1900年代　オーストラリア pic.twitter.com/v0dra02Qkj

— nobby (@nobby_saitama) October 28, 2024

Probably

Like hos coping with religion

Down with the gaijin

The yakuboid menace knows no limits

So true

Overwhelming nuclear first strike is the only option

Mag bar yakuboids

Kill your nearest occupier, rise up against the oppression

Millions of English teachers must die

Wignat bros, why are the honorary aryans turning on you like this?

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m94q2wg/?context=8

I think most people just do not want to deal with actual real politics, when engaging with their hobby that is meant to reduce stress. Obviously, the table politics of my Oath group does not affect my mental health as much as my actual governments recent decisions.

This! Games are often an escape from reality.

I don't stop being a trans person in Mississippi while I'm playing Ark Nova. My very existence has been made political.

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m966fc1/?context=8

Reddit becomes the most insufferable place as soon as Trump becomes President

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m94rhf0/?context=8

I'm not sure how it would even be possible. People can talk and interact freely.

"Keep politics out of XYZ" is such an inherently political thing to say too lol

Ten times out of 10 it's really "keep the politics I disagree with out of XYZ" with the person saying it not realizing that they don't view the things they agree with as political.

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m96l6cy/?context=8

I always thought when pekole talk about politics or work, their friendship is oretty shallow and have nothing else to talk about.

My buddies and I play board games all the time and politics hasn't come up in 20 years. We have fun and interesting things to talk about.

I don't know. If you and your closest friends don't feel comfortable discussing your deeply held beliefs and the concerns you have for the direction some people want to take the country in your name... Maybe they're just buddies.

Politics are almost as boring as religion.

We have other interests that keep the conversation going.

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m94q3v5/?context=8

You are grabbing at straws.

ohhh good point and straws are super bad for the environment and sea turtles. i'm sorry.

Unironically, this comment is pretty much what your post looks like.

https://old.reddit.com/r/boardgames/comments/1i9tcal/its_too_late_to_keep_politics_out_of_board_games/m94qw7d/?context=8

No it's not, there's a difference between playing a game and yelling at someone about something political. That's what people mean.

Apparently Jesse had an episode with another guest (not Katie TERFzog) where they talked about Musk, Rotherdam and made some lame jokes and talked about Elon's interest or something. I didn't listen to the episode....

....Instead I was watching the absolute chimpout on /r/BlockedAndReported

!nonchuds

I suspected that the Substack commenters would be more supportive on this episode but there are ~700 comments after a day over there so, uh ...

I'm 25 minutes in and the jokes and accents are unbelievably cringe and borderline un-listenable, aside from the distastefulness of the jokes themselves being about kids getting gang-r*ped. Bad bad bad. I've never posted on this sub as a 2 year subscriber but felt compelled this time.

BAD BAD BAD. YUCKY. DO BETTER. I'VE NEVER POSTED ON THIS SUB BEFORE BUT THAT'S HOW MAD I AM AT HOW BAD THIS EPISODE WAS

The first segment of the episode really annoyed me.

Whenever there's an incident or scandal or story that is able to be used by certain Right-leaning parties to advance their narrative, then many on the Left make it their business to minimize, obfuscate, distract, and just generally draw the focus to things other than the core issue in order to lessen the ability of those Right-leaning figures to use this issue to bolster their position. (To be fair, I can believe that this exact dynamic probably plays out exactly the other way too, but being someone who consumes mostly Left-leaning media, I see it on the Left much more often.)

I feel like that's exactly what Jesse was doing throughout this entire segment. Elon is a bad guy. Elon is advancing certain ideas about Muslims (or certain Muslim immigrants) that Jesse disapproves of. Elon is bolstering the far-right! So Jesse is doing his part to show what a jackass and liar Elon is so as to lessen Elon's influence in spreading those ideas. But the story here should not be about Elon, and making it about him is part of that exact reaction described above to draw people's attention away from the much more important parts of it.

I don't dispute that Elon says some dumb, inflammatory, and even possibly untrue, things. And it's fair for everyone, including Jesse, to point those things out. But I think that Jesse's interest in focusing on Elon's missteps is because drawing the focus to Elon's idiocy allows the focus to be taken off of all the things that the horrific grooming gang scandal brings to people's minds: unpleasant truths about Muslim culture, about unfettered immigration, about multiculturalism, about political correctness, about the hypocrisy of many feminists and #MeToo voices, about the fecklessness of trusted authorities in the face of accusations of racism. About the neutrality and truth-seeking of the press. About police collusion. It takes the focus off of so much stuff that the Left prefers people were not paying attention to (well, I'm sure they want people to know about police corruption) because those things weaken the Left. And Jesse, being a reasonable liberal, still believes in a lot of those things, and doesn't want them undermined by the likes of Elon. That's what this piece was all about. That's why it annoyed me. Because Jesse choosing to focus

Jesse has a really unfortunate habit of doing this. See also the Louden Country schools sexual assault story and the Citibike Karen incident. He bends over backwards trying to dismiss the way the right wing will inevitably spin it, rather than admitting the inconvenient facts.

Jesse did cover the Loudon County school assaults and he did a much better job than right wing media (unfortunately), what the heck are you on about

Two BARpodoids in a row spelled Loudoun County wrong

Yeah.

This episode was awful, I'm a >3 year sub and I'm considering unsubbing over it, I'm legit pissed. It's hard to say "well they do good work and have some bad takes" when you know how the take will land based on the subject matter.

Jesse writing this off as "well covered" is bullshit. It was mostly in the British press, and the British press to this day downplays the fact that the vast majority of the offenders here are Pakistani, and repeatedly insists that CSA is a general problem—vs the particular extremes at play here. Also, it's not well reported in the US press. The NYT had five articles on this, all from the early 2010s. Meghan Markle personally has more coverage by the NYT. If the US had a scandal whereby white gangs in Minnesota had preyed on 1000s of Somalian girls, we would quite literally hear about it for the next 100 years. The NYT would have an op-ed about it at least once a year. Saying that this has been litigated is nonsense.

I don't like Elon. I think he's a dork, his company makes crappy cars, and nearly everything he does makes me roll my eyes. That said, I'm grateful that he used his platform to put a giant spotlight on this, and it's extremely frustrating that Jesse used this episode of all things to (a) make some of the shittiest jokes ever on the pod and (b) go full nuance bro on something that doesn't require or even suggest nuance. Had this been about some gender clinic, the tone would've been very different, and that's pretty much all I need to know about this episode.

IM HONESTLY GONNA UNSUB FROM BARPOD AFTER 37 YEARS OF LISTENING. IM FRICKING PISSED. THEY ARE NOT UNDERSTANDING MY LIVED EXPERIENCES

Has me mulling over my long subscription also. And if it weren't for the fantastic crowds at their live events and parties, I think I would have cancelled already.

I can usually FF past the frequent and turbocorny Musk takes, which eat up way too much time anyway, but now they have Musk in the episode title? Then they throw in some megadumb voices and the whole predictable thing is grody and cheap.

But god darn, the NYC events are so fun and the attendees are pleasant to the max. It's a tough one.

"The.....the NYC events were so fun.....I got laid with fellow fat BARpodcels so many times......but honestly....I think....I might have to end things here.....I might have to unsubscribe."

He's just a good liberal, what's more important?

Tens or hundreds of thousands of poor girls getting gang r*ped?

Or the right making political hay out of the left's complete complicity in that fifty-year ongoing r*pe culture?

Bussy Singal is a GOOD DECENT libtard

So this is the first time I heard about ANY of this and I was honestly so shocked and upset when they went into the detail of the gang offending that I was kind of on Elon's side in that he's just found out about it and is also horrified.

>he/she/they thinks that Elon JUST found out about the Rotherdam grooming scandal and is not just trying to turn attention away from his plan to import 1 zillion endians

Haven't heard the ep yet - I'm nervous - but my reaction to Musk intervening here was not just because I think he's a dangerous fool and I would like to oppose him where possible. It's also about the fact that he has rolled into his response lionisation of the white nationalist grifter Stephen Yaxley-Lennon (stage name Tommy Robinson) AND that this is a very disturbing proof-of-concept of his current level of political power. The politically motivated billionaire used his social media network to set the political agenda of a country on the opposite side of the Atlantic. Details of the particular case aside, we should all be quite worried about his ability to do this.

GUYS IM FRICKING NERVOUS ABOUT LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE OF BARPOD BECAUSE BUSSY SINGAL MIGHT NOT UNDERSTAND MY LIVED EXPERIENCES OF BEING A RIGHTOID REDDITOR

I don't think they should have done this one. A half hour isn't enough to establish even enough facts to dunk on Musk.

And I get they were trying to lighten the mood but all the (not very good) joking around was kind of inappropriate.

I recommend skipping to the next segment. In the first segment they are talking over each other, using cringey inappropriate accents, and retelling a story I'm sure many people here have heard before. It's not the right kind of story for Jesse and Jeff. The Meta AI segment is much better.

The accents were so goofy! It's not fun to listen to strangers do accents badly. Maybe it's funny to listen to your friends at it but I had to stop listening.

SHUT THE FRICKERINO UP ABOUT YOUR STUPID FRICKING ACCENTS. THAT IS NOT O-FRICKING-KAY GUYS!!!!!!

God forbid Jesse doesn't use female pronouns for certain lunatic men lest he hurt their gender feelings but the sexual torture of working class girls is a topic ripe for hilarity 👍

Also Jesse you're not funny, sorry. Please stop trying so hard to be - especially on this of all topics.

ummmmmm jesse babe. you're not funny. you're actually gay and should keep yourself safe. #SorryNotSorry. Toodles, babe!

Yeah, two middle aged men laughing about a situation in which 12 year old girls were being repeatedly gang r*ped was extremely gross and misjudged. Definitely rethinking my subscription.

"Two fricking STRAIGHT white CIS men were joking about.....uggh.....I might have to unsub....I just can't today"

I've long suspected Jesse of some latent misogyny and this really hasn't helped, I can't imagine I'll be renewing my primo membership. I'm interested to see what happens next and Katie's take on the whole thing.

"Latent misogyny"? I feel like this conclusion is pushing it too far.

Jesse and Katie typically make terrible jokes about the most appalling things. The Holocaust, genocide, whatever. Sometimes the jokes land; sometimes they don't. In this case, I agree most of it wasn't particularly funny, but I don't think it's any different than their spectacularly dark humor on many other issues. And they weren't actually cracking jokes about kids being r*ped in this case -- if anything, they were commenting about how horrific and serious the topic was, so they felt the need to insert absurdist humor. And even then, there were several moments where Jesse actually stopped, took a moment and said, "And yeah, this is truly awful and very serious..."

That said, obviously if dark humor makes you uncomfortable, you shouldn't necessarily be paying for it. Just like Dave Chappelle humor, it's not for everyone.

I didn't find the segment particularly funny, but at no point did I doubt that they found the actual events to be horrific.

I think a lot of people have latent misogyny due to the society we live in. I haven't come to this conclusion due to solely this episode, it's a vibe I've picked up from listening over the years. Dark humour doesn't make me uncomfortable, but the approach to this topic did ¯_(ツ)_/¯

BUSSY SINGAL IS A FRICKING MISOGYNST WHO BEATS WOMEN WITH HIS HUGE JEWISH PEEPEE AND LOVES R*PE. FACTS.

I can't wait until Jesse complains about Jews who are still upset about the Holocaust. I mean, after all, it happened AGES ago and there's been plenty of discussion and outrage already. I hope we can a deep dive into every maniac who claims that 6 million Jews were gassed instead of clarifying that most died of other causes and that it AKSHUALLY was 4 million or so.. I mean, seriously, folks.. it's been 60 years and you're JUST talking about it now?

Only someone with malign intentions would make such a big deal over it!! Downplaying such a tragedy bc I think the people bringing attention to it are doing so for bad reasons? Now that's where the virtue is! I am very smart and good! Listen to me do silly accents while I describe the sexual torture of children! Please pay me money to listen btw :)

>"hahah....pay me money to listen btw :)"

I created a reddit account just to say I unsubscribed after this episode. And unsubscribed from Jeff's substack. Jesse & Jeff force cringe-inducing unfunny jokes about accents while lightheartedly skipping over details from atrocious r*pe and murder- yikes. I'm only listening free for Katie & Helen Lewis at this point (who are great). To be clear- Casting doubt on Elon adulation and the Free Press angle of the story is a worthwhile perspective but Jesse executed this ep horrendously. I'm sorta friendly with Jesse in NYC and now I feel like I can't look him in the eye for a while. I'm a tv comedy writer and always down for dark humor on the grounds that the jokes are actually funny (this was not). This segment felt so crass & self-serving. So, to quote this episode: check please.

I CAN'T LOOK HIM IN THE EYE FOR A WHILE AAAAAHAHAHAHAHA HOLY SHIT DUDE CALM DOWN

I'm worried about listening to this - afraid they'll offer some apologia for media failures here, or approach it dismissively because Musk is the reason for the present notoriety and outcry.

Can anyone comment on whether they acknowledged that these r*pe gangs in the UK are a direct, specific import from Pakistan—the BS "state" in which the most virulent misogyny from Muslim & South Asian cultures have been alchemized into normative sexual violence against women & girls?

Did they mention the kidnappings and r*pes of adolescent & even prepubescent Hindu girls in Pakistan as both the precursor & parallel to what has been happening in the UK for several decades now? Or extend the discussion to the regularity with which husbands dump kerosene on their wives and burn them alive in Pakistan in pursuit of better dowries or new excitement, another direct import to the UK - with, unbelievably, equivalent failures of justice?

GUYS. IM WORRIED ABOUT LISTENING TO THIS. I MIGHT LISTEN TO A MEDIOCRE PODCAST EPISODE THAT I DISAGREE WITH. IM NOT OKAY. IVE HAVE MULTIPLE PANIC ATTACKS THINKING ABOUT BUSSY'S SINGAL. HELP ME. HEEEEELLLPPPPP

I really don't get why people are saying Jesse butchered the Grooming story. And I don't even believe he put forth the opinion you all are crucifying him for having.

As someone who listens to a lot of true crime, I'm pretty familiar with the crimes mentioned in this story. How it came about, what exactly happened, etc. Truly, horrendous shit. Jesse certainly reiterated again and again how awful it was. I didn't hear him try to "explain away" the severity at all. Nor downplay that race was a factor (as liberals try to do), and he even highlighted that left-leaning outlets didn't want to cover this because of the race elements. He did shit talk Elon's tweets, but I took it as more from the angle of, 'Can you believe this guy with so much wealth and power just hopped into an issue he learned about 20 seconds ago and is now tweeting out to his MILLIONS of followers who he thinks of the people peripherally involved should be literally imprisoned?' As in, isn't it insane for someone with so much power to just tweet whatever batshit, highly consequential thought comes to his head? NOT as in, Elon is wrong, no one should be held accountable, this wasn't that bad.

Idk, I'm having trouble articulating my thoughts bc this conversation, in my opinion, has gotten really convoluted, but yeah, just wanted to add that I disagree with a lot of comments here. I thought this was a great episode and I think Jesse is being misinterpreted

This sub is actually pretty far to the right of the hosts and thinks Jesse is only marginally to the right of your average 2010s tumblr user and interprets everything he says with that in mind.

I also thought the episode was fine and the main point, ie that Elon is talking out of his butt about this because he only just learned about it, is obviously true. They even mentioned multiple times that the response was slow and incomplete but if the focus of an episode isn't exactly calibrated to the sensibilities of this sub and didn't go on for 3 hours to cover every detail and angle on a decades old scandal then it's time to start cancelling subs and whining.

The accent bit needs to die though. It's not funny and genuinely interferes with following the story

>Holy SHIT! I think the culture war subreddit is full of seething rightoids!!!!"

Please tell Jesse and anyone who wants to listen that putting on voices is not funny! I had to skip through that segment. Musk is an r-slur though so mocking him is worth it

JESSE. ACCENTS ARE NOT FRICKING FUNNY. STOP. NAAAAAOOOOWWWWWWW

Everyone on /r/BlockedAndReported should be forced to compete in a wrestling match with a dozen extremely buff trans women and get beaten to death until they realize that TRANS LIVES DO IN FACT MATTER

I need to feed my wife and three kids a balanced meal while also preparing it all in under 1.5 hours. and I cook SLOOOOOOW. What should I make?

Please list many ACTUAL OPTIONS YOU MAKE AND KNOW ARE GOOD. I can look up recipes elsewhere. I come here for nuance.

Original post: https://rdrama.net/post/306154/marseychonkerfoid-marseyfoidrslur-vs-marseychud-marseygigachad-war

1. "awful thing to say... I hope you grow as a person" "you should lose some weight"

2. "there's more to life than just s*x" "you lot don't have hobbies other than wearing makeup and scrolling Instagram..."

3. "dogs are more fun to have around" "are you perhaps a user of the Dogpill?"

4. "Seriously, women offer nothing other than looking pretty..." "what do YOU offer?" serious posting intensifies

Also, check these two woman comments LOL

5. "Exactly, leave us alone" "you are alone Eowynn" "what?" "It's a Lord of the Rings reference" "dude STFU"

6. "wow, your first gender reveal at this age" "you expect men to r*pe you or something?"

@HailVictory1776 would have loved this one these morons literally gave the pigs tacit permission to ransack the car then screamed about knowing their rights

!foidmoment

The New York Times's Maggie Haberman said President-elect Trump is complaining that tech billionaire Elon Musk is "around a lot."

"Trump does complain a bit to people about how Musk is around a lot," Haberman said on Monday's episode of the "On with Kara Swisher" podcast, as highlighted by Mediaite.

"Privately, Musk — Jonathan Swan and I reported recently with Ryan Mac that Musk has been staying at this cottage at Mar-a-Lago," she added.

He's living in DDR's backyard

"So, he really parked himself in Trump's face," Haberman said on the podcast. "But what that looks like, Kara, when Trump becomes president, I don't know."

In November, Trump said the "Department of Government Efficiency" (DOGE), which aims to "slash excess regulations, cut wasteful expenditures" and restructure federal agencies, would be headed up by Musk and former GOP presidential primary candidate Vivek Ramaswamy.

DOGE would "provide advice and guidance from outside of government" and work alongside the White House Office of Management and Budget, the president-elect said.

"It will become, potentially, 'The Manhattan Project' of our time," Trump added. "Republican politicians have dreamed about the objectives of 'DOGE' for a very long time."

Haberman told Swisher she doesn't believe Musk "will move into the Lincoln Bedroom" of the White House, "but I do think that at the moment — and again we'll see what this looks like — I think he's going to try to have as much proximity to Trump as possible."

you took a dump without your phone probably 2009 for me

deleted the apps and now this girl isn't texting so much… didn't go out a ton but i thought we had a very strong connection… hope she's just busy because i had some matches in there c'est la vie

Dunning Kruger discussion: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42813345

Drama being added

I was told that making your own write up, even biased will make a post more of an effortpost compared to just copy pasting dramatic comments before the link

FDS never existed, and even if it did it was mostly male incels pretending to be women part 1

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3pwshs/?context=8

Part 2

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q03ax/?context=8

Part 3

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q13v1/?context=8

Toxic masculinity and not gender wars and astroturfed hate is the reason of men failing

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q1vfe/?context=8

Men can't say women bad, but women can say men bad

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3pul6p/?context=8

I don't understand why mayo moids are crying, mayo moids can't have issue + plus lots of self flagellation over being mayo moids

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3ptblt/?context=8

Equality to an oppressor feels like prosecution?

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3puvr1/?context=8

Straight white men can have issues, for example if they are poor or ugly...

No they can't mayo, I tell you this as a mayo!

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q38sx/?context=8

You know, that with posts like these, you only giving ammo to chuds and make it easier for them to attract young men?

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3pyx7l/?context=8

if a man feels like shit because gendered issues are brought to light, they need to work through that themselves instead of expecting women to sugar coat everything for them.

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q03rc/?context=8

White men do not deserve compassion because majority of them voted for trump. Cool, but white women did too. That's different

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q03rc/?context=8

Moids are the destroyers of the universe copypasta

https://old.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/1hlxfxu/why_are_young_women_so_lacking_in_compassion_for/m3q8wbd/?context=8

99% of cars will be electric and autonomous in the future.

Manually-driven gasoline cars will be like riding a horse while using a flip phone. Still happens, but it’s rare. https://t.co/4WN9Q9nrEW

— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) December 11, 2024

bro no frick no

The government will remotely kill us for not taking the vax

Schizoid screeching about psyops, vaxxing and EV New World Order Globalist agenda

This average woman driver sucks and crashed, this means all EVs are remotely controlled by Satan

Rate (?) anti credit card schizo (unless these are common in USA?)

Almost all comments have already been deleted so I couldn't entirely figure out what is going on, but it seems the CEOs main Nazi behaviours are:

1. Refuses to stop using Xtter and Facebook

2. On his Xtter there are some statements to the effect that women in games should be attractive

3. He has changed character creation labels from Body Type A/B to Male/Female

Shush it Voldemort! 🤣 Greatest show on earth! #Zelensky pic.twitter.com/APwz7aXqZw

— Snicklink (@snicklink) February 28, 2025

>Everyone's asking for a buffer zone, we'll give them a burger zone

Dorontabi/Mammoth is an anime artist who is an icon within libertarianp- I mean Lolicon/cunnystrags community for basically creating banger tweets like this back in the day

This creates a wave of memes within the community even reaching mainstream weebs.

If you ever wonder why crying emoji are posted below little anime girls or using terms like "darn brat" "r*pe correction" and "Uohhh" this is the guy who origin of the meme.

This time he is also the target of Korean feminists during "The 578th Korean feminist/incel war - battle for Blue Archive". They figured out that he outright admitted to hoarding Japanese child gravure

.

>the frick is child gravure

It has become illegal even in Japan these days of course. MORE screenshots from the Korean feminists, very disturbing imagery even when censored beware

🚨짤 역겨움 주의
아카라이브 공론화되는김에 도론타비도 파묘해야함
-여자애 강간당하는 성착취물 패러디
-아동 그라비아 사진 소지
-아동 이미지 참고해 성인물 그림
참고로 블루아카 일러레로도 활동했음 https://t.co/Jk19jZbsEr pic.twitter.com/2UvPhrGwEm

— 곧감 (@holy__667) September 2, 2024

this guy posts these around online and there is no major call-out, It's crazy.

but these are again posted by notorious Korean feminists so Idk how to confirm the validity of these screenshots

More info on the lolcow farm (female Kiwifarm image board) with details

the guy deleted everything but is now back with https://x.com/agbdrhr5325ntf3/ recently

So what do you dramatards think? Are the Korean feminists full of shit and he is a true honest Lolicon libertarian or a full-blown libertarian libertarian. Inb4

Edit: Turn out Rdrama covered him back in the day https://rdrama.net/h/vidya/post/224595/korean-femcel-vs-incel-gender-wars