dating/fraternizing with people whose exes are hot and look nothing like me?

struggling hardcore. it's all in the title, really. i'm very proud of my roster. i'm normally pretty confident, but i struggle with feeling attractive and desirable when i see any of my sexual partners' ex-girlfriends or female friends. they are all, like, really really attractive, which would be fine (a little intimidating, but overall not terrifying), but the problem is that they never look ANYTHING like me. obviously i don't want a man who is obsessed with or fetishizes bigger women, but it makes me really insecure, and i just can't fathom the idea that i fit in with the rest of the list? i feel like i have to be either the secret, or the exception

l'm not giving up as long as you guys don't give up on me pic.twitter.com/JpM3rdSOMg

— Dave Blunts (@davebluntsmusic) January 2, 2025

!nonchuds !chads is there a weightalpha with a stronger will to live than this?

5) The government introduced these memes enjoyed by the defendant as exhibit 1 to demonstrate Spafford's alleged "support for violence."

Cardwell also testified that when Spafford went to a shooting range with his cop friend who was a CHS, he used photos of Biden as targets. pic.twitter.com/rEzX0YLYXT

— Ford Fischer (@FordFischer) December 31, 2024

No but really this guy was apparently a huge bomb making psycho but still

!fedposters

!coons

SINGAPORE – Every Singaporean household can now claim $300 worth of CDC vouchers to help them alleviate daily expenses.

Half of the vouchers can be used at supermarkets, and half at participating hawker stalls and heartland merchants. They are valid until Dec 31, 2025.

A total of 1.33 million households will benefit from this sixth tranche of CDC vouchers, which can be used at 23,000 heartland merchants' stores and hawker stalls; and eight supermarket chains, with about 400 outlets involved.

The latest tranche of vouchers is part of enhancements to the Assurance Package to help cushion the impact of cost-of-living increases. The first half – $300 in CDC vouchers – was disbursed in June 2024.

Deputy Prime Minister Gan Kim Yong attended the launch of the vouchers at Marine Parade Town Centre on Jan 3, along with Manpower Minister Tan See Leng, who is an MP for Marine Parade GRC.

The event was hosted by the five mayors – Ms Low Yen Ling, Ms Denise Phua, Mr Desmond Choo, Mr Alex Yam and Mr Mohd Fahmi Aliman.

In his speech, Mr Gan, who is also Minister for Trade and Industry, said the launch is one of the first events in 2025 by the Community Development Councils to kick off Singapore's diamond jubilee, or SG60, celebrations.

The CDC vouchers are one of the key initiatives in the Government's efforts to help households manage cost-of-living challenges, he said.

The scheme was introduced during the Covid-19 pandemic to show appreciation to Singaporeans for their solidarity during those difficult times, and to support businesses. It was continued post-pandemic to help Singaporeans cushion the impact of rising prices.

In 2024, each Singaporean household received $800 worth of vouchers, with a tranche of $500 in January and $300 in June.

As at Dec 31, 2024, about 97 per cent of Singaporean households have claimed the CDC vouchers for the year. Of these claimed vouchers, more than $1 billion, or 97.5 per cent, has been spent at participating hawkers, heartland merchants and supermarkets.

Overall, around $1.6 billion has been spent since the launch of the digital CDC vouchers scheme in December 2021 – $907 million at participating hawkers and heartland merchants, and $689 million at participating supermarkets.

"Thankfully, inflation has cooled in recent months and, barring any unforeseen circumstances, is expected to go down further," said Mr Gan.

He added that core inflation in 2024 is expected to average about 2.5 per cent to 3 per cent, down from more than 4 per cent in 2023. Core inflation is expected to ease to 1.5 per cent to 2.5 per cent in 2025.

"Even though prices may not be rising as fast, we understand that Singaporeans remain concerned about cost of living," Mr Gan said. "We have taken several measures to address these concerns and we stand ready to do more to support Singaporeans."

He added: "Our strong Singapore dollar enables us to mitigate increases in the costs of imported goods and services. We work with businesses to drive productivity and innovation, so that Singaporeans can continue to have good jobs with better wages."

At a doorstop interview with the media after the launch, Ms Low, who is Senior Minister of State for Trade and Industry and Culture, Community and Youth, said a total of $1.008 billion has been claimed for the 2024 vouchers.

Of this figure, $500 million was spent at heartland merchants, while $508 million was used at supermarkets.

About two-thirds of the amount that went towards heartland merchants, or $331 million, was spent on food and beverage, including at coffee shops, cafes and hawker stalls.

Another $72 million was spent at heartland minimarts and the remaining $95 million went to other trades such as salons and stationery shops, said Ms Low, who is also chairman of the Mayors' Committee and Mayor of South West District.

Mr Gan said various measures to cushion the pace of price increases for individuals and households have been rolled out too.

For example, as part of the Assurance Package, all adult Singaporeans received up to $600 in cash in December 2024.

In January, eligible households will get additional U-Save rebates to help with their utility bills, and rebates for their service and conservancy charges.

Mr Gan said the community and the private sector – including merchant and heartland associations, schools and volunteers – have come forward to support efforts such as the CDC vouchers scheme.

Coffee shop operators have been included as participating merchants for the scheme, he added. To date, there are about 600 coffee shop stalls that provide budget meal options and accept CDC vouchers.

"The positive impact of the CDC vouchers scheme is a good showcase of what we can achieve by having the public and private sectors working together," he said.

As the nation celebrates SG60, the Government, community and businesses can continue to find ways to work together to take Singapore forward, he added.

To mark SG60, some participating supermarkets, heartland merchants and hawkers are offering promotions for the use of the vouchers. For example, some heartland merchants and hawkers will provide additional discounts or gifts for customers who use CDC vouchers at their stores to help Singaporeans stretch their dollar.

Supermarkets such as Cold Storage, Giant, FairPrice and Prime Supermarket will also be running in-house promotions for customers using CDC vouchers.

Human resource professional Victoria Ng, 36, said $300 is a "considerable sum" and will help families with rising costs of groceries and food.

"It's good that more places are accepting CDC vouchers, including hawker centres, hair salons and neighbourhood stores," she said. "More people will also be inclined to spend at neighbourhood stores, which is a win-win situation for both customers and merchants."

How to claim your vouchers

Singaporean households will receive a notification letter by mail with instructions on how to claim and spend their CDC vouchers. Similar to previous tranches, only one household member needs to visit go.gov.sg/cdcv and log in with his or her Singpass to claim the digital vouchers on behalf of the household.

Once the vouchers are claimed, the claimant will receive an SMS with a unique voucher link sent from "gov.sg" to the person's registered mobile number. This link, which is different from those of previous tranches, can be conveniently shared with other household members.

Those who face difficulties with the digital process can seek help at community centres or clubs (CCs) and SG Digital Community Hubs. There will be priority queues at CCs for seniors and people with disabilities.

Help will be provided for residents without smartphones or those who need help setting up Singpass accounts or resetting passwords.

Over the first two weeks of the launch, close to 450 youth and student volunteers from institutions, such as Institute of Technical Education College Central, Republic Polytechnic and St Joseph's Institution, will assist residents at selected CCs alongside CDC ambassadors.

SG Digital Office's digital ambassadors and Silver Infocomm wellness ambassadors will be stationed at CCs to help residents claim their digital vouchers from Jan 3 to 16.

Residents are reminded to guard against scams. Claiming the CDC vouchers does not require any involvement with bank applications or transactions. Those who encounter any suspicious messages relating to gov.sg or CDC vouchers can contact the People's Association on 6225-5322, or submit the information online at www.police.gov.sg/i-witness or call 1800-255-0000 to make a police report.

More details on January's CDC vouchers scheme can be found on https://vouchers.cdc.gov.sg/

[–]BingBongTiddleyPopTrans | HRT 24/10/24 53 points 6

>Once a little kid walked up to my ex-wife and said "Hi, Ben!" We called her Ben for a good while after that. Kids can be weird. It may have nothing to do with your looks.

[–]Inevitable-Pea93Trans Jewish ND Nerd Artist Lady 24 points 6 hours ago

>Hey there! If it's one happenstance in a long while, that's just normal for many women, including cis-girls. It doesn't mean you need to re-evaluate your entire world!

[–]GoddessPurpleFrost 6 points 2 hours ago

>I just want to let you know that kids are incredibly cruel. And unfortunately trans people are the hot topic of the evening. I have been passable and living my life stealth for about 8 years now and a little kid riding a bike while I was jogging past me and said "fricking t*slur! Haha sorry sir! Haha!" As he rode by me.

>Now, as somebody who has literally not been misgendered for 8 years, I'm not going to trust the opinions of a child because I was a child once and they are entirely focused on getting a rise out of people by saying horrible things. It's just unfortunately the nature of children.

but it's also funny

Bonus question. WTF is going on in this thread? https://old.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/1hszbru/i_give_head_pats_and_good_girls_you_give_head/

Just standard woman behavior I guess?

The term was first used in print in 1922, in the ornithologist Thomas Coward's "Country Diary" column for The Manchester Guardian of 6 December 1921; the piece was subsequently included in his 1922 book Bird Haunts and Nature Memories.[7] He attributed it to "a west-coast Irishman",[7] and explained:[8]

If we are walking on the road and see, far ahead, someone whom we recognise although we can neither distinguish features nor particular clothes, we may be certain that we are not mistaken; there is something in the carriage, the walk, the general appearance which is familiar; it is, in fact, the individual's jizz.

Chayt, are all birders perverts?

Honest and legitimate request for feedback for once:

The new game I'm passionately working on is currently set to be a traditional roguelike (i.e. ADOM, nethack, etc) mixed with a tile based first person dungeon crawler (ie Legend of Grimrock (esp 2), Eye of the Beholder)

But…

— notch (@notch) January 1, 2025

Even though Rishi Sunak knew he would be critized for sparking a culture war, he launched a taskforce to tackle Pakistani grooming gangs making 550 arrests and protecting 4 000 victims, truly the best prime minister UK ever had. https://t.co/4UJfQpl0PL pic.twitter.com/t9Rqopk7j4

— ntg (@ntg_8) January 5, 2025

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Archive for people who can't read it:

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