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My girlfriend secretly reads spicy romance novels and I don't like it. 21M and 19F.

					
					

Do you consider reading "spicy" romance novels a red flag if youre pursuing a serious relationship? 21M and 19F.

So I just found out that my girlfriend reads a lot of romance novels and when I talk to her about it she said that she wanted to tell me earlier but she forgot. Note that we have talked about books and what we read many many times and she didn't mention this type of books even once.

The books are very porn-ish and role play-ish. Some about having s*x with some billionaire and some about cheating and having affairs with multiple men. It's all about romantic and sexual fantasies.

Her living this double world of reading these romance books as a fantasy and living with me as a reality really made me discouraged to be in such a relationship and the fact that THESE are her fantasies doesn't sit right with me at all.

I should add that I did something not nice and treated her like never before because of this:

I've brought up this topic to her sometimes and one day she brought me one of these books for me to read its first chapter while I was playing videos game(it was definitely one of the safer ones). I did read it and when she asked about my opinion I said "do you know I was this 🤏 close to break up with you because of these stupid shits you read?" and went back to my video game(as I said I've never even come close to treating her like that). She sat about 4-5 minutes and then went to the bathroom and started crying(not loud but I secretly listened). I know what I did was pretty harsh to her but that's honestly proportionate to how much I hated it.

She started laying some(safer ones) of them in her bookshelf after I knew but after this interaction she put them out again(haven't checked yet but they're probably where she was hiding them in first place) and she's acting like nothing happened. I am also not reacting right now but I just can't ignore it.

What's should I do now?

TLDR: my girlfriends reading written porn and I have a problem with that, some are about being with multiple men and cheating which makes it much worse.

I've told her that I'm was about to break up with her over them and it made her cry, I'm still strongly considering it and but I'm not sure.

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Fetish stiry

					
					
					
	

				
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:marseyserioushatfact:
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What does it mean to be peepeematized? :marseynut: - Feeld magazine
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My dweam giwl

UWU UWU UWU

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The battle of the sexes is heating up!

					
					
					
	

				
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I'm incredibly fortunate in my own marriage, but that's what makes it all the more obvious to me that we have to stop blaming women for the behavior of the men in their lives, because there LITERALLY aren't enough good men to go around. If all women everywhere waited to have a relationship or baby with a genuinely great guy, like 75% of women would NEVER get married or have a child.

so just settle with whoever and get that bag queen! :marseynails:

I just see so many posts on here about men being trash partners/parents and so many of the comments, largely from women, are like "why would you have kids with him?" Or "why would you even marry a guy like that?" And I want to scream from the rooftops that it's because these women just want to find love and start a family but easily 75% of men are incredibly problematic partners so what else are the women supposed to do? Not ever have a partner? Not ever have any children? Just clump together Golden-Girls-style until they die? Especially when you consider that a lot of these men know how to fake being decent for at least the first few months of a relationship, it's absolutely no wonder why women fall victim to scumbags.

fr, he's gonna fake it so why shouldnt she?! :marseywitch2:

We need to do a whole lot better at not victim-blaming or shaming women for partnering with a bad guy. For many, many women, they just literally don't have any other choice, if they want some semblance of having a family.

womxn have no choice butt to choose :marseytrollgun: as they babydaddy because of the focal fact regarding the cisheteronormative neocolonialist patriarchy is

https://media.tenor.com/rkbPsLAHLn4AAAAx/garbage-trash.webp

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Mwoids pwosting Ls: I smeww terrible...

					
					

/u/StandardShine8870

Take a fwuckin shwower ffs

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  • JimieWhales : the unfunny cringemoid is helpless before the humorfoid

And clearly it worked :marseyshrug: it would be queen shit if scrotelon wasn't a cheap dusty, apparently he only wants to give grimes like 2k a month for their 3 kids :marseydisagreesuperspeed:

It's also funny bc rightoids make fun of NFL players for having like 5 baby mamas and are fine with scrotelon doing the same thing :marseyxd:

!moidmoment what are some good strats for sis to extract some coin from rocket daddy?

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We need to kill all scrotes :snipsnip:

Ladies, yes, it is all men :snipsnip: :snipsnip: :snipsnip:

https://www.makemyburdenlight.com/2022/03/90-99-of-men-regularly-view-pornography.html?m=1

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How to get over a m-n lying to you

!moidmoment

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Men are men are men are men. There is no category of safe men.

					
					

I often see women engaging in this type of thing. It seems like bargaining to me. That if they can just find the right category of man they will find a good one for a relationship or be treated as a full human being.

Here are some of the categories of men women try to tell themselves might be better than others:

Older men

Younger men

Men of certain ethnicities

Gay men

Male family members

Men they've given birth to

Men they meet while volunteering

Men who don't identify as men

Widowers

Religious men

Men of a particular political persuasion

Men who have been in therapy

Men who have or don't have children

I'm sure I've missed a lot. The thing is all of these men have one thing in common:

THEY ARE MEN

And I will bet my last dollar they are going to show you exactly that at some point. They will always prioritize other men over women. I see this every day.

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Dudes rock

					
					
					
	

				
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Canadian dudes rock

!transphobes

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1739977699VSsQCGZ7vFjGfA.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/1739977699kV2wqyzXwM_fLg.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17399776998R6cmRRGnjLpCw.webp

A transgender advisor to the Minister for Women in Canada who slammed President Trump's female sport ban is a runner who has dominated female categories.

Nathanielle Morin won a women's 5km race by almost six minutes in Ottawa, Ontario back in February 2024 - demolishing the rest of her competition in the female category.

She recorded a time of 25 minutes and 32 seconds, placing her first and five minutes and 44 seconds ahead of the second place runner in the women's 30-39 division.

The woman who came in third place was just 30 seconds behind second place, highlighting how close the division otherwise was.

Morin's time granted her the prestigious title of 'fastest female' across all age divisions - beating out the talented young girl who won the 10-12 age division.

Morin is an advisor to parliamentarian Marci Ien, who serves in the Liberal government as the Minister of Women, Gender Equality and Youth.

After President Trump's executive order banning transgender athletes from competing in women's divisions, Morin hit out, insisting: 'Exclusion and discrimination should not be the answer to transwomen in sport.

'This is a sensitive topic, and some people have concerns that should be heard. However, there are better ways to assess those in a healthy way that does not promote hate.'

She also shared an infographic which stated that 'trans women are women', adding: 'Research has shown that trans women are, in fact, not biological men... Excluding trans women hurts all women.

'In order to exclude trans women, you must police all bodies in the women's category. Any girl or woman can be accused of being transgender. At what point is a girl ''too good'', ''too masculine'' or ''too tall'' or ''too fast'' or ''too strong'' to be accused of being trans?'

Morin later said that running is like 'meditation, therapy and self improvement' for her, revealing she has nine competitions scheduled for 2025.

'I am aware that my participation in so many competitions is and will be talked about because of my medical history.

'The situation in the United States and comments of certain politicians do not help either... I have undergone a medical transition. I consider that I have the legitimacy to participate in the right category, unless the law prohibits me from doing so.'

Morin noted that in Canada there is no law stopping her from entering female categories, but vowed to 'comply with local laws' for international competitions.

Shortly after returning to the White House for his second stint as President, Trump vowed to ensure that no transgender athletes participated in women's sports at the 2028 summer Olympics in Los Angeles.

Trump surrounded himself with female athletes and activists at the White House to sign an executive order barring trans participation in women's sports.

The order uses Title IX, a law against s*x discrimination in taxpayer-funded education programs, to ban transgender girls and women from participating in female school sports activities.

Trump said his new Secretary of State Marco Rubio 'is going to make clear to the International Olympic Committee' that 'America categorically rejects transgender lunacy.'

'We want them to change everything having to do with the Olympics and having to do with this absolutely ridiculous subject,' Trump went on.

In response, the NCAA adapted new rules that will only allow people to compete in women's sports if they were assigned female at birth.

In a press release from the NCAA, the body's president, Charlie Baker, said there are more than 530,000 NCAA athletes. At a senate hearing in December of 2024, Baker said he was aware of 'less than 10' are transgender - meaning this policy goes to the lengths of banning 0.0018 percent of athletes.

'We strongly believe that clear, consistent, and uniform eligibility standards would best serve today's student-athletes instead of a patchwork of conflicting state laws and court decisions,' Baker said in the press release.

'To that end, President Trump's order provides a clear, national standard.'

This new NCAA policy goes into effect immediately and applies to all athletes regardless of previous eligibility reviews under the governing body's previous transgender participation policy.

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Dudes rock

!transphobes

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My ex insisted I dress up as Elsa whenever we had s*x

					
					
					
	

				
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R-slurred moid flirts with scammers

					
					
					
	

				
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Y'all moids need to :marseyclapping2: wash :marseyclapping2: yo :marseyclapping2: butt :marseynails:

					
					
					
	

				
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Do :marseyclapping2: Better :marseyclapping2: Scrotes :marseyclapping2:

					
					
					
	

				
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Happy Valentines babe! Want to debate genocide an Israel? Then we can frick, right?

lmao politicope debaters and wingcucks are a frickin annoying scourge.

https://old.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/1iofzga/girlfriend_thinks_ip_is_a_genocide/mcj2jcq/?context=8

I need Destiny to argue wingcuck shit for me! How can I do this alone? Optically optically think of the optics omg the optics

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