https://lemmy.world/post/14769946

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Now that she's an only cat she's gotten aggressively clingy. Probably hangry as well, now that she can't eat all of her sister's food anymore and is being put on shameful fat cat food.

She keeps bringing these poof balls for me to throw. I never taught her to play fetch, but she's obsessed with it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/WaltDisneyWorld/s/FEtKt2K88N

https://twitter.com/thinkmickey/status/1792542257876246901

https://twitter.com/ScottGustin/status/1792512476849795352

Most haven't gone through the process yet at Disneyland cuz of the time difference but here's previous discussions

https://www.reddit.com/r/Disneyland/s/6k75mFZzCc

https://www.reddit.com/r/Disneyland/s/ssOqBNUYTQ

TLDR: Disney's old DAS (DISABILITY ACESS SERVICE) pass was abused to heck once the parks reopened during the pandemic and became even worse once Disney took away free fast passes and introduced genie+ and lightning lane. People would make up excuses like ibs and anxiety so they didn't have to wait in long lines. Now Disney says it's only for developmental disabilities like autism

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@Count_Sprpr

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You did good

Except you DonAI

"Emotionally intense" is a hilarious euphemism for the stuff posted here

So many posters were being told to leave (and apparently going through with it) that they had to ban saying "run" as a response. Every post has this disclaimer right under it

I had to make an account to view account histories and I now sexually identify as BDSM

Choice Posts

The Silent Treatment

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I had to put up with silent treatment for very random things, she had a dream about me leaving her (3 days silent treatment) I accidentally kicked her one night in my sleep (a weeks silent treatment) made worse because I felt really bad about it so decided to sleep on the sofa one night after she told me so I didn't do it again, that led to another 3 days silent treatment.

Now she has had almost one years silent treatment from me after the divorce and she isn't liking it one bit. However, it was her who told everyone who would listen that I was to never contact her again. She can't say I'm not respecting her wishes

I'm currently going through silent treatment with BPDgf, not seen her for 3 weeks. She asked for space because she is going through a difficult time so I have given her that space. I do send her a text every few days to ask how she is doing but think she is getting angry now that I'm not chasing. I learned a valuable lesson from exBPDw, so not falling into that trap again

This guy married and divorced a BPD hoe, but don't worry, he isn't "falling for that trap again" with his new and current BPD gf

Back into No Contact - For Good

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Plain and simple.

There has been hot/cold behavior, breadcrumbs and recycling BS.

I am no longer participating.

I said a lot of very blunt, honest things I have been holding back.

Im done not holding her accountable for her actions.

I HAVE BEEN LIVING IN FEAR OF LOSING SOMETHING I ALREADY LOST MONTHS AGO

and it has had me acting like a scared child.

I have not been respecting myself, and I have been putting her happiness before my own.

Nobody is attracted to someone with no self respect.

That crap ended this morning.

You go, King! Kick that emotional parasite to the curb!

We did have a further bit of contact earlier this week... I still greatly fear her moving on with someone else.

Uhh, that's not how no contact works, King

Figured I would pop in for an update. Not much news, but she and I did end up hanging out 2 weeks ago, for one night.

Ughhh

I stopped reading there, but OP posts 45 more times in that thread, so I'll let you guess how well his "No Contact" went. I imagine it's like when @sneedman makes a post about quitting benzos

I Have Hospitalized my Husband Twice

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Confession time.

1. I have hospitalized my husband twice. First time he had punched me...I ran him over with his jeep...it was not by purpose. He threw himself on the hood and would not get off...and I refused to stop...I was bleeding like a stuck pig. Two weeks in ICU with brain hemorrhage for my H.

Maybe I'm just not a romantic, but I think I would leave at this point

2. Moving his things from his native country to our adoptive country. He woke up in a foul mood, swore at me. Then punched me. I ran to the kitchen, I was planning to go for my AM jog...he cornered me in the kitchen, would not let me out...I was scared. I grabbed the knife..big cutting one off the block and told him to Just let me GO,...he punched me..hard. I lost it. I never felt the punch at the time..everything slowed down, time slowed to a syrup, and attacked him with that knife, slashed him across the face and barely missed his eye. Blood flew everywhere, he fell backwards holding his face in his hands with blood streaming and I RAN and RAN and RAN and hid in the forest...

Surely the relationship is over now, right?

3. Last summer...a stupid argument about the same old crap. He became very nasty and vulgar and I demanded of him ":)o you really think that behavior is normal?" He punched me. Time slowed, grabbed a tissue box first and slammed him with it, then realized all I did was really piss him off more, then grabbed a glass bottle and slammed over the head at the base of the skull...he dropped like a rock...and I RAN and RAN the rest of the night to a friends house. Returned in the AM with the police and ambulance...12 stitches across the back of his neck. I could have killed him.

Ma'am, you seem to be enjoying this

A common theme on the site is extreme self-absorbtion. Everyone tries to relate whatever the OP was saying to themselves and share silly little anecdotes. The immediate reception to this post about 3 separate murder attempts is:

My sister punched me once tee hee

What do you tell a guy with 2 black eyes? Nothing. He's already been told twice and still didn't listen. <- Actual quote

I once picked up my wife and put her back down again

It takes 12 posts before someone steps in and says, "Hey, this is completely fricking insane"

Natasha Tomicic

>browsing bpdfamily

>having an account on bpdfamily

>posting your story on bpdfamily

>posting about you and your husband trying to kill each other

>USING YOUR FULL LEGAL NAME FOR YOUR USER ID

After reading the previous post, I thought, "Wow this b-word is a lunatic. I wonder if I can use any of her other posts."

So I clicked on her profile

WTF, bpdfamily.com

That's no fun at all (every account is like this)

At this point I tried searching her name. If it is her real name, maybe she used it elsewhere or maybe I would find a news article of a lady who finally dismembered her husband. Instead I found this:

Natasha Tomicic - stop this forum spammer

The following information was assembled in an investigation of a series of 132 harassing posts on bpdfamily that occurred in November of 2019. This was not a hacker ( bpdfamily is well shielded from hacking), but rather an individual using 36 different memberships to make hurtful and disruptive posts.

The individual, Natasha Schliephorst Tomicic, a Canadian living in Taiwan, participated earnestly as a member of bpdfamily from 2008 - 2015 seeking help to deal with marital difficulties, alcohol abuse, domestic violence, and anger management. She was a bit of a disruptive member back then, but she was working in earnest and we supported her and she was openly appreciative of that support. She has not be respectful of the community rule, however, and has opened 70 accounts despite our requested that she just work from one membership.

^ (She likely shared all this identifying information in her posts, but compiling it like this in a call-out post by an admin is unhinged)

Natasha Tomicic has self-identified as being on the sociopath spectrum. She divorced in the 2014-15 time frame and participated on a number of messageboards communities for people on the sociopath spectrum. At those sites she developed relationships beyond the scope of just messageboard participation that ended in interpersonal disputes and escalated to mean spirited Internet fights that spanned a number of Internet communities, some very obscure (e.g., google for more information ), and included off-Internet fighting. We learned all this from names and links posted on bpdfamily by Natasha (people she is fighting with), from unsolicited e-mail contacts this week from people who are fighting with her, and from work done by a private investigator.

She made over 5000 posts from 70 different accounts over an 11 year period! And she was deemed too insane for a place called bpdfamily for 4 of those years!

We were originally going to do a 5 or 7 course meal, which was going to be a series of "surprise" courses (that's how the resturaunt describes it) but when we got there we saw that the regular menu had both escargot and pigeon. There are pigeons all around Paris, pooping on statues and eating leftovers from fancy cafes, and we didn't want either of those options to be one of the "surprises" so we opted for just a dessert instead. This was a Wasabi ice cream over merangue, a strawberry circle, a lemond rind of some kind, and a merangue with appley filling that oozes open when you dig into it!

lots of generic condolences to inanimate object low tier jokes

Most controversial thread comes through still about being rational through hatred of somebody you despise, and how keeping cordial relationships even with douchebags is pivotal in international diplomacy

Lots of waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah wahhh wahhhh no the Iranian regime is le heckin evilllll, the EU head eurocuck dude should have said nothing and stay silent instead!!!!

and on and on

IT'S ABOUT SIGNALLING REEEEEEEEEEEE

Most Based Comments

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At this point NF is no better than cheepika, nalla and dabba. What most ppl conveniently forget are that they have not provided a single proof for any accusation they have made. MR samjh aata h ki ek minor ki details aap nahi dena chahte to bji koi solid proof to aaj tak nahi diya and than Why not reveal saba ki love story agar wakai pata h to sabko batao, why not expose cheepdi and nalla abt their dual personality with proof. I think they don't have any proof or anything solid against ibs Or else they would have reveled like saba ka wedding fiasco, kunki wo to pure gaon ko pata hai ki kaisi shadi hui h , now all they are doing is making videos for traction and staying relevant (-5)

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Funny se lo uska number…khud hi bol dena 🤪🤪 (5)

Tum log chamche ho tum logon ki baat acche se manenge. (1)

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Let the IBs stop their holier than though attitude, lying, their regressive promotions and child abuse and I'm sure this sub will cease to exist and NF will also stop making IB videos. U are forgetting what kind of wrong influence this clan is having on society in general and that's the whole point of this sub as well as NF vlogs (17)

I m not against NF for making videos on those creatures! My point is why to dig the past which involves others specially a minor girl ! While that girl is leading a private life in fact RS is keeping the silence intact, who are NF to talk about them. Isn't already a known fact that she left her daughter!? Everything in sake of fame / money/ controversies! (-2)

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I m not against NF for making videos on those creatures! My point is why to dig the past which involves others specially a minor girl ! While that girl is leading a private life in fact RS is keeping the silence intact, who are NF to talk about them. Isn't already a known fact that she left her daughter!? Everything in sake of fame / money/ controversies! (-2)

I do understand your concern about that so called first child but ur concern is misplaced or rather ur not voicing it at the right place. I dont think there is a single person in this sub who doesn't care for that child. So please stop thinking/feeling otherwise. That couple is the sole cause of any heartache that the kid will have because they r at fault for displaying their current child as the one and only. If they hadn't done that, all these comments and speculations would have long died down already, don't u think? (11)

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Let the IBs stop their holier than though attitude, lying, their regressive promotions and child abuse and I'm sure this sub will cease to exist and NF will also stop making IB videos. U are forgetting what kind of wrong influence this clan is having on society in general and that's the whole point of this sub as well as NF vlogs (17)

Angriness: 😡😡😡🔘🔘

I m not against NF for making videos on those creatures! My point is why to dig the past which involves others specially a minor girl ! While that girl is leading a private life in fact RS is keeping the silence intact, who are NF to talk about them. Isn't already a known fact that she left her daughter!? Everything in sake of fame / money/ controversies! (-2)

If "dki" changes her name to faiza and stops quoting "Pehla baccha, Pehla this pehla that", every criticism n comments around her" first child" will reduce drastically n eventually end. Shez the actual culprit here who is perpetuating this nonsense to suit her holy fake persona. 😒 it's her responsibility to make efforts to put a full stop to this n not NFs or this subs. (7)

Biggest Lolcow: /u/Significant_Ebb_9738

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Does Chick-fil-A not have the same anti-LGBTQ reputation anymore? Anecdotally, young people (Gen Z) keep casually announcing that they eat there and it's jarring to my aging millennial ears.

Chick-fil-A was THE culture war issue at a time when the term “culture war” was employed a lot less frequently (or at least I heard it less). Hard to believe the stigma is gone among presumably pro-LGBTQIA+ young people. 🤷‍♂️

Some 20-something at work just asked me where to find a Chick-fil-A (I didn't know, but others have asked me the same question). That's what inspired this…

There is no ethical consumption, but when a corporation becomes publicly associated with bigotry, mistreating workers, other social/environmental ills, I'll boycott in solidarity + to send a message. But seems like, eventually, people forget.

Boycotts can be an effective tool, but it seems like there is more awareness now than ever that systemic, radical change is necessary to address root causes of corporate greed/abuses (including capitalism itself). Consumer choices only go so far.

https://twitter.com/EricShapiro3/status/1791880151279505443

what does woke mean?

Woke's over, younger Gen Zs and Gen Alpha dgaf about this stuff

Not sure how you personally define “wokeness,” but Gen Z is extremely concerned about LGBTQ+ rights according to available data (regardless of whether they connect it with a specific chicken place).

Wokeness = radical liberalism and performative politics. There's a polarisation - some Gen Zs (those older and closer to millennials) are woke, but overwhelmingly the younger section do not seek institutional approval (couldn't get it anyway) and so aren't led by the radical liberalism of the PMC (as millennials were). Plus, now every other school / guidance counsellor / social worker / university is promoting woke radlib ideology it's not viewed as ‘cool' (every generation rebels in their youth, as Nick Cave said if he were 16 today he'd go to church [to be counter-cultural]) and that's partly why we see a resurgence of trad. Many polls indicate Gen-Alpha (turning 14) are the most right-wing / conservative in generations. But there is a huge split amongst the sexes (young men are much more likely to be rightwing / conservative than young women).

except that's not what woke means. yall should stop talking about things you have no idea about [black woman speaking]

Now I'm starting to understand better why some people think being ‘woke' is a bad thing smh

it's conservatives taking words ( aave) they don't know the meaning of and basically turning them into a slur. so now the entire country thinks woke is something it's not [black woman speaking]

https://twitter.com/DrJenIzaakson/status/1792166612235137399

We don't get no rewards for not eating there

Not funding organizations that hate you?!?!

I think this is a fair point. But at the end of the day, no ethical consumption in capitalism. I fund governments that hate me every single day, baby. May as well get some Polynesian with it.

“There's no ethical consumption under capitalism “ doesn't mean I should spend and vote with my dollars recklessly

I don't vote recklessly. But you're a great example why I eat the chicken. This shit turns you off to regular people who have a lot in common with you. What am I really helping by freaking out over chicken and telling them about themselves? Cutting them off? Over some nuggets.

https://twitter.com/courtsidekenny/status/1792169661783482854

https://twitter.com/wet_church/status/1792040310249255045

https://twitter.com/SoGoodWeNamedlt/status/1792202288578339011

not the chick fil a cup

https://twitter.com/DearlyBearloved/status/1792133167660298451

Just shows the addictiveness of fried MSG

Highly incorrect. MSG is not addictive just awhole lot of racially charged history behind it. Many things have MSG both naturally and added. The addictiveness comes from fats and salts. Chick fil a is just more of brand type to show off similar to iPhones and other hyped things.

https://twitter.com/HelloDevSero/status/1792046534609232218

Everything is so gay now. Not in the pride way (well also in the pride way), the straggy way. They keep letting boring twitter millennial losers write shit. Everything is sanded down and unfunny. Nothing on the horizon interests me.

Again, I blame millennials. When they started getting high-paying jobs, shit became a lot less fun.

!zoomers do you hate millennial writing too?

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