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BREAKING NEWS
— Greg Foid Slava Ukraini ✊🏿🇺🇦 (@AntiHateComms) July 30, 2023
LANDWHALE DISCOVERS LIFE IS NOT A DISNEY MOVIE
WAHH WAHH HOW DARE PROPLE NOT WANNA DATE FATTIES AHH BEAUTY IN THE BEASTIALITY TOLD ME THAT LOOKS DONT MATTER 😂😂😂😂
Dawg does she really think its wtong to not be attracted to ugly neegas? Porksword gay son https://t.co/d1Av2u5dXc
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I (29F) have a stalker. How do I figure this out?
TL;DR I have a stalker, have exhausted all options, and don't know how to figure out who it is.
I have no idea where to start with this because I’ve never been involved in anything remotely dramatic in my life. Nonetheless, I’ll try to be concise:
Someone is 1) aware of whenever I arrive at my partner’s house and 2) knows when and where my partner and I travel abroad. They then contact my partner’s ex and harass them with this information via burner social media accounts, text messages and automated phone calls from random numbers. I don’t really know the ex but clearly someone thinks this information will agitate them? No clue, I’m just minding my business over here but it sure is causing a mess of irritation.
My concern is that someone clearly monitors my whereabouts on multiple levels and I have no idea how this is happening.
I only share my plans with two people ever and there is no scenario it is them. My one close friend has absolutely zero reason to do this especially knowing how much distress it causes me (unless she is a psychopath that flew under my radar for 10+ years). And my mother is absolutely incompetent with everything and especially technology. There’s just no way, and I checked my mother’s devices entirely. She does nothing suspicious as expected.
My partner also only shares with two people and he also swears it could not be them for pretty much the same reasons. These are people we adore and are close with, they wouldn’t hurt us like this and they have absolutely no motivation to. He’s also taken the same precautions I have listed below.
Please help!
Here’s what I’ve done so far:
-Changed all passwords and logged out of all accounts. Obviously the most important was email in terms of finding out life details
-Added 2 factor authentication on all accounts
-Deleted any unknown devices from all accounts. There weren’t many and seem like just old phones.
-Checked my phone and my car for anything suspicious in terms of tracking or hacking. I can’t find anything. I even bought a bug sweeper. The last place I haven’t swept is the outside of my partner’s home. I will do that soon but that still doesn’t explain knowing our vacation plans multiple times now!
-there was a weird unknown phone paired to my car Bluetooth but I don’t know if that’s a previous owner or something and I don’t think I’ve ever seen it connected. Or how that would even be relevant
-Changed my lifelong phone number (sigh…this one sucked)
-Deleted all social media although I have no posts. Deleted them all years ago for privacy and haven’t posted since. Not a big social media person
-Checked location services are only on relevant apps when they are in use. Like Uber..truly only the necessary ones
-Started using a VPN at all times
-Checked the wifi for unknown devices, can’t find any
-literally watched for someone physically following me but never found that to be happening
There is probably more that I cannot recall because I really went off. I don’t even know why I took some of these actions, I’m just blindly trying everything to possibly stop this. Kitchen sink approach.
Could this be someone that is one further step removed? But why in the world would my mom or friend tell someone else all of these events in detail?
I have no enemies to my knowledge.
I even have scenarios where I DIDNT share my plans with anyone and yet this stalker still knew.
Does anyone have strong opinions on how in the heck this could be happening??? I’m really lost.
Thank you in advance if you made it this far.
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A word of advice. Never tell a girl that she’s the “hottest” girl you’ve ever been with.
— chloé (@bronzeageshawty) July 26, 2023
She will immediately know she can do better than you, and in that instant you will lose her.
Women are attracted to men who they have to compete with other women for, and they want to win.
Vs
!biofoids discuss.
The only right answer:
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i will never not be the MOST angry at men believing “someone wants you = you must accept & be happy”
— ೃ Marsy (@MARSRSY) July 25, 2023
a girl could have 500 people lined up wanting to kiss her but it means nothing & serves no purpose if she doesnt find she actually likes… is that not… how love works… https://t.co/8fWm4RpfBS
I can no longer effort post. I am dying.
- Grue : How would you recommend I make 15k DC? Being right all the time doesn’t pay the bulls.
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Feeling very unsafe right now in my hostel room!
I‘m (F) all alone in my hostel room (that I can’t lock) and there are two guys hanging out outside of my room that make me feel uncomfortable to say the least. Last time I went outside he asked me for my number, I said no and he kept pestering me. The staff is not here at night and I don‘t see any other guests. (The hostel is quite empty). What should I do? I‘m scared they could come to my room while I‘m sleeping.
Edit: To clarify: There‘s a seating area outside of my room (not the main one though) and they‘re sitting there. I just texted a guy who‘s staying in the same hostel and asked him for help. He said he‘s outside but will return later. I realize this guy doesn‘t owe me anything but I can‘t help feeling furious about his careless response.
Update: Thank you guys for your quick replies and your concern. I pushed a heavy furniture against the door. The guy who‘s in my hostel arrived and is next door. He said I can come or text him if anything happens. The ones victim-blaming me trying to paint a picture of me that is simply not true(the dumb idiot who puts herself into danger without doing proper research): thanks for making a scary situation worse. You made me actually second-guess myself. However: I did my proper research before coming to Lebanon. I asked female friends who travelled here alone, specifically ones who stayed in this hostel. I simply got unlucky because this hostel is usually full, including the female dorms. But yeah, thinks for making a shitty situation even worse.
Believe me: there‘s nothing more important to me than my safety. I‘m not only leaving the hostel but in fact the whole country. I‘m looking for flight tickets right now.
Some users suggests szchizomaxxing.
I’d start acting really crazy so that they’re freaked out by you. Speaking gibberish, pacing, maybe throw some stuff around. Act really bizarre, loud and make a scene so that they don’t mess with you.
Panick. Start to scream so they know you aren't to be messed with. Make sure to let the other guy know how mad you are who won't help you, and then lock the door when you leave.
others suggest calling the police on the perps
Why not leave right now?
Edit: or call the police?
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In order of immediacy: Does the door open into your room, or out of your room? If in, try to find something to wedge underneath the gap to secure the door and create a barrier. Also, bar the door with anything you have - if the bed can be moved, move it and use it to bar the door. Combine it with other things like dressers, etc.
Call the police if they can be trusted (I have no idea if Lebanon police can be trusted or not)
Call an Uber and have the police escort you to the Uber
Do you have money to get a hotel room?
If yes, try Ubering to one - if no, consider booking the first flight out of Lebanon and going to the airport, which should be relatively safe.
I wouldn't rely on the guy to help you, for all you know he could be like the two guys outside your door.
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this comment ruffled some feathers for some reason
So you insulted someone and your ex got mad.
Not sure why that's a red flag, you kinda sound like a peepeehead lol
I think that's her win in the end
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Your ex definitely dodged a bullet by becoming your ex.
#2
Crazy that you typed this up and though people would agree with you.
You can disagree with someone’s behavior without using demeaning insults
#3
also moment for both that girl and the redditor's ex
No one shames women with high BC, they can do what they want. But for men who just choose not to take girls like that seriously, that’s not shaming that’s a choice.
No that’s called sexism. When you generalize and judge people because they do something you don’t like it’s called sexism. You don’t have to date anyone you don’t want to, no one is making the argument that should. You’re the one saying you don’t take women seriously because they have more s*x than you think they should.
You don’t think there’s anything wrong or gross about that comment?
Your comment is like two sentences long and in the first part you say no one shames women for this, and then proceeds to declare you don’t take them seriously in the next part… you guys have brain rot.
I never argued that men shouldn’t be able to date whoever they want you absolute dolt.
People’s preferences and bias can be sexist or bigoted, this isn’t new or noteworthy, this is reality.
You’re the moron for acting and pretending it’s not gross or problematic and that’s what I’m criticizing. I doubt women you don’t take seriously are taking you seriously either so I guess this works out as intended. So instead of that just being the end of it we gotta hear about how difficult it is for men to date.
Women don’t care about men’s height or peepee size nearly as much as you guys make it out to be. This is the most obvious thing in the world. Short kings are in relationships. Poor people with nothing going on frick all the time. You’re just unlikable.
“But women do this all the time…. It’s not fair.” Omg grow up. Stop trying to date women who perpetuate dumb shit. Do the exact same thing women are doing and don’t frick people with problematic opinions.
me whores
Having s*x as a man is different than it is as a woman. It darned sure IS a factor of their character if they are easy to frick and easy for low value people to have access to.
Yeah you sound like a piece of shit.
You sound like a hasty person who doesn't like having anything she does criticized. Sorry dove.
Nah bro I'm ace. I genuinely think sexist like you are just terrible people. Whats wrong cant handle being criticized?
no u
letting 50 dudes take you for a test drive a leave you where they found you is 1000% more damaging than "Purity culture" and "Purity culture" is a strawman its not stay pure ,its pick wisely get to know ppl form a relationship take value in yourself
Im curious as to how you think having consensual s*x with 50 people is “damaging”
It’s not purity culture to say maybe you should tap the brakes and not sleep around excessively
First, excess is a wildly subjective term.
Either way, It's purity culture to say it Matters if you do and now your body has less Value.
Fricking many people outside of a relationship makes me concerned for that individuals morals/ethics.
Can't wait till all you puritans die out.
I can’t wait until we put you degenerates into camps where you belong
billions must die
Wait....do you honestly believe that if you conducted a worldwide poll, it would just be Christians who had this type of opinion? Outside of largely white liberals in US/Canada and Western Europe, I'd say this type of opinion (as expressed by OP) is very popular in the world at large.
no one hates women more than women
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Damn … why her business being aired like this …😭 pic.twitter.com/3ShmYplKw7
— ᴍᴏ (@starsbIeedin) July 20, 2023
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I've been told my recent comment is so quality that it deserves its own post and some expansion on my points.
Here's my top 3 of kinds of women I can't stand:
1. Fat-positive or body-positives who specifically think they're better looking than women who take care of themselves. They also tend to say things like "bones are for puppies, come get you a REAL woman"
I actually have experience with this one!
I'm building muscle so I can effortlessly lift my future children and carry them for long periods of time.
I've had multiple fatties look at me and say
"MUSCLES AREN'T FEMININE, YOU'LL LOSE YOUR FIGURE AND LOOK LIKE A MAN"
Horrible mention: totally valid they're just as unbearable as pick me party girls AND come packed with a misogynistic veiw of women!
Without you, queens, I'd never have become so based and tradpilled
2. Pick mes or . These often have some sprinkling of manic pixie energy. They often adopt sexualties and gender-queerness for popularity points and catch STDS like pokemon.
Bonus points if she has awful hair, piercings and acts edgy to "make a statement"
3. Lazy mothers who think their messy homes, unwashed asses and poorly kept children are a virtue and testimonial to how hard working they are.
They often have black feet or walls covered in handprints, boogers and crayon drawings.
They're also either single mothers, or very self absorbed wives who won't keep house for their husbands because "muh depression"
So, drama, what are the worst kinds of women??
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"Unapologetically unmasking"
For anyone who doesn't know: Masking is the act of acting like a normal, functional person despite being a ✨Neuro divergent ✨ Boss biatch.
It involves something these types can't stand: learning and maintaining proper social skills in specific situations and settings.
Within the last 10 years, it's become a less and less accepted idea within those ✨special✨ pockets of social media where these kinds of foids frolic and affirm one another's cringe behavior.
However I've noticed a trend within the last 5 years:
They don't just think masking is oppressive, they believe that it's completely unnecessary for adulthood.
Even better: they think it leads to their empowerment
Highlights:
This is such a peak image that boomers would seethe over
Not unlike any other
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A teen Florida mom was arrested Tuesday after allegedly trying to use a parody website to hire a hit man to kill her toddler son.Jazmin Paez, 18, is accused of contacting the fake website rentahitman.com and requesting the murder of her 3-year-old before Thursday.
She allegedly sent the website detailed instructions, including pictures of the boy and the exact location of where he would be, according to court documents reported by NBC 6 Miami.
Miami-Dade police said Paez filled out an online form explaining she wanted a hit man "to get something done once and for all." She allegedly requested that her son "be taken away, far, far, far away and possibly killed but ASAP."
She allegedly gave the website a false name for herself and listed her desired code/safe word as "Put me in coach," the arrest report stated, according to WPLG.
The specific details of Paez's request set off alarm bells for website owner Robert Innes. He told NBC 6 that his website receives hundreds of similar solicitations each day, but that this one looked too real.
"The ability to research names and addresses and verify the intended target lived in a particular address. That to me is a red flag. If that information is corroborated, to me that is something that needs to be looked at and that’s why I referred it," Innes said.
Innes said at first the Miami-Dade Police Department didn't believe him. He told NBC 6 he was repeatedly referred to CrimeStoppers, and that he was given a cease-and-desist letter and told to stop contacting the tip line.
"They were not interested. They sent me an email saying if I contacted one more time they were going to send a cease-and-desist letter," Innes said.
However, a detective was eventually assigned to the case. Investigtors reached out to Paez pretending to be the hit man and she allegedly agreed to pay them $3,000 to kill her son.
Paez was arrested Tuesday and faces charges of soliciting murder and unlawful use of a communications device. She is currently being held at Turner Guilford Knight Correctional Center on $15,000 bond, detention center records show.
Her son is safe and is staying with relatives, NBC 6 reported. Records show the Florida Department of Children and Families was notified of the case.
Innes said he created the rent-a-hitman site as a project for a cybersecurity company, but over the years several people have been busted who didn't realize it's a joke. In April, an Air National Guardsman was arrested for allegedly applying for a job as a hit man on the website, NBC 6 reported.
In 2021, a Michigan woman admitted to using the site to request a hit man kill her ex-husband for $5,000, and the New York Post reported that since 2018, at least 120 bloodthirsty people across the Empire
State have attempted to rent a hit man on the fake site.
!straggots volcel if you wouldnt
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