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Currently trying to start our taxes, but living in a community property state (WA) filing separately to keep her payment low seems complicated (I make a good bit more than her, she recently started her own business). She's on SAVE with Mohela and has 210k of direct loans for PT school (originally 150k, has been on IBR since 2014 I think). We have one child. I hate that this whole thing gives me some sort of regret about getting married (on paper), such a broken and frustrating system. Thanks for listening - any advice or resources is much appreciated!
How can you marry someone without looking at and discussing their and you're finances?
@hypernovasaiz love sucking peepee.
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Dances with Wolves
— Lilac&Halo (@Lilac_n_Halo) December 12, 2024
#ブルアカ pic.twitter.com/nDujOEfZrl
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Karnataka INC Govt announces 15% hike in bus fares from 5th January.
— News Arena India (@NewsArenaIndia) January 2, 2025
Husband paid for both in any case. Now state is her hubby.
THE INCEL REVOLUTION WILL NOT BE TELEVISED
Don't believe your lying reason chud
You didn't give them water for 6000 years chud REEEEEEE
Wait was that the right one?
Chamars steal seats without paying in unis and femoids steal seats without paying in public transport. Vishwaguru
Protest the Incel Tax
Down with the apartheid
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!terfs !transphobes !chuds what do you folx think of the hot takes in this thread so far?
This is an easy/obvious one as I'm seeing it already play out IRL and I live, work and volunteer very near an epicenter of wokeness. I think Katie's right that it was a trend. So we will see more mainstreaming of memory holing (kind of like what we're seeing with Jesse and Briana Wu). We are not supposed to expect apologies for wrong doing after someone switches their stance.
This is really interesting. Probably the wokest person I'm Facebook friends with has two young sons and she regularly posts that she is very concerned that they don't recognize their male privilege, that their hobbies could encourage toxic masculinity, and that she hasn't done enough to get them to hate the patriarchy as much as she does. It's very easy for me to see the generation with Millennial parents grow up thinking all that stuff is as uncool as I thought disco and bell bottoms were.
I think it's very likely, given the circumstances of how he won this time and how the culture has changed since 2016, that the opposition to Trump will be far different this time around.
There will not be a revival of the #resistance style politics which dominated the first Trump term. This largely consisted of vocal direct opposition, an increase in celebrity figures engaging in political commentary, the belief that the US needed to "fundamentally reexamine" itself to come to terms with its historical sins. Also, a fundamental organizing principle behind this style of politics is that progressive identity politics are an essential and effective tactic for mobilizing people in opposition to Trumpism.
Overall, while there will still be attempts to revive this brand of politics, and you can't fully get rid of an idea, I think it has retreated significantly. With Trump making gains among non-white voters and winning the popular vote, there will be more prominent voices arguing for a less identity-centric approach to political messaging. At best, opposition to Trump will be more calculated and strategic, but at the minimum it will not be like it was eight years ago.
Something r-slurred will happen again
A BreadTuber or Twitch streamer will say something gross about children and not really face any long-term repercussions over it. Very possibly, it will be Vaush again.
Not taking much of a risk predicting it since it happens every year.
Trump and Elon Musk turn on each other.
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https://old.reddit.com/r/NewOrleans/comments/1hr0apj/someone_drove_a_truck_through_the_crowd_on/
https://old.reddit.com/r/NewOrleans/comments/1hr0jil/vehicle_plows_into_french_quarter_crowd/
https://old.reddit.com/r/news/comments/1hr0u5n/reported_fatalities_in_new_orleans_as_vehicle/
lots of shots going off at the end of this video
BREAKING: Numerous people dead, dozens injured after car plows through crowd in New Orleans, Louisiana https://t.co/LvDAgQBWks
— Intel Point Alert (@IntelPointAlert) January 1, 2025
/pol/ has wpds of the aftermath if you're a sick fricker
https://boards.4chan.org/pol/thread/492978248
I've seen rumors the driver was in full body armor with an AK and the coppers had to pop him in the head
What a way to start the New Year!
- Aevann : who?
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WELL WELL WELL
Not a great way to start 2025 with the death and destruction and all but it's good to know I'll be right about everything all the time in every way for yet another year
!friendsofcarp !friendsofkong !friendsofcinnamoroll !rightchads !neverwronggang !howdoeshedoit !howdidheknow !howdoyoudoitcarp !everyone
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You're so sweet
Can't get enough
Kill me with
Your sugar rush
Tell me why
I like the way you get me high
So alive
That you just make me wanna die
Tell me why
Why I still want you to be mine
You're a poison in my mind
Stop my heart and hope to die
Candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide, suicide
You're a lie
That I can trust
Only love
When I'm fricked up
Tell me why
I like the way you get me high
So alive
That you just make me wanna die
Tell me why
Why I still want you to be mine
You're a poison in my mind
Stop my heart and hope to die
Candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
Don't know what's wrong with me
But the temptation is stronger than me
Don't know what's wrong with me
But the temptation is stronger than me
Don't know what's wrong with me
But the temptation is stronger than me
Don't know what's wrong with me
Don't know what's wrong with me
Tell me why
Got me fricked up inside
And you're so sweet that I want to die
Tell me why
Got me fricked up inside
And you're so sweet that I want to die
Tell me why
Got me fricked up inside
And you're so sweet that I want to die
Tell me why
Got me fricked up inside
And you're so sweet that I want to die
Candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide
(You're my) candy coated suicide, suicide
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The a i app i downloaded was FaceDance btw
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Sweden cuts funding
https://old.reddit.com/r/europe/comments/1higdpq/sweden_will_no_longer_fund_unrwa_aid_agency/
https://old.reddit.com/r/UnitedNations/comments/1hieqby/sweden_will_no_longer_fund_unrwa_aid_agency/
Evacuate
Schools are full of terrorists
Bork bork
https://old.reddit.com/r/sweden/comments/1hifilt/sverige_stoppar_stödet_till_fns_hjälporganisation/
https://old.reddit.com/r/svenskpolitik/comments/1hiehua/sverige_slopar_stödet_till_unrwa/
https://old.reddit.com/r/Sverige/comments/1hjnjyq/sweden_ends_funding_for_un_palestinian_aid_agency/
Based Fetterman
Coping because the unrwa sucks
Hamas still steals from them
https://old.reddit.com/r/worldnews/comments/1hlhcz4/palestinian_armed_actors_seize_unrwas_jenin/
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https://old.reddit.com/r/Vent/comments/1hto4io/ive_been_throwing_my_own_shit_outside_of_the/
I've been throwing my own shit outside of the window for 7 months.
I'm very ashamed. I know it's wrong. I'd never even consider fricking doing this, if I didn't live in this absolutely shitty fricking house. It's terrible. It's all catching up to me and I can't deal with this shit I can't.
My parents are the shittiest parents. Most likely not ever, but that's the lowest bar you could give them to hop over. They're cruel, and mean and terrible as frick. This house has been rotting for years. There's a family of squirrels in the attic that I can hear every single night. No door works. None of them. I have an neurodivergent sibling I have to look after every single day of my life. The ceilings are terrible and are rotting, stuck together by duck tape. The plumbing hasn't worked for 3 years now since they first bought this abandoned shit hole and thought they could turn it around. My father figure parent is so stubborn and thinks they're doing everything so perfectly.
Our potty upstairs has never worked. Never actually flushed. I used the basement bathroom, (all three bathrooms in the house are put together by a former drug addict that they found who could do it for cheap. They got what they paid for) in the basement until last week. Where that broke, and the shower flooded with potty paper and shit that it spat out. Because the potty and the shower are connected(??) I don't know how anything works.
So now I've had no access to a bathroom for a week, besides my parents bathroom. But I can't fricking deal with them. They're verbally abusive buttholes who insult me and I can't wait until I get out of here in 6 months. I have to use the last shower and bathroom (that also doesn't work all the way) and I have to pray to god they're in a good fricking mood. Because I can't handle their shit.
And it's probably better to just deal with them instead of pooping upstairs in the broken bathroom, and digging it out of the potty (THROWING UP as I am typing this) and then throwing it out of the window. But I do not want to talk to them. Like I'd give anything not to be in the same room as them.
I probably sound like a spoiled b-word right now without all the context. But I'm like so tired and grossed out right now I can't deal with it. I need to get out.
EDIT: I would like to say, I'm so very thankful for everyone who has been kind and given me some advice. I've upmarseyd all of the comments I can as well as responded to every PM, and tried to respond to all of the comments. There were many general questions that I could not answer because it got too repetitive.
I won't be calling authorities. CPS and Social Services were previously called for a physical abuse situation when I was 12. I was consequently pulled out of school, and forced to be home 24/7. I'm not scared of this happening now, I just don't want to deal with my parents and their animosity even more.
I am 17. I've gotten accepted to a college in Rochester, Michigan. Not the best student in high school , ( for obvious , personal reasons) but I made it into a 4 year university where I will go before I try for my Law Degree in 3 or 4 years.
My brother is in a compromising situation as well. My parents treat him significantly better, for the little time they have him before dumping him off onto me for the rest of the day. Usually when he gets home from school, I have to watch him.
A lot of these situations are very bad, like the main point, the "shitty situation" lol. I have one more day until school is back. I'll try to be using the locker room showers there, and also the bathrooms there as well. I don't eat much at home anyways so hopefully I don't have to shit, lol again at that.
Thank you everyone have a great night.
UPDATE:
Wow this blew up even more. Once again I thank you for everyone having assisted me and offered me help. Even down to giving me advice for my future career path and how to deal with the situations at home. I cannot respond to everyone unfortunately, so I wanted to take time and answer some frequent questions.
Call CPS. This is insane with how much I get this one x and I understand the logic in it, however some of you all have gotten so offended at me not doing it you've gone to the point of attacking and harassing me in my DMS because of it.
I won't call social services, that's just not a possibility right now. It's not as simple as "why won't you call CPS?" The types of parents who are willing to abuse and neglect their children, are the types to harm them if they report any type of abuse.
Down to physical harm or just things that a parent have control over (financial, educational, not taking me to school etc.)
2. Call a friend/ a friends mom. This is something very considerable but I have no friends. It would never work. My parents took me out of school shortly before I called CPS 5 years ago, and put me in an online school. I was there u til my sophomore year of high school. This naturally affected my development skills and withheld me from making actual connections. Also, a lot of friends are made in freshman year of high school. After that you're joining in just hoping someone picks you up. That didn't work for me.
3. "Buy a portable potty/use a bag/pour gallons of water into the potty". My parents are very restrictive of me. I can't leave out of the house without asking , even if it's for a chore like taking the trash out. They don't want to deal with me a lot of the time so they keep my locked upstairs unless they've left the house. I can't even eat without asking.
4. "Gym membership" this is a smart tip and I'd use it if there were any gyms near the metro Detroit area but unfortunately there aren't, at least that I know of. And there's the transportation issue. School is coming soon, so I will try to take showers in the locker room. Might be able to convince them to let me use the school washing machine.
5. Therapy / guidance counselor. There is no doubt in my mind I've some type of mental health issues or trauma. My parents don't believe in that really, so they aren't very supportive of me wanting to get help. My guidance counselor is a nice woman but it's the same situation with not going to CPS or SS. Too much ruckus and I just need to endure.
6. Military or Air Force is my last resort. I appreciate what it has to offer but I'm slightly reserved to the idea of joining. Leaving one situation with a lot of verbal and physical abuse , for the military honestly sounds like picking poisons. But what I've heard may just be stereotypes so I'm not reserved to the idea. However, I want stability and peace and I don't think the military is known for tranquility.
Thank you once again for the support. Hope I cleared up what I could for you all.
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the dejenerate podcast - singing 21:18
He started saying thing as "ting" like he's a Jamaican from Toronto. I have no idea why, but he does this multiple times in the video and it sticks out a lot.
- Jinxthinker has found a good predator hunting video on facebook, but they shouldn't call libertarians predators because it sounds too cool. He examines the countenance of the libertarian; this is apparently a well known libertarian who never gets arrested and sounds like a b-word.
1:45 He watched a good episode of American Dad recently possibly via his sister's Amazon Prime.
2:10 before he finishes the story he gets distracted by the libertarian hunter video
2:40 He deduces that the libertarian is likely married to a woman because woman are attracted to libertarians these days.
3:00 All criminals are right wing. Jinxthinker is bougie & American Dad is a bougie TV show- it's very deep. We don't talk about The Cleveland Show
3:50 One of the Jinxsisters spoiled Squid Game for him so he's not finishing it. Someone on Facebook called a trans woman a man, and apparently the on Squid Game
gets killed after a bee lands on him. 4:40 Jinxthinker wants to do some singing now. Starts a song, takes a sip, and coughs before singing.
6:10 Jinxthinker wants to buy Stellaris. Continues singing intermittantly
7:00 He had an acceptable masturbation experience yesterday
7:35 Jinxthinker would slit a person's throat for a McDonalds cheeseburger.
8:00 He discusses candy and Monsters he would like and shows some packages/cans to the camera.
9:00 He buys Monsters 4 at a time and drinks 2/day. He also drank all his coffee.
9:35 Rome(?) isn't as nice as vodka or whiskey
10:00 Starts singing again.
11:00 He will go to the shop at 8am. Talks about how America had some slavery in the 1600s to toughen up the negros and make them more badass; compares chattel slavery to hazing. There was no racist slavery until Thomas Jefferson, Washington, and Franklin.
12:10 "Let's get some black people over here. We need to get them into the world economy and tings". Talks about "Kobe Thingymebob with the basketball"
12:30 Jefferson and his homies were the ones that got into racism. Trump and Biden are the same negro.
13:30 Allah is actually a moon god. He knows this because some people did the research and such
14:00 The thing about Squid Game is everyone consented so it's fine.
14:20 Jinxthinker would like to form a separate leper colony of those who were molested. He wouldn't want to like a girl and find out she was molested because that would gross him out because he's not a libertarian.
14:40 He saw an adult playing with childrens toys on Instagram. Likely a libertarian.
15:00 Racism didn't exist prior to the Jeffersons and Ben Franklins of the world existed.
15:30 His chocolate is gone except for some shit with hazelnuts(?)
16:20 America is fricked because it's an Islamist country. He starts singing before he finishes this thought.
17:30 Bush, Cheney, Tony Blair are all Islamists. So is South Korea.
18:00 He's going to explain he Protestant, puritan to Islamist pipeline, but immediately starts talking about Catholics.
18:50 Bush did 9/11 so they could build a Mosque there. Rants about jobs and concludes that Steve Jobs created Apple.
19:50 Let's do one more singing "the Apple don't fall far from the tree" right after talking about Steve Apple. He randomly interjects "do you think I should get an iPhone?"
20:35 He had fish fingers and a sandwich for dinner. Now all his bread is gone. He needs to acquire bread and meat. He wants beef.
!jinxthinkers Do you think it was okay to haze black people with a little slavery if the goal was to make them more badass?
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