So what alot of you whitoids who might be reading this do not realize is that this is basically the moderately bad version of family dynamics in a "save face society". The foid is the vid is obviously losing her shit. Paraphrasing what she is saying and I may have missed a bit," I eat for free yeah? If something happens to me that is the mother-in-laws fault. Yes I am CRAZYYYYYY!Couldn't translate. Motherlover! You are going to falsely accuse me? You are going to falsely accuse me?"

Now if you know the average person of Indiaspeaks then the comments in the comments section should come as a surprise to you, because this is a crowd that is blackpilled on the feminist menace in India, yet more than half of them appear to be trying to at least partially justify the behavior of the women and explaining how while we should hear both sides, it could indeed be an issue of a women losing her head after taking enough shit from her husband or the husbands family.

One of the commenters even goes as far as to link to an article about reactive abuse.

Now I am not saying this is fact, but knowing what I know about my society and my country and my culture, generally a higher than average number of families end up with the issue of a parent/ spouse losing their shit multiple times through the first and second decade, usually worse than this with shouting matches as the weak form, and multiple cases of spouses beating one another across years once or twice per year as the more common form. This is generally ignored by everybody on the basis of 1) Their house their business and 2) Its okay to beat your spouse into submission if it stops the drama from escaping the house and destroying the peace of the neighborhood. Generally as long as any domestic violence doesn't escalate to directly attacking your neighbors, it will be ignored and treated as one of those unstable little bumps in a long term relationship that will stabilize over time.

Add on to this the fact that generally Indian foids are actually insane once they end up in the wife role having to answer to the mother-in-law, the husband, and be held responsible for any difficulty the child may be having during childrearing, along with well, being white foid adjacent in that they will never admit to a fault and will try to start shit about things just to hurt you if they feel annoyed, and then you add in the moids willingness to beat his wife into submission, actively despise her if he feels like she is not pulling her weight ( arbitrary concept ), or asks him for too much money ( you literally have the moid controlling all expenses and giving money to wife like giving pocket money to a kid in the west, and too much money being whatever the moid considers to be too much ), or making him look bad in front of the neighbors by not doing a good enough job in the wifes club hierarchy.

You end up with a combination of overworked toxic shit husbands and uneducated child like wives who are borderline r-slurred and when you combine the two you end up with a balance that emerges across decades over decades of wife beatings and wives bringing up shit about the moids weaknesses just to hurt him at random, and none of these people will ever think of divorce as an option in 99% of cases, and you pretty much end up with what you are seeing in the video.

So you know how you have those experiences of great time with Indian workers where they are all willingly to work overtime and are always polite to you? Its because all the anger and frustration is taken out the back at home because in Indian society you aren't supposed to attack those above you or frick up the workplace atmosphere. You can literally have your boss tell you to fix up the drama with your wife if he feels the work is being disturbed by it, and well, most of the moids will do what it takes to make the wife behave correctly.

Again, I have always argued that there is no such thing as one sane gender in a society. Either both are fricked up in their own ways, or both are healthy and well in their own ways.

In India currently both are fricked up in their own ways and my only proof to you the westoid that it is the truth is that you need only see the comments of the post I linked where half the moids who are blackpilled on the foid menace are trying to excuse the foids behavior, because they have seen such scenes as kids with their own mothers or other women in their family losing their shit like this.

You can believe me if you want. You can disbelieve me if you want. But my experience tells me that if you tried to argue with the average Jeet on the street about how a husband beating discipline into their wives is wrong, or how a woman having a psychotic episode like that needs help and to be taken away from whatever caused her to breakdown like that, then the adult you are talking to is far more likely than you would like, to reply that these things happen, as if they are a natural part of life, with the only solution being to hide it once the moment passes and pretend it doesn't exist, because of the loss of face if others get to see your dirty laundry.

Also the reactive abuse gaslamping in India is 100% real. I have seen it first hand multiple times across different people. A society where the last generation was okay with wife beaters, and the next generation is expected to have its own share of wife beaters, generally ends up with foids putting up with wife beaters. A society where the last generation was okay with borderline mentally r-slurred women for wives, and the next generation is expected to have its own share of borderline mentally r-slurred women for wives, generally ends up with moids putting up with borderline mentally r-slurred foids.

There is ofcourse also the possible chance of the foid just being a psycho b-word and the moid being a decent person. BPD foids exist in India as well.

So there are two scenarios here based on the vid linked:

Conclusion:

I have some fricked up memories from growing up. But I am not an outlier in that I have those memories, but rather I am an outlier in the fact that I am actively disgusted by them and am willing to consider the elders in the wrong. This puts me in direct opposition to the good boys of my country and if I tried to justify my disgust they would in turn be disgusted with me for not valuing family enough to excuse and justify the culture of wife beaters and psychotic BPD b-words in my country.

The average Indianlet's reasoning is genuinely that "but they are our parents so coming from abusive homes is okay. We all have shit like this happen every once in a while so it is okay."

Which is why I cannot relate to my own people, because our value systems can never synchronize. I see nothing wrong with going to a foid and going,"Wanna frick?" but see everything wrong with hurting ones own family. The average Jeet I have conversations with about morality has a problem with you trying to frick their sister outside of marriage but no issue with excusing domestic violence. In my experience hitting ones spouse at best registers with them as a wrong to be ignored because there is nothing you can do about it, and hitting ones kids doesn't even register as a wrong deed at all.

It is a people more offended by seeing a woman they know being called a whore than they are by a woman they know being beaten by her husband like a whore by an abusive pimp. The dark comedy part is that the jeet foids are this way too. They would rather be beaten by their husbands like whores being disciplined by an angry pimp, than to have a person outside call them a whore.

As my final note, I am not saying that all Indians are shit or all Indians are terrible, but rather that when things go on the bad path in Indian family structures, this is generally the form that it takes.

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I am born of this land but I will never be of my people. It is a lonely existence.

Or maybe it's actually good this time?

Or carp ig, do we need loggenincel mode enabled?

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This is not a cost saving measure. This is a purge of federal employees who do not support their agenda. The first round is incentivized volunteer resignations. The second round will be forced resignations. The third round will be outright firings. This is a comprehensive takeover of the federal government by the MAGA organization. This is round one of a pervasive attack on the American Republic.

They are following the NAZI playbook from the 1930's.

The OLIGARCHY

They are looking for cuts to pass trumps tax plan. Which will greatly enrich the rich and cripple the poor, weaken or eliminate the middle class.

What is it you think he is doing? Where do you think the money stolen from us will go? It's tax money, all our money going to the rich, 2'trillion at least. The deficit…trump blew it up round 1. Round 2 he will kill the deficit. And YOU and EVERYONE you know will pay for it for the rest of our lives.

Some reasonable people too, maybe redditoids aren't beyond saving:

I appreciate you being open to the conversation. The challenge lies in your last sentence where you state "Convince me that cutting wasteful spending is a bad idea." You're already convinced that all of this spending is wasteful. We are not.

We see value in the DOE as a vehicle to assist in equalizing access to education for all. Without this funding, kids in poor areas will not have access to the resources they need to be successful in school. In the most impoverished places, property tax is not adequate - many are renting, in section 8, or perhaps homeless and the property tax collected does not scale with the student population in those environments. Do you believe that all kids, regardless of the socioeconomic class they are born into, deserve a shot at education? We do. But the states alone are not able to provide that, particularly red states who are the biggest beneficiaries of this funding.

For a chatgpt post that took me 5 minutes to write, I've so far generated at least 1000 words, I'm hoping before the post dies I can generate enough to write a short book

Was on hinge (mistake #1) talking to a guy who was a massive Ariana Grande stan (mistake #2). He mentioned her and how much he loved her music, and I mentioned something about liking her music (lie) but I'm worried about how she looks right now. Immediately this man went off about (exact words) how "problematic" it is for me, "as a man", to "gossip about women's bodies". I'm not trying to gossip, I'm genuinely concerned. She's bone. It's horrifying to see, especially in the face of younger girls/gay men [lets be real] who may end up thinking there isn't a thing wrong with being that skinny, and any comment of genuine concern is "gossip". Even worse, this didn't seem like the opinion of some one off arianapilled r-slur, but a pretty popular opinion online to just ...not mention how she looks in any context. I'm genuinely worried. She looks incredibly sick.

https://old.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/1itnjqz/ariana_grande_looks_like_absolute_shit_and/

!jidf !jews

Pete Davidson's heroic father, who gave his life on 9/11, was Jewish

This makes Pete, the famously large-peepeeed man who fricked Kanye's wife, jew-ish.

All this really is, is the impotent rage of a cuck

Just learned that the social security database is not de-duplicated, meaning you can have the same SSN many times over, which further enables MASSIVE FRAUD!!

Your tax dollars are being stolen. https://t.co/hSZdNY4wxf

— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) February 9, 2025

!g*mers @kaamrev

It's over Ukroids

I thought it was common among democrats at this point to have the viewpoint of "oh yeah maybe hammering identity politics isn't a great idea", but nearly every segment on NPR is still about identity. Are they just trying to quell actual leftist ideas and make people hate democrats even more?

!chuds

Michelangelo's version for comparison, the similarities are uncanny.

!nooticers !transphobes

Lol

My precious bbs

!animalposters !cats

This is your one chance losers, dont mess it up!

Heres review of the movie shes talking about btw:

https://old.reddit.com/r/aznidentity/comments/1648nmn/past_lives_an_analysis_of_the_movie_spoilers/

https://old.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/14gykob/has_anybody_seen_the_new_movie_past_lives_by_a24/

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