!fellas

Realizing I'm into hot husbanding has been a big revelation and it feels like things have moved super quickly, but OH MY GOODNESS I am so into this

!chuds

!male feminists

!coomers

!foidmoment

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1jnt80q/sydney_woman_unknowingly_filmed_by_man_using/

their source

https://congress.net/these-9-countries-do-not-guarantee-paid-parental-leave-you-guessed-it-the-united-states-is-one-of-them/

i'm such a mess rn can t stop crying. we've been together for 4 years (3 with breakups counting) we were having an argument about his communication with me but it got sidetracked to my feeling a little undervalued and i said 'it feels like i love you more than you love me' and didn't refute it or deny it. later, it became clear that he isn't clear about the future with me and i said 'i thought i'd found my person' and he didn't say anything. i've been distraught for three days, no motivation to do anything, crying all the time. i don't know what to do or where to go from here. i love him more than anything. that conversation has literally shattered me. it sounds stupid but i just like want to cry to my mom but she's 1,300 miles away. :)))))))) so i post here instead

later:

I have bpd

wow what are the odds

!foidmoment

Foid makes boyfriend watch r*pe fetish show… which leads the handmaidens to believe she is being gaslit and abused.

Wow. This is ? Weird? Maybe find a BF with a bit more emotional maturity?

Why you apologizing to him?

"Because it's a joke!"

😐 anyone upmarseying this post should be embarrassed of themselves.

Seeing so many "hur hur it's funny" replies is making me wonder if these people have never experienced the abuse cycle with the gaslamping fun of apologizing for "making" him/her feel and react in an abusive way.

It's gross.

did you watch the show with your eyes closed why are you apologizing for him seeing women's oppression? god we are doomed

She didn't just apologize. She treated him for being uncomfortable with our oppression. The post is embarrassing. Not sure why she expected it to get a warm welcome here.

And then there's people saying the negative reactions "cant take a light hearted joke!!!1" and are "sooo fwicken stuck up!!!!!1"

Actually ☝️ I have no idea who you are, or who OP and her boyfriend are. So, I'm going to take this at face value. And, quite frankly, buying your bf an apology cookie because a show that's centered around womens oppression made him uncomfortable, and then posting it to the Handmaids Tale sub with little to no context expecting a positive reaction is weird 💀

It is depressing. So is reality. Not sure why you treated him to a cookie for saying that.

He for sure appreciates the uncomfortableness and the reality - it was just supposed to be a little light humour

Hmm.

Oh my. Stop hating a bit of fun. Reality is hard enough. Let them have cookies

I'm allowed to dislike a post without being a hater. Nothing wrong with cookies. Something wrong with apologizing to a man about a show that highlights oppression and suffering of women

I share this line of thinking. Dude gets a cookie b/c he's watching women getting tortured and r*ped b/c men crave power? Because that's uncomfortable?

Maybe have a conversation about that discomfort instead, and then get yourself a cookie for opening his eyes a bit.

Oh man I used to love a good cookie cake!!!

ETA: I get the people that say he needs to sit in his discomfort. I don't disagree. But he can sit there and self medicate with cookies. Also, I probably would have pretended it was for him and it was really an excuse to buy it for myself 🤷🏻‍♀️

He didn't buy it though, she did, and with an apology for how he's feeling about horrific treatment of human beings.

Men don't deserve the cookies right now.

💀💀💀

I think we should get a "Sorry I didn't listen to you" cookie...