Non-/s/ link: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/16dclnu/love_the_fact_that_i_was_coerced_into_sex_i_didnt?sort=controversial

So i guess we all know about FDS and how they fell off after going off-site?

I found this thread where they try to cope with the (((gaychad)))

This is one of my concerns. A closeted man wasted nearly four years of my life when I was in my 20s. I found gay porn repeatedly. He would downplay it by saying that straight porn was too fake and that gay porn had more intimacy🙄He even admitted that he’s bi, but I think he’s just a deeply closeted gay man, even though he married a woman. So many of these closeted men want the status and countless benefits of a straight marriage/relationship, and will string women along to have it. Listen to your intuition. A lot of closeted men will swear up and down that they only want women because they know that’s what we want to hear. Another FDS member made a great point along the lines of watching out for bi/gay energy. Looking back, my closeted boyfriend had gay energy in spades but I was too much of a pickme pushover to leave.

Dramabros, what's your excuse when your foid finds the goatse on your phone?

Honestly I feel if you ever have a doubt he is not 100%. I’ve had 2 gay exes and some that were for sure bi. Not sure why but I could always tell right away in tiny ways and ignored it.

Now, that's a HVW!

I don’t blame you for not wanting to date a bi man. I know gay men who wouldn’t want a bi man, either. Every bi man I’ve ever met has just been an equal-opportunity frick-boy.

goddarn bi slutties!

So, I have been seeing this guy four weeks now. Everything seemed great at first, and this was the first guy I met in a while who I felt a strong connection with. That all took a turn yesterday.

I had recently bought some leather leggings that I thought looked great on my figure. When I wore them on our date, I thought he would give me a compliment. He didn't. He's never given me a compliment on any of our dates, which I thought strange at first because normally guys will say something along the lines of I look nice, but he's never said anything like that to me, even though I have given him compliments.

Later, I asked him what he thought of my outfit and he said he didn't like it. I asked him if he liked any of the outfits I have worn. He said no. Mildly annoyed now, I asked him well what outfits does he find attractive.

He proceeded to send pictures of women with hourglass figures wearing bodycon dresses. It felt like he was telling me that my body and the way I dress wasn't good enough for him so I should completely change myself for him.

I have also grown up constantly hearing people tell me how less attractive I am than my sister. So, I am highly sensitive to people telling me they don't like the way I dress, my physical features and body.

I felt pissed off with him and asked him if I don't meet his standard of female beauty why is he even bothering with me then because I don't plan to change how I dress or style myself for him. He responded with a facepalm emoji.

Now I have conflicting feelings. On the one hand, I really did like him but I feel so hurt that he doesn't seem accept me for who I am and wants me to change and conform to the Instagram model standard of beauty.

She seems pretty insecure, I feel bad for her tbh. Let's continue:

You aren't overreacting but you are kinda projecting onto him. He might not be a fan of your outfits but that doesn't he wants you to change who you are to accomadate his taste. Just because the outfits he sent you had women with body types that are different from yours didn't mean he doesn't like your body type. You asked him a question and he answered but you didn't like his answer. He could have been more careful with your feelings but this whole situation blew up quick af. You can drop him if you want but is this actually an issue? Is him being a great guy up to this point suddenly not matter because of your contrasting taste in women clothing?

Maybe I was projecting on to him, but if that was the case why didn't he just explain that to me like you did? Sending a face palm emoji felt so low-effort from him.

Dude sounds like kind of an r-slur tbh. Is he a catch?

I think he's only seeing me because he can't get dates with women more attractive than me.

He told me I was the first woman he's matched with in ages. So, now I feel he's only going on dates with me because he can't find what he's really attracted to.

I liked this guy for his personality initially, but if Reddit is supporting this guy's right to be brutally honest then I should be brutally honest too. I am actually more attractive than him because I am in shape through regular exercise whilst he has quite a lot of belly fat. He also has a receding hairline. He's admitted to me that I am the first date he's got in months. He has standards for the type of women who wouldn't look at him twice on the street.

What the frick is going on here? She's fit and got style, and wears leather leggings. She wears classy dresses, too:

I thought I do wear classy dresses. This is the type of dresses I usually wear.

The dress:

Classy!

Honestly, I'm sort of on the foids side here as insane as she is. Or, more accurately, I'm on the side that this dude must be even more r-slurred than her. Still, in summation:

Get some cats, problem solved 😎

I already have one.

Marsey wins again!

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Although tbh, from this pic this guy is either a closet case or a complete sociopath.

!thotpatrollers !foidmoment !moidmoment Discuss

From xir post history:

This shitty web comic is r*pe apologia!!!!

WHY WONT INSURANCE COMPANIES PAY FOR MY FACIAL FEMINIZATION SURGERY!?

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Leftist Infighting wins again (-58)

they hated him for telling the truth

MensLib

I was under the impression for a while that this sub was supposed to be a place for people to genuinely talk about issues that impact men, exclusively, but in a more thoughtful and open atmosphere than somewhere like a MRA subreddit.

ive been in that sub for quite a while and there is some good discussion here and there, it definitely is much better than MRA and their mods actually sided with me on a couple of arguments ive had on there so thats good. but they do have some things to work through and that emotional labour thing is something that comes up in there over and over, many of them dont understand the nuance between being emotionally supportive and carrying your partners entire mental health on your shoulders, on top of your own.

emotional labor??

There are also a lot of men there who just want to be the victim so bad. They didn't join because they noticed some serious issues with patriarchy and were interested in uncovering their own role, deprogramming themselves, and coming to solutions. They just heard "a subreddit for men? For the poor poor men victimised by societyTM ? Finally something that focuses on me!"

its hard for me to take a lot of the mens lib stuff seriously because even when theres good points being made, it always seems to circle back to criticizing women for not doing enough (or just general whataboutism with feminism). it would be easier to take seriously if international mens day searches werent the highest on international womens day than any other day

what world do these people live in?

Usually these kinds of posts only have things that you can individually make fun off, which is why the comments seem to be filled with "what's wrong with x?"

your previous 2 comments are in the subs for vaush and hasan lmfao, youre literally the dude in the pic

being socialist has nothing to do with being a toxic male feminist lol. socialist men on average are far more decent than non socialist men

Some of these don't make a lot of sense. I was under the impression there's quite a bit of animosity between the HasanAbi community and the Vaush community, for instance. That is Vaush, right? I don't watch his content.

i honestly believe the so called "brocialist" is largely a liberal invention because while i have met annoying male socialists, it's really a drop in the bucket, all of my male socialist friends are genuinely good people who believe in actual women's liberation and not just voting for nancy pelosi or whatever other clown behavior liberals think will save america

I don't understand why we're being downvoted.

I don't know all the ins and outs of socialist theory, but it doesn't seem to be against women's rights at all?

Chairman Mao was the one who spawned the quote "Women hold up half the sky." Women's liberation cannot happen without socialism. I think some libfems meet one annoying male socialist and make generalizations because western society has been poisoned by anticommunist propaganda

chairman mao quote

jesus fricking christ you two are so painfully un-self-aware it almost wraps back around to being funny

Yep. Classic. Way to congratulate yourself on clearing such a high a bar. Of course you think “but the other guys are worse” is good enough. 🙄

I agree that a lot of these things are toxic but I fail to see how communism, Bernie supporter, and kink positive is supposed to be a toxic thing?

I've heard from folks in the kink space that some guys take "dom" as an excuse to be an butthole, without really delving into aftercare and the positive, caring sides of it.

There were a lot of Bernie Bros who refused to vote for Hillary. Sure, they didn't like her politics, but there was a clear gender divide when Bernie lost the nomination. The “political” argument was about preserving the Supreme Court. For some reason that resonated with women and other minority groups. White Bernie bros, however, just couldn't betray their principles and vote for someone they didn't believe in. If only there was an explanation for what separates these groups. 😑

Hasan constantly spewing about "crazy radfems" without identifying what those even are is really bothersome.

Radfems are the worst tho. They are reactionaries that will happily collaborate with fascists to achieve their goals.

Did he not just mean TERFs?

Radfems are pro s*x worker, anti John and Hasan is a John.

but how would you have s*x workers without some paying for the "work"

They are not!! Absolutely 100% NOT. Radfems talk over me, tell me to shut up, and imply that my needs as a s*x worker don't matter. They are paternalistic and dehumanizing whenever I have the misfortune of interacting with them online.

Hasan has made the distinction that he both hates terfs and "radfems."He needs to stay in his lane and stick to socialist politics cause he's garbage at anything else.

Nah, it's good he's calling out those reactionaries

The "kink-positive" + "PornHub" parts are intrinsically linked.

"I'm a super feminist guy, I only enjoy watching women crying while being beaten and gangraped gangbanged by men because it's ✨ a kink ✨ and definitely not because I enjoy the thought of sexual violence against women more than the standard-issue misogynists I criticize."

obvs nothing wrong with being kink positive but soooooo many cishet dudes see "kink positive" as a get out of jail free card to be as disgustingly perverted/predatory as they want under the paper thin guise of feminist praxis or whatever

they act like it's somehow subversive. No, my dude, wanting s*x to be something women endure and that men enjoy is the least subversive take on sexuality. Femdom or pegging or things along those lines are subversive because they run contrary to the social gender norms outside the bedroom

also worth noting that even dudes who are into subversive stuff can go about it in the most un-subversive way, where theyre basically just pervy creeps with a different coat of paint

source: am tall girl who uses dating apps with the filter set to "liberal"

>tall girl

Most kinks are problematic, IMO. What people do in their own bedrooms is no one else's business, and there's nothing wrong with having kinks that both partners are into even if it's problematic, buuuuuut...

Not to be THAT girl, but calling kink problematic is kinda ignoring that for most people kinks aren't exactly a choice. Like, do I choose to be really into watersports? No, but I am, and saying that BDSM and/or other kink is problematic kinda undermines the fact that if it's consensual then there's no issue

Does Ethan have a big male leftist audience? I feel like they're less interested in that stuff at H3. Replace him with the Chapo or Cumtown boys

he dislikes trump and ben shapiro, so ive seen dudebros act like that makes him a leftist hero while conveniently ignoring the antifeminist alt-right pipeline aspect

The alt-right pipeline missed me entirely, so I don't know his role in that horrorshow. What happened?

i tried to not follow him either but i went to an all-boys catholic high school in 2016 so it was pretty inescapable...

...his wife was in the IDF...

!foidmoment

A few nights ago I initiated s*x with my bf while he was on the game. We've been having issues because he's been spending a significant amount of time gaming instead of being with me. I've complained to him about it. On that night he “forgot” to turn his mic off and his friends heard us having s*x. I wouldn't have known if I didn't hear his friend jokingly saying something I said, and then looked at me with the “oh shit” look. It was so casual that it now haunts me what they said or did behind my back.

I'm having a hard time categorizing exactly what happened, it feels like sexual assault but I don't think it's right to say that.

And yeah, I let my bf have it. He's been trying to kiss my butt lately but I don't even want to look at him. Which is hard because we live together. He's been apologizing and swearing it was an accident. I don't think so because he was acting different and being really aggressive, at the time it turned me on but now looking back I feel so violated

Trust your gut. He knew. Now he's assaulted you and lied to you.

He didn't initiate the activity. So it couldn't have been that premeditated.

Doesn't matter. It's premeditated the moment he knows the mic is still on and does nothing. Also his extra masculine “aggressive” performance showing off for his little friends.

That's not how premeditation works. He could have been planning it for a while, not that one specific day. Premeditation can also be a quick decision, it means it was an intentional decision. It doesn't really matter if it was a short term or long decision anyways, it's still fricked up.

He knew. It is SA. He and his friends are trash.

Trust your instincts. It wasn't SA, but if he did it really to brag to his friends, he is an butthole...

She didn't consent to being listened to, so yes, it was sexual assault.

This is SA.

Correct - it may not be something legally recognised in all places, but ethically? She was violated, especially she FEELS violated

exactly. she never agreed tro have s*x with i don,t know how many bystanders. it,s disgusting and absolutely vile, and she was violated. also OP if you decide to leave him - and i really hope you do -, this is the kind of man that will do revenge porn. i,d suggest you try to delete every thing you have ever shared with him of a sexual nature, before doing so. he,s getting off on parading your sexual intimity to his friends and completely violating your boundaries and what,s suppposed to stay private. he will definitely do it especially if he,s angry at you for leaving him. he does not respect you. i also would not be surprised if he had taken digital material unbeknowst to you while you two were intimate together.

If he has her nudes, the friends have seen all of them already.

In general, men who play video games a lot do not make good partners.

I can forgive a thousand times. I will only trust once.

This is powerful!

Beautifully said

That's really well said and I agree.

I don't think the truth matters in this case I believe you when you say it seemed intentional and that does sound like sexual assault as he didn't get consent to do what he did...

A form of slut shaming, public humiliation and virility flexing.

"Listen to my thirsty b-word girlfriend. Interrupting me and my gaming time. I'll show her. Look how much she likes my peepee guys".

Men bond over how much they hate women.

I think he's kissing your butt not because he's sorry but because losing his in-house misogyny sponge would make him lose status in the eyes of his bros.

So fricking weird how they all kept listening to HIM having s*x. And he was putting on a show for them. They've obviously been reminiscing about that night and repeating what you said. It's a running joke between them all now.

Seems like his priorities are himself, his bros, gaming, then a very distant last priority is you. And he doesn't love you. What he did/does isn't a loving relationship.

I agree with everything you said except that I have never in my life been around any group of men who "bond over how much they hate women."...

This isn't a "not all guys" response...

Edit- I think, in a roundabout way, this is actually a "not all guys" response after reading the response to it. Sorry for the misrepresentation.

I hope you realize that all men hate women.

Today at the YMCA I finally had enough. This is the 5th time I have had an uncomfortable situation with a man, in which no action was taken in my defense.

Some man with his 2 little boys was leering at me, making kissy faces at me while I was trying to do down dog so I moved to another side of the room and he moved chairs to keep staring. In front of his children

The next incident involved a very flamboyant man doing dead lifts with see through shorts that left NOTHING to the imagination. Reminder that this is a family gym and there were high schoolers looking and laughing at him. Management was informed and no action was taken.

yikes, cool it with the homophobic remarks sweaty

The 3rd incident involves an unsupervised child knocking over my water bottle and spilling water all over my phone but I felt like I would just be considered a b-word if I spoke up

The 4th happened on Monday when a teenager that's a full foot taller and at least 80 pounds heavier shoulder checked me in the hallway! Like, so hard that I hit the wall

As I exit, these two older grandpa looking men seem to coming in so I try to hold the door to be polite. They wave to me that they are staying outside and I move on

one of the grandpas is now pushing the other sled RIGHT NEXT TO MINE even though there's no one else on the patio and lots of open space.

half way through my last run (I'm pulling 100 lbs and walking backwards) I RUN INTO THIS GRANDPA BECAUSE FOR SOME REASON HE'S RIGHT BEHIND ME.

I freak out because I'm startled and I hit my Achilles tendon on his fricking sled so I tell him to watch out. He just like laughs at me? Smiles or something? So I finish my run and go inside to tell management that he's being unsafe

When I get outside I hear the same person I'd reported to MAKING FUN OF ME to 2 teenagers.

he had the audacity to tell me I was in the wrong because the old man is disabled

What do you think? Was I being dramatic?

yes

Y'know, if you're prepared to quit anyway, I'd keep going until someone was a creep again. And then, just fricking unload on him, both barrels. Verbally, of course. It will be cathartic for you and hopefully humiliating for him. What are they gonna do, kick you out?

Bro you go to the YMCA for the gym? Mistake number 1😮😮😮 always a fricking mistake.

It is never someone's mistake for being harassed or assaulted. Your comment has victim blaming all over it. We should not be accepting that we should just avoid certain public places because they are poorly run. Yes of course we should take our business elsewhere and report it, but what I mean is it should not be acceptable behaviour ANYWHERE.

victim blaming??!?

The Y is a christian organization, hence the misogyny. Good luck.

The YMCA is an evangelical Christian organisation, I don't want to be negative but it'll be full of small minded patriarchal attitudes. I worked for them 20ish years ago and remember the homophobic comments from one of the directors. You're better to give your cash and patronage to somewhere without this background.

the Y is a Christo-fascist organization

I don't like that you said “flamboyant man” to describe the man.

While most people look at the Y as a gym, look at its name. It is the Young Men's Christian Association. It is theoretically religious in nature. If they feel it is their religious right to discriminate or disregard women, then they can legally do so. I'm not defending them. Just pointing out their buttholery. There is something telling when you look at their mission statement as opposed to the one for the YWCA. Unless you find something specifically in the rules for the YMCA which states their behavior towards you was against those rules, you are screwed. As for the YWCA, their mission statement specifically states that women have the right to be safe and chose the direction of their lives. I didn't see anything like that for the men's.

I've never had as many awful experiences at a gym as I have at the Y, I don't know what it is about that place. The absolute worst was the time I caught a guy masturbating while watching me work out.

That is sexual assault!

All of these are male aggression, even if they are smiling and talking softly, and whatever they spin it as: "just being friendly", "paying a compliment", and the stinking "men can't help it", etc. This is not even about you personally or their sexual gratification. It's about power and misogyny. They see a woman and immediately decide to play their sick dominance game because they think they are entitled to do so to any woman. They want to make you uncomfortable and feed on your nervousness and internal struggles. Don't ever let them make you doubt yourself and your demand

Just yesterday in some gym-related post I've seen a ton of gaslighting comments about how women exaggerate gym creeps problem and how no one cares about you in the gym (unless you're wearing 'attention seeking' clothes, then apparently everybody is allowed to stare and harass you). Bullshit.

Why are men so unwilling to even entertain the idea that they might be in the wrong??

Be sure to give them negative reviews on Google Maps, Facebook, Twitter, etc.

I just went to a steam room at the Y which is coed. Older dude kept trying to talk to me. I gave a couple short responses and eventually left to wait for my bf to come in with me since I just didn't want to deal with it. When I came back (my bf was on his way) dude kept talking to me asking crazy shit “are you in high school?” “Which Y do you go to?” WTF I couldn't believe it. This is out of pocket or is it just me?

Co-ed steam room? I don't think those exist, she probably just ran into a

Just your average manic pixie BPD babe rage posting

>his snap score went up by one

This is a long distance relationship btw, they lived together for two years.

>not going to give entire history but long story short my bf deleted snap because he used it to cheat on me for 2 years of our relationship

>redownloaded it behind my back

>bla bla bla

>i’m going insane. his snap score just went up

>by one. fricking one. and my heart is racing and i’m about to blow up his phone.

>my behaviors are not healthy

Smartest BPD foid

She's also been active in /r/bedbugs

https://old.reddit.com/r/Bedbugs/comments/13eijhh/bedbugs_have_made_me_and_my_boyfriend_lose_our/?sort=controversial

No surprise that she's also a drug addict who drinks cough syrup

So. Do _you_ think BPD girlpeepee is worth it?

an unbelieveable !foidmoment

https://old.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/182zfnz/one_of_the_worst_things_about_being_a_woman?sort=controversial

All The Men I believe to be my friends want to sleep with me.

So, I'd originally tried to post this on /r/AmItheAsshole, BUT it doesn't fit guidelines. I figured I would try it here, as I'm sure a lot of XXC can relate. I know it sounds ridiculous but I really cannot tell. That's why I need an objective opinion if I'm the problem here.

I'm a 25F social party type, happily single and doing my thing. I have a lot of male friends I met through the industry I work in that I hang out with and see almost daily. While I'm a natural flirt because of the industry, I keep my s*x life(which has slowed SIGNIFICANTLY since my early 20's) private and out of the same social circle I leave my day-to-day in.

I have a few male friends who I love dearly. We go out and see movies, to dinner, etc., and I've always enjoyed their company platonically. Since I'm single, I don't mind jumping on a homie's back or letting them hold doors open for me, a little soft flirting; but I've always felt like generally, it was a platonic agreement. Split bills, wingmanning eachother, etc. I've always stayed vocal about my actual crushes, implying that I respectfully don't have romantic feelings for my male friends.

I stayed over at one of my male friends' house after drinking (we were both super drunk) and he tried to make a sexual move on me, and I admitted to him I wasn't interested in having s*x with him. Frustrated, he sighed and said, "You'll have s*x with (the name of my crush), but not with me?" The rest of the night I sobered up and got a little paranoid.

This has happened a few times now with men who allow me to lean on them (taking me to the beach, helping me lift furniture, etc) even though I always keep the mood goofy and platonic, and I don't understand why me hanging out with guys isn't how it is with girls. Even though I'm sexually attracted women, I don't expect to sleep with women when I get too close to them; I see them as friends when they are just friends.

But my male friends seem to get frustrated that I'm around them but not opening up sexually. I don't know if it's selfish for me to be so close to straight men that I don't want to sleep with, but admittedly I felt like it was too good to be true to have a safe relationship with a man, as a friend, without feeling pressured to have s*x with him.

Maybe for them it's opposite. Maybe it's frustrating having a liberated person like me around, that doesn't want to have s*x with them.

Is it too good to be true for me to be hanging out with them and enjoying their company and laughing and gently flirting, when, I'm not interested in having s*x with them? Like, at all?

*EDIT: I do want to clarify that I am not mad that people become attracted to me. I get mad when it leads them to try and have s*x with me when I'm alone with them.

*EDIT Pt. 2 I flirt because as a bartender, it is part of my nature. I flirt casually with absolutely everybody. I understand the comments saying the flirting is the problem, but I also think for context it's important to know that flirting is second nature in the bar industry.

He said to me, “she's beautiful. She's quiet, she's simple, she's not annoying. She doesn't nag me. She doesn't argue, she's not combative. She's not fat and she's not lazy. She's fun, she's spontaneous. I forget about my troubles when I'm around her. She makes my life easier oppose to complicating it like you. She's just everything that you're not anymore but you use to be. She's a younger version of you. She reminded me of you 15 years ago”

Proving yet again if a woman is having marriage problems it's because she either doesn't put out, got fat, or is a nagging b-word. In this case all three.

Imagine spending $2k to go on a cruise and having to lock up your room like you’re in the Last of Us pic.twitter.com/TLptm4I4pJ

— Asscela Express (@biz_socks) December 25, 2023

!foidmoment

Imagine spending $2k to go on a cruise and having to lock up your room like you're in the Last of Us

Clearly this is just a predatory male feminist who is pretending to be gay to get women to let their guard down

Women doing this is the same as guys surveying the entries and exits to a room, or strategizing what they'd do if someone opened fire

It's a little weird but not unhealthy. We're all still programmed for Neolithic life — being stalked by big predators in the night

RETVRN neighbors are so cringe

True crime-obsessed women will do anything except buy a gun

Women will really do anything but buy a gun

I wonder why people on cruises are having to lock their shit up this badly in 2023?

White women live in a universe in which you're never more than a few moments away from being trafficked if you let your guard down for even a second

This is like locking up a Funko Pop in Fort Knox.

This isint about safety, its about wanting be feel scared. God i hate women

I am so jealous of my boyfriend's girlfriend.

My partner and I of seven years decided to be in an open relationship about a year ago. He stated he didn't want poly but really just s*x and fun connections and what not. Well he met someone and now he spends half his time with her. They go away for days at a time, I am forced to Google schedule time together otherwise he fills up his time with her, I don't feel like a priority. He says I am and I expressed that they are spending too much time together but it has seemed to fall on deaf ears. He had told me time and again if it came down to it he would chose me. While I didn't give him an ultimatum he told me a couple days ago that he won't break up with her and that if I cannot handle this new change in the relationship then essentially it will end. I am absolutely gutted. I feel like this is the beginning of the end. He said if at any point we need to shut it down we could but now he has changed his mind. He spends time with her family and goes away on little trips and runs when she calls crying and I feel like this is going to tear me apart. He is a good man but all I think now is that he is choosing someone else. If I don't put up with this then it's over. He knows I am upset and I can't help it. I feel like my anxiety and sadness over this will push him into her arms and home will not be a place he wants to be anymore. I feel like he bait and switched me and now I'm sharing the love of my life 50/50 without a choice. Less than that because our of the 50 percent he is at home, his work and friends and other life stuff needs to be addressed. It was my idea to open the relationship and I feel like I am losing him and I feel like I will lose him.

Had this sent to me a hundred times yesterday, held off til more details came out.

Now that they have, what should the punishment be for this girl who blatantly lied & sewered a small business in hopes of going viral?

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— Dante (@DanteTheDon) March 14, 2024

She's nuked all her socials already.

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https://old.reddit.com/r/chicago/comments/1bes198/hubbard_inn_responds_to_tiktokers_allegation_of/?sort=controversial

https://old.reddit.com/r/ImTheMainCharacter/comments/1bf44vp/hubbard_inn_responds_to_morons_allegations_of/?sort=controversial

https://old.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/1bf1wgx/to_lie_about_being_pushed_down_the_stairs_by_bar/?sort=controversial

https://old.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/1beu34j/hubbard_inn_responds_to_tiktokers_allegation_of/?sort=controversial

The top choices of lies that men tell women that infuriates women are:

1. Once he has a child, he'll be forced to grow up.

2. "The relationship will work if you just try harder!" from Long TDS sufferer /u/kittykowalski

3. "Women don't get along."

4. “I want a submissive gf/wife” he says when he can't even lead his own darn life || this one is from fauxmoi poster /u/ditovontease who has accumulated half a million karma in a few years by posting to subs like /r/30plusskincare and /r/AdvancedAstrology

5. “You'll want children one day” by /u/rosegoldfern who just posted a thread 30 minutes ago seething about age gaps, in between posts about Monster High dolls and children's television shows.

6. An actually valid one at #6 with “You don't like this sexual act because you haven't tried it with me yet." although this is invariably correct when it's said.

7. Whenever they try to tell me I'll end up living alone with only my cats for company like that's a bad thing 😂 B-word, that's what I aspire for my life || Basic literacy indicates that this is a true statement, as she literally says it is, so????

8. “I don't know how to use a washing machine you have to show me” which seems to be a constant refrain in TwoX threads to the point where I'm actually starting to believe that there are scrotes who say this? !fellas is this true?

9. Man with blue balls: “You have to help, it hurts!” || Also not a lie? Do the women misunderstand their own thread or am I out of touch and missing some slang here or

10. This is actually nowhere near as interesting or funny as I thought it would be and I realized that very quickly. But I need dramashekels for vaccines so I'd appreciate it a lot if you pretended this was a really good thread and upvoted it anyway please.

https://old.reddit.com/r/stupidpol/comments/13wo0as/where_do_you_go_after_accepting_a_radfem_or/?sort=controversial

The op asks a question about living a rad fem existence and foid number one responds:

Can't speak to the racial side since I'm white as these things are currently measured.

Radfems who are that pessimistic about men are generally some degree of separatist.

I don't know any who have actually gone full "move to a commune and don't speak to men at all," but online I've encountered a couple "hire female professionals as much as possible and keep emotional distance from men you can't avoid." If they're straight and single they generally resign themselves to being celibate.

Honestly they're less likely to be the people chanting about men being trash, as they really try to avoid thinking about/interacting with men at all.

Irl I don't know any feminists who even go that far. I'm probably the most pessimistic person I know about gender relations, but I don't think men are "inherently and essentially evil." More like I'm hyper aware of bad dynamics that have bitten me in the past and therefore cautious around men I don't know well.

I haven't dropped my male friends but I'm actively trying to make more female ones. Since I'm bi I have the luxury of only dating women, though of course that comes with its own issues.

I don't know if your question was rhetorical but I hope that helps if you were actually curious.

an errant foid responds:

From rather similar experience, I'd say homophobia and also that it's obviously more difficult to create a family with a same-s*x partner than it is with an opposite-s*x partner.

It's still worth it in my view. Like I know men are not innately this or that way, but the socialisation weighs heavy. You'll say there's no solid proof but the anecdotal evidence of 30+ years as a woman on this planet is eloquent enough for me. I'm not in the mood to do any emotional labour in that regard. People already bring enough of their miseries into the cocktail shaker that is a relationship regardless of their s*x, but I as a woman don't want the added bullshit of a male-female relationship.

and then this gay chad obliterates her:

That’s just the female tendency to hyperfocus on everything that’s bad for them and ignore everything that works in their favor, which is why I’m grateful I was born a gay man and was spared from dealing with this bullshit. The holier than thou attitude, the gender roles for thee and not for me mentality, the burden of performance they place on men in courting and in s*x, the weaponization of intimacy, the necessity of constantly perform mind reading in order to appease them, the necessity to let them have the last word or else suffer the consequences while they gaslight you by saying there’s nothing wrong, that they’re not mad and that they’re not treating them any differently.

I fully acknowledge male imperfections and accept them, as someone who is attracted to men. Many women, feminists in particular, believe they were spared from the original sin by virtue of their different socialization. They vehemently believe they’re more virtuous and refuse to acknowledge the possibility of there being a dark side to femininity too. And since a huge part of male socialization is about giving in to the whims of women in order for them to shut the frick up or in the hopes that they’ll be more pleasant to them if they do so, society has committed to the goal of reprogramming men to make them more like women.

There are many things that annoy me about guys, but in the end of the day, you always feel like equals. You never really feel like you’re dealing with a fragile being who’s afforded the social protections of a child, but with the mental and legal benefits of adulthood. And you can just call out their bullshit if you want, there’s no social shield protecting them, like you’re attacking all men in the world for calling out the bullshit of one. Dudes rock.

an errant moid is reminded he may or may not have functioning testicles:

This almost made me want to switch to new Reddit just to see if there’s some sort of standing ovation gif I could post.

but the foid is skeptical (he could be a sekrit incel):

for a gay guy you sure seem to have a lot of feelings about what dating women is like.

and the gay chad strikes back in full glory:

So what? Like I’ll be judged by people who treat the words of lesbian women with daddy issues about what men think like gospel. Lol. Tell me about lack of self awareness.

Like anyone needs to actually date a woman to see the “subtleties” of men-women relationships. All you need is the lack of an obscene in-group bias to see the constant nagging and all the dynamics I mentioned above. I mean, straight men see it themselves, it’s just that they treat it with humor, as opposed to creating a whole movement and drain resources to address that (those are all comedy tropes for a reason, after all).

Lucky for you, I guess. You would lose many things you take for granted and live in a much darker world if they decided to pay in the same coin and weaponize every single disparity in relationships, every single interaction where women have the upper hand and decide to give silly names to the things they dislike, like “ovaryacting”, in the same vein feminists have done to demonize men. Or if they decided they’ll no longer perform the gender roles society and women specifically still expect of them, even those who don’t want to be restricted by gender roles themselves.

another moid has his jimmies sufficiently rustled to respond:

Holy shit man, I couldn’t have said it better myself. It’s honestly crazy how most straight guys I know share these opinions in private but toe the line outside that context to avoid the inevitable crying meltdown and social scourging.

Turns out that we’re just as tired of women’s shit as women are of men’s shit, we just don’t walk around in public hysterics about it day-to-day.

and as usual, the raving, hysterical foid must have the last word:

you're reading this thread and seeing the women as hysterical? That's fascinating.

@pizzashill would love this

Direct link if you speak Fr*nch

The number of matches on a dating app has absolutely nothing to do with how easy it is to have s*x or not.

Until proven otherwise, it takes (at least) two to sleep, and therefore, unless you adhere to the myth that only a minority of guys attract women, there are as many guys who sleep as there are. sleeping women.

Thank you for this post!

This is an opinion not popular only among men unfortunately...

But I completely agree with what you say and like you I found the post you refer to shocking, how it is possible to be so disconnected from reality is beyond me. It's necessarily guys who have NEVER exchanged with women on the subject

Can't wait for men to deconstruct themselves a little and start to have a step back on the education they received

PS: I'm a man

!foidmoment

OP

Boyfriend(22M) couldn't stop liking half naked pictures of other women so I(21F) posted one of myself.

Alright my (22M) boyfriend has started following a lot of instagram women. Not regular ones I don't mind those but particularly the ones in lingerie, and with their butt out. Even was watching their OF. I(21F) told him it made me uncomfortable and to stop but his response was “it's just Instagram”.. “you're doin too much”.. “it's not that serious” and he kept doing it.. well I posted some pictures of me in a g string bikini.. butt out and all, he saw it and started freakin out. Slamming doors and yelling.. He was like “ew you don't respect yourself, gurls who do that are hoes.. that's embarrassing I don't want my gf doing that bro that's weird..” and he is mad like really mad. I He told me to take it down and I said “no isn't this wat you like to see” and his response again was “you're in a relationship why would you do that..” and I said “im only postin wat you like” after i said that he started ignoring me it's been hours and honestly idc. I don't feel bad at all.. for months I was uncomfortable and asked him to stop and he couldn't so yea. Now he's a victim of a crime he participates in ☺️

Could be a bait account but

Her other posts https://old.reddit.com/user/Ok_Computer2422/submitted

My (21F) boyfriend (22M)wants a threesome.. but I feel that he wants to just frick other women. : r/relationships

I'm mentally and physically drained. : r/NarcissisticAbuse

Trying to escape the poverty cycle.. : r/internetparents

Normally I would say that's childish, but yeah no. You gave him a different perspective. I'd dig it even further, and say now other men like him can follow you, and like your pics.

This is great way to keep a man around

That's the definition of double standard in a nutshell. It's all fine and dandy (in his mind) when it's someone across the screen but as soon as it's HIS girl, it's a moral outrage.

Now these foids get it Will they learn anything from it?

Please keep us updated! I'm hoping your next BF is much more understanding!

Both of you seem insufferable.

Realest comment there.

omg, this is disgusting. where?

The brilliant OP seems to mostly sneed in the Vaush subreddit about "Gays Against Grooming", girldick in lockerrooms and people mocking Lizzo

From the thread:

The NISVS includes using lies or false promises to obtain s*x in their definition of sexual coercion. For example, pretending to be someone's S.O., pretending to be a celebrity, lying about relationship status or relationship potential are all forms of sexual coercion that cross the line

/r/stoprape

It's certainly coercion and that is sexual assault. I'd think this should be considered r*pe too.

he's acting as if tricking a woman into fricking him is a sport, and THAT IS THE BIGGER PROBLEM I see happening here.

This is the kind of behavior that makes women weary of men as a group, because this behavior of "treat women like prey!" is way too common and not called out enough for what it is which is gross and unacceptable.

This guy is scummy....absolutely doesn’t make the s*x r*pe.

I agree this isn't the same thing as r*pes shown on Law and Order. Please include your definition r*pe.

Yeah I just…I transitioned twenty years ago. Moved on with my life and just sort of faded into the woodwork for years.

There are a few guys I was intimate with that I never told about my past.

this is different sweaty

They would never find his body pic.twitter.com/U5aDo6o1Do

— idiot millennial poodle (@GrrlGhost) June 9, 2023

This video itself is but many foids can help but fall for it hook, line and sinker

Men are psychotic! WTF?

We’re at the point now where men proudly boast on the internet that they tamper with their girlfriend’s food, make it about himself, & frame it as some sort of “I’m the good guy here actually”

What this dude did, is abuse. It may not look like it, or sound like it to most people, but he cares more about his comfort and control, than he will ever care about the actual person HE DECIDED TO EXPERIMENT ON. She isn't a person to him, she's a possession.

I’m someone who really hates diet culture and I still think secretary switching her drink (or food) like that really isn’t ok.

>diet culture

I want to know how is anyone supposed to laugh at this. Because if the person that enacted this found that comedic enough to expect people not to be horrified at a man tampering with what goes in his PARTNER's BODY, this tells me a lot about this so-called comedian.

THIS IS R*PE

White culture really is fascinating according to the comments they take Diet Coke very seriously 🥸

i would be dissolving his body in acid and smashing his teeth with a hammer so he couldn’t be identified by dental records and then i would feed his remains to sharks

Why do men feel the need to do this? Why do you need to control what a woman is allowed to enjoy? Why can’t you just leave us the frick alone?

This ambushy bullshit “because you care” Because “ I just want you to see how beautiful/ desirable/ smart you are” Are straight up control issues masked in help .. And the actual issue is for a lot of folks Unless It’s a cis man? They think it’s cute

The most toxic and abusive men always turn out to be these twerpy little metrosexual feminists

Kylie Palm, a biological male, pretended to be pregnant and then said he had a still birth. He raised money to help with his grief. He attended birthing classes with women, some of who were kicked out of the class for saying he was a man pretending to be pregnant. pic.twitter.com/ntiZBAqoed

— Pit and Pendulum (@PitandPendulum5) April 4, 2023

It's called Mpreg and there's a community, some of these guys also demand access to stillbirth support groups.

Her new sub is /r/FemReckoning. It has over a thousand members in 13 hours. I’ve joined and so should you. Don’t worry, it’s not trans-exclusionary or chudly in any way. /r/FemReckoning’s description explains:

Anyway, back to the reason /r/FemReckoning was founded:

Apparently yesterday there was a big thread in which people excused a m*n for not cleaning his gf’s pod, and these were men. I can’t find the thread and I searched clean and checked all of them in the past week on TwoX.

Based on OP’s post herstory, I think it was this thread though, “To The Woman Who Dumped Her Lazy G*mer Boyfriend… YOU MADE THE RIGHT CALL”. Now here’s where things get confusing. OP has a handful of comments in the thread, almost all of them are fighting with some triple digit karma account called /u/bomberbil who was heavily downvoted and jannied by the TwoX mods. All of the other thousands of comments are you-go-gurling, like dumping some loser you let nut inside you for months is an achievement and not something to be ashamed of in the first place

Bomberbil’s argument seems to hinge on the same theoreticals used by the FemReckoning woman, which is to say that if someone isn’t cleaning, it’s probably because they have health issues. She goes on about this in her FemReckoning post at length, to the point that she explains some women can’t clean because they’re allergic to mold

Select highlights from the FR announcement thread:

In the jannie pin -

Dear men: please read rule 4 and the FAQ, whatever you're planning to comment in this thread probably breaks rule 4.

Just asking cuz I'm on mobile. Is rule 4 "RELEVANCE"

Thank you

Why is it so hard to find the rules on mobile when most people use it? 🙃 reddit makes no sense sometimes

I will say your comment is irrelevant to the discussion topic. Also I'm using a third party app so it's less clear because I don't usually need to look at the rules. [-78]

Further down in the jannie-pinned comment I have no idea what happened, but I assume the scrotes got uppity because it’s just [removed], [removed], [removed] :( is there an unddit replacement yet?

I regret typing so much already bc there’s tons of nuked comment chains at the bottom of the thread but they’re completely unrecoverable

Regardless, /r/FemReckoning. Approval for year-old non-troll accounts with good faith post history only. Dust off those accounts ladies.

Requirements for posting:

no drama yet but lmfao

https://old.reddit.com/r/femreckoning/comments/13cogb9/the_hallowed_ban_hammer_has_swung/?sort=controversial