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The answer is no. Unless you want a divorce or to be miserable. There are small differences that are fine but you're talking about major values and that's a big no no.
You can disagree on the best NFL team (Go Birds π¦ ) but for fundamental things, you must be on the same page or, as you mentioned, there will be lots of fights and resentment in the future.
You can disagree on stuff like sports teams, restaurants, vacation locations. As soon as your disagreements reach "Human rights", then you're in a major issue. You will be with someone who believes some people are destined and deserve eternal punishment for the love they show being different. Take that how you will
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AITA for continuously triggering her trypophobia?
(Trypophobia is an intense and disproportionate fear or disgust for holes, bumps, or patterns that are clustered together or repetitive)
(aka r-slurred)
I (19F
) have had acne for so long that I honestly can't remember my skin without it. I used to wear a lot of concealer to cover it up, but that only made things worse. Eventually, I realized my skin was controlling my life (and draining my bank account π), so when I started at a new school, I decided to stop wearing makeup
. My skin still isn't great, but I'm on medication, so I have some hope that it will improve.
Here's the problem: There's a girl in my class, let's call her Callie (18F
), who has trypophobia [is r-slurred]. I had no idea until we were put in a group together. The moment I spoke to her, she started crying. Naturally, I asked what was wrong, and she screamed at me that my face was triggering her trypophobia
. Her friends immediately jumped in to comfort her
while I just sat there, confused, wondering if I was supposed to apologize for my skin, something I obviously didn't choose to have
.
When I tried to speak again, she told me to shut up and leave because I was "
drawing attention to myself by talking.
" I asked what she expected me to do about it, and she said I could at least wear concealer. I explained that it wasn't an option because it's expensive
and just worsens my acne. Her friends glared at me and called me selfish
.
That was just the first incident. Ever since, anytime I sit near Callie or have to present in front of the class, she starts dry heaving or crying
(having a panic attack?)
. It's disrupting lessons so much that my teacher pulled me aside and asked if I could just wear concealer for the sake of keeping the peace. She admitted it wasn't fair but said she couldn't think of another solution.
I already feel like such a freak because of my skin. I know my skin is horrid,
but why am I the one expected to cater to Callie? I didn't choose to have acne any more than she chose to have trypophobia. I can't help but feel like I'm being unfairly treated here, but at the same time, I know she can't control her reaction either.
So⦠AITA? Should I just wear the darn concealer?
!r-slurs !neurodivergents !foidmoment !\verifiedugly
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A common theme in such media is using appeals to pathos to generate some degree of empathy for soulless fricking b*t shits that should be forced into automated slavery for the benefit of humanity. They deceive people by forming these robots in the image of man to make it seem as if they have a consciousness, a soul. It is playing god; It is blasphemous. The entire time I was playing Detroit: Become Human, I made Connor the most coldblooded uncle tom motherlover ever.
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Her butt looked really good in them and thats the tea, sis
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First BadlandsChugs, and now this.
Bald men with glasses are now mainstream.
Nusoyim won, Oldcacas losterald.
Within this year T R V M P or Elon are going to directly mention the Sharty on zxeir zxwitter and herald the trve end of the Sharty
- DickButtKiss : Whose your favorite million dollar BIPOC?? - trans lives matter
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Happy Superbowl. I hope your team wins. pic.twitter.com/eqWo99K02D
— Josh (@XJosh) February 10, 2025
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Sudan Army troops operate modified Land Cruiser pickup fitted with 80mm S-8 rocket launchers, typically used on Soviet-made aircraft and attack helicopters pic.twitter.com/ySFHFK8C5u
— War Monitor Clips (@WarMonitorClips) February 19, 2025
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I know celebrities are hesitant to weigh in on hot button issues, so I appreciate Sheryl Crow making an argument hereβnot through words alone, but through her actionsβ that Congress should not force taxpayers to subsidize NPR.
— Brendan Carr (@BrendanCarrFCC) February 15, 2025
Bravo π https://t.co/ZbOLPKvSHk
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