It won't intimidate me and it won't silence me," she said in the statement. "My political opponents and their Republican allies have proven they're willing to commit a s*x crime to attack me and my family because there's no line they won't cross to silence women when they speak up."

The Washington Post first reported the videos on Monday.

The revelation marked an explosive turn in a contest that will carry significant weight in determining the balance of power in the Virginia General Assembly. The race has attracted large amounts of spending and interest for an off-year legislative race.

Democrats control the Senate by a four-vote margin, and Republicans control the House of Delegates by the same margin, with four seats currently vacant. The parties are waging intense legislative battles as GOP rising national political star Gov. Glenn Youngkin looks to bolster his conservative agenda with full control of state government.

Gibson said that exposing the videos is "an illegal invasion of my privacy designed to humiliate me and my family." Gibson's attorney, Daniel P. Watkins, said that disseminating the videos is a violation of Virginia's revenge porn law, which makes it a crime to "maliciously" disseminate or sell nude or sexual images of another person with the intent to "coerce, harass, or intimidate."

"A criminal act has occurred here, and that's the dissemination of revenge porn by a Republican operative," Watkins told the AP.

Watkins cited a 2021 Virginia Court of Appeals ruling that found it was unlawful for a man to secretly record his girlfriend during a consensual sexual encounter even if he did not show the video to other people. The court found that consent to being seen is not the same as consent to being recorded.

Gibson, 40, a nurse practitioner and married mother of two young children, won a Democratic primary in June and is running against Republican businessman David Owen in one of the most competitive districts in the state.

"I'm sure this is a difficult time for Susanna and her family, and I'm remaining focused on my campaign," Owen said in a statement.

A top-ranking Virginia Democrat immediately came to Gibson's defense after the videos were reported by the Post. "Now we are going to make this the biggest fundraising day of her campaign," Sen. L. Louise Lucas wrote on social media.

Garren Shipley, a spokesman for Republican House Speaker Todd Gilbert, did not immediately respond to a request seeking comment.

Gibson and Owen are competing in the 57th District, an area that includes suburbs of Richmond in both Henrico and Goochland counties. The district chose Youngkin by a 51.2%-to-48.3% margin in 2021, but in the 2022 congressional midterm elections, the split in the district was 50% Democratic to 49.1% Republican.

Gibson has said the U.S. Supreme Court's 2022 decision overturning Roe v. Wade propelled her into the race.

Gibson had an account on Chaturbate, a legal website where viewers can watch live webcam performances that feature nudity and sexual activity, according to the screenshots reviewed by the AP. The videos show Gibson and her husband, John David Gibson, having s*x and at times looking into the camera and asking viewers for donations in the form of "tokens" or "tips" to watch a private show.

Chaturbate videos are streamed live on that site and are often archived on other publicly available sites, the Post reported. More than a dozen videos posted under Gibson's Chaturbate username were archived on one of those sites — Recurbate — in September 2022, the month after she announced her candidacy. The most recent were two videos archived on Sept. 30, 2022. It is unclear when the livestream occurred.

The entire thread is a bunch of !foidmoment s

OP

I can't believe I'm crying over my boss denying my time off for a month to spend time with my family for next Christmas 2024 and my 30th birthday January 2025. She denied it when everyone else is getting their extended leave and one week time off every other month. Her reason was 21 days (three business weeks) is the max. My ideal flight day is on the 23rd of December but it takes a whole day of flying to get to my home country (Philippines) and the 21st day falls on my birthday (January 12). I don't want to be flying on my 30th birthday. That's the first bday I will be celebrating with my friends and family and it's the 3-0. It's a big deal for me.

I just want to spend Christmas and New Year's with my family and also my 30th. I've been celebrating it by myself for 9 years. For once I want to be surrounded by loved ones. I haven't been celebrating the holidays with them since I moved to the US which is 9 years. Part of my sadness too is I'm just so tired of being a good employee to her but she can't give me this. I have covered for my coworkers when they are away for vacation almost every other month. I only asked for a month so I can spend time with my mom who's getting older and older everyday. She requested me to come home on Christmas this year but I can't come unfortunately. She's 67 this year and has been complaining about her health problems. I don't want to be that daughter who will just come back to her country when someone is already dying or dead. knock on wood I asked for Sabbatical leave and she denied it, too.

I'm taking a month because it's hella far. It's not like another state, it's on the other side of the world.

My colleagues have expressed they are willing to sign a petition for approval since my boss' reason is “it would unfair for others” if she approved it.

I just want to cry. I'm so tired. I'm not in a good mental place lately and the time I want to spend with my family is something I have been looking forward to. It's not even this year, it's next year. I can't believe this. It gave me a mental breakdown, a panic attack, and now I'm just angry I'm crying. (Yes, I'm that type of person).

What should I do? I already reached out to HR about Sabbatical Leave. I might reach out to my therapist as well because this is too upsetting for me, all my emotions are in a roller coaster mode.

Sorry, if this is all over. I'm beyond disappointed about my boss' decision and how she shows no compassion to my needs to be with my family.

I don't know a single place with myself or anyone I know who just lets you take a month off.

I had to reread her post - basically, she wanted 4 weeks but the company policy is for 3 weeks, and she thinks it is unfair that her request was denied. I think that's it, and I'm baffled at why she's upset. Seems pretty cut and dry.

OP: I originally asked for a month, then I asked for three weeks and the remaining days will be unpaid time off. Also, under leave of absence.

What is your leave of absence reason? Unless it's medical that can also be denied.

OP: I would look after my mom who's complaining about her health. She's mentioned it a lot lately. And the second one is for my mental health. I have anxiety and maybe depression now because of these fricking comments.
My anxiety is diagnosed, btw. I haven't tested for depression yet but lately I've been feeling it. Hence, the need to be with my family is very important for me.

Just to clarify, you're asking for time off NEXT Christmas, 12/25/2024, not this Christmas 12/25/2023?

OP: Yes. Christmas 2024 to NY 2025. She's already asking for Prime Time requests off for next year.

your manager is seriously unreasonable.
this is plenty of time to plan around this.

She's not unreasonable if the company policy is 3 weeks. It's unreasonable to expect them to re write the policy for her. If she doesn't like the policy of her work place, she has a year to find a new employer.

This pissed off a bunch of r-slurred children.

A month off in the US is out of the norm. Your boss sounds generous giving you 3 weeks off. Can you work remotely from the Philippines for a couple of weeks or something?

OP: No, unfortunately not.
My bro took three months off for his wedding. He got approved without hesitation. He also works in the US. Came back without any problems.
My previous boss/employer approved me for a month off without any questions too. This was back in 2019. It's LOA. Came back happier and more in touch with reality.
I was asking for FMLA, she said it have to be a medical leave. Goodness gracious. I told her I'll do Sabbatical, she said no as well.
Gaddddh I wish I was rich

That is not what FMLA is for lmao. You cant just use it to take a long vacation and go visit family. Honestly, 3 weeks will be fine. You're likely just depressed, overworked, and homesick.

Very stable and sane. These are the kind of foids I want working in healthcare

She's not the one who moved all the way around the globe away from their family they say they NEED to be with. Sorry but that's just how it is.

OP: It wasn't my choice to moved here. Don't even start me with that.
The fuq is wrong with you people??? Corporate America has taken y'all. It's so sad. Also, family sounds like not much a matter to you?? I hope one day, they won't NEED you at all.

There's 1000+ comments of this shitshow somehow https://old.reddit.com/r/work/comments/16gccey/im_so_done_i_asked_my_boss_for_a_month_time_off/?sort=controversial&context=8

In the last year I've known women who had their first child at 38, 40 (x2) 42, and 44.

all of them are rdrama users.

I say this with kindness, so please take it as such, but I think your problem is that you have anxiety, not that you want kids.

31 is young and there is objectively plenty of time for you to achieve love and family in this decade of your life. Also, if you look around (irl, on Reddit, social media) you'll see myriad women your age in your same position. You'll also see many women who WERE you in the past, and have successfully found love and had kids.

Let that reality encourage you. Objectively, you could give up dating while in your program, finish, move wherever your career then takes you, then start dating, and marry and have a kid, before age 35. That's not even unreasonable. Love doesn't take as long as you think. And, even if all this takes till you're 45, YOU'RE STILL YOUNG AND ALL THIS IS STILL POSSIBLE.

(Also, just one more side note. Don't think of “dating” as this chore that requires apps and “meeting people” and newness. Join a community. Find like minded people with a hobby or interest in common. You will organically find love and it'll be easy).

Take a beat. Watch S*x and the City and see those fabulous women be and have absolutely everything at any age, even through the struggle. You'll be ok, I know it. I hope you come to know it too.

31 isn't that young if you want to date for a while, get engaged/married, then have a baby. OP wants to go slowly - that's fine! She may not have time. Women can go into menopause at any time. She may struggle to conceive. She is right to be thinking about how babies/a serious commitment will or could fit into her life plan

31 is young to be this stressed about her fertility.

31 isn't that young considering she wants to be partnered (which can take some years), wants to take it slow, doesn't know if she has any conceiving issues, and also needs to fit in her grad studies. she can have children later (my mum had me at 39!) but it's not a guarantee. i think OP is smart to be considering what her timeline means for her wish of having children.

that's incel speak, sweatie

The world's on fire, homes are out of reach of most people, people can barely afford to eat, climate change is destroying crops, fascism is growing in the Western world and you want to bring children into this mess because???

WARNING.

I noticed you're in a red pill women's sub. Probably trying to promote the idea that "women who go to school are sad because they're used up, single and want babies but they're too old" so that you or your ilk can then post a screenshot of this post as an example for some stupid red pill fascist YouTube channel as "proof" that what women want is to be subjugated and pregnant.

idk what this redditor's talking about. the op only has posts in twox, trueoffmychest and askwomenover30, which are in no way "red pilled"

realistically this is one of the best times to be alive in human history! The world is obviously full of problems and I respect your opinion, but I am hopeful about life and the future

I don't respect your blind optimism to drag a child into this mess because it's the done thing.

Frankly, I find it irresponsible and hateful towards your potential children that you're putting your head in the sand while they're going to be the ones that have to suffer through what scientists have been warning us about for decades.

You're honestly being incredibly ridiculous and your pessimism is extremely toxic. The only hope we have in the world is collectively our future children.

this one's a prepper

two more weeks until the collapse

My mother had me at 41.

My grandmother had my father at 50… he did very well in life.

I wouldn't be too concerned unless your family has fertility issues (cysts, early menopause etc).

That being said, I understand your dilemma with finding someone. It seems harder to find compatible partners at an earlier age now. I think online dating has simultaneously made it easier for people to connect and harder for people to find those who may have otherwise waited.

>My mother had me at 41

>redditor

Non-/s/ link: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16dclnu/love_the_fact_that_i_was_coerced_into_sex_i_didnt

F24 and M26 talking stage not looking good.

is it me? F24 here and my horoscope told me to be very open minded to the next man that approached me because it would be my lifelong partner. No joke, I am seriously not lying, within seconds a message pops up in my inbox from a man. I allow the conversation to begin and now I've been chatting with him nonstop for 1 week so far. But in one week I'm starting to realize personal things that I don't like about him. For starters, I thought he was opening up to me specifically but now I think he might just be an open book and talk a lot to everyone too ( I don't like guys who have big mouths), he hasn't been asking any questions to get to know me! He asked one personal question, which I didn't mind, and I got a little bit vulnerable for him and he instantly changed the topic and started talking about himself again. I also think he has such a super busy lifestyle that he'd get bored of me. Lastly I'm not even attracted to him physically, or sexually. I was really banking on having a strong emotional connection to spark my attraction to him. I also don't want to turn him down or ghost him because my horoscope literally said this was the man for me and the way he approached me very shortly after I read that horoscope felt like divine timing. It's not feeling like my other relationships in the past, it's much more hard to navigate.