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Finally a real trad wife pic.twitter.com/4OLotBVFwv
— Pearl Hart (@tardwife3000) June 16, 2023
I have to repeat this again. She is 22 years old, already has 4 children and lives in a trailer with her partner. 6 ppl living in a trailer
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Send a shitty txt to your psych? Get forced into an 18 month waiting list for a new one
Someone sticks up for the psych and our heroine doesn’t like it. Calls them medication peddles
Edit- hit post too soon sorry
I DONT CARE IF EVWRYONE SAYS IM WRONG THERE ARE BILLIONA ON EARTH AND SOME AGREE
Went to grab her profile pics and she left :(
Anyways here’s her face
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WARNING, THIS MAN IS A SELF-ADMITTED REDDITOR, THE KIND WHO BRINGS UP REDDIT IN CONVERSATION timestamp
Dustin, 27, New Orleans LA
Career:
Film gig work
Been doing this since 2014
One client he's on retainer with
Writes, edits, directs their marketing commercials
Very small scale, local lawyer type thing
Was in the health and safety department on a few AMC shows that happened to be shooting locally
Interview with a Vampire
Witches (was only working with for a day)
3rd one isn't out not sure if he should say it
Wants to be a "writer-direct-auteur type"
Has yet to get an editorial job that has linked to Hollywood
Went to college, 2 degrees in Film
Film School at University of New Orleans
- Didn't find work after graduating so went to grad school
Went back to University of New Orleans for grad school
Averages 5'000 a month
- Pre-taxes, is setting around third aside for taxes
He's having some issues with the writer's strike going
Personal Life:
From 16 on to a couple years ago, lived on 400 a month?
- until post-grad school
Wants to move somewhere more expensive for better oppourtunities
- He's not sure where
Opted for a mealkit delivery thing because it was cheaper than what his grocery list was
Lives with his girlfriend timestamp
- Split costs of groceries somewhat? There's something going on there but it's not explored.
Expenses/Debts:
Personal Loan $3165/$12'465 timestamp
$349 monthly payment
15.44% interest
"That's what I call a bad business decision that blew up in my face"
Wanted to buy his own film equipment to rent out/use for his own stuff
Sony FX-9 usually goes for $16'000, found a full-kitted out one for $9'400
"Seller got hacked so the camera never came"
He bought it through Ebay
Eventually got money back
Had already separately spent 1'000 on a lens for that camera
Has paid back 9400 of the 12'565
He's confused and doesn't realize the loan was originally 12'000?
He's really hoping it wasn't
If he's right there's only $665 remaining
Student Loans 61'000
All Federal
Between 4%-6%
Only took out loans for Grad School, his parents covered undergrad
Thinks it will be about five hundred something?
Went with a 10 year repayment program thing?
- Something that starts at 500 and balloons to 800 towards the end?
Pays for a few Patreons
Doesn't have an LLC setup
- No business cards or anything
Credit Cards:
Perfect payment history
just got a CLI?
Klarna
$53 a payment
Had bought concert tickets
Pays for nexus to download mods more efficiently
Lot of uber trips, his car died a couple months ago
- Mechanic said the coolant or something leaked into the oil
Health insurance that he has "doesn't cover his meds"
Savings/Retirement:
Savings
- 15'000 (this included the personal loan money?)
Checking
5894 (savings for taxes)
1'862
- usually between 1800 and 2800
Emergency Fund timestamp
Doing a CD with a 5.08% AOY and put 12'000 to keep it in
4 months
CD is non-committal
Roth IRA
- $6'039
Fidelity Account "with etfs and stuff"
- $1'700
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Unfortunately no one bought a @CamaroAt28APR, but the myFICO forum is full of people making awful decisions. Just the three posts on this page are
The first is someone making 180k/year with a debt-to-income ratio of 12% but has to take out a 6 year, 9.3% loan to afford a 58k car?
Then we have someone taking out a 7 year loan on a BMW that will surely be worth $0 by the time the loan is up. At least he gets that sheer driving pleasure
Finally is someone who cosigned on a loan with her husband but even doesn't know what she bought other than it's a 6.2% loan for 6 years lmbo
As a bonus here's an r-slur from a few months back
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Sienna Wereham, 25, Austin Texas
Self-rated - 1.5/10
Personal Life:
From Montana
Lives with Boyfriend (Korean)
He pays rent, she "takes care of everything else"
Owes him money
29, law student
He gets money from his family
Just finished his first year (2 more years then Bar)
Was doing pretty good this time last year but "then like I had a series of like um events come up and that kind of resulted in me using my credit card a lot more than what I normally would have been using"
- Trying to focus on paying off her credit card but it's going slowly
No car, uses his car to drive to work
- Lives close enough to law school he bikes there
Career:
Bond underwriting assistant
23/hr, 37.5 hours per week (doesn't know yearly pay)
Was 40 hours they decreased this during covid?
Thinks about 42'000
recently hired as a full time employee (only 2 pay periods?)
- 1'200 a paycheck?
401k contribution is 3% (company match )
Contract to hire type thing, she is hired as of March?
- Paid weekly as contract, biweekly as full timer?
Debt/Expenses:
Personal trainer twice a week
Trying to lose weight
Virtual appointments since trainer moved from Austin to Chicago
Might be $55 an appointment, neither person says the price but that's what's on the venmo
Credit Card 1 timestamp
"Trying to pay off"
"I was paid weekly when I was a contract worker and I switched to biweekly as a full time employee so there was like a bit there where I umm uh I need to go to like the grocery store and stuff but I didn't have enough money to go to the grocery store"
- DSP soundbite
$3212 => Paid 271, Spent $1688, $91 interest => $4720
Student Loans
University of Hawaii at Hilo
No idea what this is and I probably heard it wrong timestamp
Wanted to go to Portland State but that was too expensive for her (50-60k)
32'000
About a 400 minimum payment (5-6% interest)
Always been on deferment, graduated in 2021
Owes Boyfriend $1'800 timestamp
Had borrowed money to pay off her credit card that she'd used to make purchases when they first moved to Austin
Where'd he get this money from
- "I can't share that"
Gave her the money in August (they moved there in July) ($4'000)
After this money her credit card was $2'000
- Boyfriend said not to pay him back initially because he wanted her to pay off the card, the card is now 4'720
Currently paying him $400 a month
Retirement/Savings:
Story time timestamp
"Yeah, so, about this time last year um I had about a thousand dollars in my savings account or twelve-hundred actually but then like I said earlier um there's like a series of like events that happened um"
Grandmother in Idaho had a health scare while Sienna was in Korea (boyfriend is from Korea) so flight costs, then spending money while she was visiting?
She and her boyfriend had nothing saved when moving into the Austin apartment after that?
Took on debt on spending to furnish apartment and groceries? A little uncertain, she backtracks on whether it's furnishings or just essentials
Boyfriend had just paid tuition so his account was pretty empty
Initial job when she moved to Austin was very stressful
- Remote job, no friends in Austin, shopping was her only reason to go outside
Checking
- $98 started => 1691 in, 1232 out => $557
Savings
$69.26 stated => 10 out for being below min, => 59.26
- Two charges a half month apart each $5
Bank had increased minimum balance from 50 to 100 and she hadn't seen that notice?
- Bank is up in North Dakota
Retirement account
- $86
Robin Hood
- $77 total in here
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Get fricked, I don't pay shit for my tendies.
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At the store Marcano and McNeal visited, the only things required to least a pet were a valid driver’s license, an email address and an active checking account. It was also required that you make at least $1,000 a month.
Pet store employees offer the financing or lease options, but the lenders are third-party companies. Customers never see or speak with an actual representative. The application and approval process is all done on your smartphone.
The two customers claim the final terms of the deal were not revealed at the time, inside the store, and their contracts were emailed directly from the lender. When they opened those emails the following day, they found that the contracts were complicated and difficult to sift through.
McNeal said she thought she was paying $3,000 for her dog in a payment plan, but the lease contract showed she was paying $300 a month for 24 months. That totals to more than $7,200. She also had the option to purchase her dog, but would have to pay an additional $450, bringing the grand total to $7,649.
You have a calculator in your phone
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Mitch, 28, West Michigan
Self-describes as impulsive spender.
Career:
Mechanical Engineer at a "Large Furniture Manufacturer"
On the Factory floor "lots of boring stuff... lot of emails"
About a year
Just graduated from college last year
University of Alabama
- Hybrid program transferred from Michigan State after a year and a half
$89'000
- $2'281 biweekly after taxes/401k ($4'821 average monthly)
Debt/Expenses
Rent
Holland, MI
1'600 a month, small apartment? 1 bed 1 bath
Utilities are an additional $100?
Internet is lumped in with rent payment, community internet thing?
Student Loans 31'000
About $370 monthly payment
between 4% and 6%, at least 5 different loans?
through nelnet
LifeStream Loans 17'000 total
10'000 and a 7'000
One of these was a car loan for a '96 Toyota Celsior (?) (imported) ????
60'000 miles
280 monthly payment
72 months
5.34%
Going to try selling it this summer, thinks he can get a beater car for cheaper
thinks it's worth 13-16k
Premium gas only
He's not driving this? Mentions that he's borrowing his parents' pickup
7k is a debt consolidation loan
currently 5'600/7'000, minimum monthly is $339
Credit cards and a separate car loan (that car "is out of the picture now")
- Got wrecked, other guy didn't have insurance
8.19%
"All through college I paid for a lot of stuff with credit cards"
- Had 4 cards, now has 1
Spent $700 on going out to eat
Bought $330 pair of boots (100 reimbursed by work)
Around 994 in minimum payments once Student Loans start back up
About $300 on gas each month?
Credit Card (nothing unpaid)
Car insurance is lumped in with his paystub somehow? His work pays for it?
Retirement:
About 26'000 total, mostly in the 401k
401k 3% Company match
- Vanguard
A few savings/checkings, didn't catch how much he has in these
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What did they mean by this
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Very normal country https://t.co/QIJwVOmpNc pic.twitter.com/jrtBjiX4I6
— James Medlock (@jdcmedlock) June 16, 2023
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John, 24, Massachusetts
Self-rated 4/10 financially
Personal Life:
Started budgeting at the beginning of this year
South Coast "near Cape Cod"
Lives with Parents
Moved out for a couple months
Had a really bad issue with a neighbor which is why he moved back
"Walls were very thin and she was just like always yelling through the walls to like keep it down even though I'm like a pretty quiet person to the point where like there was a time I called the cops on her because she was threatening to call the cops on me for just talking in my apartment"
"they've actually had quite a few people leave because of her"
"In the week I left another tenant had already left because of her"
Situation "much better than last year"
"Lifestyle creep hit me hard"
Went to a private university freshman year, lost scholarship because 2.99GPA
Switch to state school, lived on campus
Private Wentworth Institute of Technology in Boston
Went there without even seeing other schools
Him and fiance looking to move in together at the end of the summer? (Not happening any more)
Career:
Site Reliability Engineer
Remote
$8'100 monthly ($97'200 net)
Debt/Expenses:
Private Student Loan 79'623:
On Forbearance, starts up with federal ones
7% interest
$924 payment a month
10 year repayment
Federal Student Loan $26'276:
Around a $250 minimum payment
Thinks it is 4.15 interest rate maybe?
Car Loan (Tesla Model 3) $51'628:
6% interest
$931 minimum payment
Was $56'000 when bought because it has full self-driving and auto acceleration boost
Has been trying to sell, but can't find anyone to buy it because nobody wants to pay extra for the software option?
"I work from home, I literally don't need the car"
Willing to sell for $30-$35
- thinking about starting it at 40k?
"I've actually had 3 cars before this, so like I said my spending was unhinged last year, last couple years, cars are one thing I've really been into my whole life so I just ended up going through car after car so a lot of money was lost"
Credit Cards
All paid off but sent in as example of spending
$2500 graphics card (3090 TI to play Counterstrike ), new Macbook
Reading through spending timestamp
- Ton of eating out
Savings/Retirement:
$1200 => 0 in one savings because he opened a high yield savings and moved money there?
Savings $24'417, was his savings for a down-payment on a house, not sure if this is the high yield one
- had an accepted offer for a house? Something weird happened there timestamp
401k $30'000
- No Roth IRA
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Where do I even begin in tackling this? I read online to focus on paying down the higher interest rate credit card first but everytime I make a big payment on the card I end up having to use the credit card I made a payment on because now I don’t have enough on my debit. I’m also attempting to save up for a car that I urgently need to cut commute costs down. Should I focus strictly on credit card payments? Should I save up for the car and just make min payments? I just need a direction to go in. My job pays 20 and hour and is the only job I have.
It's his only job guys!
Electric bill: 250 every other month
Rent: 350
Is he living in a closet with the lights on 24/7?
Uber: 400+
Uber Eats: 800+
Which one of you posted this?
- JimothyX10 : Unfunny, uninteresting and unrelated to drama
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Capitalism is a friendship ruiner
As I get older, I’m realizing I’m losing some of my oldest friendships because of capitalism. My college friend group has slowly split into two groups over the past 15 years: the super rich corporate capitalists making over $400,000/year or the low wage artists and service professionals, who will probably never see six figures. Whether it be a friend who works for a law firm and represents mega-corps... Or an investment banker friend, with literal millions in the bank, who Venmo requests even our brokest friends for a $8 latte, the capitalists have become insufferable. Another is working for one of the biggest water polluters in the world, yet apparently cares about climate change. They all embody “socially democrat, fiscally conservative” politics which just says you’re a hypocrite.
I’ve watched the desire to hoard wealth turn these once generous and considerate people into greedy, vapid shells of themselves. They’ve all compromised their values in egregious ways and justified it in the pursuit of “making a living.” I reached a breaking point this week when one of them had the audacity to make fun of a lower ranking “poor” coworker who made “only $250,000” a year, when they know my butt barely hits $60k. Knowing how much they value your worth by the size of your bank account, I can’t even imagine what they say about me behind my back.
Anyway, I just needed to rant about how much it sucks to lose friends because they’re obsessed with money. And if anyone else is going through something similar, you’re not alone.
A high paid employee that makes the corporate machine more efficient is a capitalist. They sure as heck ain’t socialists or communists
Light roasted drama
Welcome to the anti work movement
Yeah the thought of any of them being able to survive without their status symbols is laughable. Money is their entire personality
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Spends all their poverty wage on drugs, parties, and tatoos.
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$650 on new tires
gonna need another $488 on brakes
I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS I HATE CARS
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Dani, 26, Tulsa OK
Self-rated: 0/10
Personal Life:
Bipolar
Had episodes she didn't know were episodes
On meds
- Not very long, got diagnosed in Feb of this year
Career:
Dog Groomer
"Not very much right now, I moved from Washington to Tulsa and I was making almost 3000 a month and I was in a high volume salon now I'm doing my own self-employment between two different salons umm so I'm bringing in post-tax maybe 1700 a month"
She's a 1099
About 30 hours at main salon, 4 hours here and there from other salon, based on how many clients she has, not making enough in commissions to make more than hourly
Debt/Expenses:
$12 for therapy and meds a month
Rent
$600 (includes utilities)
Splits with her partner "Jayden" (?) Not certain I got the name right
"Not in the best neighborhood but it is what it is"
Doesn't have paperwork on her debts
"Everything's in collections except for my Jetta"
Car Mitsubishi Lancer: timestamp
Repo'd last year
Owes "just under 4'000"
100 a month payment
Could afford it at the time because she was having a manic episode working 3 jobs at the same time
Bought in 2018, purchase price 10'000
21% interest
- Might not still have interest since it's in collections?
There was damage to the vehicle at the time that she didn't get fixed in time
Car 2: 2012 VW Jetta
Owes $3'200 out of $7'000 purchase price
$200 monthly payments
Got it last August
Purchased through a friend
They purchased the vehicle and she pays them
Doesn't know the interest rate on this one, thinks it's 3 years
Dental Credit: $875
In collections
"Why did you then not pay it"
- "Basically because I just ignored it" timestamp
"Banfield Debt": $682
Pet hospital
Paying $50 a month
6 years old, just started payments
Medical Debt:
Debt 1: $1'698
Debt 2: $1'144
Has not been paying either of these
Card $1'296
6 years old, has not been making payments
Not sure when the last time she made a payment
"I am not a 'fall off the credit' kind of person but this could be the play" timestamp
Dollar General
- Lots of visits, mostly small purchases
Lots of eating out
Allegedly all the useless shit totals to around $400
Savings/Retirement:
Savings: -$4.38 started, ended -$1 in the savings
- Has a netflix sub coming out of this account
Chime checking: -$4.63 started, ended at $7
- a few apple bills
Account 3: has $313 in it at the moment?
I think there was another account mentioned but didn't catch the amount in it, not certain
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The correct finance take is downmarseyd. I guess Redditors would rather this guy not be able to get money when he needed it.
And who's fault is it that they have horrible credit again? Not the pay day loan people.
In America? So many reason: medical debt, being in the foster system, minor crimes like shoplifting as a teen, being gay (ie your parents make you homeless), disability, a fire, your landlord ups the rent by 50% or more, your employer decides to fire you, ohh so many reasons.
Instead of being judgmental, you may want to show some empathy and compassion for those less fortunate. SPECIALLY if you call yourself a Christian.
The seethe is amazing.
It’s horrid. Places like that, payday loans/advances and rent to own businesses are nothing short of predatory. You only ever see them near poverty stricken areas of town. They just want to make your life worse
But like do you think rich people need loans to buy basic items like furniture?
The shady stores don't stand a chance there because they would laugh and then buy something that costs more than 3 of the shitty rent to buy furniture sets that have probably been repossessed twice before you got it.
So close to getting the point. So close. Just because someone is poor doesn’t mean that it’s ok to target them with your predatory shit, and it certainly doesn’t mean that these businesses even vaguely belong in working class communities.
Completely misread the point and smugposts about it.
That's all the effort you are getting out of me. So many people there with poor financial decisions.